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power play and bdsm books

From the classic Screw the Roses to the Better Built Bondage Book, we've got the best of power play and BDSM sexual education.

Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Kinky crafters looking for DIY fetish gear inspiration and fully drafted patterns, we’ve got the book for you! With its focus on clothing, harnesses, gags, chastity play wear and masks, Fetishcraft gives readers the opportunity to customize their own sexy play gear without having to start from scrat ... (read more)

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$39.00 CAD

Come Hither
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Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp.

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$23.99 CAD

Conquer Me
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Conquer Me
Girl-to-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires
Conquer me reads a little like a memoir, a little like a guide, and a little like a reflection on BDSM culture and submissive women's positioning within it. As such, it's chock full of her suggestions on how to get what you want, ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

Flogging
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Flogging
By Joseph W. Bean
Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any s/m scene ... (read more)

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$15.00 CAD

Partners in Power
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Partners in Power
Living In Kinky Relationships
By Jack Rinella
From the author of "the Master's Manual" and "The Complete Slave" comes Jack Rinella's third installment. With real people of all genders and orientations in mind, Partners in Power is a great book for those looking to live the BDSM life ... (read more)

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$24.00 CAD

Playing Well with Others
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Playing Well with Others
While some sex education books focused on BDSM might instruct you in some detail how to deliver a spanking, this book guides you through the world of people you might you want to spank, how to negotiate the spanking, etiquette in different sex communities and even what to wear based on the type of g ... (read more)

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$19.95 CAD

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
By Philip Miller & Molly Devon
This large book explains the basics of S/M in no-nonsense, homey tone. Comprehensive technical information and scene tips for the relative novice that is crucial for safety and a sense of erotic adventure. An excellent section on bondage is complete with easy-to-fol ... (read more)

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$29.99 CAD

Sensuous Magic
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Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

The Compleat Spanker
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The Compleat Spanker
By Lady Green
Another hot title from Greenery Press and the infamous Lady Green. Full of fun tips, tricks and ideas, this manual will leave a happy trail of satisfied readers and pink bottoms. An excellent primer! 1996. 90 pages.

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$14.70 CAD

The New Topping Book
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The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams.

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$34.40 CAD

Ties That Bind
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Ties That Bind
Guy Baldwin, renowned psychotherapist-educator and practitioner of kinky sex, explores the depths of S/M relationships in this thought-provoking and self-exploratory collection of essays on topics such as the magical S/M "high," tips for assuring a sane, safe and consensual scene and the importance ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Toybag Guide to Age Play
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Toybag Guide to Age Play
A great primer to Age Play, this Toybag Guide is full of fresh new ideas and helpful hints for consenting adults looking to bring some fantasy ageplay into their relationship. It tends to be difficult to find good ageplay resources in print, and Lee "Bridgett" Harrington has managed to distill the ... (read more)

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$15.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
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Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
By Janet W. Hardy
In this Toybag guide (courtesy of Greenery Press), Janet Hardy takes us through the ins and outs of canes and caning. From selecting and purchasing a cane, to dungeon safety and technique, this book is small but thorough, and is an essential read for anyone considering caning s ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
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Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explo ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
The second volume of the rope bondage guides by Two Knotty Boys, Back on the Ropes delves a little deeper into tying sensual and decorative bondage. Full color, gorgeous photographs illustrate all techniques, while each step is clearly explained. Learn everything from blindfolds and gags to stirrups ... (read more)

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$29.50 CAD

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to t ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

At Her Feet
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At Her Feet
At Her Feet is an indispensable book for those who are seriously considering a female-dominant relationship, written in an amazing way - both from the perspective of a long-term Master, as well as her slave. Fantastic, practical advice fills the pages, with a focus on how to make the relationship(s) ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$14.95 CAD

Erotic Bondage Handbook
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Erotic Bondage Handbook
By Jay Wiseman
Bondage enthusiasts will love this book -- chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. 323 pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$24.95 CAD

Family Jewels
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Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages. This item is currently out of stock

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$12.95 CAD

Master's Manual
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Master's Manual
A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
By Jack Rinella
An unparalleled discussion of the attitude and power it takes to become a master. This is a necessary read for anyone interested in the SM lifestyle. The Masters Manual builds on basic knowledge by explaining in a nonjudgmental fashion ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$22.50 CAD

Mistress Manual
Mistress Manual
The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
By Mistress Lorelei
Written succinctly and intelligently crafted, the Mistress Manual tells you gently the ways to female dominance. Lorelei writes in a way very respectful to both the mistress and sub, and gives ideas, advice and understand ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$20.85 CAD

Play Piercing
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Play Piercing
By Deborah Addington
Not for the faint of heart, this book reveals to us the ins and outs of playing with needles. The straight forward and technical information on preparation, perforation and sterilization make this book an important guide to read if you want to incorporate needles into your ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$19.99 CAD

Radical Ecstasy
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Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm o ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$17.16 CAD

SM 101
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SM 101
A Realistic Introduction

From the publisher:
The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and s ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$30.70 CAD

The Compleat Slave
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The Compleat Slave
By Jack Rinella
In Jack Rinella's follow up to his "Master's Manual", he shares his guidelines for creating a safe master/slave relationship. Filled with sections like the ever-important first meeting to proper slave training, leather images/emotions and much more, this book is great for anyon ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$15.95 CAD

The Human Pony
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The Human Pony
For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play and all dressed up, as well as personal stories of pony and trainer experiences, The Hu ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$27.95 CAD

The New Bottoming Book
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The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages. This item is currently out of stock

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$18.40 CAD

The Sexually Dominant Woman
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The Sexually Dominant Woman
A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Lady Green's guide to sexual domination is a great beginners manual for those starting out in the art of female dominance. Dividing up play into easily understood categories - such as playing with roles, sensation play and playing with helplessness (bondage ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$16.75 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Tristan Taormino brings together the kings, queens and queers of kink in this educational-based collection of essays on power play. Learn how to get your kink-on from the likes of Patrick Califia, Madison Young, Midori, Laura Antoniou and Barbara ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$26.95 CAD

Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
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Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
By Midori
Fetish Diva Midori has finally given us a book on the fine art of foot and shoe worship. This volume packs a kick for the novice and experienced alike, taking this complex subject and breaking it down into step by step instructions and suggestions. From torture to pampering and everyt ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
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Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity and electro pl ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
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Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
By Spectrum
Looking to embark on a power play adventure? There's no better place to start than hot wax - but before you do, be sure to check out this essential hot wax and temperature play guide from Greenery Press. Tips, techniques and lots of good safety advice for the novice or experienced p ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Medical Play
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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygien ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$13.99 CAD

 

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