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how to use a double dildo

We love double dildos but we always caution our customers that they are deeply imperfect toys. In the end, a double dildo is an inanimate object that fits between two moving bodies. The result can be hot, but it can also be goofy, and occasionally painful. Here are some basic tips on how to use a double dildo.

take it for a solo flight

It's always best to try out a new toy on your own before you use it with a partner. This gives you the chance to check out the features, see what you like, work out any kinks, and pay close attention to what does and doesn't work for you with the new toy. This is especially true with double dildos. Often dildos will have ends of different sizes. If you can, try both ends. If your dildo isn't silicone and you're planning on sharing, be sure to use a condom. Get a feel for the shape and texture of the dildo.

laugh while you wait, wait while you laugh

Once you're ready to use your double dildo with a partner the two key ingredients (other than lubricant and orifices) are humour and patience. Nothing works exactly the way you want it to, or the way they make it look in porn. Double dildos are for partners who like to laugh and who are comfortable communicating with each other. Start by using it however feels right. Even when double dildos don't provide mind blowing orgasms, they can offer many many hours of hilarity, which can be hot too.

experiment with movement

Most people use dildos for penetration and start with an in-out movement. Using double dildos usually involves a little less movement, so experiment with moving the dildo in different directions. See how it feels to squeeze your muscles around the dildo. Switch it up between long deep strokes and short quick ones.

get stuck in the middle

One way to feel like you've got more control is to hold onto the dildo in the middle part that's between you and your partner. Don't forget that whatever you do on one end is going to be felt on the other, so no sudden movements, but taking turns holding on the middle, or both of you holding on can be a way to get some traction and find a groove.

find your rhythm(s)

For double dildos to be more than just a novel experience, for them to really work for one or both of you, you need to find a rhythm that works. This requires patience and also communication. If the movement is too fast or slow, you have to say so. If you've found the perfect spot, let your partner know. Using this toy can become a great communication exercise.

assume the position

There is no one right sex position for using a double dildo, so you'll need to experiment to find what works for you. Many people find that a scissor like sex position works well. You'll probably find that elbows can get in the way. Try experimenting with lying and sitting sex positions.

aometimes when we touch

Some people don't like double dildos because they feel they create a distance between them and their partner. But with the right toy and the right position, you can actually have a lot of physical contact. Try holding hands while thrusting, using each others bodies to leverage movement. You may also find that it works best if one partner controls the motion while the other provides extra stimulation.

consider the crescent

We don't like to recommend specific toys without knowing more about a customer, but in our many years of double dildo experimentation we have to say that the curved or crescent shaped dildos tend to be better. The straight ones are often cheaper, and we're all for starting on a budget, but curved toys tend to allow for more physical contact between partners and for more variation in movement and positioning.

 

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