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binders, packers and more

Our products are meant to be enjoyed by everyone and anyone interested in exploring, but we're pleased to offer this selection of products that may be of particular interest to FTM's and transmen including binders and packers.

Do you have a used but wearable binder you don't need anymore? Send it to us! We'll recycle it and give you a $10 gift certificate you can spend on anything at Come As You Are online or in-store. Get more info about our Binder Bucks Recycling Program.

Aslan Leather Commando Harness
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Aslan Leather Commando Harness
Go Commando with Aslan! The Commando strap-on harness is a durable yet light-weight leather harness from the folks at Aslan Leather. Easy to put on and use, you can wear this harness under clothing discreetly. The Commando can easily be turned into a g-string harness (just remove one of the straps) and the rings are interchangeable so you can fit almost any flared based dildo in it (large or small). The Commando is also one of the few harnesses that will easily accommodate a dildo with balls. Medium fits hips 26" - 44", Large fits hips 36" - 60". Nickle-plated hardware

Learn more about Aslan Leather Commando Harness.

$60.00

Aslan Packing Strap
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Aslan Packing Strap
You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap was originally designed to be used with Vixen's Mr Right, but works great with Pack-Man and the Ultimate packers too! Three sizes available: Small 30"- 34", Medium 34"- 38" and Large 38"- 42"

Learn more about Aslan Packing Strap.

$20.00

Cyber Guy 1
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Cyber Guy 1
Softer and more plush than the Guy 1 or the Jelly Guy 1, this Guy is perfect for packing (with a harness) and playing! This classic dildo is one of our favourite harness-compatible toys. With a playful, but realistic design, our Guys are sure to please! (5" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about Cyber Guy 1.

$24.00

Cyber Guy 2
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Cyber Guy 2
Our softest and sweetest dildo in velvet cyberskin. For those who prefer a softer dildo or those looking for a dildo good for packing and penetrating, the Cyber Guy is ready to hit the streets! (7 1/4" x 2")

Learn more about Cyber Guy 2.

$26.00

Happy Valley Pack-Man
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Happy Valley Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Happy Valley Pack-Man.

$58.00

New York Toy Collective Shilo
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New York Toy Collective Shilo
As a worker-owned co-operative ourselves, we tend to swoon whenever we encounter another collective doing good work in the sex toy world - and in the case of the New York Toy Collective's Shilo, we double swooned! Shilo isn't just another harness-compatible silicone toy, it is the easily the best pack-and-play dildo we've ever experienced. Shilo is soft enough to pack comfortably in your pants, but has a bendable core so you can be fully erect at a moment's notice. With the best selection of shades and colours we've ever seen, Shilo is a truly unique packer from a truly unique collective. (4 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Shilo.

$150.00

SpareParts Joque Harness
SpareParts Joque Harness
The SpareParts jock-strap-style harness is made of spandex and polyester harness to stretch and conform to your body. Strong and sturdy enough for the most enthusiastic strap-on play, this harness is entirely waterproof, machine-washable, and will accomodate any dildo up to 2" wide. Perfect for packing, this revolutionary harness also features an interior pouch (perfect for a mini vibe!), will accommodate double headed dildos, and is completely adjustable for a perfect fit every time! Medium fits hips 20" - 50", Large fits hips 35" - 65". .

Learn more about SpareParts Joque Harness.

$105.00

SpareParts Pete Commando
SpareParts Pete Commando
For the times when you wish you could just go commando, but still need somewhere to put your packer, SpareParts' Pete Commando Harness is sure to do the trick! With an elastic loop on the inside of the packer pouch to keep everything securely in-place, this harness lets you keep everything front-and-center or allows you to lean a little to the left or right (especially with the larger packers). Comfortable, durable and machine washable!

Learn more about SpareParts Pete Commando.

$30.00

Ultimate Packer Large
Ultimate Packer Large
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (6 " x 1 3/8")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Large.

$20.00

Ultimate Packer Medium
Ultimate Packer Medium
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (4 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Medium.

$19.00

Ultimate Packer Small
Ultimate Packer Small
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (3 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Small.

$18.00

Underworks Extreme Tank - Black
Underworks Extreme Tank - Black
The Extreme Tank binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over a binding layer that runs to the middle of the ribcage. However, since the binding action is localized exclusively to the chest, those with larger chests and/or those who are planning on putting in a hard day's work may find that the binding may not always stay put and provide full coverage. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Extreme Tank - Black.

