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Our products are meant to be enjoyed by everyone and anyone interested in exploring, but we're pleased to offer this selection of products that may be of particular interest to FTM's and transmen including binders and packers.

Do you have a used but wearable binder you don't need anymore? Send it to us! We'll recycle it and give you a $10 gift certificate you can spend on anything at Come As You Are online or in-store. Get more info about our Binder Bucks Recycling Program.

Aslan Leather Commando Harness
made in canada phthalate-free 		Aslan Leather Commando Harness
Go Commando with Aslan! The Commando strap-on harness is a durable yet light-weight leather harness from the folks at Aslan Leather. Easy to put on and use, you can wear this harness under clothing discreetly. The Commando can easily be turned into a g-string harness (just remove one of the straps) and the rings are interchangeable so you can fit almost any flared based dildo in it (large or small). The Commando is also one of the few harnesses that will easily accommodate a dildo with balls. Medium fits hips 26" - 44", Large fits hips 36" - 60". Nickle-plated hardware | Learn more about Aslan Leather Commando Harness. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $50.00

Aslan Packing Strap
made in canada phthalate-free 		Aslan Packing Strap
You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap is designed to be used with Monsieur Parfait (aka Mister Right) but also works well with the cyberskin packers too! Three sizes available: Small 30"- 34", Medium 34"- 38" and Large 38"- 42" | Learn more about Aslan Packing Strap.

| $16.00

Aslan Vegan Commando Harness
made in canada phthalate-free 		Aslan Vegan Commando Harness
Go vegan with Aslan Leather! Aslan's classic lightweight harness is available in vegan faux leather. The Commando's revolutionary design allows it to be worn jock-style or as a g-string strap-on harness. Interchangeable rings and nickle-plated snaps mean you can fit almost any flared based dildo in it. The Commando is also one of the few harnesses that will easily accomodate toys with testicles! Medium fits hips 26" - 44", Large fits hips 36" - 60" | Learn more about Aslan Vegan Commando Harness. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $60.00

Cyber Guy 1
strap on compatible anal compatible phthalate-free 		Cyber Guy 1
Softer and more plush than the Guy 1 or the Jelly Guy 1, this Guy is perfect for packing (with a harness) and playing! This classic dildo is one of our favourite harness-compatible toys. With a playful, but realistic design, our Guys are sure to please! | Learn more about Cyber Guy 1.

| $24.00

Cyber Guy 2
strap on compatible anal compatible phthalate-free 		Cyber Guy 2
Our softest and sweetest dildo in velvet cyberskin. For those who prefer a softer dildo or those looking for a dildo good for packing and penetrating, the Cyber Guy is ready to hit the streets! | Learn more about Cyber Guy 2.

| $26.00

Pack-Man
strap on compatible staff pick phthalate-free 		On Sale Item Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. | Learn more about Pack-Man.

| $40.00 , Reduced from $0.00

SpareParts Jock Harness (Size A)
staff pick 		SpareParts Jock Harness (Size A)
The SpareParts jock-strap-style harness is made of spandex and polyester harness to stretch and conform to your body. Strong and sturdy enough for the most enthusiastic strap-on play, this harness is entirely waterproof, machine-washable, and will accomodate any dildo up to 2" wide. Perfect for packing, this revolutionary harness also features an interior pouch (perfect for a mini vibe!), will accommodate double headed dildos, and is completely adjustable for a perfect fit every time! Size A fits hips 20" - 50". | Learn more about SpareParts Jock Harness (Size A). Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $110.00

SpareParts Jock Harness (Size B)
waterproof 		SpareParts Jock Harness (Size B)
The SpareParts jock-strap-style harness is made of spandex and polyester harness to stretch and conform to your body. Strong and sturdy enough for the most enthusiastic strap-on play, this harness is entirely waterproof, machine-washable, and will accomodate any dildo up to 2" wide. Perfect for packing, this revolutionary harness also features an interior pouch (perfect for a mini vibe!), will accommodate double headed dildos, and is completely adjustable for a perfect fit every time! Size B fits hips 35" - 65". | Learn more about SpareParts Jock Harness (Size B). Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $110.00

Ultimate Packer Large
 Ultimate Packer Large
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". | Learn more about Ultimate Packer Large.

