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Does Good Sex Matter?

We all like to be good at things - or at least we like to feel like we’re good at things - but what does it even mean to be good at sex, and does being good at sex have any real bearing on whether or not we’re having good sex?

We love orgasms more than most folks - heck, it’s right there in our name! - but it feels like more and more, ‘good sex’ is measured only by the quantity - and possibly duration of - orgasms and not in terms of actual enjoyment or the pleasure we experience in having sex.

Not only do folks have a tendency to make orgasm the goal of sex, but there’s also so much messaging out there about the kinds of orgasms we ought to have (g-spot vs clitoral), but also when we have orgasms (don’t come too soon or too late!), and we’re rated according to the quality and quantity of the orgasms we have and the quality and quantity of the orgasms we give to others.

The popularity of our sex workshops and educational materials is a testament to how much import we place on giving good orgasms. When folks ask us how to give ‘great head’ or how to ‘make’ someone have a g-spot orgasm, we’re always happy to give people tools to learn about technique, but invariably, the real answer is ‘enthusiasm’.

We know it is near impossible to tune out all of the misleading and negative messaging we receive about sexuality throughout our lives, but perhaps we can have sex that actively challenge those ideas about sex. Try something new or that you don’t usually do - you never know what you’ll discover and you’ll be doing your part to change the sexual landscape for all of us!

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new sex toy BsIsNice Bingo Rainbow
This amazingly adorable rainbow plug is the perfect combination of butt plug and anal beads! With waves of smooth silicone that get bigger the deeper you go, this is BSisNice at their best: functional, beautiful, and handmade in Spain - with a touch of whimsy! (3" x 1")

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$62.00 CAD

BsIsNice Ella
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new sex toy BsIsNice Ella
Each year brings us a bright, beautiful new BSisNice "Sport" dildo, and if you haven't met your match or completed an outfit in one of their Pride dildos, or Sport Sock dildos, don't fret - there's always a new design around the corner! This perfectly pink instalment in the series is made of the sa ... (read more) (6" x 1.75")

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$80.00 CAD

BSisNice Oben 1
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new sex toy BSisNice Oben 1
Slip into something silky smooth and made in Spain! The Oben 1 is the smallest in a three-size-set of harness and anal compatible dildos from Barcelona's BS Atelier. Perfect for all sorts of play, and especially well suited to dilation and anal training exercises, these dildos are pretty enough fo ... (read more) (4.5" x 1")

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$60.00 CAD

BSisNice Oben 2
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new sex toy BSisNice Oben 2
Slip into something silky smooth and made in Spain! The Oben 2 is the mid-sized option in a three-size-set of gorgeous harness and anal compatible dildos from Barcelona's BS Atelier. Perfect for all sorts of play, and especially well suited to dilation and anal training exercises, these dildos are ... (read more) (4.72" x 1.1")

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$63.00 CAD

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new sex toy BsIsNice Oben 3
Slip into something silky smooth and made in Spain! The Oben 3 is the largest option in a three-size-set of gorgeous harness and anal compatible dildos from Barcelona's BS Atelier. Perfect for all sorts of play, and especially well suited to dilation and anal training exercises, these dildos are p ... (read more) (5.4" x 1.1")

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$66.00 CAD

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new sex toy BsIsNice Oben Set
Slip into something silky smooth and made in Spain! The Oben harness and anal compatible dildos from Barcelona's BS Atelier are perfect for all sorts of play, and especially well suited to dilation and anal training exercises! These dildos are pretty enough for a glitzy night out and gorgeous enough ... (read more)

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$175.00 CAD

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new sex toy Bunny Tail
Yet more tails from NS Novelties! This charming bunny tail is made with polyester fur, and a silicone plug. Perfect for all the sweet bunnies out there! Easily cleaned with soap and water.

