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Sex tips, techniques, how tos written for relationships of all kinds.

Consensuality
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There are infinite possibilities in human relationships, but the fairytale ideal of companionship does not exist for most people. In Consensuality, Helen Wildfell and her co-adventurers detail the process for creating or finding a healthy, successful relationship as well as common considerations, li ... (read more)

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$13.00 CAD

Sex From Scratch
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Modern life calls for modern relationship advice. Sex From Scratch is a love and dating guidebook that gleans real-life knowledge from people in a variety of nontraditional relationships. Instead of telling people how to snag a man, seduce a woman, or find “true love,” the book sums up what dozens o ... (read more)

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$19.50 CAD

Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
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Aspergers Syndrome and Sexuality
From Adolescence through Adulthood
This book has been designed primarily as a resource for folks who work with people with AS. Which is a shame- a book designed explicitly for folks who identify as having AS would be such a gem! Regardless, whether you are an educator, lover, or someone wh ... (read more)

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$31.95 CAD

Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
Couples Of Mixed HIV Status
Couples of Mixed HIV Status delves into the emotional challenges of living in a mixed HIV status relationship. Included in the book are tons of first-hand accounts, advice, interviews with therapists, and is throughly illustrated with tables. Topics include family planning, disclosure, uncertainty, ... (read more)

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$52.00 CAD

How to Break Up with Anyone
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How to Break Up with Anyone
Not all relationships are made to last forever. Sometimes what starts as a beautiful friendship or productive partnership turns toxic, or one-sided, or unhealthy – and the best solution for both parties is to end it. In How to Break Up With Anyone, relationship expert Jamye Waxman has written a much ... (read more)

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$21.95 CAD

Jealousy Workbook
Jealousy Workbook
Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships
Phew, this workbook blew our collective socks off! The Jealousy Workbook is filled with important questions, exercises, and observations, with support and guidance woven throughout to promote tangible and careful exploration of jealous ... (read more)

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$28.93 CAD

Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Truly an indespensible tool for those who have found the love of their lives in another country, city, or continent, the Long Distance Relationship Survivial Guide is packed full of hints and tips, true stories (both happy and sad), and best of all, "conversation starters" throughout the book that ... (read more)

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$15.50 CAD

Love in Abundance
Love in Abundance
A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships
This is a superb relationship book for anyone, written by a counselor with over 20 years experience counseling folks in polyamorous relationships and 40 years as a polyamorist herself. Labriola's advice is practical, realistic and clearly based on ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

Luxurious Loving
Luxurious Loving
Luxurious Loving is a gorgeously photographed and well-written book that teaches us how to transform raunch into sensual awakening. The approach is inspired by Tantra, yet geared towards all who want to enrich or discover their connection to one another. Chapter titles include imagine, sniff, gaze, ... (read more)

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$25.95 CAD

More Than Two
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More Than Two
This is easily the most thorough and enjoyable guide to modern polyamory and non-monogamy that we've ever had the good fortune to read. Drawing from mainstream and poly-specific sources - and the authors' personal experiences - the authors effectively dispel some of the most common misconceptions a ... (read more)

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$34.00 CAD

Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Multi-Orgasmic Couple
By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams,Rachel Carlton Abrams
Find a few moments (OK - more than a few moments) and get ready for some creative, exploratory coupling. From the authors of the ever-popular book The Multi-Orgasmic Man comes The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. This book give insight int ... (read more)

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$21.00 CAD

New Love and Sex Over 60
New Love and Sex Over 60
A jam-packed guide book full of advice for those of us in our elder years looking for information on sexual health and sexuality. Written for those of all orientations, this is a how-to book that has long been needed. 2002. 352 pp.

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$19.00 CAD

Opening Up
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Opening Up
A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
This is a book of amazingly diverse personal stories of people from a wide range of sexual orientations, lifestyles, and styles of open relationships. Readers will find that its primary message is that there is no one "right" way to hav ... (read more)

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$24.50 CAD

Redefining our Relationships
Redefining our Relationships
By Wendy-O-Matik
An essential guide to the politics behind sharing loving and sexual relationships with multiple partners, Redefining Our Relationships offers mature and thought provoking look at creating and keeping responsible open relationships. This book is not just a how-to guide, but a pr ... (read more)

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$16.99 CAD

Science of Trust
Science of Trust
For the past thirty-five years, John Gottman’s research has been focused on measuring interactive processes in couples and predicting the long-term success or failure of relationships. In this newest hardcover release, he presents a new approach to understanding and changing couples: a fundamental s ... (read more)

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$46.00 CAD

Sex Bible for People Over 50
Sex Bible for People Over 50
Author Dr. Laurie Betito gives readers techniques for reconnecting with their partners, bringing experimentation in long-term sexual relationships, and tips on how to handle sex and dating post-50. The Sex Bible For People Over 50 addresses common physical and sexual considerations that 50+ couples ... (read more)

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$21.99 CAD

Sex Is Fun
Sex Is Fun
From the popular blog of the same name, Sex is Fun is a hip new take on the traditional sex manual. Fully illustrated throughout in a graphic-novel style, this is a great book that explores everything from personal hygiene to positions, body image to bdsm. The end of each chapeter features and inter ... (read more)

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$25.00 CAD

The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it to a partner as a hint, or read it ... (read more)

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$19.50 CAD

Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50
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Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50
In this definitive guide to great senior sex, Joan Price will help you deepen your pleasure for a lifetime. The myth that aging bodies have an expiration date when it comes to sex is just plain wrong. Sex may change with the challenges of aging, but for every problem, there is a solution. The Ultima ... (read more)

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$30.95 CAD

When Someone You Love Is Kinky
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When Someone You Love Is Kinky
by Dossie Easton,Catherine A. Liszt
When Someone You Love is Kinky is everything you needed to tell the people in your family but were short of words. Written by the authors of the Ethical Slut and the Bottoming Book (Easton and Liszt). A great guide to honesty and communication for all of us, an ... (read more)

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$16.50 CAD

When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
When Your Sex Drives Don't Match
Discover Your Libido Types to Create a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life
What is it about sex that makes some relationships so hard? According to sex therapist Dr. Sandra Pertot, the dificulty takes place when mismatched libido types interact with eachother. What are the different libido types you a ... (read more)

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$19.00 CAD

Wired For Love
Wired For Love
"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to sec ... (read more)

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$22.95 CAD

Love's Refraction
Love's Refraction
Popular wisdom might suggest that jealousy is an inevitable outcome of non-monogamous relationships. In Love’s Refraction, Jillian Deri explores the distinctive question of how and why polyamorists – people who practice consensual non-monogamy – manage jealousy. Her focus is on the polyamorist conce ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$21.95 CAD

Never Have the Same Sex Twice
Never Have the Same Sex Twice
One of our favourite writers of erotica, Alison Tyler, has put together a book of no-fail tips for those in monogomous partnerships to keep things fresh and flirty. After getting a tip years ago from lover, "Never Have the Same Sex Twice", Tyler gives us a collection of ideas written in her fun, dow ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$21.50 CAD

The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
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The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
By Violet Blue
The author of “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” and “The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio”, among others, has brought us playful and creative way to spice up our sex lives. Whether living single or enjoying coupledom, find out how to make your hottest fantasies come to life. Learn how ... (read more) This item is currently out of stock

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$20.95 CAD

 

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