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binders, breast forms, packers, and gaffs

We're committed to supporting our customers throughout their sexual, gender, and orientation journeys, so if there's something you're looking for that might help you embody who you are, let us know!  We carry a good selection of packers, breast forms, chest binders, and gaffs, but we can always do better. Send us your suggestions and special orders!

Do you have a used but wearable binder you don't need anymore? Send it to us! We'll recycle it and give you a $10 gift certificate you can spend on anything at Come As You Are online or in-store. Get more info about our Binder Recycling Program.

Aslan Leather Packing Strap
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Aslan Leather Packing Strap
You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap was originally designed to be used with Vixen's Mr Right, but works great with Pack-Man and the Ultimate packers too! Three sizes available: Small 30"- 34", Medium 34"- 38" and Large 38"- 42"

Learn more about Aslan Leather Packing Strap.

$20.00 CAD

Breast Form Double Sided Tape
Breast Form Double Sided Tape
This tape is a simple way to attach silicone breast forms to the body. These will adhere the more you press the form to the chest, and are heat sensitive - the bond will strengthen as the tape warms to body temperature. Comes with 18 pieces of tape.

Learn more about Breast Form Double Sided Tape.

$12.00 CAD

Classic Gaff
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Finding clothing that is sexy and supportive is no easy task. Doubly so when we're talking lingerie. This thong-style gaff has been made out of lycra with a wider front to provide extra coverage and support for all those looking to tuck- whether you identify as trans, genderqueer, MTF, a drag queen or panty aficionado, we've got just the panty for you!

Sizing:
Small: 28-30"
Medium: 32-34"
Large: 36-38"
XL: 38-42"

Learn more about Classic Gaff.

$18.00 CAD , Regular price $28.00

Cyber Guy 1
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Cyber Guy 1
Softer and more plush than the Guy 1 or the Jelly Guy 1, this Guy is perfect for packing (with a harness) and playing! This classic dildo is one of our favourite harness-compatible toys. With a playful, but realistic design, our Guys are sure to please! (5" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about Cyber Guy 1.

$24.00 CAD

Doc J Helping Head
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Doc J Helping Head
Touted as the ultimate BJ Helper (BJ is a lucky person, whoever they are!), this sleeve is short - measuring in at two inches- and snug - great for combining with handjobs, blowjobs or other form of play! For folks with smaller genitals (such as some trans men) this sleeve is ideal for play due to it's compact shape and size: perfect for masturbating small penises or large clitorises. A retailer in the USA has named this toy the Bro Sleeve, and since then many trans guys have been seeking it north of the border. As such, ta da!

Oh, and if you're looking for other masturbation sleeves for small genitals, check out Tenga Eggs - compact, inexpensive, textured, and very malleable! (2 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Doc J Helping Head.

$10.00 CAD

Fleshlight Quickshot Boost
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Fleshlight Quickshot Boost
Have a Quickshot whenever you want! Fleshlight now offers a compact easy-to-hold masturbation sleeve for all the lovely people who may want some sexy times, but without the weight and bulk. Great for travelling, the Quickshot features an open-ended textured design with two lids, meaning it can be played with while open or closed. Fleshlight is on a roll with these less-expensive and oh-so-sexy designs! (4" x 2 1/2")

Learn more about Fleshlight Quickshot Boost.

$40.00 CAD

Form Function Model A Cut STP
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Form Function Model A Cut STP
We've quested for years for a reliable stand-to-pee device that can be worn safely and securely for urinating while standing up, and we think we've found the golden ticket with Form Function's STPs! Many STP devices we've looked at over the years do not fit differently-shaped bodies well, or don't have a reservoir that is deep enough for funneling pee safely through the prosthetic (read: backsplash). Form Function's handmade products feature a flexible but sturdy design, and have impressed us with their user-friendliness. That being said, we would still strongly suggest practicing peeing with a STP before using outside of safer spaces, since having an unruly prosthetic can be a severe safety issue.

The Model A features a larger design than the Model D Sport - although their reservoirs appear to be the same. Designed to be worn with the Form Function Slingshot Harness, this packer fits up snugly against the urethral area for the purposes of peeing while standing. (3 1/2" x 1 3/8")

Learn more about Form Function Model A Cut STP.

$105.00 CAD

Form Function Model D Sport Cut STP
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Form Function Model D Sport Cut STP
We've quested for years for a reliable stand-to-pee device that can be worn safely and securely for urinating while standing up, and we think we've found the golden ticket with Form Function's products! Many STP devices we've looked at over the years do not fit differently-shaped bodies well, or don't have a reservoir that is deep enough for funneling pee safely through the prosthetic (read: backsplash). Form Function's handmade products feature a flexible but sturdy design, and have impressed us with their user-friendliness. That being said, we would still strongly suggest practicing peeing with a STP before using away from safer spaces, since having an unruly urinating prosthetic can be a severe safety issue.

