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Come As You Are
Co-operative

Tel: 888-504-7934
info@comeasyouare.com

Warehouse: 6 Ripley Ave
Toronto, ON M6S 3N9

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Welcome to Come As You Are Co-operative! We are the world's only worker-owned co-operative sex shop, and we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. Unlike most retailers, we don't make commission and we don't profit from your purchases.  We review every sex toy, book, and DVD we stock in-store and online - and we ONLY carry products that we truly believe in. Want to learn more? Read more about us or check out our core values!
Heartfelt & Handmade

Heartfelt & Handmade

Folks are always asking us which sex toys we like the best, and while we only carry products that that genuinely review well by one of our worker-owners, truth be told, we love handmade sex products made with love in a fair wage environment the best. Not only will purchasing a great sex toy from a lovely person warm your cockles, these sex products have been made - not because someone's boss told them to - but because they were personally inspired to make something beautiful that others would derive both aesthetic and carnal pleasure from. All of these folks care more about you and your pleasure than a million corporate shareholders ever could. Get your hands on something handmade for the holidays!

Je Joue Freebie

Our fave vibes + FREEBIES!

There is nothing we don't love about the Je Joue Ooh modular vibes! We've long lamented that rechargeable toys are a waste of money if your vibe dies after your warranty ends, and with the Je Joue Ooh, you don't have to worry when your motor's lifespan is up. It makes more sense economically, environmentally, and emotionally if you're the sort of person who becomes a bit, uh, attached to your vibes. EVEN BETTER, while supplies last, when you pick up the Her Name is Rio Kit or the London Love-In Kit, you get a free extra vibe sleeve for the same price! But WAIT THERE'S MORE... If you act now, you'll get free shipping too!

Lynn's Lotion Body Bar

Lynn's UnBEElievable Body Bar!

Made with only three ingredients, these body bars made in Toronto are a real treat. Hexagonal, and finished with charming honeycomb or bee designs, massage the nights away with this mix of beeswax, cocoa butter, and coconut oil. Warm the bar up in your hands for a few minutes, and then enjoy as a massage bar, but, if you're short a masseuse, they are also a wonderful moisturizer, thanks to their simple and nourishing ingredients plus easy-to-handle shape! Get your hands on Lynn's Lotion Body Bar!!

Bike Slut

Be a Bike Slut for Oxyd Creations

Montreal-based Oxyd Creations has brought a new level to the universe of DIY bike tube harnesses. Lined with soft felt, and reinforced with canvas, Oxyd's gear looks like something delicious from a cyclist's (Mad Max inspired?) dystopian jerkoff fantasy. Made with gear from Montreal's bike co-ops, bike parts are carefully hand sewn onto each harness, restraint, and collar. Be a bike slut for Oxyd Creations!

Wild Nuns by La Façade

Wild Nuns by La Façade

It is no secret that a disproporionate number of our worker-owners have had a bit of a nun obsession, and even though our membership has evolved over time, we still can't help ourselves. These surreal pieces by Montreal's La Façade are available in sweatshirt and tote form - and they also make a diva cup bird bath t-shirt. Wild Nuns by La Façade!

Sin In Linen!

Sin In Linen

Take a walk on the wild side - you'll find a pastoral landscape of scenes that will dominate your dreams. At first glance this Victorian toile design is a traditional classic. But look closer, you'll see the scene is considerably more steamy. Heat things up with this pastoral scene of a kinky walk in the park where femmes are using rope to tie their lovers and a good-natured spanking is around the corner! Warm up in some Sin In Linen!

Have Fun with Fun Factory (and get a gift card from us!)

Have Fun with Fun Factory (and get a gift card from us!)

Fun Factory has been making sexy and safe sex toys longer than anyone, and they just get better and better. Still made on-site in Germany, Fun Factory vibes, dildos, and plugs are so well-made that they’re a good deal at any price, but this winter we’re sweetening the deal! Until January 1st, we’ll give you a $15 Come As You Are Gift Card for every $50 you spend on Fun Factory with coupon code FUNFACTORY. Have fun with Fun Factory!

The Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair!

The Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair!

The Toronto Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair is a one-of-a-kind sexy fair that brings together artists and crafters just in time for Valentine's Day! Knitters, crafters, zinesters, card makers, and artists of all types create inspired and inspiring erotic objects for this one day celebration of DIY sex and romantic culture. This year, the fair will be on February 11, 2017 at The Gladstone Hotel! Are you an erotic artist or crafter? We want to hear from you! Find out more about The Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair!!

GenderGear.ca

Introducing GenderGear.ca

Over ten years ago, we shamelessly violated our co-op's mandate to stock gender gear that didn't relate directly to sexuality. We've always taken our mandate (a little too) seriously, and because sexuality, gender, and orientation are all totally separate phenomena, we had a lot of feels about being a shop that purveyed more than mere dildos and vibratoria. Now that we're on the other side of some sort of tipping point, we find that we have more and more young people, parents, and service providers looking for binders, packers, gaffs, and forms, but who wants to shop for a gaff with their mom on a sex shop website? And what social worker wants a sex shop in their browser history at work when they're just looking for a binder for a client? So, we've launched a new website that's totally safe-for-work, parent-appropriate, and has no sexuality products on it at all so it won't be blocked by your firewall at work! We've got all of our best gender gear posted and our binder recycling program is up and running too! Get a load of www.gendergear.ca!

