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binders, breast forms, packers, and gaffs

We're committed to supporting our customers throughout their sexual, gender, and orientation journeys, so if there's something you're looking for that might help you embody who you are, let us know!  We carry a good selection of packers, breast forms, chest binders, and gaffs, but we can always do better. Send us your suggestions and special orders!

Do you have a used but wearable binder you don't need anymore? Send it to us! We'll recycle it and give you a $10 gift certificate you can spend on anything at Come As You Are online or in-store. Get more info about our Binder Bucks Recycling Program.

Aslan Packing Strap
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Aslan Packing Strap
You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap was originally designed to be used with Vixen's Mr Right, but works great with Pack-Man and the Ultimate packers too! Three sizes available: Small 30"- 34", Medium 34"- 38" and Large 38"- 42"

Learn more about Aslan Packing Strap.

$20.00

Breast Form Double Sided Tape
Breast Form Double Sided Tape
This tape is a simple way to attach silicone breast forms to the body. These will adhere the more you press the form to the chest, and are heat sensitive - the bond will strengthen as the tape warms to body temperature. Comes with 18 pieces of tape.

Learn more about Breast Form Double Sided Tape.

$10.00

Classic Gaff
Classic Gaff
Finding clothing that is sexy and supportive is no easy task. Doubly so when we're talking lingerie. This thong-style gaff has been made out of lycra with a wider front to provide extra coverage and support for all those looking to tuck- whether you identify as a MTF / trans woman / genderqueer / drag queen or panty aficionado, we've got just the panty for you!

Sizing:
Small: 28-30"
Medium: 32-34"
Large: 36-38"
XL: 38-42"

Learn more about Classic Gaff.

$28.00

Cyber Guy 1
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Cyber Guy 1
Softer and more plush than the Guy 1 or the Jelly Guy 1, this Guy is perfect for packing (with a harness) and playing! This classic dildo is one of our favourite harness-compatible toys. With a playful, but realistic design, our Guys are sure to please! (5" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about Cyber Guy 1.

$24.00

Happy Valley Pack-Man
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Happy Valley Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. (3" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Happy Valley Pack-Man.

$58.00

Mr Fenis
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Mr Fenis
A reliable STP is hard to find. We have tested countless products that have left our STP scientists covered in pee, unimpressed with the material, or frustrated with having to wear a harness all day. While this STP is not harness compatible, it is a silicone, semi-realistic product that is hollow. As such, it has generous space for collecting urine, and a wide urethral opening. And, it's Canadian! For all you FTM / trans / genderqueer folks (or campers looking to avoid the deep-crouch-fears) looking for a stand to pee, we've got you covered! (8" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Mr Fenis.

$25.00

New York Toy Collective Archer
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new sex toy New York Toy Collective Archer
New York Toy Collective has already won our hearts with their Shilo and Mason pack and play silicone dildos. Not to mention The Love Bump, the ultimate sex toy wingman. But, apparently this gender queer and trans man / FTM - friendly business was just getting started, since we now have two realistic packers, Archer and Pierre, as well! Archer is a circumcised toy, with beautiful and detailed texturing. New York Toy Collective provides many different tones to choose from, and amazing quality toys- these packers are destined to fill many people's pants like no packer has before! (4 1/4" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Archer.

$55.00

New York Toy Collective Mason
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New York Toy Collective Mason
From the New York based team that brought you the famed Shilo and Love Bump we now have Mason to lead the way! Featuring dual density silicone, this pack and play dildo has answered your cries for 'more' with extra inches from the Shilo. With 4 different colours to choose from, enjoy this bendable toy that can be packed up and then played out! (7 1/2" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Mason.

$165.00

New York Toy Collective Pierre
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new sex toy New York Toy Collective Pierre
New York Toy Collective has already won our hearts with their Shilo and Mason pack and play silicone dildos. Not to mention Love Bump, the ultimate sex toy wingman. But, apparently this genderqueer and trans man / FTM - friendly business was just getting started, since we now have two realistic packers, Archer and Pierre, as well! Pierre is the first widely available and affordable uncircumcised packer that we're aware of. With beautiful and detailed texturing, and many different tones to choose from, these packers are destined to fill many people's pants like no packer has before! (4 1/2" x 1 1/2")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Pierre.

