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Sex Information

Learn About Rings

What is a Ring? Rings (also known as penis rings and cock rings) are worn either at the base of the shaft or behind the scrotum. They function by restricting the flow of blood out from the genitals, and for many folks they result in firmer and longer lasting erections. They also have the
effect of creating a feeling of pressure that some people find very
pleasurable - while some folks find to be too intense. Most cock rings are made of rubber and leather and are worn at the base of the penis and behind the scrotum. Rings are often used...

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Learn About Safer Sex with Sex Toys

How To Have Safer Sex With Sex Toys Practicing safer sex with sex toys used to mean using lots of condoms and cleaning with bleach. These days, sex toys are being made with materials that are safer and easier to clean. Since many so-called "sex toy cleaners" contain harsh and abrasive chemnicals, we generally caution our customers not to use anything harsher than the soap they use on their skin to clean the sex toys they can't boil. So, save your bleach for cleaning the bathroom, and learn how to have safer sex with your sex toys. Safer Sex With...

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Learn About Sex and Aging

Senior sex seems to be one of those topics that the media love to pick up every now and then, play with for a few minutes, and like the fickle folks they are, promptly forget about until a new book comes along, or an editor feels like the word "sex" hasn't appeared in paper enough that week. It's a fad for them. But for any of us who live long enough, being a senior citizen and being sexual isn't a fad, it's a reality. Our sexuality doesn't stop or change because we are getting older. Our sexuality changes, but it...

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Learn About Sex and Allergies

People who live with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity ("MCS") and reduced immune systems usually know just how to shop and take care of their needs. The most important consideration is finding what is really in the products they are using. Be very careful with store claims about products being "all natural" or "100% silicone" and other claims. Often manufacturers provide misleading information, store people sometimes offer inaccurate information about products out of their own ignorance (or a desire to sell you something more expensive). Unfortunately when it comes to rubber and elastomer sex toys, in almost all cases we don't know...

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Learn About Sex and Disability

This is a very general overview of adapting sex toys. There is so much to say about the topic and so many ideas, that we hope you'll consider this page a place to get some basic ideas to work with. A lot of this information comes from our over ten years of working with folks living with disabilities who have been adapting sex toys. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability is published by Cleis Press (which is co-written by one of our founding worker-owners, Cory Silverberg) and has a much more detailed chapter on sex toys. Making Sex Toys...

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Learn About Sex and Unwanted Pain

To us, being sex positive means considering sexuality to be a site of tremendous health, pleasure and strength in our lives. We also realize that many of us experience physical, emotional, and psychic pain around sexuality. We are great cheerleaders of the positive potential of sex, but proceed with respect and awareness that sometimes sex can feel too painful to talk about. Whatever the source of our pain, many of us will be faced with the challenge of trying to navigate this barrier to pleasure. For some of us this may be a brief encounter and for others it may...

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Learn About Sex Toy Materials

Sex toys have been around for as long as people, but as ancient as sex toys may be, the materials we use to make sex toys have definitely changed over time.  While you may still find the occasional wood dildo, sex toys are more likely these days to be made of silicone or ABS plastic than from bone or tusk! Sex toy materials are generally considered to be "non-porous" or "porous". While most sex toy materials should be washed with mild soap, rinsed, and left to air dry, some materials (like silicone and steel) can also be boiled for five...

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Learn About Strap-On Harnesses

What is a Strap-On? A strap-on, also called a strap-on harness or a dildo harness, is a sex toy that allows you to penetrate your partner with a dildo, without having to use your hands. A strap-on may strap around your hips, thigh, hand, or other body part, or it may be used to strap a dildo to a piece of furniture. Most strap-on harnesses are worn around the hips, and are used to hold a dildo in place at the front of the pelvis. Strap-on harnesses are commonly used for various types of penetration, as well as gender expression,...

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Learn About the G-Spot

We don’t believe that any spot on the body is some magic button that, once touched, will change your sex life forever. Just like some of us get turned on by having our inner thighs caressed or our ears nibbled on, some people find that stimulating the g­-spot is incredibly arousing and even orgasmic, while for others it does nothing at all. Don’t get us wrong, some of us love our g­-spots, and we certainly believe there are lots of tips, techniques and toys that can help you explore! Over the years we’ve noticed that too often people come to...

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Learn About Vibrators

Vibrators provide a kind of stimulation no human body can. Unlike dildos, which only move the way you move them, vibrators have motors which move and whir and create strong consistent stimulation. There are thousands of different styles of vibrators, but the main differences between them are their power sources (plug-in, battery powered, or rechargeable), their relative quality, the material they are made of, and what the vibration feels like (higher pitched and buzzy, or lower pitched and rumbly). How To Choose A Vibrator In our collective mind, a vibrator is simply any device that vibrates.  Some vibrators are called "massagers",...

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