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Gender Gear

We carry a wide selection of gear to help folks embody and actualize their gender in their everyday lives! If you're looking for our binder recycling program or want to peruse our gender gear without all the sexy stuff, check out our site for trans and gender variant folks at www.gendergear.ca!
We're not big fans of most toy cleaners. They're usually either mild soaps that have been re-marketed so they can cost more money (ugh), or they have anti-bacterial ingredients included in their recipes. These ingredients may end up disrupting the... Read more
Regular price $9.00 Sold Out

This binder is a great option for folks (such as trans men, FTMs, gender queer people, and more!) looking for a sturdy binder, as well as a full range of motion. It binds down to the bellybutton, giving awesome chest... Read more

Regular price $42.00

The Concealer binder is a winner because it can be worn as a stand-alone piece of clothing. No need to pile on those layers in the summer! A thick cotton undershirt-style shirt sits over two binding layers of spandex &... Read more

Regular price $45.00

Similar in design to the Tri-Top, this binder falls to about the belly-button area, and features the same basic shape and feel. It is made with one layer of a sturdy binding nylon/spandex material, and one layer of a poly/cotton... Read more

Regular price $42.00

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks... Read more

Regular price $154.00
Length: 3"
Width: 1"

Want to sport a bulge? The Mr Limpy from Fleshlight is truly the Ultimate Packer! This cyberskin packer is inexpensive and durable. This size is the most realistic, fits great in all of our packing strap, and is great for... Read more

Regular price $13.00

We've been searching for the perfect underwear harness since we first opened our doors back in the nineties, but until SpareParts launched the Tomboi and Sasha harnesses, we were skeptical that such a thing could even exist. Ever the perfectionists,... Read more

Regular price $98.00
Length: 4.5"
Width: 1.5"

Pierre is the first widely available and affordable uncircumcised packer that we're aware of. With New York Toy Collective's trademark beautiful and detailed texturing, and many different tones to choose from, these packers are destined to fill many people's pants... Read more

Regular price $66.00

Of all the Underworks Chest Binders we carry, the Ultimate binder is, well, pretty ultimate. It is a full length binder made of two layers of nylon & spandex that binds all the way down to the hip- meaning not... Read more

On Sale from $38.00 Regular price $45.00 Sale

Similar in design to the Ultimate Chest Binder, this binder falls to about the hip area, and features the same basic shape and feel as the Ultimate. It is made with one layer of a sturdy binding nylon/spandex material, and... Read more

Regular price $45.00

For the times when you wish you could just go commando, but still need somewhere to put your packer, SpareParts' Pete Commando Harness is sure to do the trick! With an elastic loop on the inside of the packer pouch... Read more

Regular price $35.00

Handmade with love and pride in Canada, Get Your Joey is designed to be a machine-washable packing pouch that can be pinned to other clothing! Pop your favourite packer into this secure sleeve-like pouch, pass the shaft of your packer... Read more

Regular price $25.00

Not only does Underworks make binders for FTM, trans, and genderqueer folks looking to change the line of their chests, but they also make binding swimwear, which after many requests we've decided to pick up for beach season! This swim... Read more

Regular price $62.00
Length: 4.25"
Width: 1.5"

The Archer from our friends at New York Toy Collective is a very soft and squishy, circumcised-style packer with beautiful and detailed texturing. NYTC provides many different tones to choose from, and amazing quality toys - these packers are destined to fill... Read more

Regular price $66.00
Length: 5"
Width: 1.375"

Want to sport a bulge?! This cyberskin-type elastomer toy from Fleshlight is ideal for packing and is garnering rave reviews. Extremely malleable. Made by the folks at Fleshlight where it is known as "Mr Limpy".

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Regular price $15.00
Length: 3"
Width: 2"

Wowza, we’re in love with the Fun Boy by Buck Angel & Perfect Fit! This toy is packed with possibility! Marketed as a soft & hollow strap on, packer, and/or extender, this cyberskin toy really does offer all these amazing... Read more

Regular price $70.00

NYTC has now released their own packing strap, and, we couldn’t be happier with it! Not only does it perfectly hold their Sam STP in place, but, it’s a simple design that can be easily used to hold many other... Read more

Regular price $30.00

Fresh and new from NYTC, this magnetic packer pouch is wonderfully soft, and, designed to be a versatile packing option. Finished with sturdy magnets, this pouch is designed to be able to clip to any pair of underwear, and, hold... Read more

Regular price $21.00

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks... Read more

Regular price $24.00

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks... Read more

Regular price $18.00

This harness has been designed by Form Function to work with their wearable STP devices - the Model A and Model D Sport. A simple vinyl panel securely holds the packer up against the... Read more

Regular price $26.00
Length: 3"
These specially designed acrylic pump cylinders are the perfect accessory for folks interested in pumping. These three inch long cylinders can be detached from the pump once a good seal and vacuum have been created. Available individually in a variety of... Read more
Regular price $38.00

The 'masc version' of our Booty Spanxxx, this set of mid-leg briefs is all constriction ALL OF THE TIME. They are designed to straighten the lines of hips and bums, working basically as a binder for the bottom half of... Read more

Regular price $50.00

We're going to be totally honest with you here: the SpareParts Tomboii has so much going on that there's simply no way to do justice to it in a web description, but we'll try. If you know us at all,... Read more

Regular price $129.00

Get packing with SpareParts Pete Trunks! These magic underwear fit beautifully under clothes, keep your packer securely in-place, and are as comfortable as your favourite underwear. The Pete Trunks keep your packer quite front-and-center (so if you prefer to lean... Read more

Regular price $42.00

When Deborah Rudacille learned that a close friend had decided to transition from female to male, she felt compelled to understand why.