$55.00

New York Toy Collective Shilo
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New York Toy Collective Shilo
As a worker-owned co-operative ourselves, we tend to swoon whenever we encounter another collective doing good work in the sex toy world - and in the case of the New York Toy Collective's Shilo, we double swooned! Shilo isn't just another strap-on harness compatible silicone toy, it is the easily the best pack-and-play dildo we've ever experienced. Shilo is soft enough to pack comfortably in your pants, but has a bendable core so you can be fully erect at a moment's notice. With the best selection of shades and colours we've ever seen, Shilo is a truly unique packer from a truly unique collective. Take a look at the New York Toy Collective Mason

(4 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about New York Toy Collective Shilo.

$150.00

SpareParts Pete Commando
SpareParts Pete Commando
For the times when you wish you could just go commando, but still need somewhere to put your packer, SpareParts' Pete Commando Harness is sure to do the trick! With an elastic loop on the inside of the packer pouch to keep everything securely in-place, this harness lets you keep everything front-and-center or allows you to lean a little to the left or right (especially with the larger packers). Comfortable, durable and machine washable!

Learn more about SpareParts Pete Commando.

$30.00

Transform Supersoft Classic Breast Forms
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We've struggled with choosing a breast form for our shop for a long time. We've decided on the Transform Classic SuperSoft breast form. Available in vanilla and chocolate, these asymmetrical soft forms are designed to provide a realistic contoured line along the chest and underarm, leaving no empty space. Made with a sensually silky silicone, and finished with a textured nipple, these forms are more cost accessible than most others, while not sacrificing quality! MTF / trans* women, drag queens, cross dressers, genderqueers, and everyone else: check these out, and if they aren't what you're looking for, let us know- we can work with you to hopefully find what you are looking for! Currently, we only sell these breast forms in pairs, but if you need a single, please let us know.

Learn more about Transform Supersoft Classic Breast Forms.

$150.00

Ultimate Packer Large
Ultimate Packer Large
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (6 " x 1 3/8")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Large.

$20.00

Ultimate Packer Medium
Ultimate Packer Medium
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (4 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Medium.

$19.00

Ultimate Packer Small
Ultimate Packer Small
Want to sport a bulge? This cyberskin toy is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Not firm enough for penetration. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy". (3 1/2" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Ultimate Packer Small.

$18.00

Underworks Extreme Tank - Black
Underworks Extreme Tank - Black
The Extreme Tank binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over a binding layer that runs to the middle of the ribcage. However, since the binding action is localized exclusively to the chest, those with larger chests and/or those who are planning on putting in a hard day's work may find that the binding may not always stay put and provide full coverage. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Extreme Tank - Black.

$42.00

Underworks Extreme Tank - White
Underworks Extreme Tank - White
The Extreme Tank binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over a binding layer that runs to the middle of the ribcage. However, since the binding action is localized exclusively to the chest, those with larger chests and/or those who are planning on putting in a hard day's work may find that the binding may not always stay put and provide full coverage. Great for FTMs, transmen, cosplayers, and everyone!Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Learn more about Underworks Extreme Tank - White.

XXXL - $35.00
XS - $42.00
Small - $42.00
Medium - $42.00
Large - $42.00
XL - $42.00
XXL - $42.00

Underworks Swim Top Binder
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Underworks Swim Top Binder
Not only does Underworks make binders for FTM, trans, and genderqueer folks, looking to change the line of their chests, but they also make binding swimwear, which, after many requests, we've decided to pick up for beach season! This swim top is sleeveless, all black, and has a zipper running up the front of it. You don't have to try and pull it on and off while soaked. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Swim Top Binder.

$90.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
Underworks Tri-top Binder Black
This binder is a great option for folks looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest coverage, while leaving the wearer free to move around. Some folks will take the bottom of the binder and roll it up a bit and let their belly rock out, to even better compromise between having a flat chest and comfortable body. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder Black.

$38.00

Underworks Tri-top Binder White
Underworks Tri-top Binder White
This binder is a great option for folks looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest coverage, while leaving the wearer free to move around. Some folks will take the bottom of the binder and roll it up a bit and let their belly rock out, to even better compromise between having a flat chest and comfortable body. Great for FTMs, transmen, cosplayers, and everyone! Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Tri-top Binder White.