$20.00

$15.00

$20.00

Ultimate Packer Medium
 Ultimate Packer Medium
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". | Learn more about Ultimate Packer Medium.

| $19.00

Ultimate Packer Small
 Ultimate Packer Small
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". | Learn more about Ultimate Packer Small.

| $18.00

Underworks Double Compression Vest - Black
 Underworks Double Compression Vest - Black
Get more compresson, for less! The Underworks Double Compression Vest provides all of the chest binding power of the Underworks Tri-Top chest binder with an extra layer of soft cotton for a more comfortable fit and even better binding action. | Learn more about Underworks Double Compression Vest - Black.

| $30.00

Underworks Double Compression Vest - White
 Underworks Double Compression Vest - White
Get more compresson, for less! The Underworks Double Compression Vest provides all of the chest binding power of the Tri-Top binder with an extra layer of soft cotton for a more comfortable fit and even better binding action. | Learn more about Underworks Double Compression Vest - White.

| $30.00

Underworks Long-Cut Binder Black
 Underworks Long-Cut Binder Black
We currently carry two styles of nylon/lycra/spandex binders from Underworks: the Underworks Full-Cut (long) compression vest and the Underworks Tri-Top (short) compression vest. Both compression vests feature three layers of compression material, and come in a full range of sizes. While Underworks binders are not designed specifically for transmen they are functional and less expensive than our other binders offering a cost effective binding solution.

For help with sizing, please view our How to Choose a Binder article. | Learn more about Underworks Long-Cut Binder Black. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $42.00

Underworks Long-Cut Binder White
 Underworks Long-Cut Binder White
We currently carry two styles of nylon/lycra/spandex binders from Underworks: the Underworks Full-Cut (long) Binder and the Underworks Tri-Top (short) Binder. Both compression vests feature three layers of compression material, and come in a full range of sizes. While Underworks binders are not designed specifically for transmen they are functional and less expensive than our other binders offering a cost effective binding solution.

For help with sizing, please view our How to Choose a Binder article. | Learn more about Underworks Long-Cut Binder White. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $42.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
 Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
We currently carry two styles of nylon/lycra/spandex compression vests from Underworks: the Underworks Full-Cut (long) compression vest and the Underworks Tri-Top (short) compression vest. Both binders feature three layers of compression material, and come in a full range of sizes. While Underworks binders are not designed specifically for transmen they are functional and less expensive than our other binders offering a cost effective binding solution.

For help with sizing, please view our How to Choose a Binder article. | Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder Black.

| $36.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder White
 Underworks Tri-top Binder White
We currently carry two styles of nylon/lycra/spandex compression vests from Underworks: the Underworks Full-Cut (long) compression vest and the Underworks Tri-Top (short) compression vest. Both binders feature three layers of compression material, and come in a full range of sizes. While Underworks binders are not designed specifically for transmen they are functional and less expensive than our other binders offering a cost effective binding solution.

For help with sizing, please view our How to Choose a Binder article. | Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder White.

| $36.00

Vibratex Bend N Blush
strap on compatible phthalate-free 		Vibratex Bend N Blush
Bend it whichever way you wish! The Bend N’ Blush contains a metal core which holds its shape. Great for achieving different angles while it packs away nicely for a night on the town. Finally a packer and dildo all in one! This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Vibratex Bend N Blush. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $56.00

Vixen Bandit
strap on compatible anal compatible phthalate-free 		Vixen Bandit
Check out this bad boy! Made of Vixen's trademark dual-density Vixskin, Bandit is both super-realistic and made of silicone so it's also safe and easy to clean. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Vixen Bandit. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $105.00

Vixen Goodfella
strap on compatible anal compatible phthalate-free 		Vixen Goodfella
Want to show the world that you truly have balls? A truly brilliant and unique concept in the world of silicone dildos, Goodfella has balls and a special harness-compatible base that allows those balls to be on the outside of the harness. Designed specifically to be good for both packing and sex, Goodfella is made of super-realistic feeling silicone and is a little softer than other dildos so it can be worn a little more comfortably under clothes. Unlike other Vixen toys, Goodfella does not come with a life-time warranty. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Vixen Goodfella. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $125.00

