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Anal Sex Positions Guide
Anal Sex Positions Guide
Tristan Taormino, the go-to gal of anal sex, sure does like to cover all the bases when it comes to anal sex, whether it be books, workshops, DVDs--and now she's brought us The Anal Sex Positions Guide. For those who would love to give it a try, to the most experienced in the subject of anal delights, all are bound to learn something new. Chapters are interspersed with erotic passages from some of today's hottest authors, which is sure to create new fantasies to persue! Each position includes pros and cons, and a detailed description of how to achieve it.

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$19.99

Better Than I Ever Expected
Better Than I Ever Expected
Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty
By Joan Price
A great new book that tells it straight about being sexy and sixty! Author Joan Price shares personal anecdotes and stories from other fabulously "sexy over sixties" to provide advice and encouragement for women entering their later years. With practical information on such topics as menopause, dating again (or still), spicing up long term relationships, and male health issues, while also speaking to the positives of the wisdom and sexual confidence the comes with aging. Heterosexual focus. 269pp.

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$21.50

Big Big Love
Big Big Love
A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them
Hanne Blank's Big Big Love is back, in a bolder, better, revised edition. Realistic, entertaining information on sex, love and romance for everybody from the chubby to the super-sized. Challenging the tyranny of physical standards, Hanne Blank looks at flirting, finding a partner, adapting sexual positions and using sex toys.

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$17.99

Burlesque Handbook
Burlesque Handbook
Everything you need to know about the fabulous world of burlesque in all bound up in this great new book! From making your own pasties (with stencils), to learning new moves, to how to boost your own confidence, this handbook is great for beginners and seasoned performers alike. Written by Jo Weldon, founder of the New York School of Burlesque.

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$21.00

Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
The New and Naughty Guide to Being Great in Bed
By Tristan Taormino
In this excellent introduction sex book, Tristian Taormino shares with us her juicy adventures in sexuality that have taught her much. With a fun and no holds barred style of sex education, Taormino delves into such important topics as anal sex, female ejaculating, sex toys and even role playing and S/M. Looking for a light-hearted and straight-forward guide to sex? This all round sexy sex guide will leave you in the know! Previously published as Pucker Up. 257pp.

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$16.99

Ecstasy Is Necessary
Ecstasy Is Necessary
A Practical Guide
Barbara Carrellas' practical guide to ecstasy tackles how to infuse ecstasy, mindfulness and self-awareness in to all aspects of your life. Bringing you on a journey of self-discovery through reflective exercises, Carrellas helps you discover your values, communication style, relationship needs and sexual desires. Most importantly, she helps you articulate your desires. Ecstasy isn't just for folks who practice a certain kind of sex or have a certain lifestyle, but includes folks who are celibate, monogamous, polyamorous, kinky, or wherever else you may be on your sexual journey.

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$16.95

Erotic Massage Deck
Erotic Massage Deck
Marrying ancient Eastern wisdom with modern know-how, the Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, these 50 sensual techniques can be explored one at a time or combined for an evening of intimate passion.

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$17.95

Erotic Mind
Erotic Mind
By Jack Morin
While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues, this book is an essential roadmap to understanding your own complex eroticism. Interactive, insightful and wise. 1995. 390 pp.

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$18.99

Exhibitionism For the Shy
Exhibitionism For the Shy
Using her own experience as a guide, formerly shy sex educator Carol Queen is a wonderful escort into your own journey into exploring the erotic potential of exhibitionism: dressing up, showing off, role-playing, and talking dirty. Using exercises culled from her popular San Francisco workshops, Queen also looks at sexual confidence, communication with partners and self-esteem. A sure-fire way to spice up any form of sexual play. 1995. 238 pp.

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$15.95

Extended Massive Orgasm
Extended Massive Orgasm
By Steve Bodansky
This new updated and illustrated guide to EMO is better than ever! With great illustrations to help you through the instructional text, the book has been reorganized to dedicate half of the text to techniques for men's pleasure (most of the first book was about women's pleasure). This book is applicable to couples of all genders, but is also great for folks flying solo who are just looking to improve their technique. 2002. 235 pp.

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$24.50

Guide to Getting It On
Guide to Getting It On
This expanded and revised 7th edition of the tongue-in-cheek educational favorite, Guide to Getting It On, includes 24 new illustrations 192 new pages (1,184 pages total vs 992 for the prior edition) 6 new chapters: Sex with a Co-Worker, Sex after You Move Back Home, Casual Sex, The Orgasm Talk and Between Vanilla and Kink. For all your tough to answer questions (and maybe a few you didn’t even know you had), this book promises to keep you entertained with loads of great information and fun facts from necking, to oral sex, to romance. Mostly heterosexual focus.

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$28.95

Hand in the Bush
Hand in the Bush
By Deborah Addington
This sensible guide provides an up-to-date, step-by-step approach to vaginal fisting for those who are interested or just want to know more about this form of lovemaking. 1997. 102 pp.

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$14.50

Hot Sex
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Hot Sex
"Hot Sex" is not your average positions sex book. This beautifully illustrated book is informative yet playful and fun- simply chalk full of exciting things to try. Sex educators Emily Morse and Jayme Waxman (who's workshops "Blowjob Bootcamp" and "Uncovering the "O" are often held in store at Come As You Are) share their tricks, tips and techniques to explore. Their best advice? Enthusiasm! (Heterosexual focus) Jamye Waxman and Emily Morse.

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$19.95

Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
The perfect gift for the gourmet, Intercourses 10th Anniversary Edition is bursting with over 200 pages of aphrodisiac recipes and beautiful photographs. Why not curl up by the fire while munching on some chocolate torte dressed with berries? Or try your luck with some sexy honey drenched figs. Either way this book is sure to keep the home fires burning. Hardcover.

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$34.95

Intimate Invasions
Intimate Invasions
By M.R. Strict
One of the greatest taboos of kinky play is klismaphilia, or enema play, as most of us know it. In M.R. Strict’s enthusiastic guide, you can enjoy both learning through his expertise, and reading his outrageous personal stories. The only book we know of dealing with klismaphilia, Intimate Invasions explains not only the exciting foreplay that enema play can bring, but also the safety issues and psychology behind the exhilarating yet often taboo practice! 144pp.

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$19.50

Penguin Classics Kama Sutra
Penguin Classics Kama Sutra
The gorgeously illustrated, velvety cover of the Penguin Classics Kama Sutra might suggest that this is a modern sex position menu based on the ancient Indian Kama Sutra, interpreted by Western thinkers. Inside, however, we discover that any reference to positions is illustrated only in words, and that in fact we hold a text studied thoroughly and translated directly from its original Sanskrit by accomplished translator and embassador A.N.D Haksar. More so than a sex how-to book, this is a detailed list of the ”rules” for love and life, meditated upon by one man, Vatsyayana, more than 2000 years ago. Exploring gender, class and value systems that might contrast greatly with a lot of people’s current experiences of sex, identity and intimacy, this translation gives us both a glimpse into the ideologies of Vatsyayana’s era and at the same time lots of new ways to contextualize our own.

