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From the classic Screw the Roses to the Better Built Bondage Book, we've got the best of power play and BDSM sexual education.

More Shibari You Can Use
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Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you on a journey through easy step-by-step ties and exercises for bringing you and your partner(s) closer together through this beautiful art form. The second book in the Shibari You Can Use series, More Shibari You Can Use picks up where the first bo ... (read more)

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$29.95 CAD

Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Kinky crafters looking for DIY fetish gear inspiration and fully drafted patterns, we’ve got the book for you! With its focus on clothing, harnesses, gags, chastity play wear and masks, Fetishcraft gives readers the opportunity to customize their own sexy play gear without having to start from scrat ... (read more)

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$39.00 CAD

Bondage for Sex
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Bondage for Sex
This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types of knots and how to introduce bondage rope play to your partner. ... (read more)

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$41.50 CAD

Come Hither
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Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp.

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$23.99 CAD

Conquer Me
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Conquer Me
Girl-to-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires
Conquer me reads a little like a memoir, a little like a guide, and a little like a reflection on BDSM culture and submissive women's positioning within it. As such, it's chock full of her suggestions on how to get what you want, ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

Erotic Bondage Handbook
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Erotic Bondage Handbook
By Jay Wiseman
Bondage enthusiasts will love this book -- chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. 323 pp.

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$24.95 CAD

Family Jewels
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Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages.

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$12.95 CAD

Partners in Power
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Partners in Power
Living In Kinky Relationships
By Jack Rinella
From the author of "the Master's Manual" and "The Complete Slave" comes Jack Rinella's third installment. With real people of all genders and orientations in mind, Partners in Power is a great book for those looking to live the BDSM life ... (read more)

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$24.00 CAD

Playing Well with Others
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Playing Well with Others
While some sex education books focused on BDSM might instruct you in some detail how to deliver a spanking, this book guides you through the world of people you might you want to spank, how to negotiate the spanking, etiquette in different sex communities and even what to wear based on the type of g ... (read more)

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$19.95 CAD

Radical Ecstasy
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Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm o ... (read more)

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$17.16 CAD

Sensuous Magic
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Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

Shibari You Can Use
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Shibari You Can Use
Japanese-style rope bondage and erotic macramé may look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful, sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you step by step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetica ... (read more)

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$29.95 CAD

SM 101
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SM 101
A Realistic Introduction

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The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and s ... (read more)

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$30.70 CAD

The Human Pony
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The Human Pony
For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play and all dressed up, as well as personal stories of pony and trainer experiences, The Hu ... (read more)

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$27.95 CAD

The New Bottoming Book
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The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The New Topping Book
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The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams.

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$34.40 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Tristan Taormino brings together the kings, queens and queers of kink in this educational-based collection of essays on power play. Learn how to get your kink-on from the likes of Patrick Califia, Madison Young, Midori, Laura Antoniou and Barbara ... (read more)

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$26.95 CAD

Ties That Bind
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Ties That Bind
Guy Baldwin, renowned psychotherapist-educator and practitioner of kinky sex, explores the depths of S/M relationships in this thought-provoking and self-exploratory collection of essays on topics such as the magical S/M "high," tips for assuring a sane, safe and consensual scene and the importance ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
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Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
By Janet W. Hardy
In this Toybag guide (courtesy of Greenery Press), Janet Hardy takes us through the ins and outs of canes and caning. From selecting and purchasing a cane, to dungeon safety and technique, this book is small but thorough, and is an essential read for anyone considering caning s ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
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Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explo ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
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Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
By Jay Wiseman
Wondering what to do when something goes wrong in the dungeon? Prolific S/M author Jay Wiseman brings his years of expertise to this essential guide to dungeon safety. This book tackles the most common S/M emergencies (and some uncommon ones too!) with great first aid information ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
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Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity and electro pl ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
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Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
By Spectrum
Looking to embark on a power play adventure? There's no better place to start than hot wax - but before you do, be sure to check out this essential hot wax and temperature play guide from Greenery Press. Tips, techniques and lots of good safety advice for the novice or experienced p ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Medical Play
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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygien ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
The second volume of the rope bondage guides by Two Knotty Boys, Back on the Ropes delves a little deeper into tying sensual and decorative bondage. Full color, gorgeous photographs illustrate all techniques, while each step is clearly explained. Learn everything from blindfolds and gags to stirrups ... (read more)

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$29.50 CAD

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to t ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

 

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