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Strap ons,  also called strap on harnesses or dildo harnesses, let you play with dildos if you can't, or don't want to use your hands. Couple a strap on with a dildo of your choosing and you're ready to go! From traditional jock style harness (two strap) to g-string style and beyond, there's no limit to the ways we can attach sex toys to our bodies for hot fun and fashion.  Learn how to choose a strap-on harness.

Oxyd Creations Bike Tube Harness
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Montreal-based Oxyd Creations have brought a new level to the universe of DIY bike tube harnesses. Lined with soft felt, and reinforced with canvas, this adjustable harness looks like something delicious from a cyclist's (Mad Max inspired?) dystopian jerkoff fantasy. Made with gear from Montreal's bike co-ops, bike parts are carefully hand sewn onto each harness, and each harness also comes with two different metal O rings. Also, the nerdiest part of this harness? Flip it upside down, and the 'back' of the harness becomes the 'front' of an extraordinarily sexy underbust corset top.

Learn more about Oxyd Creations Bike Tube Harness.

$140.00 CAD

Aslan Cherry Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Cherry Jaguar Harness
Aslan Leather's classic Jaguar harness has a colour and style to fit anyone. Light a fire with the Jaguar jock-style (two-strap) strap-on in sexy, Cherry red. Nickel-plated D-rings on the leg straps make for a good fit and comfortable wear. Medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52"

Learn more about Aslan Cherry Jaguar Harness.

$105.00 CAD

Aslan Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Jaguar Harness
Aslan's Jaguar was an instant classic when it was revealed a few years ago. This is the Jaguar that started it all. Made from soft and supple garment leather, the Jaguar's nickel-plated D-rings allow for easy leg strap adjustment and comfortable wearing. Best of all, this leather harness is sexy-as-hell. Medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52".

Learn more about Aslan Jaguar Harness.

$95.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Commando Harness
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Aslan Leather Commando Harness
Go Commando with Aslan! The Commando strap-on harness is a durable yet light-weight leather harness from the folks at Aslan Leather. Easy to put on and use, you can wear this harness under clothing discreetly. The Commando can easily be turned into a g-string harness (just remove one of the straps) and the rings are interchangeable so you can fit almost any flared based dildo in it (large or small). The Commando is also one of the few harnesses that will easily accommodate a dildo with balls. Medium fits hips 26" - 44", Large fits hips 36" - 60". Nickel-plated hardware

Learn more about Aslan Leather Commando Harness.

$60.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Double Up Dildo Cuff
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Aslan Leather Double Up Dildo Cuff
Ever wish your prized Aslan Leather jock-style harness could provide a little extra fun for the wearer? This Double Up Dildo Cuff works with classic Jock-Style and Jaguar harnesses to hold a dildo or butt plug in-place - a feature many g-string harnesses already have. Best of all, this dildo cuff works with any toy of any size.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Double Up Dildo Cuff.

$13.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Jaguar Slim Harness
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Aslan Leather Jaguar Slim Harness
Who doesn't love the sultry seduction of an Aslan Leather Harness? Whether you've been a fan of the classic Aslan Leather Jaguar forever, or you're just embarking on your first strap-on adventure, allow us to introduce you to the most light-weight, slimmed down version of the Jag! Impossibly comfortable and much less bulky than the original, this Jaguar harness fits any flared-base dildo up to 2" in diameter and is easy to wear under clothing.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Jaguar Slim Harness.

$105.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Minx Corset Harness
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Aslan Leather Minx Corset Harness
Aslan Leather's Minx harness is a hot corset-style leather harness that combines the incredible dildo-harnessing capabilities of the classic Aslan Jaguar harness with an unbelievably sexy lace-up corset back. If you already have an Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness in your tickle-trunk, the corset back can be purchased as an upgrade! Nickel-plated hardware.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Minx Corset Harness.

$165.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Minx Harness Upgrade
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Aslan Leather Minx Harness Upgrade
We know that many of our customers have been enjoying Aslan Leather's Jaguar harness for years, and we also know that the recent release of Aslan's Minx corset harness may be causing a mass outbreak of gear-envy among many Jaguar-lovers. Fortunately, Aslan Leather has your back (literally!) and is offering this Minx upgrade for anyone who already has a Jaguar. The Minx corset back uses the same nickel-plated buckles as your trusty Jag and is an instant and handy way to bring new life to your old favourite.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Minx Harness Upgrade.

