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Curvy Girl Sex
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Curvy Girl Sex is here to show you that regardless of size, shape, or flexibility you CAN get creative and have satisfying, sultry, sensual sex! Sex educator Elle Chase covers sex positions from basic to advanced, specific challenges faced as plus-sized lovers, and precise, body positive tips, trick ... (read more)

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$33.00 CAD

Anal Sex Positions Guide
Anal Sex Positions Guide
Tristan Taormino, the go-to gal of anal sex, sure does like to cover all the bases when it comes to anal sex, whether it be books, workshops, DVDs--and now she's brought us The Anal Sex Positions Guide. For those who would love to give it a try, to the most experienced in the subject of anal delight ... (read more)

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$21.95 CAD

Burlesque Handbook
Burlesque Handbook
Everything you need to know about the fabulous world of burlesque in all bound up in this great new book! From making your own pasties (with stencils), to learning new moves, to how to boost your own confidence, this handbook is great for beginners and seasoned performers alike. Written by Jo Weldon ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text

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The world's oldest and most widely read guide to the pleasures and techniques of sex, the Kama Sutra was compiled in the fourth century A.D. by a Brahmin and religious scholar name Vatsyayana, wh ... (read more)

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$36.50 CAD

Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
The New and Naughty Guide to Being Great in Bed
By Tristan Taormino
In this excellent introduction sex book, Tristian Taormino shares with us her juicy adventures in sexuality that have taught her much. With a fun and no holds barred style of sex education, Taormino delves into such ... (read more)

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$19.75 CAD

Ecstasy Is Necessary
Ecstasy Is Necessary
A Practical Guide
Barbara Carrellas' practical guide to ecstasy tackles how to infuse ecstasy, mindfulness and self-awareness in to all aspects of your life. Bringing you on a journey of self-discovery through reflective exercises, Carrellas helps you discover your values, communication ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Erotic Massage Deck
Erotic Massage Deck
Marrying ancient Eastern wisdom with modern know-how, the Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, these 50 sensual techniques can be explored one at a time or combined for an evening of intimate passion.

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$21.50 CAD

Erotic Mind
Erotic Mind
By Jack Morin
While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues, this book is an essential roadma ... (read more)

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$18.50 CAD

Exhibitionism For the Shy
Exhibitionism For the Shy
Using her own experience as a guide, formerly shy sex educator Carol Queen is a wonderful escort into your own journey into exploring the erotic potential of exhibitionism: dressing up, showing off, role-playing, and talking dirty. Using exercises culled from her popular San Francisco workshops, Que ... (read more)

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$22.00 CAD

Great Sex Made Simple
Great Sex Made Simple
Interested in Tantric Sex, but don't know where to start? Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels have taken their years of study and expertise and distilled it into this easy-to-use beginner’s book for those who want to explore the ecstasy of erotic Tantric practice. Each new concept, technique and exe ... (read more)

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$20.95 CAD

Hand in the Bush
Hand in the Bush
By Deborah Addington
This sensible guide provides an up-to-date, step-by-step approach to vaginal fisting for those who are interested or just want to know more about this form of lovemaking. 1997. 102 pp.

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$14.50 CAD

Hot Sex
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Hot Sex
"Hot Sex" is not your average positions sex book. This beautifully illustrated book is informative yet playful and fun- simply chalk full of exciting things to try. Sex educators Emily Morse and Jayme Waxman (who's workshops "Blowjob Bootcamp" and "Uncovering the "O" are often held in store at Come ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

How To Be A Bush Pilot
How To Be A Bush Pilot
How To Be A Bush Pilot is everyman's guide to getting luckier, from anatomy, to 69ing, to group sex, and everything in between. Written in an upbeat, humorous, sex-positive way, the lessons in this book are made to sharpen your skills and graduate to that higher level of providing pleasure for both ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

How To Write a Dirty Story
How To Write a Dirty Story
Reading, Writing, and Publishing Erotica
By Susie Bright
Susie Bright, editor of many contemporary collections of erotica, teaches us the tricks of her trade. Providing many pearls of erotic wisdom for both fiction and non-fiction writers, she uses samples of her own work to describe t ... (read more)

