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We take your sexual health, pleasure, and education so darn seriously we find it seriously difficult to find sexy games that don't condescend, mock, or straight-up insult their intended audience. This is also why you'll never find penis straws in our shop or on our website. Frankly, we love Sex Decks because they aren't just fun to play around with, they're genuinely interesting and educational. Whether you gift these cards to your soon-to-be-married friends, or pick up a set to inspire your own sex life, Sex Decks are a great starting point for all sorts of adventures! | Learn more about All Hands on Deck! All Decks on Hand!

We find that many of our customers at one point of their life or another have experiences of unwanted pain during sex, incontinence, changes in erections or other sexual responses... Basically, that bodies change, and sometimes this can be challenging.

Pelvic floor muscle exercises can be a great way of attending to your body- whether you're contemplating heath or pleasure. We have a wide selection of toys that can be inserted anally or vaginally for exactly this purpose (although you can also exercise without them too).

This set of vaginal kegel exercisers are a great example. They're non-porous, simple, and light. They will be narrow enough to be challenging to contract around, yet are not particularly heavy.

This 90-page issue of Original Plumbing honors a number of trailblazers who set a precedent for what trans communities are built upon as well as those who continue to create change today. Including a special section celebrating the life of Lou Sullivan, OP showcases the FTM International newsletter he launched in 1986 by featuring a spread of their earliest covers through the years, republished for the first time since its initial printing. | Learn more about Original Plumbing - The Hero Issue

These steel plugs are stylish, smooth and the ultimate in functional luxury butt jewelery. Each crystal plug is made of body-safe stainless steel and features an elongated stem to keep it solidly in place. As well, these plugs are beautifully adorned with a crystal to give you an anal sex experience that looks as good as it feels. Now available in small, medium, and large! | Learn more about Steel Crystal Plugs!

We have to be honest with you, this sale is not just for daddies, and the sale is on much more than just The Fleshlight! From now (whatever time it where you are right now) until Sunday night at midnight (where we are in Toronto, Canada) all of our "insertion toys" are a whopping 20% OFF! Now, you're probably wondering what an insertion toy is - and maybe also why we insist on describing sex toys with words people don't ever type into search engines. Well, we characterize "insertion toys" as any sex toy one can insert themselves into (excluding cock rings - which we call 'cock rings'.) In any case, this means you'll save 20% OFF all Fleshlights, Tenga Eggs, Tenga Flip-Holes, and all of our other masturbation sleeves!  Online only. | Learn more about The Father's Day Fleshlight Sale

We find that our customers are more and more looking for lubricants with organic, plant based ingredients. And, the industry is responding with a growing variety of different lubes to suit any occasion. This pH balanced, aloe-based organic lubricant is light, thin and slick- great for those looking for a little slippery, without a lot of stuff! We would say that this would be a great suggestion for folks who have fallen in love with the feel of Astroglide, but not the ingredients list. | Learn more about Blossom Organics Lubricant

How to Use a Nipple, Clit or Penis Pump
At Come As You Are, we work hard to have many different types of toys that produce many types of sensation. While pumps may seem like less common sex toys than butt plugs, bottles of lube (yes, lube is a sex toy!) or vibrators, they are no less valuable (or awesome) at providing a variety of wonderful and much appreciated sensations for people. | Learn more about How to Pump!