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$23.00 CAD

Doxy Die Cast Massager
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new sex toy Doxy Die Cast Massager
Get your hands - and other body parts - on this remarkably powerful, die-cast version of the UK's Doxy Massager. This amazing plug-in vibrator/massager works with all of your favourite Hitachi Magic Wand attachments, and the variable-speed, LED-lit, push button controls give you all of the control ... (read more) (13.5" )

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$236.00 CAD

Fuze Perk Dildo
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new sex toy Fuze Perk Dildo
This beautiful dildo is an aesthetic marvel. The Fuze Perk has all the right curves, and it even has room for a one-touch or a mini vibe in its base. (6 1/2" x 1 1/2")

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$66.00 CAD

FUZE+ Set of Five Silicone Dilators
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new sex toy FUZE+ Set of Five Silicone Dilators
We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks to their dedication, hard work, and clinical trial ... (read more) (Various" )

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$154.00 CAD

Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo
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As much as we're the biggest sex toy fanboys, our fandom has lead us astray so many times that we've also become hardcore sex toy skeptics. We try to throw the word revolutionary around as little as possible, but once in awhile we ... (read more)

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$140.00 CAD

Landmark Post Surgical Chest Binder
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This binder is available for folks who have booked appointments for chest surgeries. Certain surgeons require their clients to find a compression binder to use during the healing process after their chest surgery - and that's where this pal comes in, since the Underworks binders we offer aren't desi ... (read more)

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$53.00 CAD

Nalone Oxxy
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The Nalone Oxxy offers sound activated and classic vibration options in this Bluetooth enabled device! Enjoy 7 pre-set functions, or, switch over to the Bluetooth enabled audio vibration setting, and synch up this sex toy with your cell phone conversation, music, video games, or whatever other media ... (read more)

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$162.00 CAD

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The fabulous folks at New York Toy Collective have just kept the fabulousness coming all year! If you love their particular brand of super-soft silicone packers, or you've checked out their bendable dildos, but they've all just ... (read more) (7" x 1 3/4")

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$221.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Shilo
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new sex toy New York Toy Collective Shilo
As a worker-owned co-operative ourselves, we tend to swoon whenever we encounter another collective doing good work in the sex toy world - and in the case of the New York Toy Collective's Shilo, we double swooned! Shilo isn't just another strap-on harnes ... (read more) (5 1/2" x 1 1/4")

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$195.00 CAD

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new sex toy Pelvic Therapies LA Wand
Affectionally referred to as the "honey dipper" wand, this acrylic wand is designed to be a little narrower and longer, to better reach into those hard-to-get-to areas. Designed to be anal-friendly, thanks to the ridged end that can be utilized as a handle, or, as a textured end to this product. Ins ... (read more)

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$73.00 CAD

Play Wax UV Reactive Candle
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new sex toy Play Wax UV Reactive Candle
How amazing are these Play Wax candles?! These UV black-light reactive pillar candles are made in Waterloo by a small company, and are available in a huge rainbow of colours. Made with paraffin wax, plus dye and a hardening agent, they're designed specifically for wax play. (6" x 1.4")

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$10.00 CAD

Pony Tail
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new sex toy Pony Tail
These playful long & lustrous tails are an exciting new addition to our tail collection at Come As You Are! Featuring a silicone plug with polyester hair, this toy is perfect for any pony play, role play, cosplay, or other fantastical scenarios that a pony tail would be perfect for! Easily cleaned w ... (read more) (3" x 1.25")

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$28.00 CAD

Pride Colours
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new sex toy Pride Colours
There's very little that says "Pride Season" more than a big ol' six colour rainbow dildo! Made of silicone, this gorgeous Pride dildo comes complete with six insertable inches, smooth balls, and a super powerful suction cup! Anal compatible, harness compatible, and just the thing you need to comp ... (read more) (6" x 1.5")

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$54.00 CAD

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new sex toy Satisfyer 1
Curious to try out suction-based sensation, but looking to do so on a budget? The Satisfyer 1 offers the same sensation opportunities as it's rechargeable counterparts, and for a cheaper price tag! Offering a combination of suction and vibration, this toy is a sensation powerhouse! Nuzzle this toy's ... (read more)

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$42.00 CAD

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new sex toy Tenga Air Tech Twist Custom Strength Cup
Tenga is thrusting the genre of masturbation sleeves solidly into the 21st century! The Twist Series features an internal compression unit that allows you to adjust the tightness of the product! With a twist-and-lock design, the cyberskin sleeve inside the outer plastic case constricts and relaxes w ... (read more)