The Model D Sport features a more compact design when compared to the Model A - although their reservoirs appear to be the same. Designed to be worn with the Form Function Slingshot Harness, this packer fits up snugly against the urethral area for the purposes of peeing while standing. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Form Function Model D Sport Cut STP.

$90.00 CAD

Form Function Number One STP
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Form Function Number One STP
Designed to be a handheld stand-to-pee device, the Number One features a flexible silicone design, decently-sized reservoir, and large urethral opening- not dissimilar to the Mr. Fenis. While this packer isn't compatible for wearing with a harness under clothing for out-and-about wear, it's still a great option for folks seeking a urinating prosthetic with a realistic design. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Form Function Number One STP.

$74.00 CAD

Form Function Slingshot Harness
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Form Function Slingshot Harness
This harness has been designed by Form Function to work with their wearable STP devices - the Model A and Model D Sport. A simple vinyl panel securely holds the packer up against the genital area to ensure it stays in place during wear. The straps wrap around the thigh (where the leg meets the torso, approximately where a pair of briefs would end), and are made of an elastic material. The waist dimensions for each size are approximately the following: Small = 28-32; Medium = 32=36; Large = 36-42; XL = 42-48.

Learn more about Form Function Slingshot Harness.

$30.00 CAD

Freestyle Breast Form
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Freestyle Breast Form
This translucent Freestyle Breast Form is an exciting addition now gracing our shelves (of both the digital and literal variety). Designed with a slight concave, these forms can mold around curvy breast tissue, or can be worn against flat breast tissue. Symmetrical, made with silicone, and finished with a textured nipple, these forms are more cost accessible than most others, while not sacrificing quality! Trans women, MTFs, drag queens, cross dressers, genderqueers, and everyone else: check these out, and if they aren't what you're looking for, let us know- we can work with you to hopefully find what you are looking for! Currently, we only sell these breast forms in pairs, but if you need a single, please do let us know.

Learn more about Freestyle Breast Form.

$215.00 CAD

Happy Valley Pack-Man
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Happy Valley Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. Available online only. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Happy Valley Pack-Man.

$54.00 CAD

LA Pumps 5 Inch Cylinder
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LA Pumps 5 Inch Cylinder
Looking to pump, and concerned the 9 Inch Cylinder might be too big? Or that the 3 Inch Cylinder might be too wee? Our pal the 5 Inch Cylinder features a 1 1/4" diameter, and is marketed for trans men - with the title of 'FTM Cylinder' - by LA Pumps. (5" x 1.25")

Learn more about LA Pumps 5 Inch Cylinder.

$95.00 CAD

LA Pumps Breast Pump Cylinder
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LA Pumps Breast Pump Cylinder
Breast pumping is a great form of sensation play- lubricate the rim of the cylinder and place it over the breast and then remove the air with a pump like our Deluxe Brass Pump. This will increase blood flow and sensitivity, which some find to be a very pleasurable experience. Sometimes trans women will use breast pump cylinders in conjunction with hormones to change the size and shape of the breast- pumping regularly (e.g. 1/2 hour a day each day) will increase blood flow, and stretch the skin to help change and develop the area. Additionally, sometimes folks will use breast pumps before having breast surgeries. Whether pragmatic or pleasurable, these breast pump cylinders are an exciting addition to our selection of USA made LA Pumps products. The medium cylinder measures 3 7/8"" at base; the large measures 4 7/8"" at base and the xl measures 5 3/4"" at base. Available individually.

Learn more about LA Pumps Breast Pump Cylinder.

$95.00 CAD

Lace Gaff
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Lace Gaff
This sexy panty has a reinforced gusset and snug fit designed to support folks' genitals if they're planning on tucking. Available in black, ivory white, and a beautiful plum purple in sizes ranging from medium to 5X!

Learn more about Lace Gaff.

$35.00 CAD

Mr Fenis
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Mr Fenis
A reliable STP is hard to find. We have tested countless products that have left our STP scientists covered in pee, unimpressed with the material, or frustrated with having to wear a harness all day. While this STP is not harness compatible, it is a silicone, semi-realistic product that is hollow. As such, it has generous space for collecting urine, and a wide urethral opening. And, it's Canadian! (8" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Mr Fenis.

$25.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Archer Small
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New York Toy Collective Archer Small
Ever feel like regular packers take up a little too much room in your pants? Tired of going to the gym sporting a porn star hard-on? Well, you're in luck! Designed specifically for FTM, trans, genderqueer, and cosplaying folks, New York Toy Collective has added this smaller gem to their line-up of high-quality, super soft packers. Available in both circumcised and uncircumcised versions (see Pierre), the Archer Small is perfect for everyone who loves packing, but wants something a little more subtle in their pants. (3" x 1")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Archer Small.