$90.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Pouch Harness
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Aslan Leather Pouch Harness
Looking for a new way to experience penetration? Aslan's Pouch Harness is designed specifically to hold a dildo in place while safely and comfortably holding your own package in a soft leather lined pouch. Fits hips 26"-44". Nickel-plated hardware.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Pouch Harness.

$160.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Vegan Commando Harness
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Aslan Leather Vegan Commando Harness
This vegan harness is a quality minimalist option for folks looking for alternatives to leather! This harness is made out of a specialized material (lycra with a polyurethane core) praised for not slipping, and being very thin and durable. As such, it's full of possibility for any harness play, or for trans / genderqueer folks looking for a pack and play harness!

Learn more about Aslan Leather Vegan Commando Harness.

$70.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness
Whew, this is a sleek and sexy harness! The front part of the harness is made with Aslan's thick grade rubber, and all the straps on this jock-style harness are made with their thin and grippy bioskin material (lycra with a polyurethane core). This means you wont have any bulky material in your buckles, and a harness that stays put! We love how lean and minimalist this harness looks!

Learn more about Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness.

$125.00 CAD

Aslan Packing Strap
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Aslan Packing Strap
You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap was originally designed to be used with Vixen's Mr Right, but works great with Pack-Man and the Ultimate packers too! Three sizes available: Small 30"- 34", Medium 34"- 38" and Large 38"- 42"

Learn more about Aslan Packing Strap.

$20.00 CAD

Aslan Pleasure Harness
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Aslan Pleasure Harness
This new, reasonably priced harness is a great way for folks to get started in harness play. This harness features interchangeable rings and nickel-plated snaps to accomodate different sized dildos and can be used as a jock-style harness or converted to a g-string harness by simply removing a strap. Also, as illustrated, the Pleasure Harness can hold two dildos - one facing outward, and one facing inward to penetrate both the receiver and the wearer! Fits hips 26" - 44"

Learn more about Aslan Pleasure Harness.

$50.00 CAD

Aslan Rubber Jock Style Harness
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Aslan Rubber Jock Style Harness
Aslan Leather's does rubber as well as they do leather. This classic two-strap harness is made of conveyor-belt style reinforced rubber for extreme durability as well as a sexy leather-style aesthetic. Fully adjustable with nickel buckles on both sides of the waistband and a nickel-plated buckle on each of the leg straps. 1 3/4" hole will hold almost any dildo with a flared base. Medium fits hips 26" - 44", Large fits hips 36" - 60"

Learn more about Aslan Rubber Jock Style Harness.

$95.00 CAD

Aslan Simple Harness
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Aslan Simple Harness
This deceptively simple harness from Aslan Leather is one of the most comfortable and durable harnesses we've encountered in our fifteen years on Queen Street West! With sturdy straps, truly interchangeable dildo rings, and very soft and sensuous nylon webbing, this is a harness you can wear all day, get some action, and fall asleep in. Just like the Pleasure Harness and Commando Harness, you can remove a strap to use the Simple Harness as a g-string style harness (and to keep a plug in place!) or use it with both straps for a superior jock style experience! Machine washable.

Learn more about Aslan Simple Harness.

$55.00 CAD

Aslan SteamPunk Jaguar Harness
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Aslan SteamPunk Jaguar Harness
Aslan's trademark soft garment leather strap-on harness in luscious brown chocolate leather with brass hardware - Steampunk style! Fully adjustable interchangeable rubber rings to fit the toy of your choice up to 2" in diamater. This leather harness in medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52

Learn more about Aslan SteamPunk Jaguar Harness.

$130.00 CAD

SpareParts Bella Harness
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SpareParts Bella Harness
We've never been the same since we first laid eyes on SpareParts' new femmetastic harness, Bella. The Bella features removable garter clips, delicate lace overlay, a seductive window to frame a hint of ass cleavage, with a bold black bow perched on top. And, while this harness wins top votes for being sultry and sexy, it also gets our cooperative approval as a harness that fits well (the sizing is snug!), and provides great support for strap-on or pegging sex. The statement 'fashionable and functional' has truly reached a new landmark!

Learn more about SpareParts Bella Harness.

$200.00 CAD

SpareParts Joque Harness
SpareParts Joque Harness
The SpareParts jock-strap-style harness is made of spandex and polyester harness to stretch and conform to your body. Strong and sturdy enough for the most enthusiastic strap-on play, this harness is entirely waterproof, machine-washable, and will accomodate any dildo up to 2" wide. Perfect for packing, this revolutionary harness also features an interior pouch (perfect for a mini vibe!), will accommodate double headed dildos, and is completely adjustable for a perfect fit every time! Medium fits hips 20" - 50", Large fits hips 35" - 65". .

