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Summer's Harvest Sale

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Wow, what a summer we've been having here at Come As You Are! And, based off of the fabulously exploratory & sexy orders we've been shipping out, it looks like many of you have also been busy! Our harried summer has definitely not been in vain - we've been fortunate to see some big transitions happen after a great deal of work here at the co-op. Most notably, we have finally migrated our website to something that is more user-friendly! This has been an ongoing project here at the co-op for years - and, let's be real, will continue to...

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Make love, not trade war.

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With everything going on in the world and on this continent specifically, we've found it basically impossible to not spend time doing some serious reflection on our collective values and guiding principles.  There's nothing like watching norms being challenged and weakened, political climates changing in a flash, and a lot of societal uncertainty to nudge one into examining one's own ideological precepts. Frankly, as an under-resourced and generally over-extended tiny collective, we don't really have a lotta time for such reflection, but now that we're mostly over the hurdle of our impromptu web migration, we’ve decided to make some time to share a little bit about who we...

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When You Wish Upon A, uh, Wishlist?!?

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Oh, yes, the Come As You Are Wishlist is back! We've been working hard to get all of our fave website features up and running, and we're super pleased to announce that we've launched a new wishlist feature on our new site. If you've never used our wishlist before - or if you've never used a wishlist before - we find wishlists are a really handy way to keep track of stuff you're actively or passively interested in. Wishlists are also a great way to encourage your friends, fans, and frenemies to buy you gifts, and we especially adore the...

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We're making some changes!

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If you've known us for awhile, you'll know we've been kicking the can that is our (now) old website for many years. While we've always made updates to our server and software over the years, at some point, all good things must come to an end. Fortunately, our site was well overdue for a nice refresh and while you'll notice some new features here and there (like upgraded security, a better checkout, and much better product category options), some of the info you'll see on this site has been in our database for years, but we've never had the ability...

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We Want Yer Binders!

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Did you know?!? We have a chest binder recycling program, but as with all projects for trans and gender variant peoples, demand far out strips supply! If you've grown in or out of a binder, or you've had top surgery, chances are you have a bunch of old binders you don't know what to do with. Send them to us and we'll give you a $10 gift card for each binder you donate! We then "sell" them for $5 each at our all-ages gender site at www.gendergear.ca! Interested? You can send us your binders or email binders@gendergear.ca for more info!...

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What Sex Toys Taught Me About Love

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There are many things to dislike about Valentine's Day. The crass consumerism, the misguided attempts at expressing love through expensive dinners and jewelry, all that waxy chocolate. But it's hard not to admire the way that Valentine's Day brazenly embraces love and lust with equal intensity. Most of us struggle with the distinction between love and lust. We try to figure out how they can fit together and how to stay in relationships when they don't. I've learned my greatest lessons about love and lust from sex toys. I think like most people, even after I started using sex toys...

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