$55.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Archer
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New York Toy Collective Archer
New York Toy Collective has already won our hearts with their Shilo and Mason pack and play silicone dildos. Not to mention The Love Bump, the ultimate sex toy wingman. But, apparently this gender queer and trans man / FTM - friendly business was just getting started, since we now have two realistic packers, Archer and Pierre, as well! Archer is a circumcised toy, with beautiful and detailed texturing. New York Toy Collective provides many different tones to choose from, and amazing quality toys- these packers are destined to fill many people's pants like no packer has before! (4 1/4" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Archer.

$68.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Mason
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New York Toy Collective Mason
From the New York based team that brought you the famed Shilo and Love Bump we now have Mason to lead the way! Featuring dual density silicone, this pack and play dildo has answered your cries for 'more' with extra inches from the Shilo. With 4 different colours to choose from, enjoy this bendable toy that can be packed up and then played out! (7 1/2" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Mason.

$190.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Pierre Small
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New York Toy Collective Pierre Small
Not only did the fine folks at New York Toy Collective design an amazing uncircumcised packer, but they've now got it available in a smaller size! If you've ever felt the Vixen Mr Right looked a little big, or a little old for you, these new packers are sure to fit well, and be comfortable to wear. Looking for a circumcised packer? Check out the Archer Small. (3" x 1")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Pierre Small.

$55.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Pierre
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New York Toy Collective Pierre
New York Toy Collective has already won our hearts with their Shilo and Mason pack and play silicone dildos. Not to mention Love Bump, the ultimate sex toy wingman. But, apparently this genderqueer and trans man / FTM - friendly business was just getting started, since we now have two realistic packers, Archer and Pierre, as well! Pierre is the first widely available and affordable uncircumcised packer that we're aware of. With beautiful and detailed texturing, and many different tones to choose from, these packers are destined to fill many people's pants like no packer has before! (4 1/2" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Pierre.

$68.00 CAD

New York Toy Collective Shilo
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New York Toy Collective Shilo
As a worker-owned co-operative ourselves, we tend to swoon whenever we encounter another collective doing good work in the sex toy world - and in the case of the New York Toy Collective's Shilo, we double swooned! Shilo isn't just another strap-on harness compatible silicone toy, it is the easily the best pack-and-play dildo we've ever experienced. Shilo is soft enough to pack comfortably in your pants, but has a bendable core so you can be fully erect at a moment's notice. With the best selection of shades and colours we've ever seen, Shilo is a truly unique packer from a truly unique collective. Take a look at the New York Toy Collective Mason (5 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Shilo.

$190.00 CAD

Serenasil Silicone Dilator Set
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This set of silicone exercisers were developed with a doctor to aid women experiencing vaginal pain or post-surgery therapy. Working one's way up from the smallest to the largest, we recommend using a water-based lube and going slowly at one’s own pace, based on the building of comfort and the lessening of pain. Includes Vaginal Dilators 1 through 6. Find out more about dilators and dilator exercises (Various" )

Learn more about Serenasil Silicone Dilator Set.

$150.00 CAD

SpareParts Pete Commando
SpareParts Pete Commando
For the times when you wish you could just go commando, but still need somewhere to put your packer, SpareParts' Pete Commando Harness is sure to do the trick! With an elastic loop on the inside of the packer pouch to keep everything securely in-place, this harness lets you keep everything front-and-center or allows you to lean a little to the left or right (especially with the larger packers). Comfortable, durable and machine washable!

Learn more about SpareParts Pete Commando.

$36.00 CAD

SpareParts Tomboi Harness
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SpareParts Tomboi Harness
We've been searching for the perfect underwear harness since we first opened our doors back in the nineties, but until SpareParts launched the Tomboi and Sasha harnesses, we were skeptical that such a thing could even exist. Ever the perfectionists, the folks at SpareParts have come up with a harness that is incredibly durable, comfortable, and makes harness play easier than ever! Machine-washable (but you might want to hang to dry), the Tomboi fits just like briefs under clothes, and even has a strap to hold your packer in place for those times when your piece is more about presentation than performance.

Learn more about SpareParts Tomboi Harness.

$100.00 CAD

Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief
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new sex toy Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief
We're going to be totally honest with you here: the SpareParts Tomboii has so much going on that there's simply no way to do justice to it in a web description, but we'll try. If you know us at all, you know that we're incredibly picky about the stuff we stock in our shop, and until the SpareParts Tomboi came out, we rejected every underwear-style harness that came our way. Similarly, until the Tomboii came out, we wouldn't look twice at a boxer brief harness because we've never found one that actually kept a dildo firmly in place - traditionally, boxer brief harnesses are a total goat rodeo. Except for this one.

Everything about this harness is phenomenal. Whether you're looking for some classic penetration play, or want to go full DP on the one you love, this harness has you covered. With two O rings, and three - count them - inserts for a One Touch Bullet, it is an understatement to say that the Tomboii is stimulation. Packer-friendly, durable, comfortable, and lightweight to boot.

