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Come As You Are
Co-operative

Tel: 888-504-7934
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Warehouse: 6 Ripley Ave
Toronto, ON M6S 3N9

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Welcome to Come As You Are Co-operative! We are the world's only worker-owned co-operative sex shop, and we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. As a co-op, we don't profit from your purchases and we only stock products that we truly believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping/billing is extraordinarily discreet. Want to learn more? Read more about us or check out our core values! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!
Non-Monogamy Workshops with Andrea Zanin

Non-Monogamy Workshops with Andrea Zanin

When it comes to being honest and thoughtful about the potential of multiple relationships in our lives, there's really no-one we'd recommend talking to more than Andrea Zanin. Luckily for all of us, this spring she's running two workshops here in Toronto on the potentials of non-monogamy, over at the CLGA! Read on to learn more about her two workshops, and be sure to book early, since her workshops have been known to sell out! Read about our Non-Monogamy Workshops with Andrea Zanin

Born to Lose: Motörhead Vibes

Born to Lose: Motörhead Vibes

With all apologies to Gwyneth, we're the sort of folks that tend to eschew celebrity endorsements, but these Motörhead vibes are just so good-looking and powerful that we couldn't help ourselves. Whether you're looking to celebrate the life of Lemmy, or you're just looking for a knock-your-socks-off powerful battery vibe, definitely scope out these Motörhead Vibes

Erotic Arts & Crafts Redux

Erotic Arts & Crafts Redux

Enjoy the best of the Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair from the comforts of your own home! You don't need to be in Toronto to luxuriate in the glory of these amazingly talented indie creators - you just need access to Facebook or Etsy! Check out Spirit Stock's photos from the fair, and follow the links to get the goods from this year's Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair vendors. Erotic Arts & Crafts Redux

GOOP Sex Toy Picks!

GOOP Sex Toy Picks!

Who would've guessed that a bunch of rag-tag anti-capitalist, feminist sex toy slingers from Canada would have so much in common with the rich-and-stylish Gwyneth Paltrow's GOOP brand?!? This past Valentine's Day, we noticed that Doc Johnson's very unique, ergonomic, and versatile Tryst vibe was featured on GOOP. Now, it isn't like this is a totally obscure toy, but it takes a specially trained eye to be able to spot a gem like this in a heap of jelly rubber. So, we dug a little deeper and discovered that either Gwyneth (or another GOOPer) has excellent taste in sex toys. From Toronto's own Province Apothecary to Lelo's Tiani, we're actually pretty impressed. We haven't stocked a Jade Egg in eons, but damn, maybe we should pick them up again! For your convenience and interest, here's some of the stuff Gwyneth digs (and a few things we think *should* be on her list!) GOOP Sex Toy Picks!

Emojibator Emoji Vibes

Emojibator Emoji Vibes

Look, we've picked up some awesome new sex toys this year, but no matter what else happens in 2017, this is going to be our favourite thing that happened this year. You know, until someone make a poop emoji vibe. Get 'em while they're hot (and available) - take your pick of phallic emoji with the Eggplant Emoji Vibe and Chili Pepper Emoji Vibe

BOGO DVDs!

BOGO DVD Sale!

What better time than the dead of winter to steam up your video collection? In celebration of these long nights, we're offering you a two for one DVD deal! We take our DVD collection seriously - we've watched every single title, and think they all have something to add to the world of porn, whether because of it's feminist mandate, raunchy imagination, or educational content. Check out our selection, and see what you think - maybe there's two (or four!) titles you'd like us to send home to you! Check out our BOGO DVD Sale

Heartfelt & Handmade

FREE Stuff From LELO

Purchase any LELO product on our website and receive a FREE LELO Smart Bead vibrating Kegel Exerciser ($150 value!) while supplies last!  View all of our awesome Lelo vibes and toys!

Heartfelt & Handmade

Taste the Rainbow!

Sliquid Naturals Swirl is a group of flavored water based lubricants, all glycerin and paraben free. All Swirl formulations start with their original Naturals H2O water based lubricant, and add flavoring and a hint of aspartame to sweeten. Ph balanced neutral, non-staining, and with many fun flavours, these lubes are a delightful new addition to our selection of flavoured lubes! Unsure if you want a whole bottle? Check out our selection of lube pillow packs to try a little bit first! View all Sliquid Lubes!

Heartfelt & Handmade

Penguin Love

We promise to never carry the Womanizer (ugh) but we’re so excited to be able to offer another toy that has peaked Canada’s interest with it’s promise of hand-held suction. Meet the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. Featuring 11 modes of suction plus vibration, this waterproof and USB rechargeable sex toy offers a wide range of sensation. The modes range from a low pulsing suction emitting from a clitoris-friendly tip to a buzzy vibration plus intense suction. Designed to be a more compact design than the Satisfyer Pro 2, and with a suction tip that is slightly wider, we're impressed with the charming design plus sexy potential of this toy! Get your flippers on the Satisfyer Pro Penguin!

