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Choosing sex toys is an entirely subjective activity. We think that there is something pretty great about all of the sex toys we carry, but once in a while there's something that blows-the-socks (or something else) off of our reviewer, and we've created this page for those few toys that really impress us.

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Aslan Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Jaguar Harness
Aslan's Jaguar was an instant classic when it was revealed a few years ago. This is the Jaguar that started it all. Made from soft and supple garment leather, the Jaguar's nickle-plated D-rings allow for easy leg strap adjustment and comfortable wearing. Best of all, this harness is sexy-as-hell. Medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52". Made of leather. Made in Canada.

Learn more about Aslan Jaguar Harness.

$95.00

Fleshlight Sex in a Can Lady Lager
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Fleshlight Sex in a Can Lady Lager
Anyone can become a masterbrewer with Fleshlight’s Sex in a Can! These semi-discreet masturbation sleeves feature brand new textures but are made from Fleshlight’s classic real- feel material. Lady Lager features multiple internal textures and rows of suction chambers to provide wave upon wave of intense stimulation. Made of phthalate-free cyberskin.

Learn more about Fleshlight Sex in a Can Lady Lager.

$65.00

Fun Factory Share
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Fun Factory Share
Designed for use with or without an accompanying harness; those with strong PC muscles will find Fun Factory's Share Double Dildo easy to use and hold on to without a harness, while the smooth and ergonomic curves on this toy also ensure that it fits well within a harness. This is also a great toy for folks who really want to 'feel' their dildo during sex. Smaller insertable portion measures 4 1/2" x 1 3/4" Made of phthalate-free silicone. (6 1/2" x 1 3/4")

Learn more about Fun Factory Share.

$110.00

Fun Factory Stronic Eins
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Fun Factory Stronic Eins
The next big innovation in sex toys is brought to us by Fun Factory right out of Germany and we are thrilled! This month they’ve launched the ground-breaking Fun Factory Stronic Eins - the first ever pulsating toy. Perhaps the greatest design development since the Rabbit vibrator, this multi-speed, waterproof rechargeable pulsating toy is aligned with Fun Factory’s iconic level of quality and sure to change the sex toy market. Made of phthalate-free silicone. (6" x 1 3/4")

Learn more about Fun Factory Stronic Eins.

$200.00

Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant 4 oz
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Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant 4 oz
New! Hathor lube in a squeeze bottle! A lubricant made for skipping through the daisies! Hathor Aphrodisia pure lube is organically sourced, contains Horny Goat Weed and feels soft like velvet. This water-based lube is unscented, unflavoured and non-sticky. Made with love in Canada.

Ingredients: de-ionized water, acacia gum, vegetable propylene glycol, jujuba zizyphus, siberian ginsing, horny goat weed, ascorbic acid
Made in Canada.

Learn more about Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant 4 oz.

$18.00

Hitachi Magic Wand Massager
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One of the few early brand names in sex toys, the Hitachi Magic Wand is our bestselling vibrator. With a soft, tennis-ball-sized head and pulsating vibrations, this toy is a favourite for both solo and partner play. Two speeds - strong and stronger. Compatible with a wide range of attachments for even more intense vibratory fun! (11" x 2")

Learn more about Hitachi Magic Wand Massager.

$60.00 , Regular price $80.00

Jimmyjane Form 6
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Jimmyjane Form 6
The next generation of luxury vibrators is here. From the creators of the Little Gold and Little Steel, the Form 6 is Jimmyjane's remarkable, rechargeable multi-function silicone creation. With two independently-controlled vibrating 'pleasure centers', a sleek and streamlined design that is fully waterproof, the Form 6 is the new gold standard for luxury sex toys. Now improved and waterproof! Charging station fully encloses the Form 6 for a clean and discreet charge every time. Made of phthalate-free silicone. (7" x 1 3/4")

Learn more about Jimmyjane Form 6.

$170.00

Kegelcisor
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Kegelcisor
Medically developed and cast in surgical stainless steel, the kegelcisor is a barbell for your vagina, allowing for easy PC muscle exercises that contribute to overall health and powerful orgasms. The Kegelcisor adds resistance to regular Kegel exercises. Great for anyone seeking a traditional Betty Dodson style vaginal barbell and amazing for g-spot play too! Made of phthalate-free stainless steel. (7" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Kegelcisor.

$90.00

LifeStyles Skyn
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LifeStyles Skyn
At long last, a non-latex condom that’s affordable and provides protection equal to latex. Let us introduce you to LifeStyles SKYN, condoms made of stretchy polyisoprene to provide a more comfortable and custom fit than traditional polyurethane non-latex condoms at half the cost.