Learn more about Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief.

$132.00 CAD

Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - Black
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Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - Black
Another product where the name leaves little to the imagination, but neither does the bra! Designed to hold breast forms like the Transform forms that we carry, this is a great alternative to products like tapes or other bras that may not hold forms securely throughout the day. Available in white or black, this bra features a sheer design, with a secure flap-style enclosure for the form. Oh, and if you don't see the size you're interested in, let us know- we're always happy to look into doing a special order for you!

Learn more about Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - Black.

$34.00 CAD

Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - White
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Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - White
Another product where the name leaves little to the imagination, but neither does the bra! Designed to hold breast forms like the Transform forms that we carry, this is a great alternative to products like tapes or other bras that may not hold forms securely throughout the day. Available in white or black, this bra features a sheer design, with a secure flap-style enclosure for the form. Oh, and if you don't see the size you're interested in, let us know- we're always happy to look into doing a special order for you!

Learn more about Transform See-Through Breast Form Bra - White.

$34.00 CAD

Transform Supersoft Classic Breast Forms
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Transform Supersoft Classic Breast Forms
We've struggled with choosing a breast form for our shop for a long time. We've decided on the Transform Classic SuperSoft breast form. Available in vanilla and chocolate, these asymmetrical soft forms are designed to provide a realistic contoured line along the chest and underarm, leaving no empty space. Made with a sensually silky silicone, and finished with a textured nipple, these forms are more cost accessible than most others, while not sacrificing quality! Trans women, MTFs, drag queens, cross dressers, genderqueers, and everyone else: check these out, and if they aren't what you're looking for, let us know- we can work with you to hopefully find what you are looking for! Currently, we only sell these breast forms in pairs, but if you need a single, please let us know.

Learn more about Transform Supersoft Classic Breast Forms.

$215.00 CAD

Ultimate Packer Large
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Ultimate Packer Large
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (6 " x 1 3/8")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Large.

$20.00 CAD

Ultimate Packer Medium
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Ultimate Packer Medium
Known as Mr Limpy by Fleshlight in some circles, we call this packing device the Ultimate Packer because it is the most affordable and softest packer around! Made of cyberskin (silicone and mineral oil), this packer comes in three sizes and three colours, fits great in your packing strap or underwear, and is a perfect first packer. (4 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Medium.

$19.00 CAD

Ultimate Packer Small
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Ultimate Packer Small
Want to sport a bulge? The Mr Limpy from Fleshlight is truly the Ultimate Packer! Available in more sizes and colours than most packing devices, and this cyberskin packer is inexpensive and durable too. (3 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Small.

$18.00 CAD

Underworks Concealer Chest Binder
Underworks Concealer Chest Binder
The Concealer binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over a binding layer that runs to the middle of the ribcage. This means binding is localized exclusively to the chest, and doesn't constrict the belly or hips. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Concealer Chest Binder.

$45.00 CAD

Underworks Rear and Hip Padded Brief - Black
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We want to name these the official Booty Spanxxx of Come As You Are... And maybe still will! But, until then, we're naming them according to the manufacturer's title (which doesn't leave much to the imagination!) Designed for folks looking to add junk to their trunks & other lower body parts, these have been receiving rave reviews for their quality and effectiveness. Designed with a long leg and extremely snug fit, they also have an opening that allows the wearer to pee while wearing! Now if only all underwear had that option! Many trans and cis women (as well as many other genders of people) have been special ordering these from us for years, and we're delighted to finally offer this product as a regular stock item.

Learn more about Underworks Rear and Hip Padded Brief - Black.

$60.00 CAD , Regular price $75.00

Underworks Rear and Hip Padded Brief - White
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on sale sex toy Underworks Rear and Hip Padded Brief - White
We want to name these the official Booty Spanxxx of Come As You Are... And maybe still will! But, until then, we're naming them according to the manufacturer's title (which doesn't leave much to the imagination!) Designed for folks looking to add junk to their trunks & other lower body parts, these have been receiving rave reviews for their quality and effectiveness. Designed with a long leg and extremely snug fit, they also have an opening that allows the wearer to pee while wearing! Now if only all underwear had that option! Many trans and cis women (as well as many other genders of people) have been special ordering these from us for years, and we're delighted to finally offer this product as a regular stock item.

Learn more about Underworks Rear and Hip Padded Brief - White.

$60.00 CAD , Regular price $75.00

Underworks Swim Top Binder
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Underworks Swim Top Binder
Not only does Underworks make binders for FTM, trans, and genderqueer folks looking to change the line of their chests, but they also make binding swimwear, which after many requests we've decided to pick up for beach season! This swim top is sleeveless, all black, and has a zipper running up the front of it. You don't have to try and pull it on and off while soaked. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Swim Top Binder.

