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Fist Me!
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Getting a grip on anal pleasure involving fists is one of the extreme sports of bum fun. There’s no doubt that it can bring previously unknown satisfaction to those who practice it. From tips about the right lube to use, to useful relaxation techniques, and even a guide to the dark labyrinth inside ... (read more)

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$25.99 CAD

Let's Just Cuddle
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A Guide to Intimacy With a Sex Abuse Survivor
Adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse face unique challenges in relationships, particularly when it comes to sexual intimacy. But sexual intimacy is tied into an array of relational facets that a survivor and partner must learn to negotiate ... (read more)

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$22.50 CAD

Let's Make A Porno
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After nearly a decade writing and directing independent erotic films, Erika Lust has answered countless interviews, letters from fans, film students, and budding performers … all about one thing: how do you get into making adult films?

Let’s Make a Porno is an illustrated guide that shares the ... (read more)

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$12.00 CAD

Sexting
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How frequently should you text a friend with benefits? When is it okay to send someone a nude pic? Modern sex is full of confusing questions that Dear Abby never had to deal with. But don't lose hope if you're feeling confused about erotic etiquette: the Sex Rules series is here to answer all the li ... (read more)

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$18.95 CAD

Better Than I Ever Expected
Better Than I Ever Expected
Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty
By Joan Price
A great new book that tells it straight about being sexy and sixty! Author Joan Price shares personal anecdotes and stories from other fabulously "sexy over sixties" to provide advice and encouragement for women entering their la ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Burlesque Handbook
Burlesque Handbook
Everything you need to know about the fabulous world of burlesque in all bound up in this great new book! From making your own pasties (with stencils), to learning new moves, to how to boost your own confidence, this handbook is great for beginners and seasoned performers alike. Written by Jo Weldon ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text

From the publisher:
The world's oldest and most widely read guide to the pleasures and techniques of sex, the Kama Sutra was compiled in the fourth century A.D. by a Brahmin and religious scholar name Vatsyayana, wh ... (read more)

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$36.50 CAD

Cuddle Sutra
Cuddle Sutra
Cuddling is more intimate than a candlelit dinner, more than a joint tax return and yes, even more than sex. With the simple act of an embrace, two people can be joined together in such an intense bond that words no longer serve a purpose. The cuddle says it all.

The Cuddle Sutra is an all-enc ... (read more)

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$17.95 CAD

Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
The New and Naughty Guide to Being Great in Bed
By Tristan Taormino
In this excellent introduction sex book, Tristian Taormino shares with us her juicy adventures in sexuality that have taught her much. With a fun and no holds barred style of sex education, Taormino delves into such ... (read more)

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$19.75 CAD

Ecstasy Is Necessary
Ecstasy Is Necessary
A Practical Guide
Barbara Carrellas' practical guide to ecstasy tackles how to infuse ecstasy, mindfulness and self-awareness in to all aspects of your life. Bringing you on a journey of self-discovery through reflective exercises, Carrellas helps you discover your values, communication ... (read more)

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$16.95 CAD

Great Sex Made Simple
Great Sex Made Simple
Interested in Tantric Sex, but don't know where to start? Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels have taken their years of study and expertise and distilled it into this easy-to-use beginner’s book for those who want to explore the ecstasy of erotic Tantric practice. Each new concept, technique and exe ... (read more)

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$20.95 CAD

Hand in the Bush
Hand in the Bush
By Deborah Addington
This sensible guide provides an up-to-date, step-by-step approach to vaginal fisting for those who are interested or just want to know more about this form of lovemaking. 1997. 102 pp.

