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Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a clinical term usually defined as the inability to develop and maintain an erection for satisfactory sexual activity. At Come As You Are we don’t think the idea of “normal” is helpful to experiencing sexual pleasure, and we know that even clinicians don’t agree on how often or for how long you might have difficulties with erections before you would be diagnosed with erectile dysfunction.

Being sex positive at Come As You Are means we consider sexuality to be a site of tremendous health, pleasure and strength in our lives. We also realize that many of us experience physical, emotional, and psychic pain around sexuality. We are great cheerleaders of the positive potential of sex, but proceed with respect and awareness that sometimes sex can feel too painful to talk about.

As more and more of us explore various pleasure zones throughout our own and our partners’ bodies, the anus has, at long last, received some of the attention it so richly deserves. In spite (and because) of the still pervasive anal taboo, anal eroticism opens up a world of sexual possibility - whether as main course or appetizer. Dispelling fear and combating ignorance is the first step to enjoying anal sex.

Come As You Are’s silicone dilators are a series of high-quality silicone exercisers designed specifically to aid people experiencing vaginal pain, and for post-surgery therapy. Together with a local gynecologist and an independent Canadian silicone manufacturer, Come As You Are created these dilators made from high-grade, hypoaallergenic silicone. If you or someone you know is suffering from vaginal pain, these dilation exercises may be useful to you.

At Come As You Are we don’t believe that the g-spot is some magic button that, once touched, will change your sex life forever.

Just like some of us get turned on by having our inner thighs caressed or our ears nibbled on, some people find that stimulating the g-spot is incredibly arousing and even orgasmic, while for others it does nothing at all.