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Sex Education & Instruction Books

Sex tips, techniques, how to's, and general sexual instruction for digging into the wonders of sexual exploration. Sex education books reviewed and loved by us.

Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it...
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This has long been one of our favourite guides to anal play! Unusually comprehensive, it is a reliable source of information on anal eroticism for people of all sexual orientations. Anal Pleasure & Health brilliantly tackles the physical, emotional, and...
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This book has been designed primarily as a resource for folks who work with people with AS. Which is a shame - a book designed explicitly for folks who identify as having AS would be such a gem! Regardless, whether...
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The new science of adult attachment and how it can help you find - and keep - love

We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use...
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Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms

We all carry sexual shame. Psychotherapist Matthias Roberts helps readers overcome their shame around sex by challenging three unhealthy coping mechanisms we use to manage that shame. Beyond Shame encourages each of...
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This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types...
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Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers.

Learn how to give your lover a sensual, euphoric--and slightly kinky--massage that will open the door to new realms of pleasure, intimacy and connection for you both. Whether you're looking to learn simple things...
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Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want

Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize--and enjoy--control. This is the quickly-mainstreaming world...
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Whether you're someone who enthusiastically identifies as a 'sex nerd' or you're someone who has spent some time in your life worrying that there's something about your sexuality that's not normal, this book is sure to be a ridiculously enlightening...
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A new, practical workbook from the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are that allows you to apply the book’s groundbreaking research and understanding of why and how women’s sexuality works to everyday life.

In the twentieth...
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Another hot title from Greenery Press and the infamous Lady Green. Full of fun tips, tricks and ideas, this manual will leave a happy trail of satisfied readers and pink bottoms. An excellent primer!

By Lady Green, 96 pages, 1997....
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Couples of Mixed HIV Status delves into the emotional challenges of living in a mixed HIV status relationship. Included in the book are tons of first-hand accounts, advice, interviews with therapists, and is throughly illustrated with tables. Topics include family...
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Crayons ready? Long before "adult colouring books" were a *thing*, Tee Corrinne released the "Cunt Colouring Book" in 1975. Full of wonderous and beautiful vulvas, this book originated as a sexual education tool and became a full-on tool of cunt...
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Curvy Girl Sex is here to show you that regardless of size, shape, or flexibility you CAN get creative and have satisfying, sultry, sensual sex! Sex educator Elle Chase covers sex positions from basic to advanced, specific challenges faced as...
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Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements. This makes it possible to create what Kenneth Haslam, founder...
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A Users Guide

A straightforward and sensible manual on the penis - with a very cis-centric view of such things. This book is as entertaining as it is insightful. It puts many myths to sleep and sheds light on many topics...
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A How-To Guide to Documenting Our Own Sexual Revolution

Famed porn director and performer Madison Young tells you how to share your personal sexual revolution on film! From formulating goals through script-writing, choosing colleagues through final edits, fund-raising through marketing,...
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Bondage enthusiasts will love this book - chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. By Jay Wiseman, 324 pages, 2000. Published by Greenery...
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The Tantric Touch of Love.

With more than one hundred erotic drawings and a full-color insert, Erotic Massage provides easy-to-learn strokes and methods that allow you and your partner to bring together the sensual, the erotic, and the intimate.

The detailed illustrations and...
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From the publisher: It is your birthright to live a life filled with erotic joy. This book will show you how to give and receive Erotic Massage for healing and pleasure, and how to teach others through touch.

You will...
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While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues,...
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In 'Erotic Slavehood', two essential guidebooks to erotic slave training are combined into one deluxe volume. It will be essential reading for BDSM enthusiasts and practitioners. Replete with updated resources and references, this is the ultimate BDSM reference manual. By...
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Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage

The art of kinbaku, also known as shibari, is an elegant way to connect with a partner or add erotic spice in your life. Japanese-style bondage artist Shin Nawakiri shares his safe, sexy,...
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Our media is filled with confusing, polarizing messages about the dangers of porn, while at the same time sexually explicit images are pronounced in advertising and entertainment. Using a natural question/answer format for people feeling fear and shame...
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On it's third edition, this is a fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance...
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Using her own experience as a guide, renowned sex educator Carol Queen the explores the erotic potential of exhibitionism: dressing up, showing off, role-playing, and talking dirty. Using exercises culled from her popular San Francisco workshops, Queen also looks at...
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This one of a kind educational handbook covers a mass of topics related to female ejaculation including: anatomy, scientific findings, history, exercises, and many many more. An excellent resource for anyone interested in exploring female ejaculation and the g-spot. One...
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Most fetishists have healthy, happy sex lives with their lovers in the style that their lovers prefer. And most fetishists must partition off their fetishes from their relationships. This can be isolating - but no-one needs to feel lonely in...
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The Art of Living a More Joyful Life

