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Hot Sex
group sex contains BDSM 		new item Hot Sex
"Hot Sex" is not your average positions sex book. This beautifully illustrated book is informative yet playful and fun- simply chalk full of exciting things to try. Sex educators Emily Morse and Jayme Waxman (who's workshops "Blowjob Bootcamp" and "Uncovering the "O" are often held in store at Come As You Are) share their tricks, tips and techniques to explore. Their best advice? Enthusiasm! (Heterosexual focus) Jamye Waxman and Emily Morse. | Learn more about Hot Sex.

| $22.95

Lesbian Sex: 101 Positions
 new item Lesbian Sex: 101 Positions
While most other sex position guides out there just depict straight-up hetero sex between a man and a woman, Lesbian Sex covers 101 positions for women to try together. Illustrating positions for oral sex, manual sex, playing with toys, and much more, this book contains enough new ideas to get you and your partner going - with a checklist at the back so you can chart your progress! Hardcover. | Learn more about Lesbian Sex: 101 Positions.

| $21.00

Love and Lust: A Sex Journal
 new item Love and Lust: A Sex Journal
What's a sex fantasy that you would actually do at a moment's notice, no questions asked? Where are all the places you would like to have sex? How long can you stand to be teased? In this guided journal of love, lust and sex, Suzie Bright will put you on a path towards sexploration as you think about your desires, sexual history and hopes for the future. Write down your naughtiest fantasies, confess your dirtiest sexcapades and delve into your own sexual self in these pages awaiting your inscripture. Includes a lock and two keys for privacy or to be thrown away with abandon. What will your sex journal say? | Learn more about Love and Lust: A Sex Journal.

| $23.95

101 Places to Have Sex Before You Die
 101 Places to Have Sex Before You Die
What's on your bucket list? Is it going to Paris? Is it jumping out of a plane? Or are you still wondering what to plan for your life? We have an idea...how about starting your list on the naughtier side of things? 101 Places To Have Sex Before You Die is a fun travel size workbook listing everyday places where you can spice up your life. Why not leave the bedroom behind and try something adventurous? Either way you choose, this book with its helpful icons, difficulty rating system and quirky places to have sex will fulfill all your adventurous hankerings. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about 101 Places to Have Sex Before You Die.

| $15.50

Anal Sex Positions Guide
 Anal Sex Positions Guide
Tristan Taormino, the go-to gal of anal sex, sure does like to cover all the bases when it comes to anal sex, whether it be books, workshops, DVDs--and now she's brought us The Anal Sex Positions Guide. For those who would love to give it a try, to the most experienced in the subject of anal delights, all are bound to learn something new. Chapters are interspersed with erotic passages from some of today's hottest authors, which is sure to create new fantasies to persue! Each position includes pros and cons, and a detailed description of how to achieve it. | Learn more about Anal Sex Positions Guide.

| $21.95

Best Sex Positions Ever
 Best Sex Positions Ever
By Alex Williams
Our newest positions book chock full of practical advice, great new positions to try, and lots of great colour photographs. An excellent gift, or a great way to spice up an evening by suggesting exciting new possibilities! 128pp. | Learn more about Best Sex Positions Ever.

| $21.95

Big Book of Sex Toys
 Big Book of Sex Toys
Psst...want an insider's look into the world of sex toys? Tristan Taormino invites us all to learn about the ins and outs of everything that's available on the market today, debunking myths and shattering stereotypes along the way. Packaged up in a sweet, glossy, hardcover binding, The Big Book of Sex Toys will answer any questions our 1-888 number can't. Just joking, call us for anything...but this book is definitely one to check out. | Learn more about Big Book of Sex Toys.

| $24.99

Burlesque Handbook
 Burlesque Handbook
Everything you need to know about the fabulous world of burlesque in all bound up in this great new book! From making your own pasties (with stencils), to learning new moves, to how to boost your own confidence, this handbook is great for beginners and seasoned performers alike. Written by Jo Weldon, founder of the New York School of Burlesque. | Learn more about Burlesque Handbook.