Coming at the controversial subject of transsexualism from several angles–historical, sociological, psychological, medical–Rudacille discovered that gender variance is... Read more

Regular price $21.00
This t-shirt is designed & printed in Toronto by a collective of local artists who work to make space for marginalized people and multifaceted identities. This beautiful gold print was designed by Kit, and is hand printed in Toronto on... Read more
Regular price $25.00
Length: 3"
Width: 1.25"

 The amazing crew at NYTC have been hard at work for two years, designing their very own Stand-To-Pee device, and we’re delighted to announce that we've got it here at Come As You Are Co-op! Meet... Read more

Regular price $89.00
Length: 3"
Width: 1"

Not only did the fine folks at New York Toy Collective design an amazing uncircumcised packer, but they've now got it available in a smaller size! If you've ever felt the Vixen Mr Right looked a little big, or a... Read more

Regular price $50.00
Length: 8"
Width: 1.5"

A reliable STP is hard to find. We have tested countless products that have left our brave stand-to-pee reviewers covered in pee, unimpressed with the material, or frustrated with having to wear a harness all day. While this STP is... Read more

Regular price $24.00

This panty has a reinforced gusset and snug fit designed to support folks' genitals if they're planning on tucking. Available in black, ivory white, and a beautiful plum purple in sizes ranging from... Read more

Regular price $35.00

Sometimes women, trans folks, and femme of centre people will use breast pump cylinders in conjunction with hormones to change the size and shape of the breast. Pumping regularly (e.g. 1/2 hour a... Read more

Regular price $85.00

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks... Read more

Regular price $56.00

We’re delighted that the good folks who made our very first dilator set have re-released them under their sister company Fuze, which is based here in Ontario! Fuze Step dilators feature everything we’re looking for in a high-quality dilator, thanks... Read more

Regular price $40.00
Length: 3"
Width: 1.25"

Form Function's handmade products feature a flexible but sturdy design, and have impressed us with their user-friendliness. That being said, we would still strongly suggest practicing peeing with a STP before using away from safer spaces, since having an unruly... Read more

Regular price $82.00
Length: 3.5"
Width: 1.375"

Form Function's handmade products feature a flexible but sturdy design, and have impressed us with their user-friendliness. That being said, we would still strongly suggest practicing peeing with a STP before using outside of safer spaces, since having an unruly... Read more

Regular price $96.00
Length: 4.5"
Width: 1.25"

Known as "Mr Limpy" by Fleshlight and in some circles, we call this packer the Ultimate Packer because it is the most affordable and softest packer around! Made of a cyberskin-like elastomer (silicone and mineral oil), this packer comes in four sizes... Read more

Regular price $14.00
Length: 4"
Width: 1"

These days, it seems like everyone and their mother makes a packer. Well, now that I think about it, it would be really cool if my mom made packers. Anyhow, this lovely packer from the folks at Doc Johnson is... Read more

Regular price $19.00
Length: 5.5"
Width: 1.5"

These days, it seems like everyone and their mother makes a packer. Well, now that I think about it, it would be really cool if my mom made packers. Anyhow, this lovely packer from the folks at Doc Johnson is... Read more

Regular price $22.00

You could always use a jock-strap, but why would you? Aslan's packing strap was originally designed to be used with Vixen's Mr Right, but works great with the Ultimate and NYTC packers too!

Sizing:
XS: 26" - 30"
Small: 30"-... Read more

Regular price $20.00
Check out LA Pump's Portable Electric Hand Pump for easy pumping anywhere, any time! Plug it in or take it on the town with 4 AA batteries (not included), this hand-held pump is great for traveling with, for beginners and... Read more
Sale price $84.00 Regular price $105.00 Sale
Brassy and bold and easy to control! This Deluxe Brass Pump from LA Pumps makes one-handed pumping easy, and the included gauge gives you a visual representation of how much vacuum pressure you're applying. Hose included. Read more
Regular price $89.00
Get pumped up about this Brass Pump from LA Pumps! Compatible with all LA Pump cylinders, this basic pump is especially great to use when you have more than two hands at your disposal. Pump can be detached from the... Read more
Regular price $64.00
Made of incredibly soft and squishy silicone, this packer is sure to pass the "squeeze test" every time! For anyone sensitive or allergic to Cyberskin, Monsieur Parfait (a.k.a. Mr. Right) is the perfect pack and play choice! Read more
Regular price $70.00
Length: 5"
Width: 1.25"

Looking to pump, and concerned the 3 Inch Cylinder might be too snug? The 5 Inch Cylinder features a 1 1/4" diameter by 5 inch length, and is marketed for trans men -... Read more

Regular price $85.00
Some folks wear their hearts on their sleeves, but a Drama Queer keeps their feelings closer to their chest on a handy dandy glitter bomb of a iron-on patch! Made with love - and queer drama - in Germany. Read more
Regular price $7.00 Sold Out
Our feminism includes trans women. Yours should too. Enjoy this truth-telling patch for the ages. Revel in the fluorescent glory of this truth-telling iron-on patch. Read more
Regular price $7.00 Sold Out

Whether you're just a huge Buck Angel fan, or your just wanna put in a good word for your trans brothers, we have just the patch for you!

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Regular price $7.00 Sold Out

Our collective identity since 1997 has been inextricably linked to Nirvana – what a time and place to be alive, and opening a sex shop, eh? While we’re unsure of how into Nirvana our founding members were (time contorts all... Read more

Regular price $20.00
We're not big fans of most toy cleaners. They're usually either mild soaps that have been re-marketed so they can cost more money (ugh), or they have anti-bacterial ingredients included in their recipes. These ingredients may end up disrupting the... Read more
Regular price $5.00 Sold Out