Dear Sex Nerds,
I've recently retired and I'm thinking some sex toys might be just the thing to spice my life up a bit! I'm terribly uncomfortable with this entire oeuvre, but I'm really wanting to learn more. Where do I start?
- Cougar Spice
Great question! You know, So, our advice will depend a bit on what you're looking for here. A lot of folks start out with a vibrator, but some people are more interested in a vibrator for external use (say, for the clitoris or even the underside of a penis) and some folks are looking for something for internal play (like for the g-spot). There are vibrators that are versatile enough that you can use them for either internal or external play, so if you're primarily thinking you'd like to start with something external, but you might be open to penetration play in the future, let us know and we'll send along some options that are more versatile.
If you're looking for something else entirely - like a great organic lubricant or a non-vibrating toy - just let us know!