Learn more about SpareParts Joque Harness.

$158.00 CAD

SpareParts Pete Trunks
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SpareParts Pete Trunks
Get packing with SpareParts Pete Trunks! These magic underwear fit beautifully under clothes, keep your packer securely in-place, and are as comfortable as your favourite underwear. The Pete Trunks keep your packer quite front-and-center (so if you prefer to lean to the left or right, you might consider Aslan's Packing Strap or SparePart's Pete Commando harness).

Learn more about SpareParts Pete Trunks.

$50.00 CAD

SpareParts Tomboi Harness
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SpareParts Tomboi Harness
We've been searching for the perfect underwear harness since we first opened our doors back in the nineties, but until SpareParts launched the Tomboi and Sasha harnesses, we were skeptical that such a thing could even exist. Ever the perfectionists, the folks at SpareParts have come up with a harness that is incredibly durable, comfortable, and makes harness play easier than ever! Machine-washable (but you might want to hang to dry), the Tomboi fits just like briefs under clothes, and even has a strap to hold your packer in place for those times when your piece is more about presentation than performance.

Learn more about SpareParts Tomboi Harness.

$120.00 CAD

SportSheets Velvet Strap-On Vibrating Harness
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SportSheets Velvet Strap-On Vibrating Harness
With its durable nylon straps and easy-to-clean, waterproof velvet base, Sportsheets' Velvet Vibrating Harness should be the official harness of down-and-dirty sex. Available in both Purple and Black, the Velvet Harness comes complete with a mini vibe to help stimulate both the wearer and the dildo. Comes with replaceable "O" rings to help fit a dildo of almost any girth. Batteries included.

Learn more about SportSheets Velvet Strap-On Vibrating Harness.

$65.00 CAD

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit
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Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit
This kit includes two silicone dildos - one for the absolute beginner...and one for the intermediate course - a super-comfy velvety harness and a micro mini vibe (for the wearer or receiver or both!) The harness is compatible with any dildo with a flared base and all parts of the kit can be used all together or on their own.

Small dildo measures 4 3/4" by 3/4", larger dildo measures 5 1/4 by 1 1/4.

Learn more about Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit.

$170.00 CAD

SpareParts Deuce Harness
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SpareParts Deuce Harness
We didn’t think there would ever been anything better than the SpareParts Joque Harness, but that was because we never considered the possibility of the Deuce! This classic jock-strap style harness can accommodate a penis as well as a dildo for double the fun! You can also use two dildos, however, SpareParts has not designed the Deuce for this purpose. The medium size fits a 20 to 50 inch hip, and the large fits a 35 to 65 inch hip. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about SpareParts Deuce Harness.

$178.00 CAD

Aslan G-String Jaguar Harness
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Aslan G-String Jaguar Harness
Aslan's classic strap-on harness in sexy g-string style. Fully adjustable with interchangeable rubber rings to fit the toy of your choice up to 2" in diamater. G-string strap can hold a dildo or butt-plug in-place on the wearer. Medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52. Nickel-plated hardware on this hot garment leather harness

Learn more about Aslan G-String Jaguar Harness.

$95.00 CAD

Aslan Pleasure Harness Kit
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Aslan Pleasure Harness Kit
Pleasure yourself or someone else with this great new strap-on kit! Available in pink or black, the Pleasure Harness Kit comes with a harness that can be easily changed from a jock-style to a g-string-style harness, and comes complete with a silicone dildo designed especially for anal play! Fits hips 26" - 44" (5 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Aslan Pleasure Harness Kit.

$110.00 CAD

Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief
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We're going to be totally honest with you here: the SpareParts Tomboii has so much going on that there's simply no way to do justice to it in a web description, but we'll try. If you know us at all, you know that we're incredibly picky about the stuff we stock in our shop, and until the SpareParts Tomboi came out, we rejected every underwear-style harness that came our way. Similarly, until the Tomboii came out, we wouldn't look twice at a boxer brief harness because we've never found one that actually kept a dildo firmly in place - traditionally, boxer brief harnesses are a total goat rodeo. Except for this one.

Everything about this harness is phenomenal. Whether you're looking for some classic penetration play, or want to go full DP on the one you love, this harness has you covered. With two O rings, and three - count them - inserts for a One Touch Bullet, it is an understatement to say that the Tomboii is stimulation. Packer-friendly, durable, comfortable, and lightweight to boot.

Learn more about Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief.

