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Learn About Anal Toys

What is an Anal Toy? An anal toy is a sex toy that has been designed with anal exploration, pleasure, and safety in mind. Anal toys offer a wide range of sensations and possibilities for exploring anal play by yourself or with a partner. There are four main kinds of anal toys: anal beads, anal dildos, butt plugs, and prostate massagers. Regardless of which you choose, all anal toys should have the same key design features in order to make them as safe and pleasurable as possible to use: They should be smooth, without sharp edges or seams. They should...

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Learn About BDSM and Powerplay

Like so many aspects of sexuality, powerplay and BDSM (Bondage/ Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/ Masochism) are often misunderstood. One of the things that we love about powerplay at Come As You Are is that it embodies one of our core values: Sex the Way You Want It! In a society where much of the mainstream messaging around sexuality encourages people to achieve an imagined and arbitrary normative sex life, BDSM requires people know and communicate what they want openly and honestly. So what is it really? BDSM can be any number of things, from playing with rope bondage, restraints, and nipple...

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Learn About Condoms

When used properly, condoms can provide a highly effective way to protect yourself and your partner(s) from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and prevent pregnancy. Condoms are for single use only and you must use a new condom for each sexual act involving penetration. In addition to being an important part of practicing safer sex, condoms are a great way to help prolong the life of your sex toys - and they make cleanup a breeze! How to Choose Choosing the best condom for you usually involves some trial and error. While most of our condoms are sold in boxes of...

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Learn About Dilators and Dilator Exercises

Our silicone dilators are a series of high quality silicone exercisers designed specifically to aid people experiencing vaginal pain, and for post-surgery therapy. Together with a local gynecologist and an independent Canadian silicone manufacturer, we created these dilators made from high-grade, hypoallergenic silicone because the only other dilators available were made of hard or abrasive materials. If you or someone you know is suffering from vaginal pain, these dilation exercises may be useful to you. These exercises should be done in consultation with your health care provider. What are dilation exercises? Dilation exercise is the insertion of dilators of progressively...

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Learn About Erections & Erectile Dysfunction

Changing Erections Erectile dysfunction (also known as 'ED') is a clinical term usually defined as the inability to develop and maintain an erection for satisfactory sexual activity. We don't tend to think the idea of "normal" is helpful to experiencing sexual pleasure, and we know that even clinicians don't agree on how often or for how long you might have difficulties with erections before you would be diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. Here's what we know: everyone who gets erections will experience changes over time with how the erections might feel. They could get harder or softer, they may happen when...

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Learn About Kegel Exercises

We see Kegel or Pelvic Floor Muscle (PFM) exercises as just one of the many ways you can enhance your sexual health and pleasure on your own terms! While Kegel exercises are often seen as a way to ‘tighten’ (often for the pleasure of one’s partner), doing Kegel exercises regularly has been shown to increase orgasmic responsiveness, prevent incontinence, assist in recovery from childbirth ­and even encourage prostate health. Heck, any one of those benefits should be motivation enough for any of us - regardless of sexuality, gender, and orientation - to go do our darn Kegels! What Are Pelvic Floor...

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Learn About Pumping

We work hard to have many different types of sex toys that produce many types of sensation. While pumps may seem like less common sex toys than, say, butt plugs, bottles of lube (yes, lube is a sex toy!) or vibrators, pumps are no less valuable (or awesome) at providing a variety of wonderful and much appreciated sensations for people. What Is A Pump? A pump ­ in combination with a cylinder or cup ­ is used to create a vacuum on the body to pull blood to the surface of the skin. When used in an area of the...

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Learn About Rings

What is a Ring? Rings (also known as penis rings and cock rings) are worn either at the base of the shaft or behind the scrotum. They function by restricting the flow of blood out from the genitals, and for many folks they result in firmer and longer lasting erections. They also have the
effect of creating a feeling of pressure that some people find very
pleasurable - while some folks find to be too intense. Most cock rings are made of rubber and leather and are worn at the base of the penis and behind the scrotum. Rings are often used...

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Learn About Safer Sex with Sex Toys

How To Have Safer Sex With Sex Toys Practicing safer sex with sex toys used to mean using lots of condoms and cleaning with bleach. These days, sex toys are being made with materials that are safer and easier to clean. Since many so-called "sex toy cleaners" contain harsh and abrasive chemnicals, we generally caution our customers not to use anything harsher than the soap they use on their skin to clean the sex toys they can't boil. So, save your bleach for cleaning the bathroom, and learn how to have safer sex with your sex toys. Safer Sex With...

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Learn About Sex and Allergies

People who live with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity ("MCS") and reduced immune systems usually know just how to shop and take care of their needs. The most important consideration is finding what is really in the products they are using. Be very careful with store claims about products being "all natural" or "100% silicone" and other claims. Often manufacturers provide misleading information, store people sometimes offer inaccurate information about products out of their own ignorance (or a desire to sell you something more expensive). Unfortunately when it comes to rubber and elastomer sex toys, in almost all cases we don't know...

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