| $18.99

Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
 Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
The New and Naughty Guide to Being Great in Bed
By Tristan Taormino
In this excellent introduction sex book, Tristian Taormino shares with us her juicy adventures in sexuality that have taught her much. With a fun and no holds barred style of sex education, Taormino delves into such important topics as anal sex, female ejaculating, sex toys and even role playing and S/M. Looking for a light-hearted and straight-forward guide to sex? This all round sexy sex guide will leave you in the know! Previously published as Pucker Up. 257pp. | Learn more about Down and Dirty Sex Secrets.

| $17.99

Erotic Massage Deck
staff pick 		Erotic Massage Deck
Marrying ancient Eastern wisdom with modern know-how, the Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, these 50 sensual techniques can be explored one at a time or combined for an evening of intimate passion. | Learn more about Erotic Massage Deck.

| $17.95

Erotic Mind
 Erotic Mind
By Jack Morin
While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues, this book is an essential roadmap to understanding your own complex eroticism. Interactive, insightful and wise. 1995. 390 pp. | Learn more about Erotic Mind.

| $18.99

Erotic Tickling
 Erotic Tickling
By Michael Moran
An often misunderstood form of erotic foreplay, ticking can add something spicy to anyone's love life! This book provides a fun and sexy overview of tickling, dealing with all sorts of subjects. Lavishly illustrated, this book offers a wealth of adventurous ideas. 105 pages. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Erotic Tickling.

| $22.50

Extended Massive Orgasm
 Extended Massive Orgasm
By Steve Bodansky
This new updated and illustrated guide to EMO is better than ever! With great illustrations to help you through the instructional text, the book has been reorganized to dedicate half of the text to techniques for men's pleasure (most of the first book was about women's pleasure). This book is applicable to couples of all genders, but is also great for folks flying solo who are just looking to improve their technique. 2002. 235 pp. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Extended Massive Orgasm.

| $24.50

Great Sex Weekend
 Great Sex Weekend
By Pepper Schwartz, Janet Lever
A 48-hour guide filled with sensual plans and sexual adventures to last from Friday night to Sunday afternoon. Whether you follow it step-by-step, or just pick and choose ideas, there's plenty of ideas to rekindle the sparks. 1997. 211 pp. | Learn more about Great Sex Weekend.

| $19.50

Guide to Getting It On
 Guide to Getting It On
This expanded and revised 6th edition of the tongue-in-cheek educational favorite, Guide to Getting It On, features 15 new illustrations, five new chapters, 48 additional pages and 2753 updates. For all your tough to answer questions (and maybe a few you didn’t even know you had), this book promises to keep you entertained with loads of great information and fun facts from necking, to oral sex, to romance. Mostly heterosexual focus. | Learn more about Guide to Getting It On.

| $29.95

Hand in the Bush
 Hand in the Bush
By Deborah Addington
This sensible guide provides an up-to-date, step-by-step approach to vaginal fisting for those who are interested or just want to know more about this form of lovemaking. 1997. 102 pp. | Learn more about Hand in the Bush.

| $19.50

How To Be A Bush Pilot
 How To Be A Bush Pilot
How To Be A Bush Pilot is everyman's guide to getting luckier, from anatomy, to 69ing, to group sex, and everything in between. Written in an upbeat, humorous, sex-positive way, the lessons in this book are made to sharpen your skills and graduate to that higher level of providing pleasure for both yourself and your female partner! With fun illustrations and even an (amazing) ultimate orgasm flow chart, the only thing in the book we can't agree with is that In-And-Out Burger is not a recommended aphrodisiac. Hey, to each his/her own! | Learn more about How To Be A Bush Pilot.

| $24.99

How To Write a Dirty Story
 How To Write a Dirty Story
Reading, Writing, and Publishing Erotica
By Susie Bright
Susie Bright, editor of many contemporary collections of erotica, teaches us the tricks of her trade. Providing many pearls of erotic wisdom for both fiction and non-fiction writers, she uses samples of her own work to describe the process of writing erotic material. An excellent resource for the aspiring erotic writer and anyone looking to figure out how their favourite author did it! | Learn more about How To Write a Dirty Story.