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$14.50 CAD

Hot Sex
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Hot Sex
"Hot Sex" is not your average positions sex book. This beautifully illustrated book is informative yet playful and fun- simply chalk full of exciting things to try. Sex educators Emily Morse and Jayme Waxman (who's workshops "Blowjob Bootcamp" and "Uncovering the "O" are often held in store at Come ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

How To Be A Bush Pilot
How To Be A Bush Pilot
How To Be A Bush Pilot is everyman's guide to getting luckier, from anatomy, to 69ing, to group sex, and everything in between. Written in an upbeat, humorous, sex-positive way, the lessons in this book are made to sharpen your skills and graduate to that higher level of providing pleasure for both ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

How To Write a Dirty Story
How To Write a Dirty Story
Reading, Writing, and Publishing Erotica
By Susie Bright
Susie Bright, editor of many contemporary collections of erotica, teaches us the tricks of her trade. Providing many pearls of erotic wisdom for both fiction and non-fiction writers, she uses samples of her own work to describe t ... (read more)

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$28.00 CAD

Illustrated Extended Massive Orgasm
Illustrated Extended Massive Orgasm
By Steve Bodansky
This new updated and illustrated guide to EMO is better than ever! With great illustrations to help you through the instructional text, the book has been reorganized to dedicate half of the text to techniques for men's pleasure (most of the first book was about women's pleasure ... (read more)

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$24.95 CAD

Intimate Invasions
Intimate Invasions
By M.R. Strict
One of the greatest taboos of kinky play is klismaphilia, or enema play, as most of us know it. In M.R. Strict’s enthusiastic guide, you can enjoy both learning through his expertise, and reading his outrageous personal stories. The only book we know of dealing with klismaphilia, ... (read more)

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$19.50 CAD

Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh Joy Sex Toy
Oh joy, indeed! Following an inspiring crowdfunding campaign, Erika Moen's beautiful, educational, and entertaining Oh Joy Sex Toy has emerged in book form - and we're among the very first to have it in our hands and in our shop. Whether you're an original Dar fan or you're just looking for a fun ... (read more)

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$35.00 CAD

Partners in Passion
Partners in Passion
From the publisher: Tantric Partners in Passion themselves, authors Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson provide readers with a fun step-by-step guide to creating a lasting, loving, erotic relationship. Partners in Passion is highly original and provocative, drawing on a variety of sources: cutting ... (read more)

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$29.50 CAD

Penguin Classics Kama Sutra
Penguin Classics Kama Sutra
The gorgeously illustrated, velvety cover of the Penguin Classics Kama Sutra might suggest that this is a modern sex position menu based on the ancient Indian Kama Sutra, interpreted by Western thinkers. Inside, however, we discover that any reference to positions is illustrated only in words, and t ... (read more)

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$18.99 CAD

Phone Sex
Phone Sex
By Miranda Austin
Learn how to take your fantasy of steamy sex with a red hot stranger over the phone to the next level! This fabulously written one of a kind book celebrates the unique job that phone sex operators have. Miranda Austin draws from experience to give the reader an intelligent and v ... (read more)

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$22.50 CAD

pleasureABLE
pleasureABLE
Sexual Device Manual For Persons With Disabilities
This manual was created as a practical resource for persons with disabilities and health care clinicians, providing information on modifying sex toys, positions for greater ease and comfort, pleasure anatomy, safety and deconstructing myt ... (read more)

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$8.00 CAD

Position Sex Bible
Position Sex Bible
Open up new possibilities in any relationship or get a bit cheeky with this personal notch-in-the-bedpost journal featuring 291 sex positions. The Position Sex Bible covers intercourse, oral sex, hand jobs and more, each with a full colour photo and step by step instruction. Informative and fun!

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$22.50 CAD

Sex Deck
Sex Deck
Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life
By Dr. Dawn Harper
A quick and handy way to turn monotony into spontaneity. Slip a card into a lover’s pocket, place a position idea under a pillow, or randomly choose a card to mix it up! Over 50 cards filled with cute line drawings of ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Sex With The Lights On
Sex With The Lights On
200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered
By Ducky DooLittle
Ducky has traveled the world with her one woman show full of wit, humour and sexiness. Now she’s brought all the questions she’s heard from fans seeking advice into one concise volume for a great educational read. She offers ... (read more)

