About Us

Welcome to Come As You Are! Founded as a worker-owned co-operative in 1997, we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. We don't profit from your pleasure and we only stock products that we truly love and believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping and billing is extraordinarily discreet. We've been voted "best sex shop" in Toronto since 1997. Want to learn more? Read our frequently asked questions, find out more about us, check out our core values, read our reviews, or peruse our media archive! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!

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Is consent possible? Can we do better?

The older I get, the more suspicious I've become about consent. We stock so many books and zines about what consent is, how to ensure one has enthusiastic consent, about developing and maintaining good boundaries, and while I can wholeheartedly get behind this movement and all of the tea-as-sex analogies, there's something that's never sat right with me about the way we talk about consent.