Welcome to Come As You Are! Founded as a worker-owned co-operative in 1997, we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. We don't profit from your pleasure and we only stock products that we truly love and believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping and billing is extraordinarily discreet. We've been voted "best sex shop" in Toronto since 1997. Want to learn more? Read our frequently asked questions, find out more about us, check out our core values, read our reviews, or peruse our media archive! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!
New Toys We Love!
When the best sex toy is also the worst
If you read our last newsletter, you'll likely already know that we don't pay a lot of attention to media hype or sales reports when it comes to deciding what to stock in our shop or what we recommend to folks online and in-store.
Our focus has always been on listening to your wants, needs, and experiences to help you find your path to your own sexual pleasure and actualization.
So, you'll likely not be surprised to find that we bristle at being asked what our best selling sex toys are (I genuinely don't know as of writing this) and loathe when the media decides what the best sex toy is.
New Books We Love!
A great addition to mini-wands - I use it on my miracle massager, and I’m happy to report that the vibrations travel quite nicely. If you’re looking for girth, this might not be your option, but if you’re looking for specific stimulation (or enjoy the ripple texture for thrusting) you’ll get tons of fun.
Wow!! great product. I'll be trying for the SDK.
Obsessed with this product
I love using these with my partner to limit the length going in. It works very well and it's a really good quality.
Easy to clean up. Great with different types of lubes, temperature play makes it exciting and mixing it up in the bedroom between dildos and this while your loved one is blinfolded, awesome! Stainless steel toy for endless creativity and combinations of fun.
I like that it’s bendable, it does actually glow in the dark (a little faintly but still fun), the suction on the base is strong on both wet and dry surfaces, and the stiffness/squishiness ratio makes it very comfortable to use. It also came with a surprise bullet vibrator included (with batteries!) so that’s pretty cool :)
Unrelated to the actual product, I appreciated the little pamphlets that came with my order — reminders on how to clean and store the different materials, safety tips, etc — very helpful when I want to double check I’m doing it right without navigating to the specific product on the website again.
It got the job done!
The premade holes were a little loose at the tightest setting, but I'm sure I can poke another one. It is a nice size and the material doesn't have a bad taste!
This is a nice size and the flower is really cute 🌸💕
A slow insertion is great for warming up and easing into things. Well made, looks pretty. Great that they come in different sizes as well.
Honestly, it’s the only lube I use!
Let me just start with WHOA. I get what all the hype is about now! The quality of this product is *chefs kiss* amazing. I have never owned a prostate toy with the weight of the Njoy and the ability to use silicone lube. How have I been living my life without this? Also, Come As You Are ships their products discreetly and quickly. I will definitely be buying from here again!!!!
Soft and easy to charge though the charger is a bit finnicky due to magnet so double check it's good before leaving to let charge and make sure it's charging horizontal.
Very good lub and amazing price and perfect shipping and delivery
Love this addition to our S&M collection. Makes for exciting submission domination play perfectly connecting with ankle & wrist restraints