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From the classic Screw the Roses to the Better Built Bondage Book, we've got the best of power play and BDSM sexual education.

Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Kinky crafters looking for DIY fetish gear inspiration and fully drafted patterns, we’ve got the book for you! With its focus on clothing, harnesses, gags, chastity play wear and masks, Fetishcraft gives readers the opportunity to customize their own sexy play gear without having to start from scrat ... (read more)

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$39.00 CAD

Come Hither
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Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp.

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$23.99 CAD

Complete Shibari 2: Sky
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In the second volume of Douglas Kent's Shibari books, we are learning about suspension bondage. Short explantions preceded gorgeous, step-by-step colour photographs, as well as charts, and lots and lots of colour-coded symbols to help you along the way. Not for beginners, this is an advanced book th ... (read more)

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$5.00 CAD , Regular price $36.00

Conquer Me
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Conquer Me
Girl-to-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires
Conquer me reads a little like a memoir, a little like a guide, and a little like a reflection on BDSM culture and submissive women's positioning within it. As such, it's chock full of her suggestions on how to get what you want, ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

Family Jewels
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Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages.

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$12.95 CAD

Flogging
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Flogging
By Joseph W. Bean
Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any s/m scene ... (read more)

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$15.00 CAD

Radical Ecstasy
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Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm o ... (read more)

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$17.16 CAD

Sensuous Magic
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Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

SM 101
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SM 101
A Realistic Introduction

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The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and s ... (read more)

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$30.70 CAD

The Human Pony
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The Human Pony
For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play and all dressed up, as well as personal stories of pony and trainer experiences, The Hu ... (read more)

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$27.95 CAD

The New Bottoming Book
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The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The New Topping Book
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The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages.

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$18.40 CAD

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams.

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$34.40 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Tristan Taormino brings together the kings, queens and queers of kink in this educational-based collection of essays on power play. Learn how to get your kink-on from the likes of Patrick Califia, Madison Young, Midori, Laura Antoniou and Barbara ... (read more)

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$26.95 CAD

Ties That Bind
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Ties That Bind
Guy Baldwin, renowned psychotherapist-educator and practitioner of kinky sex, explores the depths of S/M relationships in this thought-provoking and self-exploratory collection of essays on topics such as the magical S/M "high," tips for assuring a sane, safe and consensual scene and the importance ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
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Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explo ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
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Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
By Jay Wiseman
Wondering what to do when something goes wrong in the dungeon? Prolific S/M author Jay Wiseman brings his years of expertise to this essential guide to dungeon safety. This book tackles the most common S/M emergencies (and some uncommon ones too!) with great first aid information ... (read more)

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$14.00 CAD

Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
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Toybag Guide to High Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity and electro pl ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
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Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
By Spectrum
Looking to embark on a power play adventure? There's no better place to start than hot wax - but before you do, be sure to check out this essential hot wax and temperature play guide from Greenery Press. Tips, techniques and lots of good safety advice for the novice or experienced p ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Toybag Guide to Medical Play
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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygien ... (read more)

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$13.99 CAD

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to t ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

 

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