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$28.00 CAD

Illustrated Extended Massive Orgasm
Illustrated Extended Massive Orgasm
By Steve Bodansky
This new updated and illustrated guide to EMO is better than ever! With great illustrations to help you through the instructional text, the book has been reorganized to dedicate half of the text to techniques for men's pleasure (most of the first book was about women's pleasure ... (read more)

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$24.95 CAD

Intimate Invasions
Intimate Invasions
By M.R. Strict
One of the greatest taboos of kinky play is klismaphilia, or enema play, as most of us know it. In M.R. Strict’s enthusiastic guide, you can enjoy both learning through his expertise, and reading his outrageous personal stories. The only book we know of dealing with klismaphilia, ... (read more)

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$19.50 CAD

Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh joy, indeed! Following an inspiring crowdfunding campaign, Erika Moen's beautiful, educational, and entertaining Oh Joy Sex Toy has emerged in book form - and we're among the very first to have it in our hands and in our shop. Whether you're an original Dar fan or you're just looking for a fun ... (read more)

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$35.00 CAD

Partners in Passion
Partners in Passion
From the publisher: Tantric Partners in Passion themselves, authors Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson provide readers with a fun step-by-step guide to creating a lasting, loving, erotic relationship. Partners in Passion is highly original and provocative, drawing on a variety of sources: cutting ... (read more)

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$29.50 CAD

Phone Sex
Phone Sex
By Miranda Austin
Learn how to take your fantasy of steamy sex with a red hot stranger over the phone to the next level! This fabulously written one of a kind book celebrates the unique job that phone sex operators have. Miranda Austin draws from experience to give the reader an intelligent and v ... (read more)

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$22.50 CAD

pleasureABLE
pleasureABLE
Sexual Device Manual For Persons With Disabilities
This manual was created as a practical resource for persons with disabilities and health care clinicians, providing information on modifying sex toys, positions for greater ease and comfort, pleasure anatomy, safety and deconstructing myt ... (read more)

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$8.00 CAD

Sex Deck
Sex Deck
Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life
By Dr. Dawn Harper
A quick and handy way to turn monotony into spontaneity. Slip a card into a lover’s pocket, place a position idea under a pillow, or randomly choose a card to mix it up! Over 50 cards filled with cute line drawings of ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Sex With The Lights On
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Sex With The Lights On
200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered
By Ducky DooLittle
Ducky has traveled the world with her one woman show full of wit, humour and sexiness. Now she’s brought all the questions she’s heard from fans seeking advice into one concise volume for a great educational read. She offers ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

The Ethical Slut
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The Ethical Slut
By Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt
A fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance and believes in living these dreams with friends, partner ... (read more)

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$24.99 CAD

The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
By Cathy Winks, Anne Semans
We highly recommend this guide for its thoroughness, intelligence and near-universal appeal. Written by two former worker-owners at Good Vibrations (our inspiration, and our sister sex store in San Francisco), this guide covers all the basics - oral sex, communication ... (read more)

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$38.95 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Yes, another great Ultimate Guide! Finally, a comprehensive and fun guide to fellatio! Everything from anatomy to condom tricks. Want to learn to deep throat, give great head to a dildo, or just keep your lips ... (read more)

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$23.95 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain & illness
By Miriam Kaufman, M.D., Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Just when you thought the "ultimate guide" series might be running out of subjects, here comes the Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability - the most interesting and im ... (read more)

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$25.50 CAD

Better Sex in No Time
Better Sex in No Time
A Guide for Busy Couples
One of Canada's most well known sex columnists, Josey Vogels hits the written word to try to solve the age old question: what to do when the sex ends in a long term relationship? We love that Josey has tackled some very problematic ideas like foreplay not being rea ... (read more)

