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Choosing sex toys is an entirely subjective activity. We think that there is something pretty great about all of the sex toys we carry, but once in a while there's something that blows-the-socks (or something else) off of our reviewer, and we've created this page for those few toys that really impress us.

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Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness
Whew, this is a sleek and sexy harness! The front part of the harness is made with Aslan's thick grade rubber, and all the straps on this jock-style harness are made with their thin and grippy bioskin material (lycra with a polyurethane core). This means you wont have any bulky material in your buckles, and a harness that stays put! We love how lean and minimalist this harness looks!

Learn more about Aslan Leather Vegan Jaguar Harness.

$125.00

B Swish Bdesired Curve
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B Swish Bdesired Curve
Seeking a good-looking and straightforward toy, yet don't want to invest a lot of money in the process? B Swish has earned their tagline of 'Affordable Luxury Massagers' with toys priced accessibly without compromising design and functionality. Waterproof, with many speeds and pulsations to choose from, the Bdesired Curve features smooth lines ending in a slight curve, for those seeking vibration and a g-spot friendly design. (4 3/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about B Swish Bdesired Curve.

$35.00

Fleshlight LaunchPad
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on sale sex toy Fleshlight LaunchPad
Yet another innovative product by the folks at Fleshlight! Hook up any Fleshlight to this easy-to-grip platform, add your iPad (versions 2-4) and enjoy an amazing hands-on approach to sex play and porn! Oh, and try attaching the VStroker for an even more mind-blowing POV porn experience! Please note that the Sex In A Can series is not compatible with this accessory.

Learn more about Fleshlight LaunchPad.

$30.00 , Regular price $40.00

Form Function Model A STP
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Form Function Model A STP
We've quested for years for a reliable stand-to-pee device that can be worn safely and securely for urinating while standing up, and we think we've found the golden ticket with Form Function's STPs! Many STP devices we've looked at over the years do not fit differently-shaped bodies well, or don't have a reservoir that is deep enough for funneling pee safely through the prosthetic (read: backsplash). Form Function's handmade products feature a flexible but sturdy design, and have impressed us with their user-friendliness. That being said, we would still strongly suggest practicing peeing with a STP before using outside of safer spaces, since having an unruly prosthetic can be a severe safety issue.

The Model A features a larger design than the Model D Sport - although their reservoirs appear to be the same. Designed to be worn with the Form Function Slingshot Harness, this packer fits up snugly against the urethral area for the purposes of peeing while standing. (3 1/2" x 1 3/8")

Learn more about Form Function Model A STP.

$115.00

Fuze Ultra
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Fuze Ultra
Fuze is a silicone maker that is constantly exploring and honing exactly what they want to see in the world of sex toys, with a perfectionist streak a mile wide. The Ultra has been painstakingly designed to be an ultra realistic toy that is optimal for wearing in harnesses. With space for a One Touch Bullet, a soft and fleshy feel, and designed with lots of texture, this toy sure knows how to shine! The first soft-feel silicone dildo guaranteed not to shrink over time. A Canadian creation, made in the USA. (6" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about Fuze Ultra.

$60.00

Ginger Kiss Massage Oil
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Ginger Kiss Massage Oil
This delicious edible, warming, massage oil is perfect for kissing and licking off till your heart’s (and taste bud’s!) content. Made with organic local sunflower oil that gives it a beautiful ginger colour, vegan vegetable glycerine that causes a warming chemical reaction in our mouths and on our skin, and Ginger essential oil and Vanilla essential oil for delicious flavour. Safe and sweet!

Ingredients: vegatable glyverine, sunflower oil* **(Helianthus annuus), essential oil of Vanilla planifolia in jojoba oil (Simmodsia chinensis) & ginger* (Zingiber officinale)

Learn more about Ginger Kiss Massage Oil.

$22.00

Hathor Sutil Lubricant
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Hathor Sutil Lubricant
Walking the line between liquid and gel, Sutil is a lube full of body, and features a slightly sweet taste. Slippery, and without unnecessary residue, this water-based lubricant will work well with toys, condoms, and any of your preferred body parts. Made by our favourite family business in British Columbia, we're excited to see this new recipe from the folks who brought us Hathor Aphrodisia!

