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Gender Gear

We carry a wide selection of gear to help folks embody and actualize their gender in their everyday lives! If you're looking for our binder recycling program or want to peruse our gender gear without all the sexy stuff, check out our site for trans and gender variant folks at www.gendergear.ca!
Dimensions: 1.8" x 1.4"
Finally, a Pleasure Sleeve made for trans guys, and it's 100% silicone! This sleeve is designed for trans men and transmasculine folk who have been on testosterone and experienced some growth downstairs. To use, make sure to place a bit...
Read more about Shotpocket Silicone Pleasure Sleeve
Regular price $28.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 4" x 0.75"

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality...
Read more about FUZE+ Step 2 Dilator

Regular price $25.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 3" x 1"

Not only did the fine folks at New York Toy Collective design an amazing uncircumcised packer, but they've now got it available in a smaller size! If you've ever felt the Vixen Mr Right looked a little big, or a...
Read more about NYTC Pierre Packer Small

Regular price $62.00 CAD — In Stock
Who Are You?

The Kid's Guide to Gender Identity

what do you like?
how do you feel?
who are you?

This book is an introduction to gender for ages 3+, with straightforward language for talking about how we experience gender: our body, our expression, and our...
Read more about Who Are You?

Regular price $24.00 CAD — In Stock

This fun He/Him Pronoun soft enamel lapel pin by Wood Rocket is the perfect accessory. Wear your pronoun everywhere you go!

This pin has gold glitter and looks fantastic! Stick it on your hat or clothes or backpack or bag...
Read more about He/Him Glitter Pronoun Pin

Regular price $14.00 CAD — In Stock

This is a beautifully versatile packing strap! It features a snug, stretchy (and comfy!) design - great for keeping a packer in place! It has two installed pouches designed to hold one-touch bullets...
Read more about Packer Gear Boxer Brief Harness

Regular price $40.00 CAD — In Stock

Skills for Navigating Sexual Orientation & Gender Expression.

You've probably heard of the term resilience. But what does it really mean? Resilience is the ability to bounce back from stressful or traumatic events - which for many people includes a...
Read more about Queer & Transgender Resilience Workbook

Regular price $30.00 CAD — In Stock

Not only does Underworks make binders for FTM, trans, and genderqueer folks looking to change the line of their chests, but they also make binding swimwear, which after many requests we've decided to pick up for beach season! This swim...
Read more about Underworks Swim Top Binder - 918

Sale price $75.00 CAD Regular price $90.00 CAD Sale — In Stock
Dimensions: 2" x 1"

We've received some requests for STP's designed for youth / smaller bodies, and, are delighted to be now offering the Model E by the lovely indie creators at Form Function. Featuring a realistic circumcised aesthetic, this flexible but sturdy design has impressed...
Read more about Form Function E Cut STP

Regular price $97.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 5" x 1.25"

Looking to pump, and concerned the 3 Inch Cylinder might be too snug? The 5 Inch Cylinder features a 1 1/4" diameter by 5 inch length, and is marketed for trans men -...
Read more about LA Pumps 5 Inch Cylinder

Regular price $85.00 CAD — In Stock

The transgender experience is as old as humanity itself. In different eras and cultures trans people have been exalted as prophets, treated as outcasts, or persecuted by society, but they always endure and make their indispensable contributions to the world. In these pages...
Read more about Transgender Heroes Colouring Book

Regular price $20.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 3" x 1"

Ever feel like regular packers take up a little too much room in your pants? Tired of going to the gym sporting a porn star hard-on? Well, you're in luck! Designed specifically for FTM, trans, genderqueer, and cosplaying folks, New...
Read more about NYTC Archer Packer Small

Regular price $62.00 CAD — In Stock

The Teen's Guide to Sex, Relationships, and Being a Human

Is what I’m feeling normal?

Are these changes normal? Am I normal?

How do I know if I'm making the right choices?

How do I know how to behave? How do...
Read more about Let's Talk About It

Regular price $24.00 CAD — In Stock

Carter's up in the middle of the night, too excited to sleep: her baby sister is being born! She asks her Uncle Marcus to tell her stories about the beautiful things in his dreadlocks so she can relax and rest.