| $28.00

Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
staff pick 		Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
The perfect gift for the gourmet, Intercourses 10th Anniversary Edition is bursting with over 200 pages of aphrodisiac recipes and beautiful photographs. Why not curl up by the fire while munching on some chocolate torte dressed with berries? Or try your luck with some sexy honey drenched figs. Either way this book is sure to keep the home fires burning. Hardcover. | Learn more about Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook.

| $34.95

Intimate Invasions
 Intimate Invasions
By M.R. Strict
One of the greatest taboos of kinky play is klismaphilia, or enema play, as most of us know it. In M.R. Strict’s enthusiastic guide, you can enjoy both learning through his expertise, and reading his outrageous personal stories. The only book we know of dealing with klismaphilia, Intimate Invasions explains not only the exciting foreplay that enema play can bring, but also the safety issues and psychology behind the exhilarating yet often taboo practice! 144pp. | Learn more about Intimate Invasions.

| $19.50

Kama Sutra Sex Deck
 Kama Sutra Sex Deck
50 Ways to Love Your Lover
By Julianne Balmain and Trisha Krauss
A delightful set of cards to spice up any long evening! With irresistible illustrations, each card features a verse from the Kama Sutra and a hands-on explanation of a new technique. Perfect as a gift for a bachelorette parties or romantic weekends away! 50 Cards This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Kama Sutra Sex Deck.

| $17.95

Kama Sutra Sexual Positions
 Kama Sutra Sexual Positions
For the more practical, the Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions provide a how-to translation for incorporating the Kama Sutra into everyday sexuality. 2001. 64 pp. | Learn more about Kama Sutra Sexual Positions.

| $22.00

Love on the Menu
 Love on the Menu
A perfect gift, Love on the Menu cookbook is just the ticket to a decadent, sensual, seductive night in with your lover. Gorgeously laid out with full-colour photographs, wine pairings, famous quotes, and hints and tips about aphrodisiacs. This cookbook will take you from grooming yourself (minty ylang-ylang shaving cream) to cocktails (the Tongue Tango), and then from apps (honey nuts, mushroom escargo kiss) to main courses (tuna threesome, creamy risotto erutpion) to desserts (ladyfinger strokes). Delicious recipes to get anyone into the mood. Even includes a playlist of sultry songs for your enjoyment. | Learn more about Love on the Menu.

| $30.00

Passport to Pleasure
best seller 		Passport to Pleasure
Roam the globe for the comfort of your own bedroom! Passport to Pleasure contains 52 sealed sections (to be read by him, or her) that plot out a sexual adventure for the evening for you and your partner - all themed aound exotic and seductive locations around the world. From London, to Thailand, to Switzerland, you'll be waiting in anticipation to find out where you're off to next. A list of props and what you'll need is provided, as well as how to perform the seduction. From the author of 101 Night of Grrreat Sex and 52 Invitations. | Learn more about Passport to Pleasure.

| $35.00

Phone Sex
 Phone Sex
By Miranda Austin
Learn how to take your fantasy of steamy sex with a red hot stranger over the phone to the next level! This fabulously written one of a kind book celebrates the unique job that phone sex operators have. Miranda Austin draws from experience to give the reader an intelligent and voyeuristic peek at what really goes on at the other end of the line. It is an engaging read from a talented writer that will have you chuckling, make you think about human nature and turn you on all between the same pages. 232pp. | Learn more about Phone Sex.

| $22.50

Position Sex
 Position Sex
Chock full of colour photographs, Position Sex is a guide to 50 wild new positions guaranteed to spice up your life in the bedroom. With tips on how to achieve each position, ways to vary the position, as well as why they are best for each partner, this book is a great way to try out some new tricks and enjoy exploring together. | Learn more about Position Sex.

| $25.00

Position Sex Bible
 Position Sex Bible
Open up new possibilities in any relationship or get a bit cheeky with this personal notch-in-the-bedpost journal featuring 291 sex positions. The Position Sex Bible covers intercourse, oral sex, hand jobs and more, each with a full colour photo and step by step instruction. Informative and fun! | Learn more about Position Sex Bible.

