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Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
 new item Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Truly an indespensible tool for those who have found the love of their lives in another country, city, or continent, the Long Distance Relationship Survivial Guide is packed full of hints and tips, true stories (both happy and sad), and best of all, "conversation starters" throughout the book that are specific to those in the situation. Excellent for planning, learning, exploring, and growing within relationships. | Learn more about Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide.

| $18.99

101 Nights of Great Sex
best seller 		101 Nights of Great Sex
One of the most ingenious formats for a sex book, each week there's a new adventure for both of you. This book contains 100 sealed envelopes each giving instructions for an erotic activity. Heterosexual focus. 2000. 100 envelopes. | Learn more about 101 Nights of Great Sex.

| $29.99

52 Invitations to Grrreat Sex
 52 Invitations to Grrreat Sex
By Laura Corn
Now these 52 sealed invitations are supposed to keep you going for a whole year at the rate of one encounter per week, although the scenarios are so hot, we'd be hard pressed to find anyone who can make it last that long! Combining creativity, mystery, romance and just plain hot sex, you and your partner are in for a wild ride! Take turns planning your encounters with the "For His Eyes Only" and "For Her Eyes Only" section, and remain prepared as the book thoughtfully plans out your evenings for you. You'll know what to wear, where to go, how much money it's going to cost you and how to drive your partner crazy! | Learn more about 52 Invitations to Grrreat Sex. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $40.50

Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
 Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
Couples of Mixed HIV Status delves into the emotional challenges of living in a mixed HIV status relationship. Included in the book are tons of first-hand accounts, advice, interviews with therapists, and is throughly illustrated with tables. Topics include family planning, disclosure, uncertainty, fear of HIV transmission, and much more. A great resource. | Learn more about Couples Of Mixed HIV Status. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $52.95

For Each Other
 For Each Other
Sharing Sexual Intimacy
A guide for women to achieving greater sexual satisfaction and more intimate relationship, For Each Other focusses on physical and psychological issues and contains exercises and information. Barbach can be relied on for her compassionate, intelligent approach to the complex aspects of relationships. 1982. 316 pp. | Learn more about For Each Other.

| $21.50

Luxurious Loving
 Luxurious Loving
Luxurious Loving is a gorgeously photographed and well-written book that teaches us how to transform raunch into sensual awakening. The approach is inspired by Tantra, yet geared towards all who want to enrich or discover their connection to one another. Chapter titles include imagine, sniff, gaze, moan, caress, connect, and more. The images are all heterosexual, but the text is written for couples of any orientation. | Learn more about Luxurious Loving.

| $25.95

Multi-Orgasmic Couple
 Multi-Orgasmic Couple
By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams,Rachel Carlton Abrams
Find a few moments (OK - more than a few moments) and get ready for some creative, exploratory coupling. From the authors of the ever-popular book The Multi-Orgasmic Man comes The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. This book give insight into sexual temperaments, channeling sexual energy, and experiencing multiple, longer and more intense whole-body orgasms, with the ultimate goal of spiritual union. 2000. 176 pp. | Learn more about Multi-Orgasmic Couple.

| $21.99

Never Have the Same Sex Twice
 Never Have the Same Sex Twice
One of our favourite writers of erotica, Alison Tyler, has put together a book of no-fail tips for those in monogomous partnerships to keep things fresh and flirty. After getting a tip years ago from lover, "Never Have the Same Sex Twice", Tyler gives us a collection of ideas written in her fun, down-to-earth, almost friendly style; each chapter is interspersed with a short erotic story to spark imaginations and keep that fire burning. | Learn more about Never Have the Same Sex Twice.

| $19.50

Opening Up
group sex 		Opening Up
A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
This is a book of amazing diversity with personal stories of people from a wide range of sexual orientations, lifestyles, and styles of open relationships. Readers will find that its primary message is that there is no one "right" way to have an open relationship except the one that works for you and your partner(s). Opening Up can help all people, regardless of their relationship style, to truly make an informed choice about what is best for them. Easy to read and very informative, if you have ever considered going open, this book will help you process all of the questions that you may have. | Learn more about Opening Up.

| $22.50

Redefining our Relationships
 Redefining our Relationships
By Wendy-O-Matik
An essential guide to the politics behind sharing loving and sexual relationships with multiple partners, Redefining Our Relationships offers mature and thought provoking look at creating and keeping responsible open relationships. This book is not just a how-to guide, but a practical and radical manifesto written from the authors' own experiences. An indispensable book for those interested in non-monogamy. 89pp. | Learn more about Redefining our Relationships.

| $16.99

Sex Is Fun
 Sex Is Fun
From the popular blog of the same name, Sex is Fun is a hip new take on the traditional sex manual. Fully illustrated throughout in a graphic-novel style, this is a great book that explores everything from personal hygiene to positions, body image to bdsm. The end of each chapeter features and interactive game or activity for you and your parter to do together to explore and expand your relationship, or to be done solo to learn more about yourself. Fun and interesting! | Learn more about Sex Is Fun.

| $25.00

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
 The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it to a partner as a hint, or read it together in bed for a fun evening, this guide is sure to spice up the romance and ease some of those shopping phobias. 192pp. | Learn more about The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys.

| $19.50

The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
contains BDSM 		The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
By Violet Blue
The author of “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” and “The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio”, among others, has brought us playful and creative way to spice up our sex lives. Whether living single or enjoying coupledom, find out how to make your hottest fantasies come to life. Learn how to talk dirty, strip for your lover, make your own porn, and create thrilling scenarios. Also includes some hot new stories by best selling author Alison Tyler. 250 pp | Learn more about The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy.

| $20.95

When Someone You Love Is Kinky
contains BDSM 		When Someone You Love Is Kinky
by Dossie Easton,Catherine A. Liszt
When Someone You Love is Kinky is everything you needed to tell the people in your family but were short of words. Written by the authors of the Ethical Slut and the Bottoming Book (Easton and Liszt). A great guide to honesty and communication for all of us, and just in time for that awkward holiday time. | Learn more about When Someone You Love Is Kinky.

| $22.50

When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
 When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
Discover Your Libido Types to Create a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life
What is it about sex that makes some relationships so hard? According to sex therapist Dr. Sandra Pertot, the dificulty takes place when mismatched libido types interact with eachother. What are the different libido types you ask? Well in "When Your Sex Drives Don't Match" Pertot gives ten different examples, from the disinterested libido to the addictive libido. With case studies, tips, excercises, and quizzes, this book helps identify, understand and work through common sexual problems. Written in a mostly hetero vibe ( just with the case studies), the advise can be taken in for any type of sexual relationship. A great read to steer your dwindeling relationship back on track! | Learn more about When Your Sex Drives Don't Match.

| $18.50

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