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$15.00

Phone Sex
Phone Sex
By Miranda Austin
Learn how to take your fantasy of steamy sex with a red hot stranger over the phone to the next level! This fabulously written one of a kind book celebrates the unique job that phone sex operators have. Miranda Austin draws from experience to give the reader an intelligent and voyeuristic peek at what really goes on at the other end of the line. It is an engaging read from a talented writer that will have you chuckling, make you think about human nature and turn you on all between the same pages. 232pp.

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$22.50

pleasureABLE
pleasureABLE
Sexual Device Manual For Persons With Disabilities
This manual was created as a practical resource for persons with disabilities and health care clinicians, providing information on modifying sex toys, positions for greater ease and comfort, pleasure anatomy, safety and deconstructing myths around sex and disability. Created in collaboration with Come As You Are's former founding member, Cory Silverberg, this guide expresses healthy and sex-positive approach to sexual exploration for folks with differing abilities. Download this guide for free as a pdf.

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$8.00

Position Sex Bible
Position Sex Bible
Open up new possibilities in any relationship or get a bit cheeky with this personal notch-in-the-bedpost journal featuring 291 sex positions. The Position Sex Bible covers intercourse, oral sex, hand jobs and more, each with a full colour photo and step by step instruction. Informative and fun!

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$17.99

Sex Deck
Sex Deck
Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life
By Dr. Dawn Harper
A quick and handy way to turn monotony into spontaneity. Slip a card into a lover’s pocket, place a position idea under a pillow, or randomly choose a card to mix it up! Over 50 cards filled with cute line drawings of positions such as the Leg Wrap, Easy Rider, or The Sun Worshiper. 52pp.

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$17.95

Sex With The Lights On
Sex With The Lights On
200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered
By Ducky DooLittle
Ducky has traveled the world with her one woman show full of wit, humour and sexiness. Now she’s brought all the questions she’s heard from fans seeking advice into one concise volume for a great educational read. She offers lots of comfort and sage wisdom sprinkled with a good sense of wickedness to her writing and shares illuminating answers to such questions as “What's the best oral sex technique?” and “How can a couple introduce anal sex into their relationship?”. Sex with the Lights On is a very accessible and fun book full of insight! 282 pp.

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$21.50

Sultry Sex Talk To Seduce Any Lover
Sultry Sex Talk To Seduce Any Lover
An amazing workbook that helps you on your way to easier communication about sex! From dirty talk, to sensual seduction, to just plain and simple sex discussion, you will learn about different communications styles, how to gage what you are looking for, how to talk about (and realize!) your fantasies and how to work through shame, shyness and the toughness of just being tongue-tied. Complete with suggestions for sultry emails, sexting, and how to bring up your desires and needs with your lover and yourself, this book will give you the gift of gab and the confidence to speak of your own sexuality.

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$17.99

The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-on Sex
The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-on Sex
Violet Blue's '' The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" reads less like an educational how-to and more like a spicy erotica! In fact, it's speckled with short erotic vignettes of hot strap-on sex by best-selling erotica writer Alison Tyler. Dealing with everything from how to bring it up and negotiate with your partner, where to shop online and pick out great products, to great tips and ideas for sparking fantasies, this guide is a breath of fresh (or rather hot and heavy) air for heterosexual couples seeking to explore the amazing erotics of strap-on sex. Blue's witty yet well-informed guide to male pleasure anatomy, fears and concerns, building trust and exploring the intricacies of power-play and fantasy will only ignite your enthusiasm! As more and more women are strapping it-on, while plenty of men oblige, this guide is at the forefront of adventurous sex-play. Feeling Adventurous?

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$19.50

The Ethical Slut
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The Ethical Slut
By Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt
A fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance and believes in living these dreams with friends, partners, lovers and flirtations. Offers advice for pitfalls that may arise in the pursuit of multiple sexual relationships. 1997. 297 pp.

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$21.99

The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
By Cathy Winks, Anne Semans
We highly recommend this guide for its thoroughness, intelligence and near-universal appeal. Written by two former worker-owners at Good Vibrations (our inspiration, and our sister sex store in San Francisco), this guide covers all the basics - oral sex, communication, masturbation, vibrators, and more - in detail plus it takes a look at issues of sex in society. Winks and Semans have heard it all and the answer to any question you may have about sex is likely to be found between these covers! Updated 3rd edition! 2002. 325 pp.

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$34.95

The Good Vibrations Guide to Vibrators
The Good Vibrations Guide to Vibrators
By Joani Blank
Joani Blank, founder of the woman-owned sex shop Good Vibrations, has compiled her years of experience into this, indeed, the complete guide to vibrators. Confounded by the plethora of possibilities? This guide outlines all the different types of vibrators available, as well as their care and use during solo or partner sex. 2000. 96 pp.

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$8.50

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
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The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus
How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Another great book from a Good Vibes staff member. This book is the newest edition to the ultimate family of educational books. A great resource for anyone who is looking to brush up on going down! A technical play-by-play of all aspects of oral play including negotiating with partners, shaving and waxing, women's anatomy, and female ejaculation. With inspired illustrations throughout, and short stories by Alison Tyler. 2002. 182 pp.

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$20.95

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio
How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
By Violet Blue
Yes, another great Ultimate Guide! Finally, a comprehensive and fun guide to fellatio! Everything from anatomy to condom tricks. Want to learn to deep throat, give great head to a dildo, or just keep your lipstick perfect? Violet Blue teaches us everything we ever wanted to know about blow jobs. 2002. 251 pages.

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$20.95

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain & illness
By Miriam Kaufman, M.D., Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Just when you thought the "ultimate guide" series might be running out of subjects, here comes the Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability - the most interesting and important title in the series. This ultimate guide is most notable for its frank and practical chapters discussing self-esteem, communication, sexual positions, S/M, sexual health, tantric sex and it also features an incredible resources chapter. This is a thoughtful and thorough book and we recommend it to anyone who is seeking to learn a little more about their body or mind.

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$24.50

Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo
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Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo
Ever wonder how to combine controversial sex play with responsibility and consent? From scat-play to consensual forced sex play, The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo delves into the depths of power play culture with level-headedness and thoughtfulness. Mollena Williams's small guide is an intro to thinking though taboo topics, and her insight and advice is welcoming. Williams emphasizes self-reflection, establishing trust with your play partner(s), and having well thought-our negotiation processes. Warning: This book talks about rape and incest fantasies, but always in the context of consensual play between adults.