Ingredients: Aqua, Propanediol* (Botanical Source), Hyaluronic Acid (Botanical Source), Nelumbo Nucifera Root Extract* (Lotus Root), Oat Beta Glucan*, Gluconolactone*, Sodium Benzoate*, Citric Acid. *=Eco Certified"

Learn more about Hathor Sutil Lubricant.

$24.00

Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator
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on sale sex toy Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator
Come on, be a little self-centered and treat yourself to a Mimi. From the creators of the Je Joue comes this powerful and pocketsized rechargeable vibe. The Je Joue Mimi is fully waterproof, and sports flashy metal push-button controls and multi-speed and multi-mode vibration. Je Joue's clever magnetic charger is also a nice touch. (3" x 1 5/8")

Learn more about Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator.

$80.00 , Regular price $95.00

Jimmyjane Form 5
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Jimmyjane's Form 5 is yet another intuitive design made with any body in mind. Designed predominantly for external use, the curves, fluttery edges, and ergonomic lines makes this rechargeable vibrator a toy packed with pleasurable potential that can range from delicate to decisive. A lovely toy for using by yourself, or sharing with a friend!

Learn more about Jimmyjane Form 5.

$165.00

Lelo Ina Wave
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on sale sex toy Lelo Ina Wave
Lelo has been taking amazing strides these last few years with their development of toys like the Ida and Ora: not only are they phenomenal vibrators, but they provide other types of sensation, like rotation, as well. With the announcement of the Ina Wave, we're seeing the next exciting step on this path. The Ina Wave features both vibration and a rocking 'come hither' motion. Seriously. The possibility for stimulating g-spots with a pulsating, massaging sex toy is blowing our minds over here. (3 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Lelo Ina Wave.

$185.00 , Regular price $210.00

Lelo Mona Wave
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on sale sex toy Lelo Mona Wave
Lelo has been taking amazing strides these last few years with their development of toys like the Ida and Ora: not only are they phenomenal vibrators, but they provide other types of sensation, like rotation, as well. With the announcement of the Mona Wave, we're seeing the next exciting step on this path. The Mona Wave features both vibration and a rocking 'come hither' motion. Seriously. The possibilities for g-spot or prostate massage with a pulsating, undulating sex toy is blowing our minds. (3 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Lelo Mona Wave.

$140.00 , Regular price $190.00

Lelo Pico Bong Transformer
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We could not be more in love with this new double-headed delight from Lelo! With over 24 inches of pure pleasure, the Lelo Transformer has two vibrating ends, and a world of handle between them. Whether you're looking to pleasure yourself and a partner, or you're just seeking a double-your-pleasure transformable dual-function vibe, Transformer will hit the spot - well, two of them actually! If you've ever found that those rabbit vibrators have never worked with your body, this very adjustable vibe may be the solution. With great reach, strong vibrations, and an almost infinitely bendable design, we think that this is one of the best inventions Lelo has come up with to date. (25" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Lelo Pico Bong Transformer.

$105.00 , Regular price $110.00

Lelo Siri 2 Vibrator
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on sale sex toy Lelo Siri 2 Vibrator
The Siri 2 by Lelo features a now fully waterproof design, as well as multiple music modes - toggle through settings such as Rumba, Hip Hop, Folk, Jazz, Techno, Classical, and Reggae to enjoy a variety of different vibration styles. Excitingly, the Siri 2 also features a sound-response mode: it will vibrate in response to any noises happening around it! With a stronger motor and slightly re-vamped shape, this handheld rechargeable vibrator is an exciting improvement from its much-loved predecessor.

Learn more about Lelo Siri 2 Vibrator.

$120.00 , Regular price $140.00

Nom Nom Balm
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Nom Nom Balm
There’s no petroleum in this Nom! Nom! Balm. Made for lips and nipples, and anywhere else you want to feel tingle! Completely edible and made with essential oils of peppermint and tangerine. The perfect little tickle to get you titillated!

Ingredients: shea butter (Butyrospermum paradoxum), essential oil of peppermint (Mentha arvensis) & tangerine (Citrus reticulata clanco var tangerina)

Learn more about Nom Nom Balm.

