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Does Good Sex Matter?

We all like to be good at things - or at least we like to feel like we’re good at things - but what does it even mean to be good at sex, and does being good at sex have any real bearing on whether or not we’re having good sex?

We love orgasms more than most folks - heck, it’s right there in our name! - but it feels like more and more, ‘good sex’ is measured only by the quantity - and possibly duration of - orgasms and not in terms of actual enjoyment or the pleasure we experience in having sex.

Not only do folks have a tendency to make orgasm the goal of sex, but there’s also so much messaging out there about the kinds of orgasms we ought to have (g-spot vs clitoral), but also when we have orgasms (don’t come too soon or too late!), and we’re rated according to the quality and quantity of the orgasms we have and the quality and quantity of the orgasms we give to others.

The popularity of our sex workshops and educational materials is a testament to how much import we place on giving good orgasms. When folks ask us how to give ‘great head’ or how to ‘make’ someone have a g-spot orgasm, we’re always happy to give people tools to learn about technique, but invariably, the real answer is ‘enthusiasm’.

We know it is near impossible to tune out all of the misleading and negative messaging we receive about sexuality throughout our lives, but perhaps we can have sex that actively challenge those ideas about sex. Try something new or that you don’t usually do - you never know what you’ll discover and you’ll be doing your part to change the sexual landscape for all of us!

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We adore Asa Akira, and get the distinct impression that you do too! As such, we've picked up her signature Fleshlight! Featuring seductive pleasure bands, and ribs along the lenght of this sleeve, it's a veritable roller coaster of a sex toy! The exterior vulva design is cast from her vulva (cool, ... (read more)

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This Lifestyles King condom is comparable in length to other Lifestyles condoms (200mm), but features a contoured design with a roomier 56mm head for a better fit and extra-sensitivity.

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At long last, a non-latex condom that’s affordable and provides protection equal to latex. Let us introduce you to LifeStyles SKYN, condoms made of stretchy polyisoprene to provide a more comfortable and custom fit than traditional polyurethane non-latex condoms at half the cost. Unlike, polyurethan ... (read more)

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We're delighted to now be carrying Lifestyle's Skyn Elite condoms. They’re 20% thinner than Skyn Original Condoms - this tends to afford more sensation for anyone wearing the condom. Skyn condoms are made from polyisophrene, a sturdy yet flexible non-latex material. Lubricated with long-lasting lubr ... (read more)

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