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Come As You Are is Canada's co-operative sex store. Located on Queen Street West in Toronto, CAYA Co-operative is worker owned and operated and our approach to sexuality is one of respect, openness, humour, communication and responsibility. Read about our core values and culture or find out more about us!
Workshops with Ducky Doolittle
Workshops with Ducky Doolittle
July 15, 2014

Ducky DooLittle is above all else an artist. An unstoppable, sexy, creative force. In the last 20 years, she has emerged from behind the peepshow glass to find herself at the head of the class as one of America's most celebrated sex educators.  Join us this January for Ducky's Pop His Rocket, Female Orgasm, and Sex for Survivors workshops. | Read more about Workshops with Ducky Doolittle

Win Your Wishlist!
Win Your Wishlist!
July 10, 2014

Whether you're engaged to be married, engaged in sex work, have a lot of Twitter followers, are obsessed with lists, or all of the above, we think you need a wishlist! Well, maybe you don't need one, but maybe you want one? After all, studies show that there's no better way to get people to buy stuff for you than to make a list of the stuff you want and to distribute that list widely! We're prepared to sweeten the deal: get registered with our site, add your favourite sex toys, books, and DVDs to your wishlist/gift registry by July 31st, 2014 and you will automatically be entered into a draw to win all of the items on your list up to $300! Want more? The more times you share your wishlist with others, the more times we'll enter your wishlist into the draw! | Read more about Win Your Wishlist!

Queer Porn Cheap Thrills
Queer Porn Cheap Thrills
July 8, 2014

Why pirate porn when you can purchase it legally, ethically - and most importantly, cheaply? Support your favourite queer indie porn auteurs and save some of your hard earned cash at the same time! We've got titles from Billy Castro, April Flores, Buck Angel, Shine Louise Houston, Madison Young and so many more for $10 each. Check out our queer porn cheap thrills! | Read more about Queer Porn Cheap Thrills

The Sexual Status Quo
The Sexual Status Quo
July 1, 2014

A blog post about why everyone should stop watching porn came up in our Twitter feed last week. People ask us constantly if they’ll become addicted to the Magic Wand. So many guys wonder why they can’t come or ejaculate faster than they want to with a partner. Our lives in the shop are filled with such similar and disparate questions. They all have the same answer, really. | Read more about The Sexual Status Quo

Swallow Your Pride
Swallow Your Pride
June 20, 2014

A few years ago, our local Business Improvement Association (in which membership is strangely mandatory) published a flyer to promote Pride week in our neighbourhood. Given that this area is oft referred to as 'Queer West', it makes a lot of sense for local businesses to acknowledge Pride from both a commercial and community perspective. Predictably, our local BIA chose a most unfortunate headline to express their gay pride that year:

Celebrating Pride Week!
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Pride means different things to different people. Pride can be a deadly sin or merely the warm glow you experience after a job well done. Pride as a summer event is meant to commemorate Stonewall, rejoice in sexual liberation, and celebrate the reluctant commercialization of gay and lesbian sexual orientations.

| Read more about Swallow Your Pride

Come Where You Are at Saskatoon Pride
Come Where You Are at Saskatoon Pride
June 16, 2014

Our westward journey is almost over, so come see us in Saskatoon for Pride before we head back to our home shop in Toronto for WorldPride! We'll be in town all weekend - beginning with a workshop on Friday night at Avenue Community Centre and then onto the Pride festivities at Rotary Park on Saturday! Get more information or follow us on Twitter. | Read more about Come Where You Are at Saskatoon Pride

Trans Bodies, Trans Sexualities Workshop
Trans Bodies, Trans Sexualities Workshop
June 15, 2014

With Tobi Hill-Meyer
Come to talk about bodies, language, behaviors, and desires (and coming!) - all presented with trans*, genderqueer, and gender non-conforming people in mind. Our communities have particular concerns as well as special opportunities for fun and frolic that are often left out of mainstream Sex Ed. We'll talk about what can be adapted for our bodies and how to do it. Here's a chance to learn about the care, feeding, and delight of your tingly bits (and/or those of your partner) in a safe and trans-positive environment. | Read more about Trans Bodies, Trans Sexualities Workshop

Come Visit Us at Queen City Pride
Come Visit Us at Queen City Pride
June 10, 2014

After a week and a half of camping our way through Manitoba and Saskatchewan, we're shaking off the ticks, taking a couple of well-deserved showers, and heading back into town! Join us this weekend (June 14-15th) for Queen City Pride in Regina, Saskatchewan! We'll be hanging out in Victoria Park on Saturday, and doing a couple of events in and around town before heading out to Saskatoon! If you've part of a local queer or sex-positive group or organization, and you'd like us to visit you, just send us an email (outreach@comeasyouare.com) or message us on Facebook! | Read more about Come Visit Us at Queen City Pride

Come Visit Us at Winnipeg Pride
Come Visit Us at Winnipeg Pride
May 26, 2014

We're heading out on our first annual Come Where You Are Summer Sexploration Tour, and our first stop is one of our favourite cities in this country! We'll be at Winnipeg Pride this weekend with our Vanagon in tow, and we want to see you there! After all, people from all over come visit us in Toronto all the time, and it is high time we reciprocated! If you're located in Manitoba, Saskatchewan, or Alberta and you want us to come visit you, get in touch with us at outreach@comeasyouare.com | Read more about Come Visit Us at Winnipeg Pride

Province Apothecary Sex Oil
Province Apothecary Sex Oil
May 17, 2014

The lovely folks at this Toronto company (based in Kensington Market) sent over a sample of this oil, and we are completely blown away by it. Light, slippery, long lasting, and made with organic ingredients, this coconut oil based lubricant is impressive both as both a lube and massage product. | Read more about Province Apothecary Sex Oil

 

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