Vixen Mr Right
strap on compatible phthalate-free 		Vixen Mr Right
Made of incredibly pliable silicone, this packer is sure to pass the "squeeze test" everytime! For anyone sensitive or allergic to Cyberskin, Monsieur Parfait (a.k.a. Mr. Right) is the perfect choice! Non-porous & hypoallergenic. | Learn more about Vixen Mr Right. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $50.00

Vixen Ride On
phthalate-free 		Vixen Ride On
Our reviewer calls the Ride On a "game changer" in the world of penis prostheses and male strap ons. Designed to be worn over a flaccid penis and to allow for penetration, the Ride On is the first toy of its kind made of silicone, and really works as a hands free male strap on. A simple strap goes around the scrotum and allows for easy integration into your sexual routine with minimal intrusiveness from straps. Features an internal (but stretchy) measurement of 4" x 1 3/8" and a 2 1/2" solid tip. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about Vixen Ride On. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $90.00

My Gender Workbook
staff pick 		My Gender Workbook
This is a great book for anyone starting to question the role of gender in our society. Written with a twist, the language, exercises and quizzes offer great resources and insights for anyone just beginning to challenge the boxes gender confines us in or a great start for friends and families of gender outlaws who just want to learn more. 292 pages. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about My Gender Workbook.

| $39.95

Nobody Passes
 Nobody Passes
Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity
By Matthew Bernstein Sycamore
A set of cleverly written and thoughtful essays that attempt to tackle the concept of “passing”. Rather, the stories of those living outside and challenging the dichotomy of gender. A must read, for those of us who identify as genderqueer and an important read for those just starting to think about radicalized notions of gender. 353pp. | Learn more about Nobody Passes.

| $20.50

Original Plumbing
 Original Plumbing
When we heard the there was going to be a new zine created for, and made by, FTM trans guys, it caught our attention to say the least. When we finally had a chance to take a look at it, we were absolutely thrilled with the results. Original Plumbing features hot, full-colour photos of diverse models, witty, humourous and interesting interviews, and much more. This zine is flying off our shelves, and for very good reason. Published quarterly. Issue 7- the Green Issue now available. | Learn more about Original Plumbing.

| $8.00

Stone Butch Blues
 Stone Butch Blues
By Leslie Feinberg
This classic title from Leslie Feinberg is an essential read and a favourite of queer and trans people alike. As radical as being transgendered is now, Stone Butch Blues chronicles the trials and tribulations of being butch in 1950's America and of being transgendered well before trans activism took hold in the last century. A must read. | Learn more about Stone Butch Blues.

| $18.50

The Lazy Crossdresser
 The Lazy Crossdresser
How to dress like a girl, without working like a dog
By Charles Anders
Humorous and practical advice for crossdressers and transsexuals alike. Charles Anders explores the world of girls and offers step-by-step guides to everything from skin care (start at the Body Shop), to high heels (why not?) and tips on how to deal with the world of sex and dating. Our favourite chapter: Self-actualization in 3 Easy Steps. Also contains unparalleled resource guide listing support groups throughout the U.S. and Canada. This item is currently out of stock | Learn more about The Lazy Crossdresser.

| $19.50

Transgender History
 Transgender History
Written in an informative yet extremely readable format, Transgender History traces back the ups and downs of trans rights and movements over the last half century. Discusses underground scenes, political changes, stand-out figures, health care battles, acceptance in different communities, and much more. A great intro to trans studies for anyone! | Learn more about Transgender History.

| $19.95

Buck Off
contains BDSM 		Buck Off DVD
All-out sex, all over the house is what's in store for Buck Angel and his gaggle of guys in Buck Off. Starting off reasonably tame and then evolving into harder sex with scenes that feature power play, boot worship, extreme piercings (how does a 00 Prince Albert sound?!), clamps, bondage... everyone's having a great time! | Learn more about Buck Off DVD.

| $35.00

Buckback Mountain
staff pick no anal sex 		Buckback Mountain DVD
A cowboy love story comes true in Buck Angel's Buckback Mountain. This epic, high budget film reveals the tender, sensous relationship that Buck begins with his summertime work partner in the picturesque desert. A little different than other Buck movies, this softer and less explicit plot-based film does not contain any anal sex. | Learn more about Buckback Mountain DVD.

