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Sexual Healing
 new item Sexual Healing
A book for those looking to overcome sexual problems, written in a way that's in-depth, but very practical and easy to understand. Focussing on some of the most common problems that individauls and couples experience; topics such as low desire, sexual aversion, female and male orgasm and arousal disorders, and vaginismus. Using solo and partner activities, this book step-by-step helps heal relationships, emotions, as well as pain. Heterosexual focus. | Learn more about Sexual Healing.

| $24.50

Becoming Orgasmic
 Becoming Orgasmic
A step-by-step guided program for women who would like to achieve orgasms -- by themselves and with their partner. Written by leaders in this field, it focuses on comfort, sensation, technique, emotions, self-knowledge and relationship. 1988. 266 pp. | Learn more about Becoming Orgasmic.

| $21.00

Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese
Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese
By Dita Von Teese and Bronwyn Garrity
Dita Von Teese spills her secrets for glamour and success in this elegant two part masterpiece. Part autobiography, part history, part photographic memoir, this book is an essential addition to any aspiring performer’s reference library. The pages are packed with burlesque and fetish tips, vintage beauty tricks and a whole lot more. An inspiration for the tease in all of us! Hardcover, 272pp. | Learn more about Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese . Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $51.99

Elusive Orgasm
 Elusive Orgasm
A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm
By Dr. Vivienne Cass
An inspiring and fiercely worded exercise book for women who are pre-orgasmic and wish to learn to have orgasms on a regular basis. This book from Australia has some of the best diagrams on sexual anatomy and puts forth great questions to get you started, while offering poignant advice and solutions. Highly recommended. 352pp. | Learn more about Elusive Orgasm.

| $20.00

Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
staff pick 		Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
Not your mother's orgasm book!
By Deborah Sundahl
This one of a kind educational handbook covers a mass of topic related to female ejaculation including anatomy, workshops, history, exercises, and many many more. An excellent resouce for anyone interested in exploring female ejaculation and the g-spot. One of the most complete, informed and detailed books around on female ejaculation. 217 pages. | Learn more about Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot.

| $22.95

For Yourself
 For Yourself
The Fulfilment of Female Sexuality
In one of the best books available on female sexuality, noted sex therapist Barbach provides clear advice on achieving orgasm, and more generally, learning about our sexual selves. 2000. 218 pp. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about For Yourself.

| $16.95

Getting Off
 Getting Off
Did you know that Graham Crackers and Corn Flakes were invented to help curb masturbation? It's true. That little factoid really makes you wonder why we have such a negative stigma on self-pleasure? In Getting Off, Jamye Waxman helps set the record straight with debunking myths and common fears people have about the M word. Filled with information on the history of female masturbation, to everything you ever wanted to know about vibrators and other sex toys, this book really puts the power back in the hands of women who just want to get off! | Learn more about Getting Off.

| $20.50

Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
staff pick 		Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The notorious female erogenous zone is the subject of this clear and informative guide, covering such topics as general female anatomy, ejaculation, g-spot orgasms and the PC muscle. 1998. 63 pp. | Learn more about Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot.

| $11.95

How to be a Great Lover
 How to be a Great Lover
Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques That Will Blow His Mind
By Lou Paget
Lou Paget is the queen of fun and lively sex-ed! How to be a Great Lover proves this again with tips and techniques on oral sex, great intercourse, and fun new ways to spice it up. A great volume for any woman searching for ways to build confidence in the bedroom and add to the current repertoire. Heterosexual focus, and great for both single women and women in long term relationships. Hardcover, 235pp. | Learn more about How to be a Great Lover.

| $30.00

I Love Female Orgasm
staff pick 		I Love Female Orgasm
An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide
By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller
Our book buyer just added this to her list of must have books! I Love Female Orgasm offers detailed advice and information on everything female orgasm. From intercourse, having your first orgasm, sex toys, queer women’s sexuality, and a whole chapter for men plus tips, tips and more tips. 286pp. | Learn more about I Love Female Orgasm.

| $19.95

Multi-Orgasmic Woman
 Multi-Orgasmic Woman
How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Dramatically Enhance Her Health & Happiness
By Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD
Another brilliant book by the authors of the Multi-Orgasmic Couple and the Multi-Orgasmic Man. Every woman should have this book in their collection. From short quizzes about your past, to easy to follow steps on how to increase your focus and desire, this book is sure to make any woman multi-orgasmic. 320 pp. | Learn more about Multi-Orgasmic Woman.

| $21.99

New View of a Woman's Body
staff pick 		New View of a Woman's Body
By Federation of Feminist Women's Health Center
A bold perspective, new information and thorough illustrations on women's sexual and reproductive capacities distinguish this book. Emerging from the women's health movement, it includes topics such as self-examination, home remedies, menstrual extraction- as well as a redefinition of the function and structure of the clitoris that will enthrall you. 1991. 174 pp | Learn more about New View of a Woman's Body.

| $25.00

Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
 Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
By The Boston Women’s Health Book Collective
From those who brought us the classic Our Bodies, Ourselves comes a new edition that deals specifically with our questions and concerns around menopause. With detailed information, loads of well researched answers, and personal stories from a diverse collection of women of all ages, this book seeks to debunk myths and enlighten. A great resource book for all! 350pp. | Learn more about Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause.