$6.00

Now Vanilla Citrus Massage Oil
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Now Vanilla Citrus Massage Oil
This massage product has a non-greasy and hydrating feel, featuring a blend of different oils, and playful vanilla and citrus scent.

Ingredients: Sweet Almond Oil, Apricot Kernel Oil, Rose Hip Seed Oil, Jojoba Oil, Tangerine Oil, Orange Oil, Rosemary Extract, Vitamin E, Vanilla Extract.

Learn more about Now Vanilla Citrus Massage Oil.

$23.00

Province Apothecary Lover's Oil
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Province Apothecary Lover's Oil
Toronto's very own Province Apothecary has done it again! If you fell in love with their Sex Oil for it's non-greasy and long lasting glide, making it perfect for both sex and massage, then their Lover's Oil is sure to make your heart swell all over again! With a coconut oil base, this oil features a smoky and sultry scent that smells pretty darn sexy. Massage the nights away with this high quality oil brimming with craftsmanship and Kensington pride.

Ingredients: Coconut Oil, Sunflower Seed Oil, Evening Primose Oil, Vitamin E, Rosemary Leaf Extract, Bergamot Oil, Salvia Oil, Ylang Ylang Oil, Rose Oil, Cedar Wood Oil, Vetiver Oil, Jasmine Oil, Cardamom Oil.

Learn more about Province Apothecary Lover's Oil.

2oz - $20.00
4oz - $32.00

Province Apothecary Sex Oil
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Province Apothecary Sex Oil
The lovely folks at this Toronto company (based in Kensington Market) sent over a sample of this oil, and we are completely blown away by it. Light, slippery, long lasting, and made with organic ingredients, this coconut oil based lubricant is impressive as both a lube and massage product.

Ingredients: Fractionated Coconut Oil, Sunflower Seed Oil*, Evening Primrose Oil* and GMO-free Vitamin E. *Certified Organic/Certifié Biologique

Learn more about Province Apothecary Sex Oil.

2oz Bottle - $16.00
4oz Bottle - $28.00

Rattan Cane
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Rattan Cane
Well, we've taken the plunge. After years of not offering our lovingly hand-crafted straight canes via our online store, we've decided to live life to the fullest and change our approach. Canes are notoriously individual - kinda like wands in the Harry Potter series. Each one is magical in it's own way. As such, while we've done our best to provide clear and concise descriptions of the dimensions and designs of our canes, do be aware that these are approximations, and each cane is different (oh, the joys of hand-made implements)! Curious to know more about canes? Check out our brochure on the topic!

Small: approximately 5.5mm wide. It provides an intense stingy sensation, and is the lightest and whippiest of the canes we carry.
Medium: Ranges between approx 6.5 and 7.5mm wide.
Large: Between approx 7.5 & 8.5mm wide.
XL: The thickness of this cane ranges from 9 to 10mm. This is a thuddy implement, but still can pack some serious sting!

Learn more about Rattan Cane.

$35.00

We-Vibe 4 Plus
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The We-Vibe 4 Plus features a really exciting upgrade from historic We-Vibe products: it features a free app that allows it to be controlled from a distance: whether on the other side of the room, or other side of the world. Synch up a smartphone with this toy using the We-Vibe app, and then invite someone else to play! Simple to setup and with many amazing features not before available to We-Vibe users, this toy is sure to become a favourite of those in long-distance relationships, or who want their smartphones to play a more active role in their sex lives! We-Vibe has released two versions - one includes a handheld remote as well as the app, and one includes only the app, with no additional remote.

The minimum requirements for this toy to be long-distance-enabled are as follows: Connectivity requires active Bluetooth connection on two Bluetooth Smart Ready devices. It requires WiFi or cellular data on both devices. It is compatible with many products including: iPhone 4S and newer, iPad Touch 5th Gen and newer, iPad 3rd Gen and newer, iPad mini and newer, Android 4.3 and later, HTC One, Samsung Galaxy S3, and Samsung Galaxy S4.7.

Learn more about We-Vibe 4 Plus.