Learn more about LifeStyles Skyn.

$16.00

New York Toy Collective Love Bump
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By now you may have heard about New York Toy Collective's much adored pack and play dildo, Shilo. The Love Bump, also made by NYTC, is a sexy, cushioning, vibrating add-on that can be used with virtually any dildo. The mini vibe tucked into the side of this realistic toy can be used to share some good vibrations, or simply use the Love Bump to fancy up a much-loved dick! Made out of boilable silicone, these balls are sure to put a swagger in any step. Comes complete with a one-speed One Touch Bullet! Made of phthalate-free silicone. (4" x 3")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Love Bump.

$50.00

Pack-Man
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Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. Made of phthalate-free silicone. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Pack-Man.

$58.00

Pjur Eros Silicone Lubricant 100 ml
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Pjur Eros Silicone Lubricant 100 ml
Our premium silicone based lubricant, Eros is ideal for use in water and for anyone looking for a long lasting lube. Unlike water-based lubes, Eros will never become tacky and gets even more slippery when wet! Great for massage. Condom-compatible and non-toxic too!

Ingredients: dimethicone, dimethiconol, cyclomethicone Silicone lubes are completely condom compatible, but not for use with silicone toys.

Learn more about Pjur Eros Silicone Lubricant 100 ml.

$26.00

Sliquid Organics Massage Oil
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Sliquid Organics Massage Oil
Looking for a more natural massage oil? Sliquid Organics brings their unique take on body-friendly sexuality products to the sensual world of massage. With USDA certified organic ingredients, Sliquid massage oil comes in coconut lime scented Tranquility and unscented Escape for folks looking for all of the relaxation and no extra ingredients.

Ingredients: Sweet Almond Oil, Coconut Oil, Grape Seed Oil, Sunflower Seed Oil, Macadamia Nut Oil, Jojoba Seed Oil, Mango & Shea Butter, Vitamin E, USDA Certified Organics Extracts of Flax, Green Tea, Hibiscus & Aloe Barbadensis, Natural Essence

Learn more about Sliquid Organics Massage Oil.

$16.00

SpareParts Sasha Harness
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SpareParts Sasha Harness
Get it on in style - and comfort! SpareParts Hardwear's Sasha harness is not only one of the most comfy harnesses we've ever experienced, it is also one of the most sexy harnesses we've ever encountered! Unlike most harnesses out there, Sasha has no bulky buckles or rivets to get between you and the action. Compatible with any dildo up to 2" in diameter, Sasha doesn't makes any sacrifices for style, and you'll find this machine-washable harness is not only durable, but also extremely effective for all sorts of play. The SpareParts Sasha comes complete with storage satchel, mesh bag for laundering, and is probably the sexiest (and most functional) garter belt we've ever encountered. Made of phthalate-free nylon.

Learn more about SpareParts Sasha Harness.

$140.00

Splash
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Splash
A curvaceous vibe with a strong buzz, a beautiful smooth translucent aqua finish, and a tapered tip. This slim, hard plastic vibe is perfect for splashing around this summer, or any season! Made of phthalate-free hard plastic. (6 " x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Splash.

$28.00

Tantus Fantasy Gag
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Tantus Fantasy Gag
Looking for something to fill that spot just right? Check out Tantus' Fantasy Gag - it's texture and shape re-imagines the classic ball gag, and is much more reminiscent of a silicone cockhead that just won't... go... away. The removable gag is boilable, and is attached to a leather strap, adjustable via its velcro enclosure. Made of phthalate-free silicone.

Learn more about Tantus Fantasy Gag.

$42.00

Tenga Eggs - Carton of Six
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Tenga Eggs - Carton of Six
How do you make an omelet without breaking any eggs? Tenga, the newest Japanese men’s sex toy maker knows, and we’re here to share their secret with the world. Tenga Eggs are the cutest and most innovative sex gadget for guys we’ve seen in a long time. Each egg contains a super stretchy, highly textured sleeve for hours of reusable solo or partner play. There are six styles in all, and if you buy a half dozen, you get a deal and a carton! This six pack includes the Clicker, Stepper, Spider, Silky, Wavy, and Twister Eggs. Made of phthalate-free elastomer.

Learn more about Tenga Eggs - Carton of Six.