| $18.99

Passionista
 Passionista
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
At first glance you may think that this book is filled with techniques that will blow him away (pun intended), but the truth is, this book goes beyond just serving as a how-to on having great sex, but first and foremost provides a how-to on having a great relationship. (And, believe it or not, the two really are connected.) Previously known as "He Comes Next". | Learn more about Passionista.

| $19.99

Sex For One
 Sex For One
Masturbation guru Betty Dodson extolls the liberatory virtures of "self-pleasuring" in this extended personal essay on her discovery of the joys of masturbation - alone and with a partner. Discoveries and revelations from 25 years of her "bodysex" groups from women and men, a guide to self-loving, and Dodson's own erotic art round out this enlightening and inspiring book. 1986. 191 pp. | Learn more about Sex For One.

| $21.00

Sexual Intimacy for Women
 Sexual Intimacy for Women
Dr. Glenda Corwin presents this important book for those of us in same-sex (mostly long-term) relationships who feel like they would like to reach a deeper level of intimacy, or to re-spark a flame that was once alive. It is written in an easy to read, accepting and positive style, focusing on many issues such as why one might experience lack of desire (from body issues and sexual abuse to aging and infidelity). The second half of the book provides the reader with techniques on how to improve their relationship, without being preachy or step-by-step instructions "guaranteed" to help. The goal is to educate and expand ideas of why this is happening, creating dialogue within the relationship and working together. Throughout the book, the author gives solid anecdotes from years of leading workshops on sexual intimacy in same-sex relationships, helping the reader to be able to relate and feel like they aren't the only one going through these experiences. | Learn more about Sexual Intimacy for Women.

| $20.50

Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn
 Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn
By Violet Blue
A smart girl’s treatise on finding the porn you like. Although easier said than done, thankfully Violet Blue takes us gently by the hand and gives valuable suggestions, honest evaluations, and great tips. Best tip: keep your remote handy to fast-forward the bad bits and rewind the best bits. Finally, an honest, no-nonsense guide for finding your way through the video store and to the good stuff. A highly recommended, fun read for the porn novice and expert wanna-be.137pp. | Learn more about Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn.

| $19.50

Tantric Sex For Women
 Tantric Sex For Women
A Guide for Lesbians, Bi, Hetero and Solo Lovers
The first book of its kind, Tantric Sex For Women is an inclusive guide for all women and does a lovely job explaining how to heighten sexual encounters through the use of Tantric exercises. With over 50 exercises for self love, couples, massage and meditation, this book is designed to allow women who want to fulfill their sexual goals and enrich their relationships. Tantric Sex For Women is an inspiring book, teaching all women, regardless of sexual orientation, new facets of their own sexuality. 304pp. | Learn more about Tantric Sex For Women.

| $22.00

Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
 Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
While there are many books on the subject of female orgasm, this Ultimate Guide really seems to connect with the reader, working to disspell myths that come along with "how it should be" or how exactly to do it. This book is not written for anyone in particular; it is meant for women who want to explore themselves and the possibilites they haven't had a chance to yet, it is for women's partners, it is for anyone who wants to look beyond getting there and get in touch with all that comes along with an orgasm. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women.

| $19.95

Vaginas
 Vaginas
An Owner's Manual
By Carol Livoti and Elizabeth Topp
Take a gynecologist mom and a writer daughter, put them together and what do you have? A brilliantly written, informative guide to a subject many of us have in common but rarely talk about. Mom gives the scoop on everything having to do with vaginas and daughter writes it all down in an easy to follow and catchy way. Full of interesting tidbits and invaluable resources, we recommend this to everyone wishing to get to know their very own vagina better. 257pp. | Learn more about Vaginas.

| $21.00

When Sex Hurts
 When Sex Hurts
A great resource for women who experience vuluar pain, this book delves into different types of painful sex from an angle of compassion and optimism. Written by doctors who have made treating and managing this their specialty, many women who have similar experiences have added real-life anecdotes that can add support. Segments include getting started with recovery, causes and treatment, and when the pain is gone. | Learn more about When Sex Hurts.

| $25.50

Women's Anatomy of Arousal
 Women's Anatomy of Arousal
Women's Anatomy of Arousal is an uplifting and inspiring book that encourages holistic exploration and learning about a woman's body, both inside and out. Great for those who are just learning about themselves and how to achieve pleasure, to those who are ready to take the next step and dive ever deeper into the realms of female orgasm. Easy to read, but full of information, this book is thoroughly illustrated with erotic images from centuries ago, detailed illustrations of anatomy, and famous quotes, as well as hints for men who love women. It's hetero focused, but applies to all women, solo or in a relationship. | Learn more about Women's Anatomy of Arousal.

| $21.95

Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
 Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
Being pregnant can be exciting and overwhelming, but let's not forget to keep sex in the picture! Written by a sexologist and pregnancy fitness specialist team, this handy little book has great hints and tips for those expecting, as well as advice for their partners. Learn about what positions can be best, how to spice things up and keep it hot. Learn how sex during pregnancy can be the best you've ever had. | Learn more about Your Orgasmic Pregnancy.

| $16.95

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