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$14.00

Urban Tantra
Urban Tantra
Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
By Barbara Carrellas
Finally, the book for people who want to learn about Tantric sex but can’t find the time! Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carrellas, offers an urban spin on the spiritual practice of Tantric sex. Acknowledging the realities of a stressful life in the West, Carrellas has adapted a Tantric program that is easy to follow and practical to execute. With simple step by step instructions and refreshingly gender neutral and pansexual language, this book focuses on such topics as erotic awakening massage, twenty-minute Tantra, breath and energy orgasms, as well as Tantric power play. One breath in, one breath out, enjoy! 287pp.

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$17.99

Best Sex Positions Ever
Best Sex Positions Ever
By Alex Williams
Our newest positions book chock full of practical advice, great new positions to try, and lots of great colour photographs. An excellent gift, or a great way to spice up an evening by suggesting exciting new possibilities! 128pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$21.95

Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
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Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
From Adolescence through Adulthood
This book has been designed primarily as a resource for folks who work with people with AS. Which is a shame- a book designed explicitly for folks who identify as having AS would be such a gem! Regardless, whether you are an educator, lover, or someone who experiences life on an autistic / AS spectrum, this book might still be an amazing tool to add to your toolbox! The first half of this piece explores AS and sexuality during different periods of life, and from different lenses. It delves into various barriers and possible solutions that folks with AS might find helpful. The second half of this book is designed to be a workbook / education program to designed to explore and develop sociosexual skills. This may be helpful as a personal guide to investigate your identity and relationship with sex, or to use if you intend to work as an educator, mentor, or health care provider where you will be discussing sex. Please note this book is written with a heterosexual and cisgender focus.

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$28.95

Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Truly an indespensible tool for those who have found the love of their lives in another country, city, or continent, the Long Distance Relationship Survivial Guide is packed full of hints and tips, true stories (both happy and sad), and best of all, "conversation starters" throughout the book that are specific to those in the situation. Excellent for planning, learning, exploring, and growing within relationships.

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$15.50

Love in Abundance
Love in Abundance
A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships
This is a superb relationship book for anyone, written by a counselor with over 20 years experience counseling folks in polyamorous relationships and 40 years as a polyamorist herself. Labriola's advice is practical, realistic and clearly based on the diverse experiences within her practice- many of which are included as examples in the book. With an empathetic 'be gentle and real with yourself' approach, this book will help you identify what model of open relationship suits you, and why you may be seeking one. She also suggests ways to manage jealously, communication, and so much more. It also includes information for folks who are secondary partners.

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$15.95

Luxurious Loving
Luxurious Loving
Luxurious Loving is a gorgeously photographed and well-written book that teaches us how to transform raunch into sensual awakening. The approach is inspired by Tantra, yet geared towards all who want to enrich or discover their connection to one another. Chapter titles include imagine, sniff, gaze, moan, caress, connect, and more. The images are all heterosexual, but the text is written for couples of any orientation.

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$25.95

Never Have the Same Sex Twice
Never Have the Same Sex Twice
One of our favourite writers of erotica, Alison Tyler, has put together a book of no-fail tips for those in monogomous partnerships to keep things fresh and flirty. After getting a tip years ago from lover, "Never Have the Same Sex Twice", Tyler gives us a collection of ideas written in her fun, down-to-earth, almost friendly style; each chapter is interspersed with a short erotic story to spark imaginations and keep that fire burning.

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$19.50

New Love and Sex Over 60
New Love and Sex Over 60
A jam-packed guide book full of advice for those of us in our elder years looking for information on sexual health and sexuality. Written for those of all orientations, this is a how-to book that has long been needed. 2002. 352 pp.

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$22.95

Opening Up
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Opening Up
A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
This is a book of amazingly diverse personal stories of people from a wide range of sexual orientations, lifestyles, and styles of open relationships. Readers will find that its primary message is that there is no one "right" way to have an open relationship except the one that works for you and your partner(s). Opening Up can help all people, regardless of their relationship style, to truly make an informed choice about what is best for them. Easy to read and very informative, if you have ever considered going open, this book will help you process all of the questions that you may have.

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$22.50

Redefining our Relationships
Redefining our Relationships
By Wendy-O-Matik
An essential guide to the politics behind sharing loving and sexual relationships with multiple partners, Redefining Our Relationships offers mature and thought provoking look at creating and keeping responsible open relationships. This book is not just a how-to guide, but a practical and radical manifesto written from the authors' own experiences. An indispensable book for those interested in non-monogamy. 89pp.

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$14.99

Sex Is Fun
Sex Is Fun
From the popular blog of the same name, Sex is Fun is a hip new take on the traditional sex manual. Fully illustrated throughout in a graphic-novel style, this is a great book that explores everything from personal hygiene to positions, body image to bdsm. The end of each chapeter features and interactive game or activity for you and your parter to do together to explore and expand your relationship, or to be done solo to learn more about yourself. Fun and interesting!

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$25.00

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it to a partner as a hint, or read it together in bed for a fun evening, this guide is sure to spice up the romance and ease some of those shopping phobias. 192pp.

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$19.50

The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
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The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
By Violet Blue
The author of “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” and “The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio”, among others, has brought us playful and creative way to spice up our sex lives. Whether living single or enjoying coupledom, find out how to make your hottest fantasies come to life. Learn how to talk dirty, strip for your lover, make your own porn, and create thrilling scenarios. Also includes some hot new stories by best selling author Alison Tyler. 250 pp

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$20.95

When Someone You Love Is Kinky
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When Someone You Love Is Kinky
by Dossie Easton,Catherine A. Liszt
When Someone You Love is Kinky is everything you needed to tell the people in your family but were short of words. Written by the authors of the Ethical Slut and the Bottoming Book (Easton and Liszt). A great guide to honesty and communication for all of us, and just in time for that awkward holiday time.

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$16.50

When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
Discover Your Libido Types to Create a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life
What is it about sex that makes some relationships so hard? According to sex therapist Dr. Sandra Pertot, the dificulty takes place when mismatched libido types interact with eachother. What are the different libido types you ask? Well in "When Your Sex Drives Don't Match" Pertot gives ten different examples, from the disinterested libido to the addictive libido. With case studies, tips, excercises, and quizzes, this book helps identify, understand and work through common sexual problems. Written in a mostly hetero vibe ( just with the case studies), the advise can be taken in for any type of sexual relationship. A great read to steer your dwindeling relationship back on track!