App Only Version - Purple - $135.00 $150.00
Remote & App Version - Purple - $180.00 $189.00
Remote & App Version - Grey - $180.00 $189.00

Aslan Leather Vegan Princess Collar
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Aslan Leather Vegan Princess Collar
This adjustable 3/4" slim collar by the lovely folks at Toronto's Aslan Leather is made out of their vegan leather material, and finished with a prim and proper little D-ring. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Aslan Leather Vegan Princess Collar.

$27.00

Fuze Silicone Nova
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Fuze Silicone Nova
Like a long, tall glass of water, the Fuze Nova is refreshingly long-and-narrow! Great for anyone who wants a lot of stimulation without a lot of girth, this innovative dildo from Fuze Silicone comes complete with a textured base designed to provide stimulation when worn in a harness, and an insert for a vibrator for even more fun! This incredibly soft silicone won't shrink over time, and is as well suited to pegging as it is awesome g-spot play too. Harness and anal compatible! (5 1/2" x 1") This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Fuze Silicone Nova.

$44.00

Jimmyjane Form 2 Lux
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Is it getting hot in here, or is it just this oh-so-sexy vibrator?! Featuring all the amazing quality and power we've come to expect from Jimmyjane, you're looking at the five-year anniversary celebration of their much-desired bestselling Form 2 design. With an upgraded battery (making the two motors in this toy slightly stronger than the original), an additional function, and a tasteful black silicone design with 24K gold plating, we totally understand if you're feeling a little weak in the knees! This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Jimmyjane Form 2 Lux.

$155.00 , Regular price $230.00

LeatherBeaten Glow Belting Flogger
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LeatherBeaten Glow Belting Flogger
Whew, is it getting hot in here, or is just us? Another addition to our LeatherBeaten collection, the Glow flogger made with belting leather is a thing of stunning beauty. Thick, rich, and buttery leather with a lot of sting makes this flogger an amazing implement with revolutionary possibilities (heh, see what we did there?!). While it may not be as stingy as rubber, this flogger provides a much stronger sensation than many of our other leather floggers, thanks to the thick grade leather. Oh, and it's proudly handmade in Ontario! (18" ) This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about LeatherBeaten Glow Belting Flogger.

$85.00

Vibratex Magic Wand Rechargeable
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Say hello to an important new chapter in sex toy history! With four power intensities and four different pulsation modes, this toy will have an exponential number of different sensation options unavailable in the classic corded Magic Wand. Unlike most cordless, rechargeable vibes, this wand will also be plug-and-play friendly. If you've accidentally drained the battery, just plug in the toy, and it will keep on going! This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Vibratex Magic Wand Rechargeable.

$125.00 , Regular price $175.00

Vibratex Rabbit Habit Deluxe
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Vibratex Rabbit Habit Deluxe
With a ton of extra settings and pulsations replacing the classic slider-style control pack, this classic from the fine folks at Vibratex has been completely re-imagined, and, despite the fact we didn't think it possible, an exciting improvement upon it's predecessor. (4 1/2" x 1 1/2") This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Vibratex Rabbit Habit Deluxe.

$90.00

Vixen Tristan 1.5
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Vixen Tristan 1.5
Dreaming of upgrading to the Vixen Tristan 2, but worried that your eyes may be bigger than your...? Play it safe (and sexy) with this still-substantial Tristan 1.5. Made by the good folks at Vixen in the USA, this soft silicone plug might just be the thing to fill the hole in your...! (3 1/2" x 2") This item is currently out of stock

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$65.00

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100 Crushes
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100 Crushes
Elisha Lim's 100 Crushes is a compilation of the last 5 years of their queer comics. A beautiful collection of their queer-iconic (queerconic? gaymous?) art and storytelling that explore the actualities of gender, queer desire, family, community, and survival, this book is full of tenderness, love, power, loss and heartbreak. Lim's adoration of butches, sissies, dandies and convent girls (as well as everyone in-between) radiates in each page.

Learn more about 100 Crushes.

$22.50

Best Sex Writing of the Year
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While this title may be the best sex writing of the year, we'll go out on a limb and say it is actually the best sex writing anthology we've seen since Cleis press initially introduced this annual title. Edited by local favourite (and sometimes CAYA workshop facilitator) Jon Pressick, this title has packed more sex educators, activists, and artists in than we ever thought possible. From Cory Silverberg's brilliant (and true) "We Need a New Orientation to Sex" to Morgan Page's essential "Crazy Trans Woman Syndrome", this year's best sex writing is beyond thought-provoking - it should be required reading for anyone interested in sex and sex culture. We found it downright inspiring.