$42.00

Underworks Extreme Tank - White
Underworks Extreme Tank - White
The Extreme Tank binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over a binding layer that runs to the middle of the ribcage. However, since the binding action is localized exclusively to the chest, those with larger chests and/or those who are planning on putting in a hard day's work may find that the binding may not always stay put and provide full coverage. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Extreme Tank - White.

$42.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
This binder is a great option for folks looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest coverage, while leaving the wearer free to move around. Some folks will take the bottom of the binder and roll it up a bit and let their belly rock out, to even better compromise between having a flat chest and comfortable body. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder Black.

$38.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder White
Underworks Tri-top Binder White
This binder is a great option for folks looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest coverage, while leaving the wearer free to move around. Some folks will take the bottom of the binder and roll it up a bit and let their belly rock out, to even better compromise between having a flat chest and comfortable body. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder White.

$38.00

Underworks Ultimate Binder Black
Underworks Ultimate Binder Black
Of the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not only does it bind the chest, but the belly and hips too. Folks love it for straightening all kinds of lines, however, it is also the most constrictive. Additionally, it is also the binder most likely to ride up the torso. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Ultimate Binder Black.

$42.00

Underworks Ultimate Binder White
Underworks Ultimate Binder White
Of the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not only does it bind the chest, but the belly and hips too. Folks love it for straightening all kinds of lines, however, it is also the most constrictive. Additionally, it is also the binder most likely to ride up the torso.

For help with sizing, please view our Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Ultimate Binder White .

$42.00

Vibratex Bend N Blush
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Vibratex Bend N Blush
Bend it whichever way you wish! The Bend N’ Blush contains a metal core which holds its shape. Great for achieving different angles while it packs away nicely for a night on the town. Finally a packer and dildo all in one! (6 1/4" x 1 3/4")

Learn more about Vibratex Bend N Blush.

$56.00

Vixen Bandit
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Vixen Bandit
Check out this bad boy! Made of Vixen's trademark dual-density Vixskin, Bandit is both super-realistic and made of silicone so it's also safe and easy to clean. (7" x 1 5/8")

Learn more about Vixen Bandit.

$105.00

Vixen Goodfella
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Vixen Goodfella
Want to show the world that you truly have balls? A truly brilliant and unique concept in the world of silicone dildos, Goodfella has balls and a special harness-compatible base that allows those balls to be on the outside of the harness. Designed specifically to be good for both packing and sex, Goodfella is made of super-realistic feeling silicone and is a little softer than other dildos so it can be worn a little more comfortably under clothes. Unlike other Vixen toys, Goodfella does not come with a life-time warranty. (5" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Vixen Goodfella.

$115.00

Vixen Mr Right
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Vixen Mr Right
Made of incredibly pliable silicone, this packer is sure to pass the "squeeze test" everytime! For anyone sensitive or allergic to Cyberskin, Monsieur Parfait (a.k.a. Mr. Right) is the perfect choice! Non-porous & hypoallergenic. (4 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Vixen Mr Right.

$50.00

Vixen Ride On
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Vixen Ride On
Our reviewer calls the Ride On a "game changer" in the world of penis prostheses and male strap ons. Designed to be worn over a flaccid penis and to allow for penetration, the Ride On is the first toy of its kind made of silicone, and really works as a hands free male strap on. A simple strap goes around the scrotum and allows for easy integration into your sexual routine with minimal intrusiveness from straps. Features an internal (but stretchy) measurement of 4" x 1 3/8" and a 2 1/2" solid tip. (6 1/2" x 1 3/4")

Learn more about Vixen Ride On.

$95.00

Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing features a collection of photographs with folks who challenge the gender-binary from across the globe. Pushing far beyond the known identities of the western queer world, these lovely folks described their identites, experiences and transgressions from their various and multifacited positions.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

Learn more about Assume Nothing.

$35.95

Boy in the Middle
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Boy in the Middle
By Patrick Califia
Literary genius Patrick Califia has done it again! Boy in the Middle is fearless erotica unlike any other. His characters are seedy, sleazy back alley dykes, hardcore sadists, FTM tops, and many other worthy individuals. Califia’s prose is not for everyone, and this book is certainly not for the faint of heart, but for those of us who love heart pounding, hardcore SM and raunchy role-play, these eleven stories are like hitting the fictional jackpot! 268 pp.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 4/5

Learn more about Boy in the Middle.