Read more about Love is in the Hair
Regular price $16.00 CAD — In Stock

This Pronoun Sticker Sheet is the perfect way to introduce yourself. Get one 3" sticker and two 1/14" mini stickers, all perfect for laptops, water bottles, or anywhere else you want to introduce yourself. Made of UV laminated white...
Read more about She/Her Pronoun Sticker Sheet

Regular price $5.00 CAD — In Stock
Army Of Lovers

A Community History of Will Munro

Will Munro was a legendary artist, DJ, activist and impresario, as renowned for his transgressive, irreverent art as he was for reinventing Toronto's nightlife culture. His installations and prints co-opted rock 'n' roll imagery...
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Regular price $15.00 CAD — In Stock

A Guide for Professionals and Families 

Providing advice on how professionals working with autistic trans youth and adults can tailor their practice to best serve their clients and how parents can support their trans autistic children, this book increases awareness...
Read more about Supporting Transgender Autistic Youth and Adults

Regular price $40.00 CAD — In Stock

These gorgeous locally-made packing straps from Pack Animal make packing so much better and better looking too! The Pack Animal Packing Strap comes with a generous 1.5" waistband to keep this strap feeling good all day. With two straps around the...
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Regular price $30.00 CAD — In Stock

We're going to be totally honest with you here: the SpareParts Tomboii has so much going on that there's simply no way to do justice to it in a web description, but we'll try. If you know us at all,...
Read more about Spareparts Tomboii Boxer Brief

Regular price $146.00 CAD — In Stock

A Guide to Exploring Who You Are

Transgender and gender expansive children need validation and support on their journey of self-discovery. As a parent, you may be wondering how you can empower your child to explore, understand, and embrace their unique...
Read more about Gender Identity Workbook for Kids

Regular price $25.00 CAD — In Stock

We're not big fans of most toy cleaners. They're usually either mild soaps that have been re-marketed so they can cost more money (ugh), or they have anti-bacterial ingredients included in their recipes. These ingredients may end up disrupting the...
Read more about Dr Bronner's Unscented Soap

From $12.00 — In Stock

Oof, we're in love with this packing strap! Or, should we say harness? This bad boy does it all! This product features a simple & stretchy jock-strap design, with two installed pouches that can accommodate a Packer Gear Jock Strap

Regular price $30.00 CAD — In Stock

Letters from Trans and Non-Binary Survivors of Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence

Written by and for trans and non-binary survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault, this collection of letters written to body parts weaves together narratives of gender, identity,...
Read more about Written On the Body

Regular price $28.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 5.25" x 1"

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks...
Read more about FUZE+ Step 3 Dilator

Regular price $32.00 CAD — In Stock

Designed to hold breast forms like the Transform forms that we carry, this is a great alternative to products like tapes or other bras that may not hold forms securely throughout the day. Available in white or black, this bra...
Read more about Transform Breast Form Bra Black

Regular price $34.00 CAD — In Stock

These translucent silicone enhancers are a fabulous choice for folks seeking a compact breast form, or, for those looking for a little extra content for their bras! 


Read more about Clear Breast Form Enhancers
From $40.00 — In Stock

Pathways for Nurturing and Supporting Children Who Live Outside Gender Boxes

In her groundbreaking first book, Gender Born, Gender Made, Dr. Diane Ehrensaft coined the term 'gender creative' to describe children whose unique gender expression or sense of identity is...
Read more about Gender Creative Child

Regular price $21.00 CAD — In Stock

Genderbendy buttons are the best buttons!

This round pinback button measures 1 inch/2.5cm in diameter.


Read more about This Is A Girl Button
Regular price $2.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 3" x 0.5"/1"
These specially designed acrylic pump cylinders are the perfect accessory for folks interested in pumping. These three inch long cylinders can be detached from the pump once a good seal and vacuum have been created. Available individually in a variety of...
Read more about LA Pumps 3 Inch Cylinder
Regular price $40.00 CAD — In Stock

Made by Get Your Joey, Designed by Kristofer Woods @serpentinetattoomachine

A tattooed hand doing the sign of horns with a transflag banner that says "REJECT-THE-CISTEM"

Pins are 1.5" tall


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Regular price $14.00 CAD — In Stock

We're in love with this affordable binder made in the USA by the fine folks at Underworks! The shell of this compression shirt is comprised of a single layer of medical-grade 70% nylon and 30% spandex compression material for firm,...
Read more about Underworks Econo Top Binder - 943

Regular price $41.00 CAD — In Stock

Advice on Queer Dating, Love, and Friendship

Maddy Court is not a therapist - she's just a lesbian who loves boundaries.