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$26.99 CAD

Soul Sex: Tantra For Two
Soul Sex: Tantra For Two
By Pala Copeland & Al Link
Written by long-time Tantra practitioners, this book is a guide for beginners and experts alike. With a focus on learning, teaching and evolving sexually to create a passionate, emotionally rich relationship. Soul Sex is full of practical information, discussions and ... (read more)

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$5.00 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Another great book from a Good Vibes staff member. This book is the newest edition to the ultimate family of educational books. A great resource for anyone who is looking to brush up on going down! A technical p ... (read more)

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$20.95 CAD

Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
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Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
From Adolescence through Adulthood
This book has been designed primarily as a resource for folks who work with people with AS. Which is a shame- a book designed explicitly for folks who identify as having AS would be such a gem! Regardless, whether you are an educator, lover, or someone wh ... (read more)

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$31.95 CAD

Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
Couples of Mixed HIV Status delves into the emotional challenges of living in a mixed HIV status relationship. Included in the book are tons of first-hand accounts, advice, interviews with therapists, and is throughly illustrated with tables. Topics include family planning, disclosure, uncertainty, ... (read more)

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$52.00 CAD

For Each Other
For Each Other
Sharing Sexual Intimacy
A guide for women to achieving greater sexual satisfaction and more intimate relationship, For Each Other focusses on physical and psychological issues and contains exercises and information. Barbach can be relied on for her compassionate, intelligent approach to th ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Hot Monogamy
Hot Monogamy
By Patricia Love and Jo Robinson
A practical examination of how long term relationships work, Hot Monogamy offers insightful and useful advice. It addresses many issues in a touching manner and offers the tools you need to start communicating with your partner, and starts you off on the road to ... (read more)

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$22.00 CAD

Love's Refraction
Love's Refraction
Popular wisdom might suggest that jealousy is an inevitable outcome of non-monogamous relationships. In Love’s Refraction, Jillian Deri explores the distinctive question of how and why polyamorists – people who practice consensual non-monogamy – manage jealousy. Her focus is on the polyamorist conce ... (read more)

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$21.95 CAD

More Than Two
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More Than Two
This is easily the most thorough and enjoyable guide to modern polyamory and non-monogamy that we've ever had the good fortune to read. Drawing from mainstream and poly-specific sources - and the authors' personal experiences - the authors effectively dispel some of the most common misconceptions a ... (read more)

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$34.00 CAD

Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Multi-Orgasmic Couple
By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams,Rachel Carlton Abrams
Find a few moments (OK - more than a few moments) and get ready for some creative, Tantric-style exploratory coupling. From the authors of the ever-popular book The Multi-Orgasmic Man comes The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. This book gi ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

Opening Up
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Opening Up
A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
This is a book of amazingly diverse personal stories of people from a wide range of sexual orientations, lifestyles, and styles of open relationships. Readers will find that its primary message is that there is no one "right" way to hav ... (read more)

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$24.50 CAD

Sex Bible for People Over 50
Sex Bible for People Over 50
Author Dr. Laurie Betito gives readers techniques for reconnecting with their partners, bringing experimentation in long-term sexual relationships, and tips on how to handle sex and dating post-50. The Sex Bible For People Over 50 addresses common physical and sexual considerations that 50+ couples ... (read more)

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$21.99 CAD

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it to a partner as a hint, or read it ... (read more)

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$19.50 CAD

When Someone You Love Is Kinky
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When Someone You Love Is Kinky
by Dossie Easton,Catherine A. Liszt
When Someone You Love is Kinky is everything you needed to tell the people in your family but were short of words. Written by the authors of the Ethical Slut and the Bottoming Book (Easton and Liszt). A great guide to honesty and communication for all of us, an ... (read more)

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$16.50 CAD

Wired For Love
Wired For Love
"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to sec ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

Come As You Are
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Come As You Are
The surprising new science that will transform your sex life
Whether you're someone who enthusiastically identifies as a 'sex nerd' or you're someone who has spent some time in your life worrying that there's something about your sexuality that's not normal, Come As You Are is sure to be ... (read more)