Get Your Joey!

Get Your Joey!

Handmade with love and pride in Canada, Get Your Joey is designed to be a machine-washable packing pouch that can be pinned to other clothing! Pop your favourite packer into this secure sleeve-like pouch, pass the shaft of your packer through the o-ring, and use the included safety pin to attach it to the waistline of whatever underwear, pants, or miniskirts you so choose! Designed for tans men, FTM folk, and genderqueers of all persuasions seeking new & inventive ways to pack! Get packing with Joey!

Simple Massage Melts

Simple Massage Melts

Nestled in downtown Peterborough is Simple: a sweet lil' shop that sells soaps, bath bombs, moisturizers, and these adorable massage melts. Just the right size to tuck into a palm to massage the night away, these wee (16g) cocoa & shea butter melts come in many tantalizing scents. Quiet Night In seduces with rose attar and vanilla. Passion's Plaything features sensual lavender and ylang ylang. Secret Vice keeps it classic with a divine vanilla blend. Velvet Hammer features earthy patchouli with vanilla. Weekend Warrior energizes with spearmint and lavender. Naranja Deliciosa knocks it outta the park with sweet orange and vanilla. It's hard to just choose one! Each massage melt is good for two generous full-body massages. Get melted with Simple Massage Melts!

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

This stroker is the first designed specifically by and for trans men. Buck Angel has designed this stroker to snugly fit trans masculine people's junk - making it great a great option for masturbation and hand-job play! Anyone with a small dick / big clit that is seeking a stroker to try out should definitely consider this ribbed sleeve. Some other options in the same genre are our Tenga Eggs and Helping Head sleeve. Get your junk on a BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker!

Black Lives Matter

Black Lives Matter

Over the past twenty years our co-op has consciously (perhaps subconsciously) tried to be as publicly apolitical as possible outside of the arena of sexual rights, pleasure, health, and education. As we understand it, the rationale for this decision was about ensuring that our shop would be open and accessible to all people who want to make their sexual world a better place regardless of their particular political stripes. Whether you're conservative, liberal, NDP, marxist-leninist, anarchist, or libertarian, we believe that you have the right to your sexuality whatever it may be - as long as it is based in active and enthusiastic consent. We will always believe this and we will always support your right to actualize your sexual self no matter who you are or what you believe in.

Read more about Black Lives Matter

How to Choose a Lubricant

Lube makes your _____ better!

In an era where the mainstream media absolutely dominates our discource about sex, lube has been the biggest loser. Between the minor social media celebrities bragging that they "don't need lube", and our collective lack of understanding of arousal nonconcordance, there are few sexual topics more misunderstood and underestimated than lube. The happy reality is that lube is amazing and makes all kinds of sex so much better than it would be otherwise. Regardless of your gender, orientation, or sexuality, a great lube literally decreases friction in your relationships and turns a solo session into a super session with a couple of well-placed drops. However, the key is to find a lube that works for you, because a lube that causes an allergic reaction or one that causes your condom to break (we're looking at you coconut oil!) is not going to make sex more pleasurable. Want to learn How to Choose a Lubricant?

How to Use a Vibrator

How to Use a Vibrator

June 2, 2016

Vibrators don't come with instruction manuals. You might think it's funny that we even mention it, but many of our customers have never used a vibrator, and just as many are uncomfortable or unfamiliar with the subtleties of self-love. So it's no surprise to us that people ask, and we'd like to help out a bit with some basics on how to use a vibrator. Spoiler alert: the image above is probably not how you want to use a vibrator. Learn How to Use a Vibrator

Fuze Foreman

Fuze Foreman

May 26, 2016

Designed with love in Ontario, and machine made with integrity in the USA, the Fuze Foreman is yet another high-quality offering from the fine folks at Fuze. This is Fuze's first uncircumcised piece, and we're delighted with the quality of the design! Built from a model, the Foreman, features beautiful detailing we haven’t seen yet when it comes to an ergonomic and uncircumcised realistic toy. The Foreman also features Fuze’s signature textured base (great for providing sensation for the wearer during harness play!), plus space for a One Touch Bullet. Fuze is among the most environmentally responsible companies we’ve crossed paths with, working toward carbon neutrality, and currently funnels a large portion of their profits towards subsidizing their contributions to the local wetlands ecology they’re based in. Get more Fuze Foreman

Cannalife Botanicals

Cannalife Botanicals

Handmade with love in British Columbia, we're excited to offer Cannalife Botanicals' cannabis-infused products. This hot-topic plant has a lot to offer, including properties that may help promote blood flow, alleviate pain, regenerate skin, provide anti-inflammatory support, and relax muscles. Topical products containing cannabis are not psychoactive - they simply have a slight, uh, musky smell! Get your hands - and other body parts - on Cannalife

Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

Knit a variety of the most popular positions from the classic Kama Sutra, as well as a few of the more intriguing acrobatic poses with this frisky project book that is sure to get your creative juices flowing. All twelve projects include a witty overview highlighting quirky facts and information relating to each position, clear, easy-to-follow knitting patterns and detailed instructions for every stage, and gorgeous full-color photographs to help you visualize your progress, step by step! Read more about Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

 

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