$155.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Chin Up Harness
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Aslan Leather Chin Up Harness
Chin-up soldier! This brilliant face harness from Aslan Leather is light-weight, durable, and versatile. Functional as a face/chin harness or as a penis-style gag, this garment leather harness is truly limited only by your own imagination! Dildo sold separately.

Learn more about Aslan Leather Chin Up Harness.

$57.00 CAD

Aslan Leather Nicki Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Leather Nicki Jaguar Harness
Aslan Leather's Jaguar Harness is a staple here at Come As You Are. Soft, sumptuous garment leather, smooth lines, and a lifetime warranty are just a few of the perks of this popular harness. Aslan now has the Nicki on offer: everything you love about the Jaguar, but in hot pink leather! More of a red person? Be sure to sigh longingly at the Jaguar Cherry instead!

Learn more about Aslan Leather Nicki Jaguar Harness.

$130.00 CAD

Classic Gaff
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Finding clothing that is sexy and supportive is no easy task. Doubly so when we're talking lingerie. This thong-style gaff has been made out of lycra with a wider front to provide extra coverage and support for all those looking to tuck- whether you identify as trans, genderqueer, MTF, a drag queen or panty aficionado, we've got just the panty for you!

Sizing:
Small: 28-30"
Medium: 32-34"
Large: 36-38"
XL: 38-42"

Learn more about Classic Gaff.

$18.00 CAD , Regular price $28.00

Form Function Slingshot Harness
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Form Function Slingshot Harness
This harness has been designed by Form Function to work with their wearable STP devices - the Model A and Model D Sport. A simple vinyl panel securely holds the packer up against the genital area to ensure it stays in place during wear. The straps wrap around the thigh (where the leg meets the torso, approximately where a pair of briefs would end), and are made of an elastic material. The waist dimensions for each size are approximately the following: Small = 28-32; Medium = 32=36; Large = 36-42; XL = 42-48.

Learn more about Form Function Slingshot Harness.

$36.00 CAD

Lace Gaff
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Lace Gaff
This sexy panty has a reinforced gusset and snug fit designed to support folks' genitals if they're planning on tucking. Available in black, ivory white, and a beautiful plum purple in sizes ranging from medium to 5X!

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$35.00 CAD

SpareParts La Palma Hand Harness
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SpareParts La Palma Hand Harness
Get ready for the ride of your life! This amazing hand-harness from SpareParts gives you complete control in the palm of your hand. Literally. The stretchy neoprene is waterproof and easy to clean. Comes in many sizes to ensure a good fit. Well-made, durable, and easily the best hand-harness we've crossed paths with.

Learn more about SpareParts La Palma Hand Harness.

$175.00 CAD

SpareParts Pete Commando
SpareParts Pete Commando
For the times when you wish you could just go commando, but still need somewhere to put your packer, SpareParts' Pete Commando Harness is sure to do the trick! With an elastic loop on the inside of the packer pouch to keep everything securely in-place, this harness lets you keep everything front-and-center or allows you to lean a little to the left or right (especially with the larger packers). Comfortable, durable and machine washable!

Learn more about SpareParts Pete Commando.

$38.00 CAD

SpareParts Sasha Harness
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SpareParts Sasha Harness
Get it on in style - and comfort! SpareParts Hardwear's Sasha harness is not only one of the most comfy harnesses we've ever experienced, it is also one of the most sexy harnesses we've ever encountered! Unlike most harnesses out there, Sasha has no bulky buckles or rivets to get between you and the action. Compatible with any dildo up to 2" in diameter, Sasha doesn't makes any sacrifices for style, and you'll find this machine-washable harness is not only durable, but also extremely effective for all sorts of play. The SpareParts Sasha comes complete with storage satchel, mesh bag for laundering, and is probably the sexiest (and most functional) garter belt we've ever encountered.

Learn more about SpareParts Sasha Harness.

$200.00 CAD

Sportsheets Neoprene Thigh Harness
Sportsheets Neoprene Thigh Harness
Strap it on and you are good to go! This great thigh harness provides a greater range of possible positions and a great solution for those suffering from lower back pain. Made of Neoprene, this harness is highly adjustable, easy to clean, and won’t slide off the leg too easily.

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$40.00 CAD

Sinvention Thigh Harness
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Sinvention Thigh Harness
Leave it to someone from Ontario to come up with a super sexy thigh harness that works just as good as it looks. This thigh harness is fully adjustable, comes with two steel rings, and doesn't slip off making way for endless positions and possibilities. This harness works better with dildos of less girth - or with an oblong base. Dildo not included. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Sinvention Thigh Harness.

$90.00 CAD

 

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