$62.00 CAD

Underworks Tri-top Chest Binder
Underworks Tri-top Chest Binder
This binder is a great option for folks looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest coverage, while leaving the wearer free to move around. Some folks will take the bottom of the binder and roll it up a bit to avoid compressing the belly- a great compromise between having a flat chest and comfortable body. Great for FTMs, transmen, cosplayers, and everyone! Get more info on binder sizing and more!

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$42.00 CAD

Underworks Ultimate Chest Binder
Underworks Ultimate Chest Binder
Of the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not only does it bind the chest, but the belly and hips too. Folks love it for straightening all kinds of lines, however, it is also the most constrictive. Additionally, it is also the binder most likely to ride up the torso. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Ultimate Chest Binder.

$48.00 CAD

Vixen Aire Mustang
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Whoa, Vixen. The new Vixen Aire Mustang features some notable design additions from the classic Mustang. Instead of their traditional flared base, the Vixen Aire Mustang features a base designed to contour against the wearer. Sculpted to massage against the wearer with a soft, cushioning sensation, the base also makes some serious magic happen: as the wearer presses against the base with their pelvis, it pumps air into the shaft. This results in a swelling at the base of the Mustang with each pump. Yes: swelling. Designed with harness play in mind, this dildo is an amazing new development in dildo science. (6 1/4" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about Vixen Aire Mustang.

$170.00 CAD

Vixen Lonestar
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Vixen Lonestar
This fantastic new material, Vixskin (a double dipped process creates a hard core and a soft exterior), is both extremely durable (100% silicone) and yet very realistic. For the ultimate in fantasy play, the Lonestar will have you shooting your pistols in no time! (6" x 1 7/8")

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$128.00 CAD

Vixen Mister Right
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Vixen Mister Right
Made of incredibly pliable silicone, this packer is sure to pass the "squeeze test" everytime! For anyone sensitive or allergic to Cyberskin, Monsieur Parfait (a.k.a. Mr. Right) is the perfect pack and play choice! Non-porous & hypoallergenic. (4 1/4" x 1 1/4")

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$70.00 CAD

A Princess of Great Daring
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When Jamie is ready to tell people that she's really a girl inside, she becomes a princess of great daring in a game she plays with her best friends to gather her courage. She's pleased (but not surprised) that her questing friends turn out to be just as loyal and true as any princess could want.

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$17.00 CAD

Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing features a collection of photographs with folks who challenge the gender-binary from across the globe. Pushing far beyond the known identities of the western queer world, these lovely folks described their identites, experiences and transgressions from their various and multifacited positions.

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$35.95 CAD

Backwards Day
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We get so excited when storytellers represent those of us who don't hear stories about our experiences very often. Toronto's own Bear Bergman wrote two children's stories in 2012 that celebrate trans & gender-queer youth and families, including Backwards Day. Dive into the world of Andy/Andrea, where the sky sometimes rains bubblegum, and, more enticingly, where sometimes there are days when everything is backwards. Boys become girls, and girls become boys- discover how exciting and life-changing this is for Andy/Andrea!

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$14.95 CAD

From the Inside Out
From the Inside Out
Radical Gender Transformation, FTM and Beyond
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A fascinating and diverse collection of essays (many written from the first-person) describing the lived experiences of those challenging notions of male-ness. From genderqueers, to bois and trans men, these collections strive to complicate notions of sex, gender and male-ness while offering an array of different experiences doing so. 168pp.

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$18.95 CAD

He Mele A Hilo
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Something strange is happening in Hilo. Noleani Choi’s new show about the life of Jesus Christ told through hula dance has everyone, especially her halau, wondering what she could possibly be thinking. Rumors circulate about a rich guy from the mainland, and the dancers and their friends must reckon with what is really hula, who is Hawaiian enough, and why each of them wants to dance. On one beautiful island, we discover that loving other people in spite of their flaws might just begin with being true to our own selves.

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$28.00 CAD

I Am Jazz
I Am Jazz
I Am Jazz has taken the world by storm! Never before has a storybook co-written by the trans protagonist (Jazz) been circulated so widely, and featured reviews on the back from powerful women like Laverne Cox and Janet Mock. The story Jazz writes with Jessica Herthel outlines an important journey for this young girl. As someone born with "a girl's brain in a boy's body", Jazz shares her experiences of gender, as well as her family's and school's gradual acceptance of who she is. A deceivingly simple story, which we hope will be followed by many more.

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I've Got a Time Bomb
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On her way home from a gay wedding, Sybil’s eponymous protagonist is ambushed, beaten, and left for dead on the train tracks. Days later, Sybil awakens in a hospital and finds her skull has been reconstructed, but it quickly becomes clear that her version of “normal” and “reality” may have been permanently altered. When she falls in love with a very beautiful, but very married, actress, Sybil does what comes naturally: she presents the object of her affection with a homemade explosive device, and then abruptly leaves town. I’ve Got A Time Bomb chronicles Sybil's surrealistic journey living among the loners, losers, and leave-behinds in the dark corners of Amerika.