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$21.99 CAD

Getting Off
Getting Off
Did you know that graham crackers and Corn Flakes were invented to help curb masturbation? It's true. That little factoid really makes you think about why we have such a negative stigma surrounding self-pleasure. In Getting Off, Jamye Waxman helps set the record straight by debunking myths and commo ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Healing Painful Sex
Healing Painful Sex
A women's Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain
Unwanted pain during sex is a very common experience that is often brushed aside and rarely publicly addressed. Unfortunately, many doctors are ignorant about disagnosis and treatments. Some doctors may find it difficult ... (read more)

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$20.00 CAD

How to be a Great Lover
How to be a Great Lover
Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques That Will Blow His Mind
By Lou Paget
Lou Paget is the queen of fun and lively sex-ed! How to be a Great Lover proves this again with tips and techniques on oral sex, great intercourse, and fun new ways to spice it up. A great volu ... (read more)

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$30.00 CAD

I Love Female Orgasm
I Love Female Orgasm
An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide
By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller
Our book buyer just added this to her list of must have books! I Love Female Orgasm offers detailed advice and information on everything female orgasm. From intercourse, having your first orgasm, sex toys, queer women ... (read more)

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$19.99 CAD

Mind Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide
Mind Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide
What use are tips and techniques or toys and gadgets if we don't feel empowered about our own sexuality? Diana Cage goes beyond the superficial tricks and gets into the depth of our complex sexualities, exploring what has dissuaded us from embracing our sexualities so that we may find sexual empower ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Multi-Orgasmic Woman
Multi-Orgasmic Woman
How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Dramatically Enhance Her Health & Happiness
By Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD
Another brilliant book by the authors of the Multi-Orgasmic Couple and the Multi-Orgasmic Man. Every woman should have this book in their collect ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

My Secret Garden
My Secret Garden
By Nancy Friday
Nancy Friday's groundbreaking collection of women’s secret fantasies first caused a stir when it was released over 25 years ago. This isn't just another erotica compilation; these are real fantasies from real women collected during the peak of the sexual revolution. It shattered ... (read more)

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$17.99 CAD

New View of a Woman's Body
New View of a Woman's Body
This fully illustrated guide by the Federation of Feminist Women's Health Center’s will go down in feminist history as the most complete, interestingly illustrated information on female pleasure-based anatomy in history. No other book, as of yet, has topped the amazing array of information on the st ... (read more)

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$29.95 CAD

Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
By The Boston Women’s Health Book Collective
From those who brought us the classic Our Bodies, Ourselves comes a new edition that deals specifically with our questions and concerns around menopause. With detailed information, loads of well researched answers, and personal stories from a di ... (read more)

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$23.00 CAD

Passionista
Passionista
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
At first glance you may think that this book is filled with techniques that will blow him away (pun intended), but the truth is, this book goes beyond just serving as a how-to on having great sex, but first and foremost provides a how-to on having ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

Sexual Intimacy for Women
Sexual Intimacy for Women
Dr. Glenda Corwin presents this important book for those of us in same-sex (mostly long-term) relationships who feel like they would like to reach a deeper level of intimacy, or to re-spark a flame that was once alive. It is written in an easy to read, accepting and positive style, focusing on many ... (read more)

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The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The notorious female erogenous zone is the subject of this clear and informative guide, covering such topics as general female anatomy, ejaculation, g-spot orgasms and the PC muscle. 1998. 63 pp.

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The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot
The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot
Curious about all this hype around the g-spot? Want to learn how to explore female ejaculation? Violet Blue's Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot gives you the tools you need for some fun, squirty g-spot play. From pleasure-based overview of female anatomy, advanced positions and techniques, and a grea ... (read more)

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The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
While there are many books on the subject of female orgasm, this Ultimate Guide really seems to connect with the reader, working to disspell myths that come along with "how it should be" or how exactly to do it. This book is not written for anyone in particular; it is meant for women who want to exp ... (read more)

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$24.50 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians
The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians
Tips and Techniques from Conception to Birth
By Rachel Pepper
This book contains plenty of basic pregnancy info and conception advice, but what really makes it stand out is all the lesbian-specific information that is unlikely to be found anywhere else. It’s written in a very positive, ... (read more)