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$18.50

101 Nights of Great Sex
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101 Nights of Great Sex
One of the most ingenious formats for a sex book, each week there's a new adventure for both of you. This book contains 100 sealed envelopes each giving instructions for an erotic activity. Heterosexual focus. 2000. 100 envelopes. This item is currently out of stock

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$28.95

For Each Other
For Each Other
Sharing Sexual Intimacy
A guide for women to achieving greater sexual satisfaction and more intimate relationship, For Each Other focusses on physical and psychological issues and contains exercises and information. Barbach can be relied on for her compassionate, intelligent approach to the complex aspects of relationships. 1982. 316 pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$21.50

Jealousy Workbook
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Jealousy Workbook
Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships
Phew, this workbook blew our collective socks off! The Jealousy Workbook is filled with important questions, exercises, and observations, with support and guidance woven throughout to promote tangible and careful exploration of jealousy. This book has been designed largely for folks who are in a committed relationship and are additionally considering or engaging in other relationships. That being said, there is a lot of helpful and versatile information within this book regardless of your relationship style. An amazing resource promoting mindfulness, communication and intentionality! This item is currently out of stock

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$19.95

Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Multi-Orgasmic Couple
By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams,Rachel Carlton Abrams
Find a few moments (OK - more than a few moments) and get ready for some creative, exploratory coupling. From the authors of the ever-popular book The Multi-Orgasmic Man comes The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. This book give insight into sexual temperaments, channeling sexual energy, and experiencing multiple, longer and more intense whole-body orgasms, with the ultimate goal of spiritual union. 2000. 176 pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$18.99

Lesbian Sex Bible
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new sex toy Lesbian Sex Bible
We're often reminding people to metaphorically not judge books by their covers, but in the case of Diana Cage's Lesbian Sex Bible, we mean it in the most literal sense of the phrase. This wonderfully comprehensive and inclusive guide to lesbian sex provides amazing amounts of practical sexual knowledge and doesn't assume anything about the reader's identity beyond their interest in lesbian sex and culture. By not just acknowledging, but actually embracing the diversity of lesbian communities - and all of the identities contained within - this book goes way beyond just offering up banal tips and tricks, and instead provides inspiration, empowerment, and context for lesbian sex culture. This is a great title for folks just coming out and beyond!

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$29.99

Becoming Orgasmic
Becoming Orgasmic
A step-by-step guided program for women who would like to achieve orgasms -- by themselves and with their partner(s). Written by leaders in this field, it focuses on comfort, sensation, technique, emotions, self-knowledge and relationships. 1988. 266 pp.

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$18.99

Burlesque and the Art of the Teese
Burlesque and the Art of the Teese
By Dita Von Teese and Bronwyn Garrity
Dita Von Teese spills her secrets for glamour and success in this elegant two part masterpiece. Part autobiography, part history, part photographic memoir, this book is an essential addition to any aspiring performer’s reference library. The pages are packed with burlesque and fetish tips, vintage beauty tricks and a whole lot more. An inspiration for the tease in all of us! Hardcover, 272pp.

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$44.99

Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
Not your mother's orgasm book!
By Deborah Sundahl
This one of a kind educational handbook covers a mass of topic related to female ejaculation including anatomy, workshops, history, exercises, and many many more. An excellent resouce for anyone interested in exploring female ejaculation and the g-spot. One of the most complete, informed and detailed books around on female ejaculation. 217 pages.

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$22.95

For Yourself
For Yourself
The Fulfilment of Female Sexuality
In one of the best books available on female sexuality, noted sex therapist Barbach provides clear advice on achieving orgasm, and more generally, learning about our sexual selves. 2000. 218 pp.

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$18.00

Forbidden Flowers
Forbidden Flowers
By Nancy Friday
Nancy Friday's second collection of women’s fantasies is even more explicit and outspoken than the first. The women who thought "Thank goodness I'm not the only one!" after reading My Secret Garden went on to give their fantasies to be included in Forbidden Flowers. This time, instead of feeling guilty about their thoughts, the women inside are rejoicing in their fantasies and feeling exhilarated in their new found sexual freedom. 324pp.

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$18.99

Getting Off
Getting Off
Did you know that graham crackers and Corn Flakes were invented to help curb masturbation? It's true. That little factoid really makes you think about why we have such a negative stigma surrounding self-pleasure. In Getting Off, Jamye Waxman helps set the record straight by debunking myths and common fears people have about the M word. Filled with information from the history of female masturbation to everything you ever wanted to know about vibrators and other sex toys, this book really puts the power back in the hands of women who just want to get off!

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$20.50

Healing Painful Sex
Healing Painful Sex
A women's Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain
Unwanted pain during sex is a very common experience that is often brushed aside and rarely publicly addressed. Unfortunately, many doctors are ignorant about disagnosis and treatments. Some doctors may find it difficult to talk about pain during sex or are outright offensive to patients seeking their help. Thankfully, gynecologist Deborah Coady and patient/grief concellor Nancy Fish have collaborated to create this amazing resource "Healing Painful Sex." A great resource for both patient and doctor, this book details a variety of possible causes of unwanted pain during sex, demonstrates which diagnositic tools you should ask for during a doctor's visit, and suggests possible treatments. With supportive first-hand accounts of women's experiences of healing, this book breaks down the silence around women's sexual health so that healing can begin.

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$20.50

How to be a Great Lover
How to be a Great Lover
Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques That Will Blow His Mind
By Lou Paget
Lou Paget is the queen of fun and lively sex-ed! How to be a Great Lover proves this again with tips and techniques on oral sex, great intercourse, and fun new ways to spice it up. A great volume for any woman searching for ways to build confidence in the bedroom and add to the current repertoire. Heterosexual focus, and great for both single women and women in long term relationships. Hardcover, 235pp.

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$30.00

I Love Female Orgasm
I Love Female Orgasm
An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide
By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller
Our book buyer just added this to her list of must have books! I Love Female Orgasm offers detailed advice and information on everything female orgasm. From intercourse, having your first orgasm, sex toys, queer women’s sexuality, and a whole chapter for men plus tips, tips and more tips. 286pp.

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$19.95

Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide
Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide
What use are tips and techniques or toys and gadgets if we don't feel empowered about our own sexuality? Diana Cage goes beyond the superficial tricks and gets into the depth of our complex sexualities, exploring what has dissuaded us from embracing our sexualities so that we may find sexual empowerment. Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman's Guide is both an inclusive (Cage often switches gender pronouns and is inclusive of a diversity of sexual preferences) and accessible guide to seeking pleasure. Cage explores how sex starts with the mind, attitudes and judgments that can either limit us from attaining the pleasure we seek, or open up a plethora of possibilities. She then goes on to discuss pleasure-based anatomy, toys and power play and goes through creative ideas for giving or receiving pleasure, whomever your partner(s) may be. Definitely a guide to sexploration that we can be behind!

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$18.50

Multi-Orgasmic Woman
Multi-Orgasmic Woman
How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Dramatically Enhance Her Health & Happiness
By Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD
Another brilliant book by the authors of the Multi-Orgasmic Couple and the Multi-Orgasmic Man. Every woman should have this book in their collection. From short quizzes about your past, to easy to follow steps on how to increase your focus and desire, this book is sure to make any woman multi-orgasmic. 320 pp.