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Is That For a Boy or a Girl?
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Meet some awesome kids who have gotten pretty tired of being told that certain things are for girls and others just for boys. See how they mix and match everything they like to get what suits them best!

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Love Is In The Hair
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Carter's up in the middle of the night, too excited to sleep: her baby sister is being born! She asks her Uncle Marcus to tell her stories about the beautiful things in his dreadlocks so she can relax and rest.

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M is for Mustache
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It's Pride Day, and this big loving chosen family is ready to celebrate! See what they do to make their Pride Day special and so much fun--one letter at a time!

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Sex is a Funny Word
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As adults who talk to other adults about sex every single day, we find that so much of the sex negativity we encounter - and that we all experience in one form or another - can be traced back to the insufficient, awkward, or downright misleading information we received about sexuality when we were young. We also talk to a lot of parents in our shop and we cannot tell you how impressed we are with how active and interested and responsible so many of you are trying to be with your kids around their sex education.

Now, finally, we have a title that actually does justice to your quest for quality information for your children. Described by Today's Parent as "Our Bodies, Ourselves for kids", Sex is a Funny Word is a profoundly open and honest comprehensive book about bodies and sex presented perfectly appropriately for children from eight to ten years of age. Illustrated by beloved Toronto artist Fiona Smyth, this title is a visual joy for parents and kids alike.

Unlike What Makes a Baby, Sex is a Funny Word is divided into chapters, each dedicated to a particular topic or theme, narrated by Cory, and explored by the book's four kid protagonists for maximum relatability. We found all four kids so relatable that we never could settle on which one we 'liked best' - which is precisely the point.

The second in what will surely be a trilogy, this series of books is perfectly timed to grow with your kids, and the open and inclusive language and ideas presented in Sex is a Funny Word will help the children in your life the knowledge and empowerment to help counter the barrage of sex negative information they'll inevitably encounter elsewhere.

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  • What is sex?
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  • Assigned sex, gender identity, and gender roles
  • Names and functions of body parts
  • Talking about the word “sexy”
  • Protecting yourself against unwanted sexual touch and abuse
  • Crushes, love, and sexy feelings

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The Adventures of Tulip Birthday Wish Fairy
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Let's face it, childrens books don't often include stories for many of us. Thankfully, S. Bear Bergman has delved into the realm of children's lit to tell stories for trans and gender-variant children and/or their trans and gender-variant families. Follow Tulip, the Birthday Wish Fairy, as he musters up some bravery broth for awesome trans youth and some teaching paste for the adults in their lives. Ages 7 and up.

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The Collection
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A dynamic composite of rising stars, The Collection represents the depth and range of tomorrow’s finest writers chronicling transgender narratives. 28 authors from North America converge in a single volume to showcase the future of trans literature and the next great movements in queer art.

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The Newspaper Pirates
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When Anthony Bartholomew hears his dads grumble that Newspaper Pirates must be stealing their paper, he decides to solve the problem himself. Watching carefully, hunting for clues and laying traps, Anthony Bartholomew keeps at it until the mystery is solved and the newspaper secured.

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Trans/Love
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Trans/Love is an anthology of truly engaging stories from voices beyond the gender binary. As varied as their own experiences, these accounts are at times smoking hot and lustful, fluttery and romantic, and hilariously funny (just try not to laugh out loud at the unexpected twist in Jolly Jumper, the erotic tale of Shawna, a high femme trans women who meets a “bona fide MTF stud, or butch or daddy. A rare species”). Heartfelt only begins to describe these open and candid essays full of love within the genderqueer experiences of sex, dating and relationships, taking you so far beyond the gender binary you’ll never want to turn back.

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Transgender History
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Written in an informative yet extremely readable format, Transgender History traces back the ups and downs of trans rights and movements over the last half century. Discusses underground scenes, political changes, stand-out figures, health care battles, acceptance in different communities, and much more. A great intro to trans studies for anyone!

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Whipping Girl
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A provocative manifesto, 'Whipping Girl' tells the powerful story of Julia Serano, a trans woman whose writing reflects her diverse background as a lesbian transgender activist and professional biologist. Serano shares her experiences and observations both pre- and post-transition to reveal the ways in which fear, suspicion, and dismissiveness toward femininity shape our societal attitudes toward trans women, as well as gender and sexuality as a whole. Serano's well-honed arguments stem from her ability to bridge the gap between the often-disparate biological and social perspectives on gender. She exposes how deep-rooted the cultural belief is that femininity is frivolous, weak, and passive, and how this feminine weakness exists only to attract and appease male desire. In addition to debunking popular misconceptions about transsexuality, Serano makes the case that today's feminists and transgender activist must work to embrace and empower femininityin all of its wondrous forms.