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Vulvodynia Survival Guide
Vulvodynia Survival Guide
How to Overcome Painful Vaginal Symptoms and Enjoy an Active Lifestyle
From the publisher: Defined as a constant or recurring vulvar discomfort, vulvodynia's symptoms include burning, itching, stinging, rawness, and painful sexual intercourse. The disorder can have a devastating impact on ... (read more)

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When Sex Hurts
When Sex Hurts
A great resource for women who experience vuluar pain, this book delves into different types of painful sex from an angle of compassion and optimism. Written by doctors who have made treating and managing this their specialty, many women who have similar experiences have added real-life anecdotes th ... (read more)

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$20.50 CAD

Women On Top
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Women On Top
By Nancy Friday
Being in charge and wanting more are the dominant themes of many women's sexual fantasies. So reports Nancy Friday, author of My Secret Garden. Friday has collected hundreds of real women's stories that make it that much easier for the reader to connect their own idea of what is ... (read more)

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$10.99 CAD

Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
Being pregnant can be exciting and overwhelming, but let's not forget to keep sex in the picture! Written by a sexologist and pregnancy fitness specialist team, this handy little book has great hints and tips for those expecting, as well as advice for their partners. Learn about what positions can b ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure
How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure
Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know
By Lou Paget
Finally a book written for the heterosexual man that is both thoughtful and insightful! Lou Paget’s How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure provide all the know-how and details men may be afraid to ask as well as c ... (read more)

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$30.00 CAD

Lasting Longer
Lasting Longer
First published in 1978, sex therapist Sy Silverberg has republished this classic guide to lasting longer for men in this millennium. With straightforward advice and exercises, Dr. Silverberg provides a step-by-step guide to controlling ejaculation.

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$27.00 CAD

Multi-Orgasmic Man
Multi-Orgasmic Man
Have you ever wished that you could orgasm when you want, how you want, and however many times you want? We're not ones to over-promise and under-deliver, so believe us when we tell you that you have all of that orgasmic power within you and more - it is just a matter of teaching your mind and body ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

In Your Hands
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In Your Hands
The Everyman's Guide to Masturbation
So often the books we read as part of our screening process at Come As You Are are written by folks that would consider themselves 'sexperts', or sex educators (at times regardless of their training or history). Refreshingly, Mark Emme makes no such cla ... (read more)

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$21.25 CAD

Tantric Secrets for Men
Tantric Secrets for Men
Being a good lover can be hard work! This book breaks down all the techniques and benefits of Tantra into easy to follow steps. It removes the mysticism and concentrates on providing you with what you need to know. It uses real life stories of couples to convey its messages, and offers exercises tha ... (read more)

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$27.50 CAD

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
By Felice Newman
A solid, info-packed addition to the growing body of great lesbian sex manuals. This newest title includes play parties, trans/gender concerns, and s/m. Favourite lesbian sex techniques, orgasm, toys, health issues, desire & fantasy - it's all here. 1999. 292 pp.

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French - $20.00 CAD

Trans Bodies, Trans Selves
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves
Inspired by the original 70's Our Bodies, Ourselves, Trans Bodies, Trans Selves goes well above and beyond the original, and even manages to provide an even more thorough resource than even the contemporary Our Bodies, Ourse ... (read more)

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$51.95 CAD

Anal Pleasure and Health
Anal Pleasure and Health
By Jack Morin
A comprehensive, reliable source of information on anal eroticism, this inclusive, detailed guide for people of all sexual orientations brilliantly tackles the physical, emotional and psychological aspects. Among the topics covered are: developing positive attitudes towards anal sex ... (read more)

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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
Finally! The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men! A much desired and needed guide since the release of Tristan Taormino's Guide for Women, this volume covers everything you need to give and receive anal pleasure. With an entire section devoted to the myths around anal sex, this book deals with mal ... (read more)