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$18.99

New View of a Woman's Body
New View of a Woman's Body
This fully illustrated guide by the Federation of Feminist Women's Health Center’s will go down in feminist history as the most complete, interestingly illustrated information on female pleasure-based anatomy in history. No other book, as of yet, has topped the amazing array of information on the structure of the clitoris, the working of that amazing perennial sponge (""g-spot"") or how to do menstrual extractions. Back during the earlier days of consciousness-raising groups, a federation of feminists got together to challenge the dominant medical models of female health, and do their own research, the results of which were, and still are, a ground-breaking departure from boring reproductive diagrams. Featuring home remedies for vulvas ailments (BV, cramps), pictures of cervixes in different states of health, full diagrams of what goes on during a hysterectomy, and much more.

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$29.95

Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty
Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty
Many of us gleefully draw inspiration from our favourite porn scenes or erotic stories when searching for sexy words to murmur - but what to do if you feel like a broken record of porn sounds, wishing instead for your own unique and authentic sexy voice? Here's a tender little workbook that can help you tap into the facets of yourself that have lots of sensual desires to express! You won't find any pre-made lists of scorching adjectives and verbs to match up, but lots of guided self reflection will have you creating lists of your own!

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$16.50

Our Bodies, Ourselves
Our Bodies, Ourselves
For the New Century (Newly Revised and Updated Edition)
By The Boston Women’s Health Book Collective
So we all know and love the original Our Bodies, Ourselves and many women have come to rely on it for health information and resources…. Well, here’s a volume for the new century. Written from a feminist perspective, Our Bodies focuses on sexual health, reproductive rights and the social conditions that restrict women’s access to reliable health care. This is more than a book; it is a movement that deserves a place on every woman’s shelf. 928pp

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$29.99

Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause
By The Boston Women’s Health Book Collective
From those who brought us the classic Our Bodies, Ourselves comes a new edition that deals specifically with our questions and concerns around menopause. With detailed information, loads of well researched answers, and personal stories from a diverse collection of women of all ages, this book seeks to debunk myths and enlighten. A great resource book for all! 350pp.

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$18.99

Passionista
Passionista
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
At first glance you may think that this book is filled with techniques that will blow him away (pun intended), but the truth is, this book goes beyond just serving as a how-to on having great sex, but first and foremost provides a how-to on having a great relationship. (And, believe it or not, the two really are connected.) Previously known as "He Comes Next".

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Sex For One
Sex For One
Masturbation guru Betty Dodson extolls the liberatory virtures of "self-pleasuring" in this extended personal essay on her discovery of the joys of masturbation - alone and with a partner. Discoveries and revelations from 25 years of her "bodysex" groups from women and men, a guide to self-loving, and Dodson's own erotic art round out this enlightening and inspiring book. 1986. 191 pp.

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$21.00

Sexual Intimacy for Women
Sexual Intimacy for Women
Dr. Glenda Corwin presents this important book for those of us in same-sex (mostly long-term) relationships who feel like they would like to reach a deeper level of intimacy, or to re-spark a flame that was once alive. It is written in an easy to read, accepting and positive style, focusing on many issues such as why one might experience lack of desire (from body issues and sexual abuse to aging and infidelity). The second half of the book provides the reader with techniques on how to improve their relationship, without being preachy or step-by-step instructions "guaranteed" to help. The goal is to educate and expand ideas of why this is happening, creating dialogue within the relationship and working together. Throughout the book, the author gives solid anecdotes from years of leading workshops on sexual intimacy in same-sex relationships, helping the reader to be able to relate and feel like they aren't the only one going through these experiences.

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$20.50

The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The notorious female erogenous zone is the subject of this clear and informative guide, covering such topics as general female anatomy, ejaculation, g-spot orgasms and the PC muscle. 1998. 63 pp.

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$9.95

The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot
The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot
Curious about all this hype around the g-spot? Want to learn how to explore female ejaculation? Violet Blue's Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot gives you the tools you need for some fun, squirty g-spot play. From pleasure-based overview of female anatomy, advanced positions and techniques, and a great intro to toys, fantasy and power play- this book will have you on your way to rocking g-spot orgasms! Best of all, this short, easy to read guide is complete with hot steamy g-spot focused erotica by Alison Tyler to get your juices going while you learn.

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$18.50

The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
While there are many books on the subject of female orgasm, this Ultimate Guide really seems to connect with the reader, working to disspell myths that come along with "how it should be" or how exactly to do it. This book is not written for anyone in particular; it is meant for women who want to explore themselves and the possibilites they haven't had a chance to yet, it is for women's partners, it is for anyone who wants to look beyond getting there and get in touch with all that comes along with an orgasm.

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$19.95

The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians
The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians
Tips and Techniques from Conception to Birth
By Rachel Pepper
This book contains plenty of basic pregnancy info and conception advice, but what really makes it stand out is all the lesbian-specific information that is unlikely to be found anywhere else. It’s written in a very positive, uplifting tone, with an excellent list of resources at the end. With explanations of fertility cycles, how to select a sperm donar, finding a lesbian-friendly pediatrician, and sex during pregnancy, it’s a comforting and practical guide essential to lesbians trying to conceive.

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$22.95

What You Really Really Want
What You Really Really Want
Feminist and activist Jaclyn Friedman, author of "Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape," has put together an amazing and thoughtful workbook for gals navigating the confusing terrain of sexual empowerment in a sex-negative yet sex-saturated world. What You Really Really Want skips telling you what to do, and guides you through your own values and desires to figure out how to confidently express your sexuality. Whether it be enthusiastic consent with a one night stand, or establishing your boundaries with a long-term partner, it's up to you. By cutting through blame, guilt, slut-shaming and prude-shaming, working through these writing exercises and thinking through your own values and desires will put you on you path to your understanding of sexual empowerment.

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$19.50

When Sex Hurts
When Sex Hurts
A great resource for women who experience vuluar pain, this book delves into different types of painful sex from an angle of compassion and optimism. Written by doctors who have made treating and managing this their specialty, many women who have similar experiences have added real-life anecdotes that can add support. Segments include getting started with recovery, causes and treatment, and when the pain is gone.

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$20.50

Women On Top
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Women On Top
By Nancy Friday
Being in charge and wanting more are the dominant themes of many women's sexual fantasies. So reports Nancy Friday, author of My Secret Garden. Friday has collected hundreds of real women's stories that make it that much easier for the reader to connect their own idea of what is sexy. 1991. 559 pp.