In The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend Is My Girlfriend, Court - the queer advice columnist also known as Xena...
Read more about The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend is My Girlfriend

Regular price $26.00 CAD — In Stock
Get pumped up about this Brass Pump from LA Pumps! Compatible with all LA Pump cylinders, this basic pump is especially great to use when you have more than two hands at your disposal. Pump can be detached from the...
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Regular price $64.00 CAD — In Stock

This semi-sheer gaffed thong was created for Trans feminine people, or anyone who is looking for a compression undie. It can be worn with or without a tuck. It smooths out the front, making this an ideal piece for a...
Read more about Origami Thong Mesh Gaff

Regular price $35.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 4" x 1"

These days, it seems like everyone and their mother makes a packer. Well, now that I think about it, it would be really cool if my mom made packers. Anyhow, this lovely packer from the folks at Doc Johnson is...
Read more about Doc Johnson Lite Packer

Regular price $22.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 4" x 1.5"
We've fallen head-over-heels in love with this affordable line of packers and packing straps from Cal Exotics. This packer is super soft and pliable, hyper-realistic, and made of silicone to boot! Compatible with Packer Gear and other packing straps, we're...
Read more about Packer Gear Silicone Packer
Regular price $28.00 CAD — In Stock

It's hard to believe that people are still uncomfortable discussing periods, even though more than half of us experience them at some point in our lives.

Red Moon Gang aims to eradicate these stigmas, providing a thorough, unapologetic and humorous...
Read more about Red Moon Gang: An Inclusive Guide to Periods

Regular price $26.00 CAD — In Stock

Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary

Exploring the crossroads of gender and sexuality, Trans/Love offers unusually engaging narratives that create a raw and honest depiction of dating, sex, love, and relationships within the gender variant community....
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Regular price $20.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 5.5" x 1.5"

These days, it seems like everyone and their mother makes a packer. Well, now that I think about it, it would be really cool if my mom made packers. Anyhow, this lovely packer from the folks at Doc Johnson is...
Read more about Doc Johnson Heavy Packer

Regular price $25.00 CAD — In Stock

Handmade with love and pride in Canada, Get Your Joey is designed to be a machine-washable packing pouch that can be pinned to other clothing! Pop your favourite packer into this secure sleeve-like pouch, pass the shaft of your packer...
Read more about Get Your Joey Packing Pouch

Regular price $27.00 CAD — In Stock

Compassionate Advice to Help Your Child Be Their Most Authentic Self

Talking with your child about gender identity can seem overwhelming-- but with the right guidance, you can have healthy conversations and create an affirming environment for them as they...
Read more about Gender Identity Guide for Parents

Regular price $21.00 CAD — In Stock

How to Make Your Practice Inclusive

Providing an accessible and authoritative introduction to issues around People of Colour (POC) trans inclusion, this book uses case studies, tips, checklists and anonymous survey results to set out best practice for any professionals...
Read more about Supporting Trans People of Colour

Regular price $42.00 CAD — In Stock
Whipping Girl

A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

Julia Serano shares her experiences and insights—both pre- and post-transition—to reveal the ways in which fear, suspicion, and dismissiveness toward femininity shape our societal attitudes toward trans women, as...
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Regular price $27.00 CAD — In Stock

These gorgeous Canadian-made Pack Animal Mid-Length Binders are bringing a positively blissful binding experience to its legions of fans and now we have them in-store at Come As You Are too! With a stretchy and elastic polyester/spandex for maximum compression...
Read more about Pack Animal Mid-Length Binder

From $45.00 — In Stock

Your Transition As Your Child Transitions

When a child goes through transition, the dynamics of the family unit can start to shift. It is not uncommon for one family member to feel one way about the transition, while another may...
Read more about Reflective Workbook for Parents and Families of Transgender and Non-Binary Children

Regular price $45.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 4.25" x 1.5"

The Archer from our friends at New York Toy Collective is a very soft and squishy, circumcised-style packer with beautiful and detailed texturing. NYTC provides many different tones to choose from, and amazing quality toys - these packers are destined to fill...
Read more about NYTC Archer Silicone Packer

Regular price $76.00 CAD — In Stock
Dimensions: 5.75" x 1.5"

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks...
Read more about FUZE+ Step 5 Dilator

Regular price $57.00 CAD — In Stock

A Book for Every Kind of FAMILY and Every Kind of KID

What Makes a Baby is a book for every kind of family and every kind of kid. It is a 21st century children’s picture book about where babies come from that...
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Regular price $25.00 CAD — In Stock

A Practical Guide to Healthy Masculinity

In the midst of the #MeToo era, toxic masculinity gets a lot of airtime, but rarely do we make the same space for finding solutions to this overwhelming social problem. Many men want to...
Read more about Mindful Masculinity Workbook

Regular price $35.00 CAD — In Stock

This Pronoun Sticker Sheet is the perfect way to introduce yourself. Get one 3" sticker and two 1/14" mini stickers, all perfect for laptops, water bottles, or anywhere else you want to introduce yourself. Made of UV laminated white...
Read more about They/Them Pronoun Sticker Sheet

Regular price $5.00 CAD — In Stock