About Come As You Are
Welcome to Come As You Are! Founded as a worker-owned co-operative in 1997, we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. We don't profit from your pleasure and we only stock products that we truly love and believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping and billing is extraordinarily discreet. We've been voted "best sex shop" in Toronto since 1997. Want to learn more? Read our frequently asked questions, find out more about us, check out our core values, read our reviews, or peruse our media archive! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!
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New Stuff We Adore
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Gosh, we've always been huge fans of the original Laya by Fun Factory! The ergonomic shape of the original Laya delighted us - here was a vibrator that was meant mostly for external use, but, had the functionality to offer a little...
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With everyone in a tizzy about duotone (ben wa) balls, we're thrilled to see this new and unique entry in the world of PC muscle exercisers from Aneros. Designed in firm, but velvety silicone, the Aneros Evi is designed for...
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This semi-sheer gaffed thong was created for Trans feminine people, or anyone who is looking for a compression undie. It can be worn with or without a tuck. It smooths out the front, making this an ideal piece for a...
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Whether you're looking for an appropriate travel-sized bottle or you just want to try a bit before you invest in a full-size bottle, this 50ml Liquid Silk is perfect on both counts. Our fave lube - and perhaps the only...
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Just like it's sibling the Lelo Sona 2, the Lelo Sona 2 Cruise features the same upgrades from the original Sona Cruise. 12 speeds instead of 8, a softer silicone, and a wider mouth. Folks also report 'better sensation' from...
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LELO is putting you in the driver’s seat with this revolutionary developer’s kit. In addition to being a sexy and pleasurable masturbator, the Lelo F1s is an open-interface toy equipped with 10 sensors for real-time performance feedback through the LELO app....
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Sure, the Orchid doesn't have an app interface and it doesn't record your internal temperature each time you orgasm, but the Orchid Mood G-Spot vibe gives toys twenty times as expensive a run for their money. The curve and bulbous...
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New Books We Love
Maybe you've been dreading having "the talk" about sex with your kids or future kids or niblings? Dr. Faith and Bonnie Scott have some advice based on abundant experience with these talks! In listed form, this zine covers not just...
Read more about Woke Parenting #4: Sex Relationships, & Psychological Care
Reclaim Your Personal Power, Recover from Neglect, Manipulation, or Betrayal, Reawaken Your Emotional Intimacy - A Book for Women
In Break the Grip of Past Lovers, author Jumana Sophia teaches women how to move beyond the lingering betrayals of past...
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Practical Strategies To Help Couples Understand Each Other and Strengthen Their Connection
Life with a partner whose neurotype is different than yours is filled with moments that are surprising, unique, and sometimes challenging. This book is a helpful and inclusive guide...
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The starch of a well pressed shirt, the oiled hair and hint of aftershave, the flash of the pinky ring, and the declarative gaze of the woman who dares to embody such a statement.
Pathologized as Inverts, criminalized as cross...
Read more about Butch Lesbians of the 20s, 30s, and 40s Coloring Book
An Illustrated Guide for Nervous Beginners
The 25-year-old classic, now updated and in a fun new graphic format!
Janet W. Hardy, formerly known as Lady Green, has distilled the best of her 35 years' experience as a dominant into this...
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The Teen's Guide to Sex, Relationships, and Being a Human
Is what I’m feeling normal?
Is what my body is doing normal? Am I normal?
How do I know if I'm making the right choices to make?
How do I know...
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A comic-zine inspired by the common fear of PAP tests, it strives to bring clarity to the importance of cervical exams. Ever wondered what a cervical exam is and how it's done? This zine answers some questions on why, how, and...
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Do It Yourself Gynecology and Herbal Remedies
Hot Pants, long an underground classic, offers great basic sexual health information along with tried and true herbal treatments for common gynaecological problems. Patriarchy sucks," the authors begin. "It's robbed us of our...
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Friendship, Dating, & Long Term
Ever since he came out as autistic, people have been contacting Joe to share their stories and ask questions. The most common question by far: how do I find a romantic partner? Dr. Faith G....
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Staff Favourites
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Double your pleasure with the Tango double dildo from Fuze Toys! Great for use without a harness (but way easier and better with one!) Tango's curves are suited to anal play, pegging, or g-spot stimulation. Features an insert for a...
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Come on, be a little self-centered and treat yourself to a Mimi. From the creators of the Je Joue comes this powerful and pocket-sized rechargeable vibe. The Je Joue Mimi is fully waterproof, and sports flashy metal push-button controls and...
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We're going to be totally honest with you here: the SpareParts Tomboii has so much going on that there's simply no way to do justice to it in a web description, but we'll try. If you know us at all,...
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Double your pleasure with the super soft Tango Flex double dildo from Fuze Toys! Great for use without a harness (but way easier and better with one!) Tango's curves are suited to anal play, pegging, or g-spot stimulation. Features an...
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The wild world of We-Vibe has just gotten a little bit wilder! The latest and greatest from We-Vibe is (as always!) a new take on a classic. This dual-function rechargeable vibe provides amazing vibration inside and out, has remote control...
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