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$49.00 CAD

Tokidoki Cumulus Bullet Vibrator
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new sex toy Tokidoki Cumulus Bullet Vibrator
This cutie-pie bullet vibe is quite the looker! Covered in playful colourful clouds waving and generally being poofy, cloudy sweeties, there’s a lot to be enraptured by here! This is a one-speed bullet vibrator controlled by a push button at the top that uses a AAA battery, unlike most bullet vibes, ... (read more) (2 1/2" x 5/8")

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$16.00 CAD

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new sex toy Tokidoki Rainbow Bullet Vibrator
These slightly hetero-stylized cutie clouds won’t let the gender binary get in the way of making everyone smile who crosses their path! Featuring rainbows AND lightening bolts, it’s all party all the time here. This is a one-speed bullet vibrator controlled by a push button at the top that uses a AA ... (read more) (2 1/2" x 5/8")

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$16.00 CAD

Tokidoki Unicorn Bullet Vibrator
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new sex toy Tokidoki Unicorn Bullet Vibrator
The magic of unicorns can’t be denied – and we promise this cutie unicorn vibe would add a lotta charm to your sex toy drawer! This is a one-speed bullet vibrator controlled by a push button at the top that uses a AAA battery, unlike most bullet vibes, which use watch batteries or other more compact ... (read more) (2 1/2" x 5/8")

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$16.00 CAD

Tokidoki Unicorn Wand
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new sex toy Tokidoki Unicorn Wand
Well, we’re thinking we should pat ourselves on the back & call it a day, because we don’t think we’ll *EVER* find a vibe to top this! This charming electric vibe features playful stars, clouds, rainbows, and a perfect robin’s egg blue + red handle grip. And, of course, a breathtakingly whimsical un ... (read more)

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$132.00 CAD

Unicorn Tail Plug
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new sex toy Unicorn Tail Plug
A unicorn tail? Ack! We always figured we’d eventually find a puppy, bunny, or fox tail to offer our customers – never did we dream of a unicorn! Made with faux hair (no unicorns were harmed in the making of this tail), this toy features a lustrous, shiny tail attached to a silicone butt plug. Too p ... (read more) (3" x 1 1/4")

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$28.00 CAD

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new sex toy We-Vibe Bloom
We've been waiting our whole lives for the truth about "fake news" to come to light! Heck, our industry has been plagued with fake news since its inception, and we've worked so hard to do our best to bring the truth to light and to dispel this vast multi-winged conspiracy against good sex informati ... (read more)

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$142.00 CAD

We-Vibe Ditto
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new sex toy We-Vibe Ditto
Sometimes sex toy dreams really do come true - and this is one of those recurring dreams that just wouldn't materialize... until now! The We-Vibe Ditto is the perfect petite plug that lucid dreams are made of! With We-Vibe's extraordinarily popular smartphone interface (and traditional battery-pow ... (read more) (3" x 1.25")

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$132.00 CAD

We-Vibe Sync
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new sex toy We-Vibe Sync
Introducing a new adjustable We-Vibe design, since no two bodies are the same. There are two adjustable points to better target the G-spot / clit with more or less pressure. Sync is marketed as being able to stay comfortably in place even as you change positions during penetration play. Enjoy 10 mod ... (read more)

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$208.00 CAD

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Welcome to the original We-Vibe! The much beloved truly classic We-Vibe is back! No fancy weird iPhone connections or magnetic chargers or bluetooth - just an amazing We-Vibe and a simple and easy to use remote! Also, it is a whole lot cheaper too!

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$104.00 CAD

Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica
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In the latest collection from award-winning editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, sex toys bring couples, singles, and strangers to new heights of pleasure. The stories range from two couples who happen to share the same remote controlled device to some very hot rocks, a perfectly icy bed, a Superman dildo, ... (read more)

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$23.50 CAD

My Buddy
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$79.99 CAD

My Life on the Swingset
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Beginning on a first date with a couple of swingers, followed by working through social anxiety and shyness, recognizing the importance of touch in life, evolving feelings about love and expectations, having threesomes, orgies, and prostate orgasms, going through a divorce, and leveling up in life a ... (read more)

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$5.00 CAD , Regular price $29.00

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Stephan Niederwieser’s relaxed style and focus on pleasure are the perfect combination for this introduction to bondage, a book that’s sure to benefit both the beginner and the experienced practitioner. Here you’ll find everything you need to know about the most important toys and accessories, about ... (read more)

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$25.99 CAD

 

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