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Sex Information

Learn About Anal Toys

What is an Anal Toy? An anal toy is a sex toy that has been designed with anal exploration, pleasure, and safety in mind. Anal toys offer a wide range of sensations and possibilities for exploring anal play by yourself or with a partner. There are four main kinds of anal toys: anal beads, anal dildos, butt plugs, and prostate massagers. Regardless of which you choose, all anal toys should have the same key design features in order to make them as safe and pleasurable as possible to use: They should be smooth, without sharp edges or seams. They should...

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Learn About BDSM and Powerplay

Like so many aspects of sexuality, powerplay and BDSM (Bondage/ Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/ Masochism) are often misunderstood. One of the things that we love about powerplay at Come As You Are is that it embodies one of our core values: Sex the Way You Want It! In a society where much of the mainstream messaging around sexuality encourages people to achieve an imagined and arbitrary normative sex life, BDSM requires people know and communicate what they want openly and honestly. So what is it really? BDSM can be any number of things, from playing with rope bondage, restraints, and nipple...

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Learn About Condoms

When used properly, condoms can provide a highly effective way to protect yourself and your partner(s) from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and prevent pregnancy. Condoms are for single use only and you must use a new condom for each sexual act involving penetration. In addition to being an important part of practicing safer sex, condoms are a great way to help prolong the life of your sex toys - and they make cleanup a breeze! How to Choose Choosing the best condom for you usually involves some trial and error. While most of our condoms are sold in boxes of...

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Learn About Dilators and Dilator Exercises

Our silicone dilators are a series of high quality silicone exercisers designed specifically to aid people experiencing vaginal pain, and for post-surgery therapy. Together with a local gynecologist and an independent Canadian silicone manufacturer, we created these dilators made from high-grade, hypoallergenic silicone because the only other dilators available were made of hard or abrasive materials. If you or someone you know is suffering from vaginal pain, these dilation exercises may be useful to you. These exercises should be done in consultation with your health care provider. What are dilation exercises? Dilation exercise is the insertion of dilators of progressively...

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Learn About Dildos

What are Dildos? Dildos are sex toys designed for penetration, and they come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, and colours! Dildos don't 'do' anything other than what we make them do (they don't have motors or moving parts). The pleasure of dildos comes mainly from penetration. Dildos are made from a wide range of materials, including 100% silicone, jelly rubber, stainless steel, and glass. How To Choose A Dildo Choosing the right dildo comes down to a few key considerations: shape / style, size, colour, material, and harness compatibility. If you’re shopping with a partner, you’ll probably find...

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Learn About Erections & Erectile Dysfunction

Changing Erections Erectile dysfunction (also known as 'ED') is a clinical term usually defined as the inability to develop and maintain an erection for satisfactory sexual activity. We don't tend to think the idea of "normal" is helpful to experiencing sexual pleasure, and we know that even clinicians don't agree on how often or for how long you might have difficulties with erections before you would be diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. Here's what we know: everyone who gets erections will experience changes over time with how the erections might feel. They could get harder or softer, they may happen when...

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Learn About Kegel Exercises

We see Kegel or Pelvic Floor Muscle (PFM) exercises as just one of the many ways you can enhance your sexual health and pleasure on your own terms! While Kegel exercises are often seen as a way to ‘tighten’ (often for the pleasure of one’s partner), doing Kegel exercises regularly has been shown to increase orgasmic responsiveness, prevent incontinence, assist in recovery from childbirth ­and even encourage prostate health. Heck, any one of those benefits should be motivation enough for any of us - regardless of sexuality, gender, and orientation - to go do our darn Kegels! What Are Pelvic Floor...

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Learn About Lube

What is Lube? Lube is a product designed to help mimic the body’s own natural lubrication, as well as provide a slippery sensation to body parts that don’t produce lubrication of their own. Good quality lubricant makes all kinds of sex so much better than it would be otherwise! How To Choose A Lubricant In order to decide which lubricant is right for you, you’ll want to have a look at the ingredients, and consider how you’re planning to use your lube. For example, maybe you’re looking for a lube to use with your silicone sex toy. Or maybe you’re...

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Learn About Masturbation Sleeves

What are Sleeves? Sleeves - also called masturbation sleeves, masturbators, and (our preferred term) insertion toys - are one of the most popular types of sex toys. A basic masturbation sleeve is a cylindrical sheath that can either be moved up and down the shaft or remain still while the person moves in and out of the sleeve. There are thousands of different styles of insertion toys on the market, each with its benefits and drawbacks. Some of the most commonly known - and popular - masturbation sleeves on the market are made by Fleshlight and Tenga. How To Choose...

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Learn About Pumping

We work hard to have many different types of sex toys that produce many types of sensation. While pumps may seem like less common sex toys than, say, butt plugs, bottles of lube (yes, lube is a sex toy!) or vibrators, pumps are no less valuable (or awesome) at providing a variety of wonderful and much appreciated sensations for people. What Is A Pump? A pump ­ in combination with a cylinder or cup ­ is used to create a vacuum on the body to pull blood to the surface of the skin. When used in an area of the...

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