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Zero Dads Club
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It's Father's Day craft time in Akilah and Kai's class, but they don't have dads! So, they hatch a plan to create a special club. It's for all the kids in their grade who don't have a dad, but want to celebrate other family members instead. See what they make in The Zero Dads Club!

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A Safe Girl to Love
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Eleven unique short stories that stretch from a rural Canadian Mennonite town to a hipster gay bar in Brooklyn, featuring young trans women stumbling through loss, sex, harassment, and love. These stories, shiny with whiskey and prairie sunsets, rattling subways and neglected cats, show growing up as a trans girl can be charming, funny, frustrating, or sad, but never will it be predictable. This item is currently out of stock

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Girl Sex 101
Girl Sex 101
Girl Sex 101 is a sex-ed book like no other, offering helpful info for queer women & their lovers of all genders and identities, playful and informative illustrations on each page, and over 100 distinct voices, plus a hot narrative that shows you how to put the info to good use! Learn with special guidance from sixteen guest sex educators including Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Jiz Lee, Tristan Taormino, Julia Serano, Reid Mihalko and more! This item is currently out of stock

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Lesbian Sex Bible
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We're often reminding people to metaphorically not judge books by their covers, but in the case of Diana Cage's Lesbian Sex Bible, we mean it in the most literal sense of the phrase. This wonderfully comprehensive and inclusive guide to lesbian sex provides amazing amounts of practical sexual knowledge and doesn't assume anything about the reader's identity beyond their interest in lesbian sex and culture. By not just acknowledging, but actually embracing the diversity of lesbian communities - and all of the identities contained within - this book goes way beyond just offering up banal tips and tricks, and instead provides inspiration, empowerment, and context for lesbian sex culture. This is a great title for folks just coming out and beyond! This item is currently out of stock

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Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly
Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly
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When we heard the there was going to be a new zine created for, and made by, FTM trans guys, it caught our attention to say the least. When we finally had a chance to take a look at it, we were absolutely thrilled with the results. Original Plumbing features hot, full-colour photos of diverse models, witty, humourous and interesting interviews, and much more. This zine is flying off our shelves, and for very good reason. Published quarterly. The current issue is The Literary Issue This item is currently out of stock

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Trans Bodies, Trans Selves
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Inspired by the original 70's Our Bodies, Ourselves, Trans Bodies, Trans Selves goes well above and beyond the original, and even manages to provide an even more thorough resource than even the contemporary Our Bodies, Ourselves. Being trans means something different to almost every trans person, and while acknowledging our many differing approaches to being trans, this title is able to provide non-judgemental and comprehensive information on almost any issue that impacts the lives of trans people. Whether you're looking for an amazing resource for your organization, you're just coming out into trans communities, or you're years past transition, this is a resource you're sure to find useful. Not designed to be read in a single sitting, this book is one that you'll skim, pore over, and pull off your bookshelf for years to come. This item is currently out of stock

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$43.95 CAD

Buck Off
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All-out sex, all over the house is what's in store for Buck Angel and his gaggle of guys in Buck Off. Starting off reasonably tame and then evolving into harder sex with scenes that feature power play, boot worship, extreme piercings (how does a 00 Prince Albert sound?!), clamps, bondage... everyone's having a great time!

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A cowboy love story comes true in Buck Angel's Buckback Mountain. This epic, high budget film reveals the tender, sensous relationship that Buck begins with his summertime work partner in the picturesque desert. A little different than other Buck movies, this softer and less explicit plot-based film does not contain any anal sex.

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With six scenes featuring the star, director, and filmmaker, Courtney Trouble Fan Club #1 is the perfect title for every Trouble-loving fan! Enjoy Trouble and Billy Castro hooking up on film for the first time ever. Then, Trouble and Minnie Scarlet enjoy some hot POV-shot strap on fucking (featuring Aslan Leather's Cherry Minx harness!) Papi Coxxx and Trouble then get down (including a oh-so-hot fuck with Njoy's Eleven), followed by two sexy solo scenes of Trouble (well, except the cameraman, that is). The film finishes off with a bang with a throwback scene between Trouble and Jiz Lee. Fucking, punching, mutual masturbation, and squirting abounds. Be sure to check out the mindblowing ejaculation close-up of Lee, compliments of a plastic speculum and Vibratex Mystic Wand. With lots of POV and DIY style woven throughout the title, it's another delicious piece full of genuine orgasms featuring sexy queer & trans performers.

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We love getting new indie trans porn in to share with our customers! Cubbyholes takes place entirely in a bathhouse and stars super hot, super diverse FTMs, transmen & bio guys having fun with one another. Besides the hot sex, the dialogue and interaction between the actors makes this film a keeper. Includes a booklet on safer sex.