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$21.50 CAD

Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse Workbook
Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse Workbook
This is an amazing workbook guide for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Using practical and easy to understand exercises, Carolyn Ainscough and Kay Toon cover many aspects of healing and dealing with the trauma that comes from childhood abuse. From learning how one's current emotions can be relat ... (read more)

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$23.00 CAD

Tantra for Two - Soul Sex
Tantra for Two - Soul Sex
By Pala Copeland & Al Link
Written by long-time Tantra practitioners, this book is a guide for beginners and experts alike. With a focus on learning, teaching and evolving sexually to create a passionate, emotionally rich relationship. Soul Sex is full of practical information, discussions and ... (read more)

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$29.95 CAD

The Good Vibrations Guide to Vibrators
The Good Vibrations Guide to Vibrators
By Joani Blank
Joani Blank, founder of the woman-owned sex shop Good Vibrations, has compiled her years of experience into this, indeed, the complete guide to vibrators. Confounded by the plethora of possibilities? This guide outlines all the different types of vibrators available, as well as the ... (read more)

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$8.50 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Another great book from a Good Vibes staff member. This book is the newest edition to the ultimate family of educational books. A great resource for anyone who is looking to brush up on going down! A technical p ... (read more)

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$20.95 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Yes, another great Ultimate Guide! Finally, a comprehensive and fun guide to fellatio! Everything from anatomy to condom tricks. Want to learn to deep throat, give great head to a dildo, or just keep your lips ... (read more)

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$23.95 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain & illness
By Miriam Kaufman, M.D., Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Just when you thought the "ultimate guide" series might be running out of subjects, here comes the Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability - the most interesting and im ... (read more)

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$25.50 CAD

Big Big Love
Big Big Love
A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them
Hanne Blank's Big Big Love is back, in a bolder, better, revised edition. Realistic, entertaining information on sex, love and romance for everybody from the chubby to the super-sized. Challenging the tyranny of physical standa ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$17.99 CAD

Erotic Massage Deck
Erotic Massage Deck
Marrying ancient Eastern wisdom with modern know-how, the Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, these 50 sensual techniques can be explored one at a time or combined for an evening of intimate passion. This item is currently out of stock

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$21.50 CAD

Erotic Mind
Erotic Mind
By Jack Morin
While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues, this book is an essential roadma ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$18.99 CAD

Exhibitionism For the Shy
Exhibitionism For the Shy
Using her own experience as a guide, formerly shy sex educator Carol Queen is a wonderful escort into your own journey into exploring the erotic potential of exhibitionism: dressing up, showing off, role-playing, and talking dirty. Using exercises culled from her popular San Francisco workshops, Que ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$22.00 CAD

Guide to Getting It On
Guide to Getting It On
This expanded and revised 7th edition of the tongue-in-cheek educational favorite, Guide to Getting It On, includes 24 new illustrations 192 new pages (1,184 pages total vs 992 for the prior edition) 6 new chapters: Sex with a Co-Worker, Sex after You Move Back Home, Casual Sex, The Orgasm Talk and ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$37.95 CAD

The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-on Sex
The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-on Sex
Violet Blue's '' The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" reads less like an educational how-to and more like a spicy erotica! In fact, it's speckled with short erotic vignettes of hot strap-on sex by best-selling erotica writer Alison Tyler. Dealing with everything from how to bring it up an ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$19.95 CAD

The Ethical Slut
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The Ethical Slut
By Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt
A fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance and believes in living these dreams with friends, partner ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$21.99 CAD

The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
By Cathy Winks, Anne Semans
We highly recommend this guide for its thoroughness, intelligence and near-universal appeal. Written by two former worker-owners at Good Vibrations (our inspiration, and our sister sex store in San Francisco), this guide covers all the basics - oral sex, communication ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$38.95 CAD

Urban Tantra
Urban Tantra
Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
By Barbara Carrellas
Finally, the book for people who want to learn about Tantric sex but can’t find the time! Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carrellas, offers an urban spin on the spiritual practice of Tantric sex. Acknowledging the realities of a ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$22.99 CAD

 

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