| $22.50

Sex Deck
 Sex Deck
Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life
By Dr. Dawn Harper
A quick and handy way to turn monotony into spontaneity. Slip a card into a lover’s pocket, place a position under a pillow, or randomly choose a card to mix it up! Over 50 cards filled with cute line drawings of positions such as the Leg Wrap, Easy Rider, or The Sun Worshiper. 52pp. | Learn more about Sex Deck.

| $17.95

Sex With The Lights On
Sex With The Lights On
200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered
By Ducky DooLittle
Ducky has traveled the world with her one woman show full of wit, humour and sexiness. Now she’s brought all the questions she’s heard from fans seeking advice into one concise volume for a great educational read. She offers lots of comfort and sage wisdom sprinkled with a good sense of wickedness to her writing and shares illuminating answers to such questions as “What's the best oral sex technique?” and “How can a couple introduce anal sex into their relationship?”. Sex with the Lights On is a very accessible and fun book full of insight! 282 pp. | Learn more about Sex With The Lights On .

| $21.50

Sexier Sex
 Sexier Sex
Lessons from the Brave New Sexual Frontier
How many of you out there have ever wanted to try something new? Something sexy, something your friends would consider "naughty"? If so, this is the perfect guidebook for the voyeuristic, seductress in you. Although written for women, much of the topics and materials can be easily applied to men. With chapters ranging from; self-discovery, flirting, and safety, "Sexier Sex: Lessons from a Brave new Sexual Frontier" is an honest and idyllic approach to technology and sex. | Learn more about Sexier Sex.

| $17.00

She Comes First
 She Comes First
The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
She Come First reinforces attitudes and lessons we sometimes forget after being in relationships for a long time. If you find yourself falling into a ho-hum pattern that lacks spice, this book is worth reading, as it really sells the idea that sex should be about pleasuring your partner and finding happiness in giving them pleasure. A great book for the curious and the (in)experienced, filled with many techniques of how to orally and manually stimulate a woman. | Learn more about She Comes First.

| $27.50

Soul Sex: Tantra for Two
 Soul Sex: Tantra for Two
By Pala Copeland & Al Link
Written by long-time Tantra practitioners, this book is a guide for beginners and experts alike. With a focus on learning, teaching and evolving sexually to create a passionate, emotionally rich relationship. Soul Sex is full of practical information, discussions and exercises to motivate couples with a down-to-earth focus on pleasure. 285 pages. | Learn more about Soul Sex: Tantra for Two.

| $29.95

Tantric Sex Deck
 Tantric Sex Deck
Looking for new ways to achieve higher levels of exhilaration and enlightenment in your relationship? Want to learn more about Tantra without a lot of book learnin’? Tantric Sex Deck: 50 Paths to Sacred Sex and Lasting Love is a beautifully illustrated 50-card deck that is fun and educational. From the history of Tantra and multiple orgasms for men, to learning about chakras and role reversal, this easy to read deck will bring lasting enjoyment to any late night adventure. | Learn more about Tantric Sex Deck.

| $19.95

The AVN Guide to the 500 Greatest Adult Films of All Time
 The AVN Guide to the 500 Greatest Adult Films of All Time
By the Editors of AVN
Adult Video News has always been a great source for reviews of adult movies, providing up to date news and information. Here, the top editors of AVN have complied the 500 greatest films of all time and formatted them into an easy to follow guide. Complete with top 10 lists of stars, directors and more, every category is covered, and all your favourite stars are here, along with some others you may not know about! A definite must for both novice viewers and the seasoned adult film buff. 385pp | Learn more about The AVN Guide to the 500 Greatest Adult Films of All Time.

| $22.95

The Ethical Slut
best seller group sex 		The Ethical Slut
By Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt
A fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance and believes in living these dreams with friends, partners, lovers and flirtations. Offers advice for pitfalls that may arise in the pursuit of multiple sexual relationships. 1997. 297 pp. | Learn more about The Ethical Slut.