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$10.99

Women's Anatomy of Arousal
Women's Anatomy of Arousal
Women's Anatomy of Arousal is an uplifting and inspiring book that encourages holistic exploration and learning about a woman's body, both inside and out. Great for those who are just learning about themselves and how to achieve pleasure, to those who are ready to take the next step and dive ever deeper into the realms of female orgasm. Easy to read, but full of information, this book is thoroughly illustrated with erotic images from centuries ago, detailed illustrations of anatomy, and famous quotes, as well as hints for men who love women. It's hetero focused, but applies to all women, solo or in a relationship.

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$21.95

Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
Your Orgasmic Pregnancy
Being pregnant can be exciting and overwhelming, but let's not forget to keep sex in the picture! Written by a sexologist and pregnancy fitness specialist team, this handy little book has great hints and tips for those expecting, as well as advice for their partners. Learn about what positions can be best, how to spice things up and keep it hot. Learn how sex during pregnancy can be the best you've ever had.

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$16.95

Elusive Orgasm
Elusive Orgasm
A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm
By Dr. Vivienne Cass
An inspiring and fiercely worded exercise book for women who are pre-orgasmic and wish to learn to have orgasms on a regular basis. This book from Australia has some of the best diagrams on sexual anatomy and puts forth great questions to get you started, while offering poignant advice and solutions. Highly recommended. 352pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$19.99

Tantric Sex For Women
Tantric Sex For Women
A Guide for Lesbians, Bi, Hetero and Solo Lovers
The first book of its kind, Tantric Sex For Women is an inclusive guide for all women and does a lovely job explaining how to heighten sexual encounters through the use of Tantric exercises. With over 50 exercises for self love, couples, massage and meditation, this book is designed to allow women who want to fulfill their sexual goals and enrich their relationships. Tantric Sex For Women is an inspiring book, teaching all women, regardless of sexual orientation, new facets of their own sexuality. 304pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$22.00

Dick: A User's Guide
Dick: A User's Guide
By Dr. Michele C. Moore & Dr. Caroline Costa
A straightforward and sensible manual on the male member! This book is as entertaining as it is insightful. It puts many myths to sleep and sheds light on many topics such as basic health and anatomy whilst remaining humorous and respectful. An informative guide for owners and users alike! 248 pages.

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$22.50

How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure
How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure
Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know
By Lou Paget
Finally a book written for the heterosexual man that is both thoughtful and insightful! Lou Paget’s How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure provide all the know-how and details men may be afraid to ask as well as confidence to explore more with their female partners. From anatomy to arousal to orgasm, this book provides practical tips for men wishing to learn more about their partner’s erotic landscape. Hardcover, 240pp.

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$30.00

Lasting Longer
Lasting Longer
First published in 1978, sex therapist Sy Silverberg has republished this classic guide to lasting longer for men in this millennium. With straightforward advice and exercises, Dr. Silverberg provides a step-by-step guide to controlling ejaculation.

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$10.00

Multi-Orgasmic Man
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Multi-Orgasmic Man
Teaching men to have multiple orgasms by separating orgasm and ejaculation, this guide contains simple exercises that cover techniques to enhance sexual pleasure and general health. Includes special chapters for women and for gay men. All men will benefit from the insights into male anatomy and sexuality that this book offers. 1996. 236 pp.

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$18.99

Her Sweet Spot
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Her Sweet Spot
Her Sweet Spot is the sequel to Lesbian Sex: 101 Lovemaking Positions and we’re delighted to report that it has reached a whole new level of thoughtfulness and passion. In this hardcover, full-colour volume, you’ll find not only positions but ideas to thrill all of your lover(s)’s senses as well as ideas that foster communication and connection. Jude Schell has branched out in glorious directions with Her Sweet Spot by exploring more fantasy, roleplay and sensation play and the beautiful photography by Janette Valentine includes more diverse cast of models and settings than the first book.

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$20.99

Joy of Gay Sex
Joy of Gay Sex
Fully Revised and Expanded Third Edition
By Charles Silverstein and Felice Picano
This third edition is an excellent resource for those just coming out to people starting to explore new possibilities, as well as great gems for those looking for advice around aging, dating, and long-term relationships. With its handy alphabetical organization and easy lay-out, this sex guide is very accessible and chock full of great information. 352pp.

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$21.99

Lesbian Sex: 101 Positions
Lesbian Sex: 101 Positions
While most other sex position guides out there just depict straight-up hetero sex between a man and a woman, Lesbian Sex covers 101 positions for women to try together. Illustrating positions for oral sex, manual sex, playing with toys, and much more, this book contains enough new ideas to get you and your partner going - with a checklist at the back so you can chart your progress! Hardcover.

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$21.99

The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex
The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex
A Medical Handbook for Men
By Stephen E. Goldstone, M.D.
Ever had sex questions you were afraid to ask your doctor? This great medical guide offers valuable advice that is practical, vastly diverse, in depth, and non-judgmental. From safer sex choices to debunking sex myths, this is great resource for all! 276pp.

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$21.99

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
By Felice Newman
A solid, info-packed addition to the growing body of great lesbian sex manuals. This newest title includes play parties, trans/gender concerns, and s/m. Favourite lesbian sex techniques, orgasm, toys, health issues, desire & fantasy - it's all here. 1999. 292 pp.

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$33.50

Anal Pleasure and Health
Anal Pleasure and Health
By Jack Morin
A comprehensive, reliable source of information on anal eroticism, this inclusive, detailed guide for people of all sexual orientations brilliantly tackles the physical, emotional and psychological aspects. Among the topics covered are: developing positive attitudes towards anal sex; how to enjoy anal stimulation and promote anal heath; and how to know and communicate your requirements for satisfying anal experiences. 275 pp.

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$17.95

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
Finally! The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men! A much desired and needed guide since the release of Tristan Taormino's Guide for Women, this volume covers everything you need to give and receive anal pleasure. With an entire section devoted to the myths around anal sex, this book deals with male anatomy and all of the safety prerequisites to anal sex. For the advanced player, Brent tackles edge play, gender play and s/m issues around anal play. For all men of all orientations.

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$22.50

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
By Tristan Taormino
This friendly, forthright guide rips the lid off the myth that women don't enjoy anal sex. With quotes from erotic literature, real-life women, and fun illustrations, this guide covers all the bases, including anatomy, health and safety, emotional and psychological issues, toys, genderplay, and the myriad ways that anal eroticism can be expressed. Also available: Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women vol. 1 and 2 DVDs and Expert Guide to Anal Sex DVD directed by Tristan Taormino, sold separately. 151 pp.