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Doing It Again: Volume 1
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Tobi Hill-Meyer, activist and director of Doing It Ourselves interviews four couples, some who've just met and some who've been together for years (in one case two decades). These couples have one common goal: to show Trans women's sexualities in a realistic and glorious light. Their Trans-identified partners are more than obliging and the scenes are fantastic, diverse and very hot. From porn stars Drew and Hayley sparking some serious chemistry in a library to older couple Chelsea and Mo's intimate dom and sub play; from burlesque artists Lilith and Violet's latex and tease torture to newly introduced Azure and Juicy's immediate connection, each scene is interspersed with great interviews where you really get to know each dynamic couple. This is brain sex for 2014 - an engaging, brilliant and much sought after tour-de-force of empowered Trans women's identities!

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Doing It Again: Volume 2
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Tobi Hill-Meyer has brought us yet another installation of her groundbreaking series exploring trans women's relationships and desires! This series provides a holistic and multifaceted look at how trans women relate to their sex lives and partners by weaving interviews and narratives throughout the film. From a very sexy solo romp (go Erica!) to women getting down with lovers, both recently introduced and established, this film features a diverse range of pleasures and desires and positionalities, and is a delight to behold. Features subtitles in English, French, Spanish and German.

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Doing It Ourselves
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Finally, super hot, independent, sex positive porn by trans women and their partners of all sorts of genders. Doing It Ourselves is a much needed and much anticipated new film that we're super excited about - groundbreaking, sexy and fun. 4 sex scenes, including a bonus disc featuring tons of interviews with the cast talking about their personal lives, why they wanted to be part of the project, and how they feel about porn and feminist porn in general.

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FTM Fucker Volume One
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FTM Fucker Volume One is chock full of hot scenes from James Darling's website of the same name. Featuring lots of hot queer / genderqueer / trans performers, this title promises hours of trans-man-centric sucking, fucking, and cumming. From a captivating and otherworldly tarot reading to a sexy pumping & jerkoff scene, to rooftop punching and fucking, there's a lot to get hot for here!

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Chelsea Poe takes on all of Oakland in this goth-y spellbinding queer flick! While saying goodbye to her girlfriend before moving to the city, she receives a necklace that she determines is "fucking mystic", since it magically incites lust in all that cross her path. From a hot kinky fuck with Courtney Trouble, to a orgy of epic proportions, this film has a cheeky storyline, and is absolutely full to bursting with your favourite queer, genderqueer, & trans performers.

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Full Load keeps the plot to a minimum, but features a variety of scenes connected by running themes of domination and submission, loads of super-cute trans boys, sexy pierced girls, and dirty talk that permeates the whole film.

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Well worth the wait, Shine Loise Houston (of Superfreak and Crash Pad fame) is back with her newest edition to top-of-the-line indie lesbian flicks. Absolutely hilarious storyline with hot sex and amazing actors (some of whom are trans), you can't go wrong with Wild Search. Definitely deserves all of the praise that it has garnered. The only thing that we would like to change about it: the fact that it's not long enough! Formerly titled In Search of the Wild Kingdom.

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Courtney Trouble mixes it up again with her Hard Core Porno Mixtape! Sweaty hotties abound in this almost 3 hour feature! Get started with some sexy play featuring the director, and then enjoy a gratuitous BDSM scene involving a rubber bed, collar, St. Andrew's Cross, floggers, and a impressively gigantic dildo. Swoon as Hayley Fingersmith interrupts Chelsea Poe playing video games and turns the game in a very different direction. Hot tattooed dykes, sexy gay boys, genderqueer folk, and trans women and men get it on in this queer megaflick! This item is currently out of stock

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Trans Lesbians
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From indie director and producer Courtney Trouble comes Trans Lesbians - a hot flick filled with hot queer women... and a seriously babely wardrobe! Bright and crisply shot, devour five scenes featuring Bailey Jay, Chelsea Poe, Drew Deveaux, Andre Shakti, Betti Rubble, and, of course, Courtney Trouble. Filled with mouth-watering oral scenes, delicious fucking, and tons of body-positive, sex-positive play, this film celebrates trans women's desire, bodies, and pleasure in Trouble's signature queer indie style. This item is currently out of stock

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10 Rules for Happy Non-Monogamy Workshop
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So you’d like to be romantically involved with more than one person at once? Or maybe you’d just like to sleep with someone other than your one-and-only? Whether you’re considering your first steps into non-monogamy or you’re an old hand looking for a fresh perspective, you’ll find valuable tidbits in this common-sense approach to enjoying love and sex in the plural. This is an interactive workshop with lots of room for beginners and experienced poly folk alike to share their questions and experiences.

Thursday, April 28, 2016. 7:30PM-9:30PM
Where: Come As You Are
Cost:$25/person (Sliding Scale Available) This item is currently out of stock

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$25.00 CAD

 

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