$19.50

Nobody Passes
Nobody Passes
Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity
By Matthew Bernstein Sycamore
A set of cleverly written and thoughtful essays that attempt to tackle the concept of “passing”. Rather, the stories of those living outside and challenging the dichotomy of gender. A must read, for those of us who identify as genderqueer and an important read for those just starting to think about radicalized notions of gender. 353pp.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

Learn more about Nobody Passes.

$20.50

Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly
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When we heard the there was going to be a new zine created for, and made by, FTM trans guys, it caught our attention to say the least. When we finally had a chance to take a look at it, we were absolutely thrilled with the results. Original Plumbing features hot, full-colour photos of diverse models, witty, humourous and interesting interviews, and much more. This zine is flying off our shelves, and for very good reason. Published quarterly. Issue 11 - the Heroes Issue available now! Double the pages! Double the awesomeness!

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly.

$12.00

Trans/Love
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Trans/Love
Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary
Trans/Love is an anthology of truly engaging stories from voices beyond the gender binary. As varied as their own experiences, these accounts are at times smoking hot and lustful, fluttery and romantic, and hilariously funny (just try not to laugh out loud at the unexpected twist in Jolly Jumper, the erotic tale of Shawna, a high femme trans women who meets a “bona fide MTF stud, or butch or daddy. A rare species”). Heartfelt only begins to describe these open and candid essays full of love within the genderqueer experiences of sex, dating and relationships, taking you so far beyond the gender binary you’ll never want to turn back.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Trans/Love.

$16.95

Transgender History
Transgender History
Written in an informative yet extremely readable format, Transgender History traces back the ups and downs of trans rights and movements over the last half century. Discusses underground scenes, political changes, stand-out figures, health care battles, acceptance in different communities, and much more. A great intro to trans studies for anyone!

Explicitness: Explicitness: 1/5

Learn more about Transgender History.

$19.95

Translady Fanzine
Translady Fanzine
This first issue of TransLady Fanzine - by editor of Original Plumbing, Amos Mac- is a collaboration between Amos and New York artist Zachary Drucker, in which Amos's skills as a photographer bow to Drucker's desires of her transfeminine representation. Lying delicately on a banister, hunched underneath her father's old desk and gracefully walking in the snow, Drucker's beautiful transfemininity is only surpassed by her touching stories of bravery, oddball teenagehood and her evolving gender. As Drucker notes herself: "We need more fans because... we are evolving faster than our culture can perceive, because shame is a scavenger bitch eating us from the inside out, because we are beautiful survivors and we deserve it."

The touching letters exchanged between photographer and model, transmen and transwomen, are so heartwrenchingly beautiful and articulate the need for more images of trans beauty and nuanced writing on genderqueer experiences. TransLady Fanzine is an annual photographic periodical in which Amos Mac collaborates with one other person in an highly artisitic effort to demonstrate positive and breathtaking depictions of transfeminity. Limited availability.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Translady Fanzine.

$20.00

From the Inside Out
From the Inside Out
From the Inside Out (edited by Morty Diamond, director of Trans Entities DVD) is a great collection of essays, stories, and poems describing personal challenges, triumphs, and experiences from folks that were born female but don't necessarily identify as such. Many stories speak to the fact that the choice to be of fluid gender (or trans, or transitioning) can be tough, others embrace all of our differences, yet all are very personal and at times touching. A great book to get a glipmse at the way others may choose to express themselves as their own gender - on a much more intimate level than many other books available.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

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Learn more about From the Inside Out.

$18.00

Billy Castro Does the Mission
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Billy Castro Does the Mission DVD
Man-about-town Billy Castro finally stars in his own feature by one of indie porn’s true directorial stars, Courtney Trouble. With little plot to get your head around, Billy Castro Does the Mission follows Billy as he cruises the city for sex. Finding himself in the gym, hot tub, U-Haul, and hardwood floor with a variety of very steamy women, Billy has lots of well-shot, explicit sex, and almost every scene features someone squirting!

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Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Billy Castro Does the Mission DVD.

$25.00

Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters
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Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters DVD
Naughty Squirters is Billy Castro's directorial debut, and viewers can definitely tell he's in control of all the action! Follow Billy as he shares horny stories with his friend while they cruise for hot femmes in their van. Picking up a stranded cutie in the middle of nowhere starts a chain reaction of hot encounters for Billy - the romp they share back at his apartment (full of spanking, squirting and intense blowjobs) impresses this femme so much that she just has to recommend him to all her friends! Simple bedroom settings set the perfect backdrop for the concentrated intensity of each scene - breath play, slapping, lots of female ejaculation and enthusiastic deep-throating really pack the four main scenes with lots of drama.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 5/5

Learn more about Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters DVD.

