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Come As You Are
Co-operative

Tel: 888-504-7934
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Warehouse: 6 Ripley Ave
Toronto, ON M6S 3N9

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Welcome to Come As You Are Co-operative! We are the world's only worker-owned co-operative sex shop, and we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. As a co-op, we don't profit from your pleasure and we only stock products that we truly believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping and billing is extraordinarily discreet. We've been voted "best sex shop" in Toronto since 1997.  Want to learn more? Read more about us or check out our core values! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!
What sex toys taught me about love and lust

What Sex Toys Have Taught Me About Love & Lust

There are many things to dislike about Valentine's Day. The crass consumerism, the misguided attempts at expressing love through expensive dinners and jewelry, all that waxy chocolate. But it's hard not to admire the way that Valentine's Day brazenly embraces love and lust with equal intensity.

Most of us struggle with the distinction between love and lust. We try to figure out how they can fit together and how to stay in relationships when they don't. I've learned my greatest lessons about love and lust from sex toys.

I think like most people, even after I started using sex toys on a regular basis, I considered them an imposition, something that you add to "regular sex" and therefore something essentially unnatural. The ease and consistency with which sex toys provided me with orgasms only further solidified in my mind the idea that they carried some special powers. And so I would use my vibrators often and with relish (figuratively of course) but I always felt a bit like I was cheating. Read more What Sex Toys Have Taught Me About Love & Lust

Cannalife Botanicals

Cannalife Botanicals

Handmade with love in British Columbia, we're excited to offer Cannalife Botanicals' cannabis-infused products. This hot-topic plant has a lot to offer, including properties that may help promote blood flow, alleviate pain, regenerate skin, provide anti-inflammatory support, and relax muscles. Topical products containing cannabis are not psychoactive - they simply have a slight, uh, musky smell! Get your hands - and other body parts - on Cannalife

The Tentacle Collection

The Tentacle Collection

Get ready for the ultimate in ethical, locally made tentacle fantasy play from the fine folks at LoveCrafters Toys! Made from 100% silicone, each piece is handmade with love, skill, and of course, tentacles from the depths of your deepest fantasies and/or nightmares! Choose your own tentacle adventure today! Get your hands on some fresh tentacles!

Tall Tails

Tall Tails

Since our inception, there has been a tail-sized hole in our collective, uh, heart where a butt plug tail should be. It has taken years to find a consistent supplier of reasonably ethical butt plug tails, and now we have a whole collection of tails to suit every mood, outfit, and fantasy! Check out our butt plug tails!

Oben Up to BSisNice!

Oben Up to BSisNice!

Slip into something silky smooth and made in Spain! The Oben harness and anal compatible dildos from Barcelona's BS Atelier are perfect for all sorts of play, and especially well suited to dilation and anal training exercises! These dildos are pretty enough for a glitzy night out and gorgeous enough to place lovingly on your nightstand for a more private aesthetic experience. We stock the Obens individually and as a combo-pack of all three sizes. See the new pieces from BSisNice!

Pelvic Pleasure for All

Pelvic Pleasure for All

If you've ever experienced pelvic pain - penetration related or otherwise - you've probably heard of or already own the revolutionary Therawand. What you might not know is that the Therawand has been retooled, improved, and rereleased as the Pelviwand! We now stock the classic "V" wand and the newer "LA" wand - affectionately known as the ahem, 'honeydipper'. Whether you use your wand vaginally or anally, we cannot recommend this therapy more highly, plus the Pelviwand comes with instructions and they have video instructions online. Also, both wands are amazing for g-spot or protate play. Some sex toys do much more than just rock your world. This is one of them. Take a look at the new Pelviwand!

Perk Up Yer Sex Life!

Perk Up Yer Sex Life!

All smooth lines and perfect curves, the classic Happy Valley Perk has been retooled and rereleased by Canada's Fuze Silicone! With a textured base for all kinds of fun during harness play and a subtle insert for a one-touch vibrator, the Fuze Perk is a fun time for solo or partner play. A perfect starter toy from Electric City's fave silicone makers. Check out all of our Fuze Silicone!

Tokidoki has landed!

Tokidoki has landed!

Few people love a (high-quality) novelty vibrator more than us - especially if it involves Tokidoki and unicorns! This series of adorable branded vibes from LoveHoney doesn't sacrifice quality for cuteness, and the Unicorn Wand comes complete with a year warranty, strong plug-in vibrations, and true variable speed. Plus, the unicorn head comes off if you find the unicorn's corn intimidating. Check out all of our Tokidoki vibes!

Meet Tente Unico!

Meet Tente Unico!