| $35.00

Cubbyholes
group sex 		Cubbyholes DVD
We love getting new indie trans porn in to share with our customers! Cubbyholes takes place entirely in a bathhouse and stars super hot, super diverse FTMs, transmen & bio guys having fun with one another. Besides the hot sex, the dialogue and interaction between the actors makes this film a keeper. Includes a booklet on safer sex. | Learn more about Cubbyholes DVD.

| $40.00

Doing It Ourselves
 Doing It Ourselves DVD
Finally, super hot, independent, sex positive porn by trans women and their partners of all sorts of genders. Doing It Ourselves is a much needed and much anticipated new film that we're super excited about - groundbreaking, sexy and fun. 4 sex scenes, including a bonus disc featuring tons of interviews with the cast talking about their personal lives, why they wanted to be part of the project, and how they feel about porn and feminist porn in general. | Learn more about Doing It Ourselves DVD.

| $35.00

Even More Bang For Your Buck 2
contains BDSM 		Even More Bang For Your Buck 2 DVD
Buck Angel is back with his newest release! Watch Buck bang a construction worker; get out a couple big dildos with Fallen, a super-sexy trans boy; and gets a little rough with an English skinhead dude that shares his hairstyle (or lack thereof). Well shot and really hot, Buck loves what he does and can't go wrong! | Learn more about Even More Bang For Your Buck 2 DVD.

| $35.00

Full Load
group sex contains BDSM 		Full Load DVD
A great addition to the growing number of independent queer/trans titles available these days. Full Load keeps the plot to a minimum, but features a variety of scenes connected by running themes of domination and submission, loads of super-cute tranny boys, sexy pierced girls, and dirty talk that permeates the whole film. | Learn more about Full Load DVD. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $65.00

Speakeasy
no anal sex 		Speakeasy DVD
Speakeasy might just be the hottest porn that's going right now. Breathtakingly gorgeous actors and ridiculously hot sex, the atmosphere of a 1940's bar and costumes just enhance the whole movie. Featuring rope bondage suspension, lots of female ejaculation, and a barroom brawl. All female and trans cast--look out for newcomer Billy Castro. | Learn more about Speakeasy DVD.

| $35.00

Trans Entities
contains BDSM 		Trans Entities DVD
Real Life couple (that you might have noticed appearing in Search For the Wild Kingdom) Papi Coxx and Wil Thrustwell star in Trans Entities, a docu-porn that reveals what they make of their gender identities, how the two fell in love and just what's up with their sex life. Including lots of role play and hard sex and kink, and with a special scene that includes their lover, and the ups and downs of having a polyamourous relationship. All sex scenes were left up to them to control, making each dripping with raw sexual energy and excitement that really translates to the viewer. Featuring a diverse cast. | Learn more about Trans Entities DVD.

| $29.00

Ultimate Fucking Club
no anal sex 		Ultimate Fucking Club DVD
Buck Angel bestows upon us his Ultimate Fucking Club, in which Buck has interview a buch of dudes and picked the cream of the crop to perform with him on video. Not as rough as some of his other movies - just right to the point, all-out hot sex. Lots of oral sex, outdoor scenes, and another heavily tattooed hottie shaving Buck's head before getting it on. | Learn more about Ultimate Fucking Club DVD.

| $35.00

V for Vagina
 On Sale Item V for Vagina DVD
Buck Angel is back, and this time, it's all girls he's after! Featuring a diverse cast, most of them decked out heavily in tattoos and piercings, Buck shows these babes how much a man he is. Everyone is getting exactly what they want and enjoying every second! Lots of strap on toys, and even an intense sex machine round out this funky, sexy, dirty flick. | Learn more about V for Vagina DVD.

| $19.00 , Reduced from $35.00

Wild Search
 Wild Search DVD
Well worth the wait, Shine Loise Houston (of Superfreak and Crash Pad fame) is back with her newest edition to top-of-the-line indie lesbian flicks. Absolutely hilarious storyline with hot sex and amazing actors (some of whom are trans), you can't go wrong with Wild Search. Definitely deserves all of the praise that it has garnered. The only thing that we would like to change about it: the fact that it's not long enough! Formerly titled In Search of the Wild Kingdom. | Learn more about Wild Search DVD.

| $35.00

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