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Sex Education & Instruction Books

Sex tips, techniques, how to's, and general sexual instruction for digging into the wonders of sexual exploration. Sex education books reviewed and loved by us.

Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it...
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Violet Blue's "The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" reads less like an educational how-to and more like a spicy erotica! In fact, it's speckled with short erotic vignettes of hot strap-on sex by best-selling erotica writer Alison Tyler. Dealing...
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This has long been one of our favourite guides to anal play! Unusually comprehensive, it is a reliable source of information on anal eroticism for people of all sexual orientations. Anal Pleasure & Health brilliantly tackles the physical, emotional, and...
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Kinky crafters looking for DIY fetish gear inspiration and fully drafted patterns, we’ve got the book for you! With a focus on clothing, harnesses, gags, chastity play wear and masks, Fetishcraft gives readers the opportunity to customize their own sexy...
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This book has been designed primarily as a resource for folks who work with people with AS. Which is a shame - a book designed explicitly for folks who identify as having AS would be such a gem! Regardless, whether...
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The new science of adult attachment and how it can help you find - and keep - love

We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use...
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A step-by-step guided program for women who would like to achieve orgasms -- by themselves and with their partner(s). Written by leaders in this field, it focuses on comfort, sensation, technique, emotions, self-knowledge and relationships.

By Julia Heiman, 288 pages,...
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How Women Can Cultivate Desire

A groundbreaking look at improving desire, arousal, and sexual satisfaction for women-identified people through mindfulness. Studies show that approximately half of all women experience some kind of sexual difficulty at one point in their...
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Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms

We all carry sexual shame. Psychotherapist Matthias Roberts helps readers overcome their shame around sex by challenging three unhealthy coping mechanisms we use to manage that shame. Beyond Shame encourages each of...
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This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types...
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Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers.

Learn how to give your lover a sensual, euphoric--and slightly kinky--massage that will open the door to new realms of pleasure, intimacy and connection for you both. Whether you're looking to learn simple things...
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The act of reproduction, and its variants, never change much, but our ideas about the meaning of sex are in constant flux. Switch a decade, cross a border, or traverse class lines and the harmless pleasures of one group become...
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Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want

Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize--and enjoy--control. This is the quickly-mainstreaming world...
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Everything you need to know about the fabulous world of burlesque in all bound up in this great new book! From making your own pasties (with stencils), to learning new moves, to how to boost your own confidence, this handbook...
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Whether you're someone who enthusiastically identifies as a 'sex nerd' or you're someone who has spent some time in your life worrying that there's something about your sexuality that's not normal, this book is sure to be a ridiculously enlightening...
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A new, practical workbook from the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are that allows you to apply the book’s groundbreaking research and understanding of why and how women’s sexuality works to everyday life.

In the twentieth...
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Another hot title from Greenery Press and the infamous Lady Green. Full of fun tips, tricks and ideas, this manual will leave a happy trail of satisfied readers and pink bottoms. An excellent primer!

By Lady Green, 96 pages, 1997....
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Couples of Mixed HIV Status delves into the emotional challenges of living in a mixed HIV status relationship. Included in the book are tons of first-hand accounts, advice, interviews with therapists, and is throughly illustrated with tables. Topics include family...
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Cuddling is more intimate than a candlelit dinner, more than a joint tax return and yes, even more than sex. With the simple act of an embrace, two people can be joined together in such an intense bond that words...
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Crayons ready? Long before "adult colouring books" were a *thing*, Tee Corrinne released the "Cunt Colouring Book" in 1975. Full of wonderous and beautiful vulvas, this book originated as a sexual education tool and became a full-on tool of cunt...
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Curvy Girl Sex is here to show you that regardless of size, shape, or flexibility you CAN get creative and have satisfying, sultry, sensual sex! Sex educator Elle Chase covers sex positions from basic to advanced, specific challenges faced as...
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Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements. This makes it possible to create what Kenneth Haslam, founder...
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A Users Guide

A straightforward and sensible manual on the penis - with a very cis-centric view of such things. This book is as entertaining as it is insightful. It puts many myths to sleep and sheds light on many topics...
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Think all sex should be earth shattering? The quality of most couple sex doesn't measure up to the much distorted image of the perfect romantic love/passionate sex encounter portrayed in popular culture. In "Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style: Sharing Desire,...
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A How-To Guide to Documenting Our Own Sexual Revolution

Famed porn director and performer Madison Young tells you how to share your personal sexual revolution on film! From formulating goals through script-writing, choosing colleagues through final edits, fund-raising through marketing,...
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Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships