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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
By Tristan Taormino
This friendly, forthright guide rips the lid off the myth that women don't enjoy anal sex. With quotes from erotic literature, real-life women, and fun illustrations, this guide covers all the bases, including anatomy, health and safety, emotional and psychological issues, toy ... (read more)

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The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
At long last, the Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure has come into existence! Whether you're interested in the topic for health, pleasure or both, this in-depth guide helps answer a spectrum of common questions about the prostate and how to stimulate it, whether solo or with a partner. Authors Char ... (read more)

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More Shibari You Can Use
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Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you on a journey through easy step-by-step ties and exercises for bringing you and your partner(s) closer together through this beautiful art form. The second book in the Shibari You Can Use series, More Shibari You Can Use picks up where the first bo ... (read more)

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Bondage for Sex
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Bondage for Sex
This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types of knots and how to introduce bondage rope play to your partner. ... (read more)

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Come Hither
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Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp.

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Erotic Bondage Handbook
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Erotic Bondage Handbook
By Jay Wiseman
Bondage enthusiasts will love this book -- chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. 323 pp.

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Family Jewels
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Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages.

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Partners in Power
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Partners in Power
Living In Kinky Relationships
By Jack Rinella
From the author of "the Master's Manual" and "The Complete Slave" comes Jack Rinella's third installment. With real people of all genders and orientations in mind, Partners in Power is a great book for those looking to live the BDSM life ... (read more)

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Playing Well with Others
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Playing Well with Others
While some sex education books focused on BDSM might instruct you in some detail how to deliver a spanking, this book guides you through the world of people you might you want to spank, how to negotiate the spanking, etiquette in different sex communities and even what to wear based on the type of g ... (read more)

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Radical Ecstasy
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Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm o ... (read more)

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Sensuous Magic
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Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories ... (read more)

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Shibari You Can Use
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Shibari You Can Use
Japanese-style rope bondage and erotic macramé may look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful, sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you step by step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetica ... (read more)

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SM 101
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SM 101
A Realistic Introduction

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The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and s ... (read more)

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The Human Pony
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The Human Pony
For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play and all dressed up, as well as personal stories of pony and trainer experiences, The Hu ... (read more)

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The New Bottoming Book
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The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The New Topping Book
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The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages.

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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams.

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$34.40 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Tristan Taormino brings together the kings, queens and queers of kink in this educational-based collection of essays on power play. Learn how to get your kink-on from the likes of Patrick Califia, Madison Young, Midori, Laura Antoniou and Barbara ... (read more)

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Ties That Bind
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Ties That Bind
Guy Baldwin, renowned psychotherapist-educator and practitioner of kinky sex, explores the depths of S/M relationships in this thought-provoking and self-exploratory collection of essays on topics such as the magical S/M "high," tips for assuring a sane, safe and consensual scene and the importance ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
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Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
By Janet W. Hardy
In this Toybag guide (courtesy of Greenery Press), Janet Hardy takes us through the ins and outs of canes and caning. From selecting and purchasing a cane, to dungeon safety and technique, this book is small but thorough, and is an essential read for anyone considering caning s ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
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Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explo ... (read more)

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Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
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Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
By Jay Wiseman
Wondering what to do when something goes wrong in the dungeon? Prolific S/M author Jay Wiseman brings his years of expertise to this essential guide to dungeon safety. This book tackles the most common S/M emergencies (and some uncommon ones too!) with great first aid information ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
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Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity and electro pl ... (read more)

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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygien ... (read more)

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Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
The second volume of the rope bondage guides by Two Knotty Boys, Back on the Ropes delves a little deeper into tying sensual and decorative bondage. Full color, gorgeous photographs illustrate all techniques, while each step is clearly explained. Learn everything from blindfolds and gags to stirrups ... (read more)

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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to t ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

Healing Sex Book
Healing Sex Book
First released as the Survivor’s Guide to Sex, Healing Sex is a wonderful updated second edition for survivors of sexual assault and/or abuse. Using sex positive tactics to reclaim sexuality, this book motivates people to learn how to say "yes" to their own passions and on their own terms.With chapt ... (read more)

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$30.00 CAD

 

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