$40.00

The Grey Tie from SportSheets
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The Grey Tie from SportSheets
We don't care if you judge us for loving The Grey Tie from Sportsheets' Sex and Mischief line - we love it anyhow! Mr Grey's grey tie is sure to prove to be the quintessential sex toy of 2012 - perhaps second only to Lelo's Luna Beads. Whether you wear it for fashion, suggestively gift it to your beloved, or just skip to the chase and use it for a sensuous bondage scene, The Grey Tie is sure to bring a smile to the faces of all who encounter it. Just like in the 50 Shades trilogy, the Sportsheet's grey tie has a unique texture sure to leave a distinct impression on someone you love or lust for.

Learn more about The Grey Tie from SportSheets.

$14.00

Tweezer Clamps with Bell
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Tweezer Clamps with Bell
Make some noise tonight with these classic tweezer clamps!! Each clamp is attached to a charming bell - the more you move around, the louder they'll be!

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$22.00

Wahl Deep Space Nine
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Wahl Deep Space Nine
This electric vibe shipped (beamed?) in from Wahl is blowing our minds. Its long handle is easy to hold, or rest on your body if you're in the mood for a hands-free experience. The four interchangeable heads adjust according to the pressure placed against them, and vary in shape, size, and texture. The beyond-belief powerful vibration turns heads with it's deep, rumble-y strobes, and adjustable speeds. While the Wahl DS9 is not officially endorsed by the United Federation of Planets, we assure you you won't be dissatisfied if you're on a mission for a powerful and adjustable toy! Here on earth, this vibrator is known as the Wahl Deep Tissue Massager. Made of phthalate-free hard plastic. (12" x 3")

Learn more about Wahl Deep Space Nine.

$75.00

Sliquid Organics Natural 8oz
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Sliquid Organics Natural 8oz
We've always loved Sliquid for being lightyears ahead of most lube companies by only making lubes that are both paraben and glycerin free, and now with Sliquid Organics they've raised the bar even higher with this natural line of lubricants. Sliquid Natural has a light consistency but stays put.

Ingredients: Purified Water, Plant Cellulose (from Cotton), Aloe Barbadensis*, Natural Tocopherols (Vitamin E), Cyamopsis (Guar Conditioners), Extracts of Hibiscus*, Flax*, Green Tea* & Sunflower Seed*, Citric Acid (Citrus Fruits), Phenoxyethanol (Rose Ether)

* Organic botanical extracts are independently certified by Quality Certification Services in compliance with the USDA National Organic Program.

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$20.00

Books

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Brazen Femme
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Brazen Femme
Femmes frustrated with their relational identity to Butches and pissed-off over stereotypes that they are simply to amazing to fit spill their guts on these pages in the form of poetry, comics, prose and essays on the fabulous and tremulous world of Femmes. Professors, sex workers, journalists and the unemployed articulate their relationship to femme(inity) and their re-making of gendered femininity through their hardbreaks, invisibility in queer communities and daily embodied living. Broaching such topics as dealing with ageing, racism and gender, mothering and fat phobia, these Brazen Femmes break through the rigid Butch/Femme barrier with their fierce and bold articulation of their gender(s) Made in Canada.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 2/5

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$21.95

House of Holes
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House of Holes
Nicholson Baker's newest novel, The House Of Holes: A Book of Raunch merges magical realism with a particularly potent talent for stringing together creative naughty words, adding dashes of humor for good measure. Get sucked through the straw of your sherry cobbler and enter the House of Holes where you can experience the groanroom, pussy-surf on White Lake or enjoy the endless sexy images of the Porndecahedron. This novel is a sex-positive excapade into a world were consentual sex abounds and morphing bodies is always a pleasurable experience. House of Holes will certainly keep you captured and searching for the portal to those insatiable holes. Paperback edition

Explicitness: Explicitness: 4/5

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$17.00

Mind-Blowing Sex: A Women's Guide
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Mind-Blowing Sex: A Women's Guide
What use are tips and techniques or toys and gadgets if we don't feel empowered about our own sexuality? Diana Cage goes beyond the superficial tricks and gets into the depth of our complex sexualities, exploring what has dissuaded us from embracing our sexualities so that we may find sexual empowerment. Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide is both an inclusive (Cage often switches gender pronouns and is inclusive of a diversity of sexual preferences) and accessible guide to seeking pleasure. Cage explores how sex starts with the mind, attitudes and judgments that can either limit us from attaining the pleasure we seek, or open up a plethora of possibilities. She then goes on to discuss pleasure-based anatomy, toys and power play and goes through creative ideas for giving or receiving pleasure, whomever your partner(s) may be. Definitely a guide to sexploration that we can be behind!