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$22.95

The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
At long last, the Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure has come into existence! Whether you're interested in the topic for health, pleasure or both, this in-depth guide helps answer a spectrum of common questions about the prostate and how to stimulate it, whether solo or with a partner. Authors Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian delve deep into physical, mental and emotional topics around anal penetration, with entire sections devoted to understanding and registering new sensations in the body and deconstructing common gender stereotypes that often block people from trying new kinds of sexual play. With all the clear illustrations, reader quotes and resource information we've come to love and expect from the Ultimate Guide series, this newest edition gives the prostate some well-deserved time in the spotlight!

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$19.95

Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft
Kinky crafters looking for DIY fetish gear inspiration and fully drafted patterns, we’ve got the book for you! With its focus on clothing, harnesses, gags, chastity play wear and masks, Fetishcraft gives readers the opportunity to customize their own sexy play gear without having to start from scratch with pattern drafting. This book lays down the basics of working with several materials popular in fetishwear (latex, leather, grommets etc) and helps you achieve professional-looking results at home. We think this extremely detailed volume is a great companion to Douglas Kent’s Better Built Bondage Book, and just as fabulous on its own.

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$27.95

At Her Feet
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At Her Feet
At Her Feet is an indispensable book for those who are seriously considering a female-dominant relationship, written in an amazing way - both from the perspective of a long-term Master, as well as her slave. Fantastic, practical advice fills the pages, with a focus on how to make the relationship(s) work both within the sexual relationship, as well as outside of it. Tried-and-true tips from those who know.

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$14.95

Better Built Bondage Book
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Better Built Bondage Book
Ever wanted a home dungeon but found the accessories just a little pricey? Well now, thanks to Douglas Kent, you can D.I.Y. it! With detailed diagrams and easy to follow instructions, you can build just about anything you could think would belong in your very own dungeon. Learn how to make a rugged, portable St. Andrews Cross, or a foldable spanking bench! With over 100 projects, you’re bound to find something intriguing. This incredible book is a must have for those folks who want to play! 398pp.

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$39.99

Bondage for Sex
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Bondage for Sex
This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types of knots and how to introduce bondage rope play to your partner. Each page is presented with comprehensive explicit text and full-color photographs. Chapters include topics such as choosing rope, rope play terms, tie variations, how to discuss rope play, and ways to use all parts of the bed.

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$31.95

Come Hither
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Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp.

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$23.99

Complete Shibari 1: Land
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Complete Shibari 1: Land
An excellent manual with full-colour photographs, explanations, even a legend of icons that walk you through, step by step, some beautiful Japanese rope bondage. Minimal on the text when it comes to the actual knot tying, this guide also explains in detail how to choose different ropes, scene safety, communication and much more. Hard to find, and worth the wait!

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$30.00

Complete Shibari 2: Sky
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Complete Shibari 2: Sky
In the second volume of Douglas Kent's Shibari books, we are learning about suspension bondage. Short explantions preceded gorgeous, step-by-step colour photographs, as well as charts, and lots and lots of colour-coded symbols to help you along the way. Not for beginners, this is an advanced book that is packed full with everything you need to know to start playing with suspension.

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$30.00

Erotic Bondage Handbook
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Erotic Bondage Handbook
By Jay Wiseman
Bondage enthusiasts will love this book -- chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. 323 pp.

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$16.95

Family Jewels
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Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages.

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$12.95

Flogging
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Flogging
By Joseph W. Bean
Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any s/m scene. This book will give you invaluable tips on how to choose a flogger, read your partner and so much more. An inventive format with expert information. 140 pages.

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$15.00

Master's Manual
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Master's Manual
A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
By Jack Rinella
An unparalleled discussion of the attitude and power it takes to become a master. This is a necessary read for anyone interested in the SM lifestyle. The Masters Manual builds on basic knowledge by explaining in a nonjudgmental fashion many topics one needs to know before embarking on a leathersex journey. There are 40 pieces covering topics from contracts to commitments, to how to deal when something goes wrong. A must have for the aspiring top. 199pp.

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$22.50

Mistress Manual
Mistress Manual
The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
By Mistress Lorelei
Written succinctly and intelligently crafted, the Mistress Manual tells you gently the ways to female dominance. Lorelei writes in a way very respectful to both the mistress and sub, and gives ideas, advice and understanding. This is a great beginner book for those wishing to learn the art of female dominance. 171pp.

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$16.95

Partners in Power
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Partners in Power
Living In Kinky Relationships
By Jack Rinella
From the author of "the Master's Manual" and "The Complete Slave" comes Jack Rinella's third installment. With real people of all genders and orientations in mind, Partners in Power is a great book for those looking to live the BDSM life style and nurture great relationships (whether casual or longterm). With chapters on the archetypes of SM relationships, leather culture and vocabulary, finding a partner, resolving conflicts within relationships and much more, this book is sure to please the kink in you. 181pp.

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$16.95

Play Piercing
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Play Piercing
By Deborah Addington
Not for the faint of heart, this book reveals to us the ins and outs of playing with needles. The straight forward and technical information on preparation, perforation and sterilization make this book an important guide to read if you want to incorporate needles into your play. Included with all that important technical info, sexy examples are provided of scenes with needles that can help you get started sharpening up your play time. Be forewarned, this book contains some spiritual language that may make some people uncomfortable. As with everything else in life, take what you want and leave the rest. This book is an excellent and necessary how-to! 100pp.

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$19.99

Radical Ecstasy
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Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm of kink, with practical tips and techniques to achieve heightened states of sacred-sex through solo and partnered sexual and BDSM practice. 213pp.

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$17.16

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
By Philip Miller & Molly Devon
This large book explains the basics of S/M in no-nonsense, homey tone. Comprehensive technical information and scene tips for the relative novice that is crucial for safety and a sense of erotic adventure. An excellent section on bondage is complete with easy-to-follow instructions and illustrations. Focus on male dominant, female submissive. 1995. 277 pp.

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$29.99

Sensuous Magic
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Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories to help inspire the reader and give an idea of how a scene in your own play might work. 260pp.

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$19.50

The Compleat Slave
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The Compleat Slave
By Jack Rinella
In Jack Rinella's follow up to his "Master's Manual", he shares his guidelines for creating a safe master/slave relationship. Filled with sections like the ever-important first meeting to proper slave training, leather images/emotions and much more, this book is great for anyone looking for a fabulous read as well as a valuable reference guide. 176pp.

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$15.95

The Compleat Spanker
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The Compleat Spanker
By Lady Green
Another hot title from Greenery Press and the infamous Lady Green. Full of fun tips, tricks and ideas, this manual will leave a happy trail of satisfied readers and pink bottoms. An excellent primer! 1996. 90 pages.

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$12.95

The Human Pony
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The Human Pony
For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play and all dressed up, as well as personal stories of pony and trainer experiences, The Human Pony is chock-full of great information for those kinky folks out there wishing to delve into the realm of human equestrianism. Ponymistress Rebecca Wilcox introduces different types of pony play (including cart pulling, training, show ponies, fox hunt, rodeo) and includes information on finding (and creating) the right equipment and tack, as well as basic training methods for gaits, positive reinforcement and cart-pulling. Wilcox recognizes that everyone's vision of human pony play will be different, and thus her suggestions for training, even planning and scene development are the perfect starting points for great horse-play!