Learn more about Best Sex Writing of the Year.

$23.50

Come As You Are
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Come As You Are
The surprising new science that will transform your sex life
Whether you're someone who enthusiastically identifies as a 'sex nerd' or you're someone who has spent some time in your life worrying that there's something about your sexuality that's not normal, Come As You Are is sure to be a ridiculously enlightening reading experience. Our co-op has always been extremely skeptical of sex research - it often tells you much more about the researcher than the subject - but Emily Nagoski's book takes the last fifty years of sex research and manages to explain it in a thorough, critical, and entertaining fashion. If anyone has ever told you that your body, or desire, or relationships is weird or wrong or fucked up, Come As You Are is here to tell you that you're okay, the person who told you that is wrong, and science can prove it. Just like the last fifty years of sex research, this book has a cis focus, but we think it is applicable to people of all genders.

Learn more about Come As You Are.

$18.99

I Am Jazz
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I Am Jazz
I Am Jazz has taken the world by storm! Never before has a storybook co-written by the trans protagonist (Jazz) been circulated so widely, and featured reviews on the back from powerful women like Laverne Cox and Janet Mock. The story Jazz writes with Jessica Herthel outlines an important journey for this young girl. As someone born with "a girl's brain in a boy's body", Jazz shares her experiences of gender, as well as her family's and school's gradual acceptance of who she is. A deceivingly simple story, which we hope will be followed by many more.

Learn more about I Am Jazz.

$19.99

Invisible Orientation
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An Introduction to Asexuality
Julie Sondra Decker's Invisible Orientation is a much needed and welcomed resource that explores asexuality. As she clearly expresses, this book is intended to be an introduction: you will find a wealth of writing dedicated to breaking down misconceptions about asexuality, and exploring the possibilities of asexuality. This book is helpful for folks interested in exploring asexuality as a personal orientation, and/or interested in supporting asexual people by learning more about this orientation- important in a world where asexuality is so often denied and invisibilized.

Learn more about Invisible Orientation.

$44.95

Jealousy Workbook
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Jealousy Workbook
Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships
Phew, this workbook blew our collective socks off! The Jealousy Workbook is filled with important questions, exercises, and observations, with support and guidance woven throughout to promote tangible and careful exploration of jealousy. This book has been designed largely for folks who are in a committed relationship and are additionally considering or engaging in other relationships. That being said, there is a lot of helpful and versatile information within this book regardless of your relationship style. An amazing resource promoting mindfulness, communication and intentionality!

Learn more about Jealousy Workbook.

$24.50

Kama Sutra Connect The Dots
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This playful hardcover book features pages upon pages filled with little but mysterious numbered dots - only you can uncover the sexy and timeless images hidden within! With English text quotes from the Kama Sutra, this playfully modern take on a much-loved classic is hard not to fall in love with!

Learn more about Kama Sutra Connect The Dots.

$12.50

Lesbian Sex Bible
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Lesbian Sex Bible
We're often reminding people to metaphorically not judge books by their covers, but in the case of Diana Cage's Lesbian Sex Bible, we mean it in the most literal sense of the phrase. This wonderfully comprehensive and inclusive guide to lesbian sex provides amazing amounts of practical sexual knowledge and doesn't assume anything about the reader's identity beyond their interest in lesbian sex and culture. By not just acknowledging, but actually embracing the diversity of lesbian communities - and all of the identities contained within - this book goes way beyond just offering up banal tips and tricks, and instead provides inspiration, empowerment, and context for lesbian sex culture. This is a great title for folks just coming out and beyond!

Learn more about Lesbian Sex Bible.

$29.99

Oh Joy Sex Toy
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Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh joy, indeed! Following an inspiring crowdfunding campaign, Erika Moen's beautiful, educational, and entertaining Oh Joy Sex Toy has emerged in book form - and we're among the very first to have it in our hands and in our shop. Whether you're an original Dar fan or you're just looking for a fun way to learn about the wild world of sex toys, we heartily recommend this thoroughly sex-positive guide (and reviews!) of so many of the amazing sex products the world has to offer. We've always had a weird relationship with sex toy review sites - they're often dependent on the toys that companies comp them, which means that the smaller indie companies with no cash never get reviewed - but we tend to agree with most of what Oh Joy Sex Toy has to say, and heck! Stoya is in it, so how could we not?