$38.00

Underworks Ultimate Binder Black
Underworks Ultimate Binder Black
Of the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not only does it bind the chest, but the belly and hips too. Folks love it for straightening all kinds of lines, however, it is also the most constrictive. Additionally, it is also the binder most likely to ride up the torso. Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Ultimate Binder Black.

$40.00

Underworks Ultimate Binder White
Underworks Ultimate Binder White
Of the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not only does it bind the chest, but the belly and hips too. Folks love it for straightening all kinds of lines, however, it is also the most constrictive. Additionally, it is also the binder most likely to ride up the torso.

For help with sizing, please view our Get more info on binder sizing and more!

Tags: FTM binder, chest binder, compression vest, cosplay, genderplay, transmen

Learn more about Underworks Ultimate Binder White.

$40.00

Vixen Mister Right
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Vixen Mister Right
Made of incredibly pliable silicone, this packer is sure to pass the "squeeze test" everytime! For anyone sensitive or allergic to Cyberskin, Monsieur Parfait (a.k.a. Mr. Right) is the perfect pack and play choice! Non-porous & hypoallergenic. (4 1/4" x 1 1/4")

Learn more about Vixen Mister Right.

$60.00

Vibratex Bend N Blush
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Vibratex Bend N Blush
Bend it whichever way you wish! The Bend N’ Blush contains a metal core which holds its shape. Great for achieving different angles while it packs away nicely for a night on the town. Finally a packer and dildo all in one! (6 1/4" x 1 3/4") This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Vibratex Bend N Blush.

$56.00

Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing
Assume Nothing features a collection of photographs with folks who challenge the gender-binary from across the globe. Pushing far beyond the known identities of the western queer world, these lovely folks described their identites, experiences and transgressions from their various and multifacited positions.

Learn more about Assume Nothing.

$35.95

Boy in the Middle
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Boy in the Middle
By Patrick Califia
Literary genius Patrick Califia has done it again! Boy in the Middle is fearless erotica unlike any other. His characters are seedy, sleazy back alley dykes, hardcore sadists, FTM tops, and many other worthy individuals. Califia’s prose is not for everyone, and this book is certainly not for the faint of heart, but for those of us who love heart pounding, hardcore SM and raunchy role-play, these eleven stories are like hitting the fictional jackpot! 268 pp.

Learn more about Boy in the Middle.

$19.50

From the Inside Out
From the Inside Out
Radical Gender Transformation, FTM and Beyond
Edited by Morty Diamond
A fascinating and diverse collection of essays (many written from the first-person) describing the lived experiences of those challenging notions of male-ness. From genderqueers, to tranny bois and trans men, these collections strive to complicate notions of sex, gender and male-ness while offering an array of different experiences doing so. 168pp.

Learn more about From the Inside Out.

$18.00

Nobody Passes
Nobody Passes
Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity
By Matthew Bernstein Sycamore
A set of cleverly written and thoughtful essays that attempt to tackle the concept of “passing”. Rather, the stories of those living outside and challenging the dichotomy of gender. A must read, for those of us who identify as genderqueer and an important read for those just starting to think about radicalized notions of gender. 353pp.

Learn more about Nobody Passes.

$20.50

Transgender History
Transgender History
Written in an informative yet extremely readable format, Transgender History traces back the ups and downs of trans rights and movements over the last half century. Discusses underground scenes, political changes, stand-out figures, health care battles, acceptance in different communities, and much more. A great intro to trans studies for anyone!

Learn more about Transgender History.

$19.95

Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly
Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly
The Party Issue
When we heard the there was going to be a new zine created for, and made by, FTM trans guys, it caught our attention to say the least. When we finally had a chance to take a look at it, we were absolutely thrilled with the results. Original Plumbing features hot, full-colour photos of diverse models, witty, humourous and interesting interviews, and much more. This zine is flying off our shelves, and for very good reason. Published quarterly. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Original Plumbing Trans Male Quarterly.

