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The G-Spot and Ejaculation

Some women report that stimulation of the g spot leads to the release of fluids during sex and orgasm. For a number of these women there is a lot of liquid released during sex which, until the gradual acceptance of ejaculation began, was thought to be urine and due to incontinence. There is now research that indicates this is not urine, and in fact the chemical content is similar to ejaculate (without the sperm). It is usually clear and has no scent. The prevailing belief is that the fluid is released from glands and ducts surrounding the urethra.

The ability to ejaculate can be learned by women. In our experience talking with thousands of women over the years it seems that some learn it more easily than others, and some women ejaculate significantly more than others.

What's important for us is that women don't need to feel ashamed or embarrassed about what is part of a healthy sexual response. We don't believe that every woman needs to learn to express fluid when she comes (and for that matter we don't think it's particularly important for men to do this either, unless someone wants to get pregnant).

If you're interested in learning how to ejaculate we have books, videos, and a regular workshop on the topic. The following steps are from the film Nice Girls Don't Do It by K. Daymond and featuring Shannon Bell who also appears in How to Ejaculate)

If you can't reach or using your fingers isn't going to work, you can also use a sex toy. Some toys are designed with a curve to make them easier to stimulate the g spot.

  1. Put 1 - 2 fingers in your vagina and find the urethral sponge. It is on the upper wall, about half a finger length in
  2. Rub this area, press hard and notice the feeling of having to pee - you are likely close to ejaculating. Place your middle finger lightly below the external part of your urethra and rub as you would masturbate your clitoris
  3. With your other hand, press down from the outside. Push out as you would when you pee.

 

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