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$18.50

New View of a Woman's Body
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New View of a Woman's Body
This fully illustrated guide by the Federation of Feminist Women's Health Center’s will go down in feminist history as the most complete, interestingly illustrated information on female pleasure-based anatomy in history. No other book, as of yet, has topped the amazing array of information on the structure of the clitoris, the working of that amazing perennial sponge (""g-spot"") or how to do menstrual extractions. Back during the earlier days of consciousness-raising groups, a federation of feminists got together to challenge the dominant medical models of female health, and do their own research, the results of which were, and still are, a ground-breaking departure from boring reproductive diagrams. Featuring home remedies for vulvas ailments (BV, cramps), pictures of cervixes in different states of health, full diagrams of what goes on during a hysterectomy, and much more.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

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$25.00

Sex In The System
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Sex In The System
Stories of Erotic Futures, Technological Stimulation, and the Sensual Life of Machines
Edited by Cecilia Tan
Science and the erotic meet in this ode to the future. A dense collection filled with great writers like M. Christian and Jennifer Stevenson. With nary a stale story in the bunch, you will be delightfully surprised by each tale. Great for both science fiction readers and those who prefer to be earth bound, we guarantee that anyone looking for fresh erotic writing that seeks to explore new territories around sex, sexuality and gender will be very pleased! 283pp.

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$20.50

Sex With The Lights On
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Sex With The Lights On
200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered
By Ducky DooLittle
Ducky has traveled the world with her one woman show full of wit, humour and sexiness. Now she’s brought all the questions she’s heard from fans seeking advice into one concise volume for a great educational read. She offers lots of comfort and sage wisdom sprinkled with a good sense of wickedness to her writing and shares illuminating answers to such questions as “What's the best oral sex technique?” and “How can a couple introduce anal sex into their relationship?”. Sex with the Lights On is a very accessible and fun book full of insight! 282 pp.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 2/5

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$21.50

Healing Painful Sex
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Healing Painful Sex
A women's Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain
Unwanted pain during sex is a very common experience that is often brushed aside and rarely publicly addressed. Unfortunately, many doctors are ignorant about disagnosis and treatments. Some doctors may find it difficult to talk about pain during sex or are outright offensive to patients seeking their help. Thankfully, gynecologist Deborah Coady and patient/grief concellor Nancy Fish have collaborated to create this amazing resource "Healing Painful Sex." A great resource for both patient and doctor, this book details a variety of possible causes of unwanted pain during sex, demonstrates which diagnositic tools you should ask for during a doctor's visit, and suggests possible treatments. With supportive first-hand accounts of women's experiences of healing, this book breaks down the silence around women's sexual health so that healing can begin.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

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$20.50

Videos

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Bad Wives
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Bad Wives DVD
A story of husbands and wives, love and hate, and one really hot scene in a meat locker...it's got to be Paul Thomas. Known for high end productions, lots of steamy sex, and a focus on the relationships between people, Paul Thomas is one of porn's Golden Boys--and with Bad Wives he shows you why.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

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$20.00

Chemistry
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Chemistry DVD
We are huge fans of Tristan Taormino's work, especially when she directs. Her newest is based on a popular reality t.v. show, where we see seven of today's hottest stars cooped up for two days in a gorgeous mansion. No script, no plan, no plot -- anything goes. Tons of toys and more sexual scenarios than you could imagine! The first scene is fantastic, featuring a dynamic pairing between Marie Luv and Mr. Marcus; you'll see why this scorcher of a film is called "Chemistry". Tristan is the queen of explict porn that just features a lot of great sex between people who are having a good time.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

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$29.00

Healing Sex
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Healing Sex DVD
Healing Sex is a recovery program for those of us who have experienced trauma or sexual abuse in the past, and who want to take steps towards their own sexual wholeness. Through group therapy, one-on-one workshops and physical exercises, Staci Haines takes us on a path of recovery and discovery that is in-depth, step by step, and revolutionary. This two hour DVD tells the story of couples that are having trouble connecting sexually, and by using techniques of creating boundaries, dealing with triggers, and developing alternative forms of expression we see how these couples grow and begin to overcome their pain and difficulty. Interspersed with survivors and those who have healed talking about their own journey and how they have recovered, the viewer is taken on an emotional and uplifting path that is full of easy to follow and easy to practice exercises that are invaluable to not only survivors, but their partners as well. Diverse cast with diverse sexualities. Also available: the book Healing Sex, also written by Staci Haines.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

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$45.00

 

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