$12.00

Billy Castro Does the Mission
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Billy Castro Does the Mission DVD
Man-about-town Billy Castro finally stars in his own feature by one of indie porn’s true directorial stars, Courtney Trouble. With little plot to get your head around, Billy Castro Does the Mission follows Billy as he cruises the city for sex. Finding himself in the gym, hot tub, U-Haul, and hardwood floor with a variety of very steamy women, Billy has lots of well-shot, explicit sex, and almost every scene features someone squirting!

Learn more about Billy Castro Does the Mission DVD.

$15.00

Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters
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Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters DVD
Naughty Squirters is Billy Castro's directorial debut, and viewers can definitely tell he's in control of all the action! Follow Billy as he shares horny stories with his friend while they cruise for hot femmes in their van. Picking up a stranded cutie in the middle of nowhere starts a chain reaction of hot encounters for Billy - the romp they share back at his apartment (full of spanking, squirting and intense blowjobs) impresses this femme so much that she just has to recommend him to all her friends! Simple bedroom settings set the perfect backdrop for the concentrated intensity of each scene - breath play, slapping, lots of female ejaculation and enthusiastic deep-throating really pack the four main scenes with lots of drama.

Learn more about Billy Castro's Naughty Squirters DVD.

$15.00

Buck Off
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All-out sex, all over the house is what's in store for Buck Angel and his gaggle of guys in Buck Off. Starting off reasonably tame and then evolving into harder sex with scenes that feature power play, boot worship, extreme piercings (how does a 00 Prince Albert sound?!), clamps, bondage... everyone's having a great time!

Learn more about Buck Off DVD.

$10.00 , Regular price $35.00

Buckback Mountain
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A cowboy love story comes true in Buck Angel's Buckback Mountain. This epic, high budget film reveals the tender, sensous relationship that Buck begins with his summertime work partner in the picturesque desert. A little different than other Buck movies, this softer and less explicit plot-based film does not contain any anal sex.

Learn more about Buckback Mountain DVD.

$10.00 , Regular price $35.00

Speakeasy
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Speakeasy might just be the hottest porn that's going right now. Breathtakingly gorgeous actors and ridiculously hot sex, the atmosphere of a 1940's bar and costumes just enhance the whole movie. Featuring rope bondage suspension, lots of female ejaculation, and a barroom brawl. All female and trans cast--look out for newcomer Billy Castro.

Learn more about Speakeasy DVD.

$10.00 , Regular price $20.00

Ultimate Fucking Club
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Ultimate Fucking Club DVD
Buck Angel bestows upon us his Ultimate Fucking Club, in which Buck has interview a buch of dudes and picked the cream of the crop to perform with him on video. Not as rough as some of his other movies - just right to the point, all-out hot sex. Lots of oral sex, outdoor scenes, and another heavily tattooed hottie shaving Buck's head before getting it on.

Learn more about Ultimate Fucking Club DVD.

$12.00

V for Vagina
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Buck Angel is back, and this time, it's all girls he's after! Featuring a diverse cast, most of them decked out heavily in tattoos and piercings, Buck shows these babes how much a man he is. Everyone is getting exactly what they want and enjoying every second! Lots of strap on toys, and even an intense sex machine round out this funky, sexy, dirty flick.

Learn more about V for Vagina DVD.

$10.00 , Regular price $35.00

Wild Search
Wild Search DVD
Well worth the wait, Shine Loise Houston (of Superfreak and Crash Pad fame) is back with her newest edition to top-of-the-line indie lesbian flicks. Absolutely hilarious storyline with hot sex and amazing actors (some of whom are trans), you can't go wrong with Wild Search. Definitely deserves all of the praise that it has garnered. The only thing that we would like to change about it: the fact that it's not long enough! Formerly titled In Search of the Wild Kingdom.

Learn more about Wild Search DVD.

$35.00

Doing It Ourselves
Doing It Ourselves DVD
Finally, super hot, independent, sex positive porn by trans women and their partners of all sorts of genders. Doing It Ourselves is a much needed and much anticipated new film that we're super excited about - groundbreaking, sexy and fun. 4 sex scenes, including a bonus disc featuring tons of interviews with the cast talking about their personal lives, why they wanted to be part of the project, and how they feel about porn and feminist porn in general. This item is currently out of stock

Learn more about Doing It Ourselves DVD.

$25.00

 

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