| $21.99

The Good Vibrations Complete Guide to Vibrators
staff pick 		The Good Vibrations Complete Guide to Vibrators
By Joani Blank
Joani Blank, founder of the woman-owned sex shop Good Vibrations, has compiled her years of experience into this, indeed, the complete guide to vibrators. Confounded by the plethora of possibilities? This guide outlines all the different types of vibrators available, as well as their care and use during solo or partner sex. 2000. 96 pp. | Learn more about The Good Vibrations Complete Guide to Vibrators.

| $11.99

The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
staff pick 		The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
By Cathy Winks, Anne Semans
We highly recommend this guide for its thoroughness, intelligence and near-universal appeal. Written by two former worker-owners at Good Vibrations (our inspiration, and our sister sex store in San Francisco), this guide covers all the basics - oral sex, communication, masturbation, vibrators, and more - in detail plus it takes a look at issues of sex in society. Winks and Semans have heard it all and the answer to any question you may have about sex is likely to be found between these covers! Updated 3rd edition! 2002. 325 pp. | Learn more about The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex.

| $34.95

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
best seller 		The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Another great book from a Good Vibes staff member. This book is the newest edition to the ultimate family of educational books. A great resource for anyone who is looking to brush up on going down! A technical play-by-play of all aspects of oral play including negotiating with partners, shaving and waxing, women's anatomy, and female ejaculation. With inspired illustrations throughout, and short stories by Alison Tyler. 2002. 182 pp. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus.

| $19.95

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
 The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Yes, another great Ultimate Guide! Finally, a comprehensive and fun guide to fellatio! Everything from anatomy to condom tricks. Want to learn to deep throat, give great head to a dildo, or just keep your lipstick perfect? Violet Blue teaches us everything we ever wanted to know about blow jobs. 2002. 251 pages. | Learn more about The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio.

| $19.95

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
staff pick 		The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain & illness
By Miriam Kaufman, M.D., Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Just when you thought the "ultimate guide" series might be running out of subjects, here comes the Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability - the most interesting and important title in the series. This ultimate guide is most notable for its frank and practical chapters discussing self-esteem, communication, sexual positions, S/M, sexual health, tantric sex and it also features an incredible resources chapter. This is a thoughtful and thorough book and we recommend it to anyone who is seeking to learn a little more about their body or mind.
| Learn more about The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability.

| $24.50

Threeways
group sex 		Threeways
Fulfill Your Ultimate Fantasy
By Diana Cage
Diana Cage takes us through a tour of the dos and don’ts of living out the fantasy of threesomes. With step-by-step instructions such as pitfalls, cruising as a couple, communication and boundaries, and throwing your very own sex party, this book helps alleviate anxiety in going where you’ve only dreamed before – and making it even better than the fantasy! 157pp. | Learn more about Threeways.

| $21.99

Tricks to Please a Woman
 Tricks to Please a Woman
By Jay Wiseman
From the popular Tricks series, Jay Wiseman has compiled the best of his old tricks and some new ones with a particular focus on pleasing those of us with girl parts. This book draws our attention to some unconventional uses for household items, but also gives tips on how to perform astounding tricks that don't require props at all! 2002, 160 pp. | Learn more about Tricks to Please a Woman.

| $19.50

Urban Tantra
staff pick 		Urban Tantra
Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
By Barbara Carrellas
Finally, the book for people who want to learn about Tantric sex but can’t find the time! Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carrellas, offers an urban spin on the spiritual practice of Tantric sex. Acknowledging the realities of a stressful life in the West, Carrellas has adapted a Tantric program that is easy to follow and practical to execute. With simple step by step instructions and refreshingly gender neutral and pansexual language, this book focuses on such topics as erotic awakening massage, twenty-minute Tantra, breath and energy orgasms, as well as Tantric power play. One breath in, one breath out, enjoy! 287pp. | Learn more about Urban Tantra .

| $22.99

Wicked Quickies
 Wicked Quickies
Wicked Quickies is a sexy little book jam-packed with great ideas for hot spur-of-the-moment sex. 52 ideas guaranteed to inject some lustful sponteneity into even the most mundane days. Each suggestion offers a "risque rating", so you can decide for yourself how adventurous you are feeling! | Learn more about Wicked Quickies.

| $14.99

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