With a smooth silicone exterior, and a density with just the right amount of firmness and give, these butt plugs are perfect for prostate play, and all kinds of anal adventure. Each Tente Unico is completely unique - and handmade with love in Spain! Take a look at all of our amazing BSisNice!

Doxy Massager Classic + Die Cast

Doxy Original Massager + Die Cast

Precision crafted in the UK, the Doxy has made quite a name for itself over the past few years. With a head that will fit all of your Hitachi attachments, and an eight-speed push-button controller (with pulsation!), the Doxy even comes in a special handcore die cast edition with LED-lit buttons. More power than you ever thought possible at your finger tips. Check out our offerings from Doxy!

Wowsa! Wax Play for All!

Wowsa! Wax Play for All!

How amazing are these Play Wax candles?! These pillars are made in Waterloo by a small company, and are available in a huge rainbow of colours. Made with paraffin wax, plus dye and a hardening agent, they're designed specifically for wax play. We dare you to choose just one of these amazing handmade candle colours! Play Wax Candles!

Unicorn Collaborators!

Unicorn Collaborators!

Leather loveliness made by Unicorns for Unicorns. Unicorn Collaborators is a creative design company created by two very special and unique people in Toronto. Whenever possible they use scrap leather to create designs, making each and every piece a limited edition and sometimes one of a kind. Get your hands on something handmade from Unicorn Collaborators!

We Want Your Binders!

We Want Your Binders!

Did you know?!? We have a chest binder recycling program, but as with all projects for trans and gender variant peoples, demand far out strips supply! If you've grown in or out of a binder, or you've had top surgery, chances are you have a bunch of old binders you don't know what to do with. Send them to us and we'll give you a $10 gift card for each binder you donate! We then "sell" them for $5 each at our all-ages gender site at www.gendergear.ca! Interested? You can send us your binders or email binders@gendergear.ca for more info!

Emojibator Emoji Vibes

Emojibator Emoji Vibes

Look, we've picked up some awesome new sex toys this year, but no matter what else happens in 2017, this is going to be our favourite thing that happened this year. You know, until someone make a poop emoji vibe. Get 'em while they're hot (and available) - take your pick of phallic emoji with the Eggplant Emoji Vibe and Chili Pepper Emoji Vibe

Heartfelt & Handmade

Penguin Love

We promise to never carry the Womanizer (ugh) but we’re so excited to be able to offer another toy that has peaked Canada’s interest with it’s promise of hand-held suction. Meet the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. Featuring 11 modes of suction plus vibration, this waterproof and USB rechargeable sex toy offers a wide range of sensation. The modes range from a low pulsing suction emitting from a clitoris-friendly tip to a buzzy vibration plus intense suction. Designed to be a more compact design than the Satisfyer Pro 2, and with a suction tip that is slightly wider, we're impressed with the charming design plus sexy potential of this toy! Get your flippers on the Satisfyer Pro Penguin!

Simple Massage Melts

Simple Massage Melts

Nestled in downtown Peterborough is Simple: a sweet lil' shop that sells soaps, bath bombs, moisturizers, and these adorable massage melts. Just the right size to tuck into a palm to massage the night away, these wee (16g) cocoa & shea butter melts come in many tantalizing scents. Quiet Night In seduces with rose attar and vanilla. Passion's Plaything features sensual lavender and ylang ylang. Secret Vice keeps it classic with a divine vanilla blend. Velvet Hammer features earthy patchouli with vanilla. Weekend Warrior energizes with spearmint and lavender. Naranja Deliciosa knocks it outta the park with sweet orange and vanilla. It's hard to just choose one! Each massage melt is good for two generous full-body massages. Get melted with Simple Massage Melts!

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

This stroker is the first designed specifically by and for trans men. Buck Angel has designed this stroker to snugly fit trans masculine people's junk - making it great a great option for masturbation and hand-job play! Anyone with a small dick / big clit that is seeking a stroker to try out should definitely consider this ribbed sleeve. Some other options in the same genre are our Tenga Eggs and Helping Head sleeve. Get your junk on a BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker!

How to Choose a Lubricant

Lube makes your _____ better!

In an era where the mainstream media absolutely dominates our discource about sex, lube has been the biggest loser. Between the minor social media celebrities bragging that they "don't need lube", and our collective lack of understanding of arousal nonconcordance, there are few sexual topics more misunderstood and underestimated than lube. The happy reality is that lube is amazing and makes all kinds of sex so much better than it would be otherwise. Regardless of your gender, orientation, or sexuality, a great lube literally decreases friction in your relationships and turns a solo session into a super session with a couple of well-placed drops. However, the key is to find a lube that works for you, because a lube that causes an allergic reaction or one that causes your condom to break (we're looking at you coconut oil!) is not going to make sex more pleasurable. Want to learn How to Choose a Lubricant?

 

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