Learn more about Oh Joy Sex Toy.

$35.00

Sex is a Funny Word
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A Book about Bodies, Feelings, and YOU

From the publisher:
The eagerly anticipated follow up to Lambda-nominated What Makes a Baby, from sex educator Cory Silverberg and artist Fiona Smyth, Sex Is a Funny Word reimagines "sex talk" for the twenty-first century.

A comic book for kids that includes children and families of all makeups, orientations, and gender identities, Sex Is a Funny Word is an essential resource about bodies, gender, and sexuality for children ages 8 to 10 as well as their parents and caregivers.

Topics covered include:

  • What is sex?
  • Privacy, safety, and respect
  • Boundaries regarding nudity, talking about sex, and touch
  • Assigned sex, gender identity, and gender roles
  • Names and functions of body parts
  • Talking about the word “sexy”
  • Protecting yourself against unwanted sexual touch and abuse
  • Crushes, love, and sexy feelings
Much more than the "facts of life" or “the birds and the bees," Sex Is a Funny Word opens up conversations between young people and their caregivers in a way that allows adults to convey their values and beliefs while providing information about boundaries, safety, and joy. Sex Is a Funny Word is the first sex education book for this age group that is inclusive of lesbian, gay, and bisexual experience as well as gender creative and gender nonconforming children.

Pre-order now and have it delivered the moment it is released in July!

Learn more about Sex is a Funny Word.

$23.95

She Of The Mountains
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She Of The Mountains
Creator of the acclaimed "What I Love About Being Queer" and a recent book of short and gorgeous prose, "God Loves Hair", multimedia artist Vivek Shraya has birthed another literary gem with his first novel "She Of The Mountains". Stunningly illustrated by Raymond Biesinger, this novel explores experiences of embodiment, epic love, fluidity, and how the facets of ourselves reflect off of those we love - all while deftly weaving two parallel narratives together through time and space. The balance between the story of a queer Indian man growing up in Edmonton and Toronto and an intimate first-person retelling of Hindu mythology's story of Parvati is modern, powerful and nourishing.

Learn more about She Of The Mountains.

$18.95

Fetish Coloring Book
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Fetish Coloring Book
It's exactly what it sounds like: pages upon pages filled with many delightfully different sexy images, just waiting for your personal touch! This item is currently out of stock

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$12.25

Macho Sluts
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Macho Sluts
From the publisher:
When it was first published in 1988, Pat Califia's Macho Sluts, a collection of S/M stories set in San Francisco's dyke bathhouses, sex parties, and S/M gay bars, shocked the lesbian community and caused an upheaval in the field of queer publishing. Nobody had ever written so frankly about the kinky potential of woman-to-woman sex (and nobody has ever done it any better). If any book is responsible for the formation of the modern lesbian leather community, this one is it.

Despite its graceful language, imaginative scenarios, and abundant humour, the lesbian press trashed Macho Sluts, and it became a focal point for the infamous legal battles between Canada Customs and Little Sister's, the gay and lesbian bookstore in Vancouver. But readers loved it, and to this day Macho Sluts remains a vital and moving classic that still has the power to educate, radicalize, and expand our notions of the body's potential to provide us with pleasure, pain, and love.

This new edition, part of Arsenal's Little Sister's Classics series resurrecting classics of LGBT literature, includes a new foreword by the author, and an introduction by Wendy Chapkis, a Professor of Sociology and Women & Gender Studies at the University of Southern Maine in Portland. There are also essays by Jim Deva, co-owner of Little Sister's, and Joseph Arvay, chief counsel for the bookstore during its trial against Canada Customs. Read an except from Macho Sluts. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Macho Sluts.

