About Our Co-op!
Welcome to Come As You Are Co-operative! We are the world's only worker-owned co-operative sex shop, and we have a fundamentally anti-capitalist and feminist approach to sexual pleasure, health, and education. As a co-op, we don't profit from your pleasure and we only stock products that we truly love and believe in. We offer a hassle-free, in-house warranty on every item we stock and our shipping and billing is extraordinarily discreet. We've been voted "best sex shop" in Toronto since 1997. Want to learn more? Read more about us, check out our core values, or read our reviews and testimonials! Have questions or need advice? We're always happy to help, so get in touch!
New Stuff We Adore
You’ll want to do a lot more than admire this floral vibe! With its delicate curves and comfortably flexible tip, the Fun Factory Cayona is an excellent option for people who want to experience both external vibration and internal g-spot-friendly sensation, thanks to... Read more
Fertility-friendly (or sperm-friendly) lubricants are an incredible breakthrough for folks looking to keep using lube while trying to conceive. Back when we opened in 1997, the only lubricant we could offer to people wanting to ensure their lubricant wasn't interfering... Read more
Tenga has taken its unique Flip Series (which we've long been fans of!) to new heights of possibility with this rechargeable vibrating masturbation sleeve. This toy offers a great deal of sensation, between the textured elastomer sleeve, and, the two... Read more
Forced orgasm play fans are in for a new treat with this comfortable leather harness designed to hold a Magic Wand Original / Magic Wand Rechargeable (or similar wand massager) securely in direct contact with the genital or anal area. The harness... Read more
While we largely reject the overbearing rhetoric of 'fitness' that has invaded every corner of our lives, we don't reject this cute lil' set of kegel balls! So, take the name with a grain of salt: 'fitness' is not an... Read more
Reviews & Testimonials
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New Books & Hot Reads
From the author: "I originally wrote this book for people who wanted to have better sex. But then it started winning awards and being used in college sex-ed courses. So I tried to make the book all things to all... Read more
A Guide to Nonmonogamy for Men Into Women
Good news, my guy! Alternatives to the strict limitations of monogamy await. By understanding and practicing polyamory, you can be empowered to live the limit of your romantic appetites and build networks... Read more
Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships
Even in progressive families and communities, people who practice nonmonogamy are susceptible to misinformation and accusations of moral and emotional failings. Facing this requires its own coming out and education process. In this guide,... Read more
The Sexy Secrets of Taoist Teachers
This book helps to strengthen bonds of affection and to discover the secrets of the sexual massage of the ancient Chinese Taoists. You will discover and better get to know the erotic places on... Read more
The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond.
Some of us have had a moment in the middle of fun and sexual exploration that lead to connecting with the divine or having an epiphany about life that was far from expected.... Read more
The Tantric Touch of Love.
With more than one hundred erotic drawings and a full-color insert, Erotic Massage provides easy-to-learn strokes and methods that allow you and your partner to bring together the sensual, the erotic, and the intimate.
The detailed illustrations and... Read more
Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers.
Learn how to give your lover a sensual, euphoric--and slightly kinky--massage that will open the door to new realms of pleasure, intimacy and connection for you both. Whether you're looking to learn simple things... Read more
Iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity.
An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely... Read more
Head to Toe Techniques to Arouse and Gratify Your Partner.
This comprehensive manual is an invitation to discover the secrets of erotic massage for couples.
Erotic Massage for Couples teaches you, step-by-step—with the help of one hundred color photos—how to unleash your... Read more