GenderGear.ca

Introducing GenderGear.ca

Over ten years ago, we shamelessly violated our co-op's mandate to stock only gear that related directly to sex or sexuality. We've always taken our mandate (a little too) seriously, and because sexuality, gender, and orientation are all totally separate phenomena, we had a lot of feels about being a shop that purveyed more than mere dildos and vibratoria. Now that we're on the other side of some sort of tipping point, we find that we have more and more young people, parents, and service providers looking for binders, packers, gaffs, and forms, but who wants to shop for a gaff with their mom on a sex shop website? And what social worker wants a sex shop in their browser history at work when they're just looking for a binder for a client? So, we've launched a new website that's totally safe-for-work, parent-appropriate, and has no sexuality products on it at all so it won't be blocked by your firewall at work! We've got all of our best gender gear posted and our binder recycling program is up and running too! Get a load of www.gendergear.ca!

Simple Massage Melts

Simple Massage Melts

Nestled in downtown Peterborough is Simple: a sweet lil' shop that sells soaps, bath bombs, moisturizers, and these adorable massage melts. Just the right size to tuck into a palm to massage the night away, these wee (16g) cocoa & shea butter melts come in many tantalizing scents. Quiet Night In seduces with rose attar and vanilla. Passion's Plaything features sensual lavender and ylang ylang. Secret Vice keeps it classic with a divine vanilla blend. Velvet Hammer features earthy patchouli with vanilla. Weekend Warrior energizes with spearmint and lavender. Naranja Deliciosa knocks it outta the park with sweet orange and vanilla. It's hard to just choose one! Each massage melt is good for two generous full-body massages. Get melted with Simple Massage Melts!

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker

This stroker is the first designed specifically by and for trans men. Buck Angel has designed this stroker to snugly fit trans masculine people's junk - making it great a great option for masturbation and hand-job play! Anyone with a small dick / big clit that is seeking a stroker to try out should definitely consider this ribbed sleeve. Some other options in the same genre are our Tenga Eggs and Helping Head sleeve. Get your junk on a BuckOFF: Buck Angel FTM Stroker!

Black Lives Matter

Black Lives Matter

Over the past twenty years our co-op has consciously (perhaps subconsciously) tried to be as publicly apolitical as possible outside of the arena of sexual rights, pleasure, health, and education. As we understand it, the rationale for this decision was about ensuring that our shop would be open and accessible to all people who want to make their sexual world a better place regardless of their particular political stripes. Whether you're conservative, liberal, NDP, marxist-leninist, anarchist, or libertarian, we believe that you have the right to your sexuality whatever it may be - as long as it is based in active and enthusiastic consent. We will always believe this and we will always support your right to actualize your sexual self no matter who you are or what you believe in.

Read more about Black Lives Matter

How to Choose a Lubricant

Lube makes your _____ better!

In an era where the mainstream media absolutely dominates our discource about sex, lube has been the biggest loser. Between the minor social media celebrities bragging that they "don't need lube", and our collective lack of understanding of arousal nonconcordance, there are few sexual topics more misunderstood and underestimated than lube. The happy reality is that lube is amazing and makes all kinds of sex so much better than it would be otherwise. Regardless of your gender, orientation, or sexuality, a great lube literally decreases friction in your relationships and turns a solo session into a super session with a couple of well-placed drops. However, the key is to find a lube that works for you, because a lube that causes an allergic reaction or one that causes your condom to break (we're looking at you coconut oil!) is not going to make sex more pleasurable. Want to learn How to Choose a Lubricant?

How to Use a Vibrator

How to Use a Vibrator

June 2, 2016

Vibrators don't come with instruction manuals. You might think it's funny that we even mention it, but many of our customers have never used a vibrator, and just as many are uncomfortable or unfamiliar with the subtleties of self-love. So it's no surprise to us that people ask, and we'd like to help out a bit with some basics on how to use a vibrator. Spoiler alert: the image above is probably not how you want to use a vibrator. Learn How to Use a Vibrator

Fuze Foreman

Fuze Foreman

May 26, 2016

Designed with love in Ontario, and machine made with integrity in the USA, the Fuze Foreman is yet another high-quality offering from the fine folks at Fuze. This is Fuze's first uncircumcised piece, and we're delighted with the quality of the design! Built from a model, the Foreman, features beautiful detailing we haven’t seen yet when it comes to an ergonomic and uncircumcised realistic toy. The Foreman also features Fuze’s signature textured base (great for providing sensation for the wearer during harness play!), plus space for a One Touch Bullet. Fuze is among the most environmentally responsible companies we’ve crossed paths with, working toward carbon neutrality, and currently funnels a large portion of their profits towards subsidizing their contributions to the local wetlands ecology they’re based in. Get more Fuze Foreman

Cannalife Botanicals

Cannalife Botanicals

Handmade with love in British Columbia, we're excited to offer Cannalife Botanicals' cannabis-infused products. This hot-topic plant has a lot to offer, including properties that may help promote blood flow, alleviate pain, regenerate skin, provide anti-inflammatory support, and relax muscles. Topical products containing cannabis are not psychoactive - they simply have a slight, uh, musky smell! Get your hands - and other body parts - on Cannalife

Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

Knit a variety of the most popular positions from the classic Kama Sutra, as well as a few of the more intriguing acrobatic poses with this frisky project book that is sure to get your creative juices flowing. All twelve projects include a witty overview highlighting quirky facts and information relating to each position, clear, easy-to-follow knitting patterns and detailed instructions for every stage, and gorgeous full-color photographs to help you visualize your progress, step by step! Read more about Knit Your Own Kama Sutra

 

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