$20.00

Buck Off
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All-out sex, all over the house is what's in store for Buck Angel and his gaggle of guys in Buck Off. Starting off reasonably tame and then evolving into harder sex with scenes that feature power play, boot worship, extreme piercings (how does a 00 Prince Albert sound?!), clamps, bondage... everyone's having a great time!

Explicitness: Explicitness: 5/5

Learn more about Buck Off DVD.

$20.00 , Regular price $35.00

Buckback Mountain
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A cowboy love story comes true in Buck Angel's Buckback Mountain. This epic, high budget film reveals the tender, sensous relationship that Buck begins with his summertime work partner in the picturesque desert. A little different than other Buck movies, this softer and less explicit plot-based film does not contain any anal sex.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 2/5

Learn more about Buckback Mountain DVD.

$20.00 , Regular price $35.00

Doing It Ourselves
Doing It Ourselves DVD
Finally, super hot, independent, sex positive porn by trans women and their partners of all sorts of genders. Doing It Ourselves is a much needed and much anticipated new film that we're super excited about - groundbreaking, sexy and fun. 4 sex scenes, including a bonus disc featuring tons of interviews with the cast talking about their personal lives, why they wanted to be part of the project, and how they feel about porn and feminist porn in general.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Doing It Ourselves DVD.

$29.00

Even More Bang For Your Buck 2
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Buck Angel is back with his newest release! Watch Buck bang a construction worker; get out a couple big dildos with Fallen, a super-sexy trans boy; and gets a little rough with an English skinhead dude that shares his hairstyle (or lack thereof). Well shot and really hot, Buck loves what he does and can't go wrong!

Explicitness: Explicitness: 4/5

Learn more about Even More Bang For Your Buck 2 DVD.

$20.00 , Regular price $35.00

Full Load
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Full Load keeps the plot to a minimum, but features a variety of scenes connected by running themes of domination and submission, loads of super-cute trans boys, sexy pierced girls, and dirty talk that permeates the whole film.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Full Load DVD.

$20.00 , Regular price $65.00

Speakeasy
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Speakeasy DVD
Speakeasy might just be the hottest porn that's going right now. Breathtakingly gorgeous actors and ridiculously hot sex, the atmosphere of a 1940's bar and costumes just enhance the whole movie. Featuring rope bondage suspension, lots of female ejaculation, and a barroom brawl. All female and trans cast--look out for newcomer Billy Castro.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Speakeasy DVD.

$35.00

Trans Entities
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Trans Entities DVD
Real Life couple (that you might have noticed appearing in Search For the Wild Kingdom) Papi Coxx and Wil Thrustwell star in Trans Entities, a docu-porn that reveals what they make of their gender identities, how the two fell in love and just what's up with their sex life. Including lots of role play and hard sex and kink, and with a special scene that includes their lover, and the ups and downs of having a polyamourous relationship. All sex scenes were left up to them to control, making each dripping with raw sexual energy and excitement that really translates to the viewer. Featuring a diverse cast.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 5/5

Learn more about Trans Entities DVD.

$29.00

Ultimate Fucking Club
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Ultimate Fucking Club DVD
Buck Angel bestows upon us his Ultimate Fucking Club, in which Buck has interview a buch of dudes and picked the cream of the crop to perform with him on video. Not as rough as some of his other movies - just right to the point, all-out hot sex. Lots of oral sex, outdoor scenes, and another heavily tattooed hottie shaving Buck's head before getting it on.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 2/5

Learn more about Ultimate Fucking Club DVD.

$35.00

V for Vagina
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Buck Angel is back, and this time, it's all girls he's after! Featuring a diverse cast, most of them decked out heavily in tattoos and piercings, Buck shows these babes how much a man he is. Everyone is getting exactly what they want and enjoying every second! Lots of strap on toys, and even an intense sex machine round out this funky, sexy, dirty flick.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about V for Vagina DVD.

$19.00 , Regular price $35.00

Wild Search
Wild Search DVD
Well worth the wait, Shine Loise Houston (of Superfreak and Crash Pad fame) is back with her newest edition to top-of-the-line indie lesbian flicks. Absolutely hilarious storyline with hot sex and amazing actors (some of whom are trans), you can't go wrong with Wild Search. Definitely deserves all of the praise that it has garnered. The only thing that we would like to change about it: the fact that it's not long enough! Formerly titled In Search of the Wild Kingdom.

Explicitness: Explicitness: 3/5

Learn more about Wild Search DVD.

$35.00

 

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