Find Your Pleasure is a pleasure revolution: where society has told women to feel guilty or ashamed for embracing pleasures, Cynthia Loyst (co-host of CTV's The Social) shows you how to get to...
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Getting a grip on anal pleasure involving fists is one of the extreme sports of bum fun. There’s no doubt that it can bring previously unknown satisfaction to those who practice it. From tips about the right lube to use,...
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Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any...
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5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance--And Getting What You Want

The Game of Desire will teach you the self- and social awareness to make dating your new favorite hobby. The truth is that we live in a world where...
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In this up-to-date, comprehensive resource, Dr. Ehrensaft explains the interconnected effects of biology, nurture, and culture to explore why gender can be fluid, rather than binary. As an advocate for the gender affirmative model and with the expertise she has...
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The Good Vibrations Guides have a well-deserved reputation for being practical, feminist, sex-positive Guides. This Guide to the G-Spot is no exception! A quick read, this guide balances an anatomical and scientific understanding of the g-spot with practical approaches to...
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Joani Blank, founder of the Good Vibrations sex store, has compiled her years of experience into this guide to vibrators. Confounded by the plethora of possibilities? This guide outlines all the different types of vibrators available, as well as their...
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Interested in Tantric Sex, but don't know where to start? Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels have taken their years of study and expertise and distilled it into this easy-to-use beginner’s book for those who want to explore the ecstasy of...
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From the author: "I originally wrote this book for people who wanted to have better sex. But then it started winning awards and being used in college sex-ed courses. So I tried to make the book all things to all...
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This sensible guide provides an up-to-date, step-by-step approach to vaginal fisting for those who are interested or just want to know more about this form of lovemaking.

By Deborah Addington, 112 pages, 1997. Published by Greenery Press.

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For thousands of years the sexual principles and techniques presented here were taught by Taoist masters in secret only to a small number of people (sworn to silence), in the royal courts and esoteric circles of China. This is the...
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A practical examination of how long term relationships work, "Hot Monogamy" offers insightful and useful advice. It addresses many issues in a touching manner and offers the tools you need to start communicating with your partner, and starts you off...
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Ever wonder what makes us attracted to certain people, and not to others? How Sex Works discusses how all of our senses dictate who we fall in love (and lust) with and why, how evolution has affected sex, and many...
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Lou Paget is the queen of fun and lively sex-ed! How to be a Great Lover proves this again with tips and techniques on oral sex, great intercourse, and fun new ways to spice it up. A great volume for...
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Susie Bright, editor of many contemporary collections of erotica, teaches the tricks of her trade. Providing many pearls of erotic wisdom for both fiction and non-fiction writers, she uses samples of her own work to describe the process of writing...
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For those who dream of training their very own human pony and folks who would love to set their inner equine run free, The Human Pony is the must-have guide. Filled with glossy pages of great human ponies at play...
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Our book buyer just added this to her list of must have books! I Love Female Orgasm offers detailed advice and information on everything female orgasm. From intercourse, having your first orgasm, sex toys, queer women’s sexuality, and a whole...
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This updated and illustrated guide to EMO is better than ever! With great illustrations to help you through the instructional text, the book has been reorganized to dedicate half of the text to techniques for men's pleasure (most of the...
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What Young People are Asking about Sex (with Answers from the Experts) 

Did you ever walk out of class having even more questions than when you walked in? You may feel that way about history or math, but what about...
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So often the books we read as part of our screening process at Come As You Are are written by folks that would consider themselves 'sexperts', or sex educators (at times regardless of their training or history). Refreshingly, Mark Emme...
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A whole book dedicated to klismaphilia, or enema play, as most of us know it. In Strict's enthusiastic guide, you can enjoy both learning through his expertise, and reading his outrageous personal stories. The only book we know of dealing...
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An Introduction to Asexuality

Julie Sondra Decker's Invisible Orientation is a much needed and welcomed resource that explores asexuality. As she clearly expresses, this book is intended to be an introduction: you will find a wealth of writing dedicated to...
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