In The Dominance Playbook, kink educator and lifelong power exchange fanatic Anton Fulmen builds on the fundamentals he established in The Heart of Dominance to explore beyond the basics of...
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Barbara Carrellas' practical guide to ecstasy brings you on a journey of self-discovery through reflective exercises. Carrellas helps readers uncover their values, communication style, relationship needs and sexual desires. Furthermore, she helps teach readers how to effectively communicate this information...
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An inspiring and fiercely worded exercise book for women who are pre-orgasmic and wish to learn to have orgasms on a regular basis. This book from Australia has some of the best diagrams on sexual anatomy and puts forth great...
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Bondage enthusiasts will love this book - chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. By Jay Wiseman, 324 pages, 2000. Published by Greenery...
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The Sexy Secrets of Taoist Teachers

This book helps to strengthen bonds of affection and to discover the secrets of the sexual massage of the ancient Chinese Taoists. You will discover and better get to know the erotic places on...
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The Tantric Touch of Love.

With more than one hundred erotic drawings and a full-color insert, Erotic Massage provides easy-to-learn strokes and methods that allow you and your partner to bring together the sensual, the erotic, and the intimate.

The detailed illustrations and...
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The Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, each of these 50 cards provides a sensual technique and simple drawing that can be explored one at a time or...
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Head to Toe Techniques to Arouse and Gratify Your Partner.

This comprehensive manual is an invitation to discover the secrets of erotic massage for couples.

Erotic Massage for Couples teaches you, step-by-step—with the help of one hundred color photos—how to unleash your...
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From the publisher: It is your birthright to live a life filled with erotic joy. This book will show you how to give and receive Erotic Massage for healing and pleasure, and how to teach others through touch.

You will...
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While most sex guides focus on the nuts-and-bolts aspects, The Erotic Mind is devoted the exploration of what turns you on and why. From looking at "core erotic themes" and the interplay of eroticism and emotions, to troublesome psychological issues,...
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In 'Erotic Slavehood', two essential guidebooks to erotic slave training are combined into one deluxe volume. It will be essential reading for BDSM enthusiasts and practitioners. Replete with updated resources and references, this is the ultimate BDSM reference manual. By...
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Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage

The art of kinbaku, also known as shibari, is an elegant way to connect with a partner or add erotic spice in your life. Japanese-style bondage artist Shin Nawakiri shares his safe, sexy,...
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Our media is filled with confusing, polarizing messages about the dangers of porn, while at the same time sexually explicit images are pronounced in advertising and entertainment. Using a natural question/answer format for people feeling fear and shame...
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On it's third edition, this is a fun manual for people who want to live an open sexual lifestyle. Drawing on their own experiences, the authors are shameless cheerleaders for all ethical sluts - anyone who dreams of sexual abundance...
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Using her own experience as a guide, renowned sex educator Carol Queen the explores the erotic potential of exhibitionism: dressing up, showing off, role-playing, and talking dirty. Using exercises culled from her popular San Francisco workshops, Queen also looks at...
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Finally an entire book devoted to penis genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life. Written with cis men in mind.

By Hardy Haberman, 140...
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This one of a kind educational handbook covers a mass of topics related to female ejaculation including: anatomy, scientific findings, history, exercises, and many many more. An excellent resource for anyone interested in exploring female ejaculation and the g-spot. One...
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Looking for a buffet of ideas about the politics of producing pleasure? Exploring what it means to create feminist pornography from more than thirty unique and important perspectives, the FPB brings together actors, scholars, teachers, critics and producers of feminist...
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Most fetishists have healthy, happy sex lives with their lovers in the style that their lovers prefer. And most fetishists must partition off their fetishes from their relationships. This can be isolating - but no-one needs to feel lonely in...
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The Art of Living a More Joyful Life

Find Your Pleasure is a pleasure revolution: where society has told women to feel guilty or ashamed for embracing pleasures, Cynthia Loyst (co-host of CTV's The Social) shows you how to get to...
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Getting a grip on anal pleasure involving fists is one of the extreme sports of bum fun. There’s no doubt that it can bring previously unknown satisfaction to those who practice it. From tips about the right lube to use,...
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Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any...
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5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance--And Getting What You Want

The Game of Desire will teach you the self- and social awareness to make dating your new favorite hobby. The truth is that we live in a world where...
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In this up-to-date, comprehensive resource, Dr. Ehrensaft explains the interconnected effects of biology, nurture, and culture to explore why gender can be fluid, rather than binary. As an advocate for the gender affirmative model and with the expertise she has...
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Did you know that graham crackers and Corn Flakes were invented to help curb masturbation? It's true. That little factoid really makes you think about why we have such a negative stigma surrounding self-pleasure. In Getting Off, Jamye Waxman helps...
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