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$27.95

The New Bottoming Book
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The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages.

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$14.95

The New Topping Book
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The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages.

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$14.95

The Sexually Dominant Woman
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The Sexually Dominant Woman
A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Lady Green's guide to sexual domination is a great beginners manual for those starting out in the art of female dominance. Dividing up play into easily understood categories - such as playing with roles, sensation play and playing with helplessness (bondage or restraint-play) - Lady Green gives great tips, covers essential safety information and even includes a sexy sample session. If you or your partner is hesitant about delving into power-play, this little workbook is a great starting point.

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$16.75

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Tristan Taormino brings together the kings, queens and queers of kink in this educational-based collection of essays on power play. Learn how to get your kink-on from the likes of Patrick Califia, Madison Young, Midori, Laura Antoniou and Barbara Carrellas; from power-infused role play, spanking, flogging to anal fisting and edge play. For the old guard of the leather scene, newbie kinkster and the secretly curious, "The Ultimate Guide to Kink" leads you through the depths of pleasure and pain and leaves you with the tools, skills and safety to confidently play with power. So what you waiting for? Kink-Out!

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$22.95

Ties That Bind
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Ties That Bind
Guy Baldwin, renowned psychotherapist-educator and practitioner of kinky sex, explores the depths of S/M relationships in this thought-provoking and self-exploratory collection of essays on topics such as the magical S/M "high," tips for assuring a sane, safe and consensual scene and the importance of self-honesty. Originally published in the S/M magazine Drummer of the late 80's and early 90's, Ties That Bind explores the intrecacies of leather families, suggests communication skills to sustain master-slave relationships, and delves into the political scence of gay leathermen of the 90's. Amongst them, an essay explaining the interesting history of the fetishization of leather in post-war America and the converging of ex-vets and bikers to form the "Old Guard" of the leather scene is particularly fascinating. Though originally intended for a gay male audience who were already entrenched or intrigued by the leather scene, Baldwin's sound advice can be applied across the board regardless of gender, sexual orientation or sexual practices. A turn away from technical skill based books, Ties That Bind is an important addition for those ready to take a serious look at their relationships with others, with S/M, and most importantly themselves.

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$16.95

Toybag Guide to Age Play
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Toybag Guide to Age Play
A great primer to Age Play, this Toybag Guide is full of fresh new ideas and helpful hints for consenting adults looking to bring some fantasy ageplay into their relationship. It tends to be difficult to find good ageplay resources in print, and Lee "Bridgett" Harrington has managed to distill the essentials of ageplay into this pocket guide. This title includes great information on how to negotiate a scene, props to try out, and much more. Excellent for anyone who's ever wanted to expand their horizons of play and try something new.

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$10.50

Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
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Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
By Janet W. Hardy
In this Toybag guide (courtesy of Greenery Press), Janet Hardy takes us through the ins and outs of canes and caning. From selecting and purchasing a cane, to dungeon safety and technique, this book is small but thorough, and is an essential read for anyone considering caning someone they love.

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$13.99

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
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Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explore intense sensation.

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$10.50

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
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Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
By Jay Wiseman
Wondering what to do when something goes wrong in the dungeon? Prolific S/M author Jay Wiseman brings his years of expertise to this essential guide to dungeon safety. This book tackles the most common S/M emergencies (and some uncommon ones too!) with great first aid information. The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies is mandatory reading for anyone involved in any kind of powerplay.

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$10.50

Toybag Guide to High-Tech Toys
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Toybag Guide to High-Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity and electro play including information on the Violet Wand. A whole lot of ideas are crammed into this tiny little book!

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$13.99

Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
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Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
By Spectrum
Looking to embark on a power play adventure? There's no better place to start than hot wax - but before you do, be sure to check out this essential hot wax and temperature play guide from Greenery Press. Tips, techniques and lots of good safety advice for the novice or experienced player.

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$9.95

Toybag Guide to Medical Play
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Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygienically and even how to set up a sexy medical scene on a budget. This book will show you that with medical play the possibilities are endless. 101pp.

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$13.99

Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
The second volume of the rope bondage guides by Two Knotty Boys, Back on the Ropes delves a little deeper into tying sensual and decorative bondage. Full color, gorgeous photographs illustrate all techniques, while each step is clearly explained. Learn everything from blindfolds and gags to stirrups and foot webs, plus, a ton of basic and advanced knots that you can use to create these beautiful applications.

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$28.50

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
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Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to try some new ideas.

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$22.00

Playing Well with Others
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Playing Well with Others
While some sex education books focused on BDSM might instruct you in some detail how to deliver a spanking, this book guides you through the world of people you might you want to spank, how to negotiate the spanking, etiquette in different sex communities and even what to wear based on the type of gathering. For the experienced kinkster, this book will further deepen your understanding of your communities and for the newbie it will ease your entry and prevent you from being the only one in PVC and fairy wings to a munch where everyone else is in casual attire.

Extremely thorough in content, 'Playing Well with Others' comes complete with super handy appendices containing a fabulous glossary of terms, current resources and websites, social media, blogs and podcasts, and a very thourough 'Before We Play Questionnaire'. This item is currently out of stock

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$19.95

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
By Fetish Diva Midori
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Fetish Diva Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams. 163 pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$27.95

Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
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Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
By Midori
Fetish Diva Midori has finally given us a book on the fine art of foot and shoe worship. This volume packs a kick for the novice and experienced alike, taking this complex subject and breaking it down into step by step instructions and suggestions. From torture to pampering and everything in between, Midori will teach you that the possibilities are endless. 101pp. This item is currently out of stock

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$13.99

Healing Sex
Healing Sex
First released as the Survivor’s Guide to Sex, Healing Sex is a wonderful updated second edition for survivors of sexual assault and/or abuse. Using sex positive tactics to reclaim sexuality, this book motivates people to learn how to say "yes" to their own passions and on their own terms.With chapters on masturbation, self-healing, and also exploring how cultural context can affect healing, this book is perfect for anyone looking for a new way to heal from trauma, beyond traditional talk therapy.

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$33.50

Lovers' Massage
Lovers' Massage
Soothing Touch for Two
Lovers' Massage will teach you and your partner great techniques for relieving sore muscles, encouraging relaxation and intimacy, and provide healthful and cleansing stretches. Beautifully illustrated with easy-to-follow instructions, this book uses yoga-inspired techniques and focuses on relieving muscle tension, easing stiffness and stretching tendons for a relaxing, intimate connection. Heterosexual focus.

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$11.95

 

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