$19.95

More Than Two
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More Than Two
This is easily the most thorough and enjoyable guide to modern polyamory and non-monogamy that we've ever had the good fortune to read. Drawing from mainstream and poly-specific sources - and the authors' personal experiences - the authors effectively dispel some of the most common misconceptions about non-monogamous relationships (held by many practicing poly, even) and provide a whole world of ideas, tools, and self-reflective exercises to help you on your polyamorous journey. While the anecdotes have a heterosexual focus, the content of this book manages to not assume anything about the reader except a genuine interest in learning more about polyamory. This remarkable title covers everything from learning how to listen actively and communicate non-violently to figuring out how to negotiate schedules, safer sex, and childcare. This item is currently out of stock

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SM 101
A Realistic Introduction

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The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and similar consensual practices.

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Inspired by the original 70's Our Bodies, Ourselves, Trans Bodies, Trans Selves goes well above and beyond the original, and even manages to provide an even more thorough resource than even the contemporary Our Bodies, Ourselves. Being trans means something different to almost every trans person, and while acknowledging our many differing approaches to being trans, this title is able to provide non-judgemental and comprehensive information on almost any issue that impacts the lives of trans people. Whether you're looking for an amazing resource for your organization, you're just coming out into trans communities, or you're years past transition, this is a resource you're sure to find useful. Not designed to be read in a single sitting, this book is one that you'll skim, pore over, and pull off your bookshelf for years to come. This item is currently out of stock

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Doing It Again: Volume 2
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Doing It Again: Volume 2 DVD
Tobi Hill-Meyer has brought us yet another installation of her groundbreaking series exploring trans women's relationships and desires! This series provides a holistic and multifaceted look at how trans women relate to their sex lives and partners by weaving interviews and narratives throughout the film. From a very sexy solo romp (go Erica!) to women getting down with lovers, both recently introduced and established, this film features a diverse range of pleasures and desires and positionalities, and is a delight to behold. Features subtitles in English, French, Spanish and German.

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FTM Fucker Volume One is chock full of hot scenes from James Darling's website of the same name. Featuring lots of hot queer / genderqueer / trans performers, this title promises hours of trans-man-centric sucking, fucking, and cumming. From a captivating and otherworldly tarot reading to a sexy pumping & jerkoff scene, to rooftop punching and fucking, there's a lot to get hot for here!

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Chelsea Poe takes on all of Oakland in this goth-y spellbinding queer flick! While saying goodbye to her girlfriend before moving to the city, she receives a necklace that she determines is "fucking mystic", since it magically incites lust in all that cross her path. From a hot kinky fuck with Courtney Trouble, to a orgy of epic proportions, this film has a cheeky storyline, and is absolutely full to bursting with your favourite queer, genderqueer, & trans performers.

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If you're someone who has been enamoured of Erika Lust throughout her prolific porn career, you're going to adore XConfessions 3 DVD! Just like the previous installments of the XConfessions series, each vignette is based on a fan-submitted fantasy, and Erika brings each of these scenes to life for all of us! If XConfessions 2 was all about the sexy storyline, this installment is all about the scenario and the scenery. With several lush outdoor scenes, this is one of the raciest Erika Lust films we've had the pleasure of reviewing!

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There are a thousand things we love about Erika Lust's films: the crowd-sourced fantasies, the attention to detail, the high-production values, not to mention the feminist ethic that goes into each and every one of her films. Just when we thought the series might start to fizzle out, XConfessions 4 is hotter and more visually engaging than the previous installments combined. Each of the ten films brings something special to this collection - from the food porn in "Eat With Me", to the 'first kiss' in Pansexual - and each vignette serves up a nice dose of charming plot to give all of the steamy hot sex some context. If XConfessions 3 was more about the scene than the scenario, XConfessions 4 is all about the sexy storyline.

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Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice
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Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice
With Midori
Incorporate seductive voice techniques learned in this class to heat up the bedroom and add spice to your erotic life. Mesmerize your lover and transport both of you to an erotic landscape. Learn how to build and enrich a powerful fantasy, practice effective voice techniques and spellbinding. In this hands-on workshop style class you'll learn techniques of finding out both your fantasies, practice story telling skills and improve them with Midori's gentle guidance. Spicy demos, practical exercises, tips.

When: Sunday, October 11, 2015. 5:30PM to 7:30PM
Where: Come As You Are
493 Queen Street West
Cost: $35

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